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What do you miss about Fab?
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Often read people saying they don't think it's as good as it used to be. So what do you miss about it?
For me, i miss the feeling of playing together as a couple. There just doesn't seem to be guys out there who have the skills to play with a couple anymore. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Decent threads on the forum
The calibre of threads such as "knitting needles on a plane" just isn't there anymore  "
And similar gems like 'cock snot up the fart pipe'  |
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Anyone can join fabswingers, many who take swinging seriously and not just as a sex site have long term contacts and would survive without fab, but may get a bit stale over time.. re lack of newcomers... I avoid local clubs, I refuse out of principle to pay a single mans admission...it would be an interesting scenario if someone challenged this legally under sex discrimination. I hope they don't, a safe place for women is needed more than ever esp with the t'internet |
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"Decent threads on the forum
The calibre of threads such as "knitting needles on a plane" just isn't there anymore
And similar gems like 'cock snot up the fart pipe' "
There was the dog groomer one  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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".. I avoid local clubs, I refuse out of principle to pay a single mans admission...it would be an interesting scenario if someone challenged this legally under sex discrimination. "
They operate as private members clubs, they can legally charge as they please. Which is how they can operate with the pricing structure |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Decent threads on the forum
The calibre of threads such as "knitting needles on a plane" just isn't there anymore "
I was just wondering earlier if the OP of that thread was still around. He started some great threads |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I miss the platinum membership they used to offer which alowed you to see anyone's private pics "
Don't mention platinum membership, the regime doesn't like it  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I miss the platinum membership they used to offer which alowed you to see anyone's private pics
Don't mention platinum membership, the regime doesn't like it "
Fuck, here come the ban hammer |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I miss the platinum membership they used to offer which alowed you to see anyone's private pics
They're private for a reason
Don't fall for his worm! "
It's not that small |
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"I miss the platinum membership they used to offer which alowed you to see anyone's private pics
They're private for a reason
Don't fall for his worm!
It's not that small "
Hey, i chose not to say maggot! |
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By *oxesMan
over a year ago
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"We've actually been having good luck finding guys to play with lately.
I miss some of the people, but that's personal I suppose. "
I miss it when people you know well and convict good friends decide to go vanilla and you lose contact. |
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It's not the same as it used to be because the excitement goes. I've been on and off this for 5 years, I come back hoping for the initial excitement but it never happens. Though, each time I have come back I do less and believe the next time I go it will be for good. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I don't miss anything but there are some people who made the forums more interesting, who no longer comment.
As for the sex side of it, it's no different for me.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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The forums on the whole seem to have lost something... can not quite put my finger on it..
And there seems to be less fun to be had these days and to much judgement in others |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I miss how sociable,inclusive,non-judgemental and friendly Fab used to be.I have found it to be much more hostile in recent years,with many more superiority complexes and judgemental exclusive attitudes on here now than when I first discovered Fab  |
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"The forums on the whole seem to have lost something... can not quite put my finger on it..
And there seems to be less fun to be had these days and to much judgement in others "
I know what you're saying Cali, but some threads are absolutely hilarious though |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Can't remember names but most of the interesting people seem to have vanished.
The forums at the mo are shit.
Besides that Fab seems pretty much unchanged for about 6 years albeit more of a singles site nowadays. Although it always worked best for recruiting single men anyway. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I miss how sociable,inclusive,non-judgemental and friendly Fab used to be.I have found it to be much more hostile in recent years,with many more superiority complexes and judgemental exclusive attitudes on here now than when I first discovered Fab "
That's not how I remember it |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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There's a few people I miss who are no longer on Fab or no longer use the forum facility.
Interestingly, I'm still in touch with them externally to Fab, but miss the online public interaction with them, or reading their comments to the variety of threads each week, or joking with others. It's that bit that I miss.
Sometimes you want to go, where everybody knows your (user)name. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I miss how sociable,inclusive,non-judgemental and friendly Fab used to be.I have found it to be much more hostile in recent years,with many more superiority complexes and judgemental exclusive attitudes on here now than when I first discovered Fab
That's not how I remember it "
It was for me,not saying it was for everybody though.I didn't really use the forums much when I first joined,maybe that's why I remember it differently |
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"Anyone remember polo. Wonder where she is now
Used to love her random status shuffles  "
I used to fancy her like fuck but she scared the shit outa me. I was a delicate little wall flower back then. God how we've all changed and possibly not all for the good.  |
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"Anyone remember polo. Wonder where she is now
Used to love her random status shuffles
I used to fancy her like fuck but she scared the shit outa me. I was a delicate little wall flower back then. God how we've all changed and possibly not all for the good. "
Maybe femme's k*dnapped her  |
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"Diamond Joe
As I said before
The forums aren't the same without him.
Ah well, might as well be in Big Brother online "
I think I'm missing Diamond Joe too now and Ive no idea who he is / was ? xx |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Diamond Joe
As I said before
The forums aren't the same without him.
Ah well, might as well be in Big Brother online
I think I'm missing Diamond Joe too now and Ive no idea who he is / was ? xx "
I think he's still here but doesn't use the forums....I remember him a little when I started posting here.
He stopped not long after. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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the odd person who has left but really i keep fab in a fun box and dont miss much - any changes i just accept - c'est la vie - the people i met on here that matter i can keep in touch with away from the place |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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So for a lot of you, if 1 person returned it would change?
I do see it change a little for me when people I were talking to personally go, but it certainly doesn't change the forums, there's still loads of crap to talk about on here.
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By (user no longer on site)
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"The forums on the whole seem to have lost something... can not quite put my finger on it..
And there seems to be less fun to be had these days and to much judgement in others
I know what you're saying Cali, but some threads are absolutely hilarious though "
you mean the people shocked when people have sex with other people |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Politics in the lounge....
Oh and the time before people posted threads asking for Kik and snapchat contacts and people asking too cam and other shite like that..... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Politics in the lounge....
Oh and the time before people posted threads asking for Kik and snapchat contacts and people asking too cam and other shite like that..... "
You don't want my kik details then?  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Politics in the lounge....
Oh and the time before people posted threads asking for Kik and snapchat contacts and people asking too cam and other shite like that.....
You don't want my kik details then? "
I don't even know what Kik and Snapchat are....
I imagine they something too do with fapping ... |
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What is it about fab that we miss ?
The fact that up until a year or so ago , when someone said they wanted to meet , they really did . Now it seems they want to chat for ages , see pics etc... and ultimately go quiet when we say we don't do all that , we prefer to just meet up and see what happens .
Lately we have found way more fun from not using fab for arranging meets , and just turning up at outdoor spots , pubs , etc....
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"What is it about fab that we miss ?
The fact that up until a year or so ago , when someone said they wanted to meet , they really did . Now it seems they want to chat for ages , see pics etc... and ultimately go quiet when we say we don't do all that , we prefer to just meet up and see what happens .
Lately we have found way more fun from not using fab for arranging meets , and just turning up at outdoor spots , pubs , etc....
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Thank fuck! Someone answered who's not here just for the forum! |
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"What is it about fab that we miss ?
The fact that up until a year or so ago , when someone said they wanted to meet , they really did . Now it seems they want to chat for ages , see pics etc... and ultimately go quiet when we say we don't do all that , we prefer to just meet up and see what happens .
Lately we have found way more fun from not using fab for arranging meets , and just turning up at outdoor spots , pubs , etc....
Thank fuck! Someone answered who's not here just for the forum! "
You really ought to know by now that the forum has a pack mentality . One person answers a question as they see fit , and everyone else follows .
I didn't see the question as who do you miss from the forum , far from it , but that's the way the op went ... c'est la vie  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"What is it about fab that we miss ?
The fact that up until a year or so ago , when someone said they wanted to meet , they really did . Now it seems they want to chat for ages , see pics etc... and ultimately go quiet when we say we don't do all that , we prefer to just meet up and see what happens .
Lately we have found way more fun from not using fab for arranging meets , and just turning up at outdoor spots , pubs , etc....
Thank fuck! Someone answered who's not here just for the forum! "
Personally, that's the only way I could answer, it's all I know Fab as. Fab is the forum to me.
2 emails sent to people outside this forum. Never did I get a reply. If I carried on at that rate, I wouldn't miss that. |
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By *ieman300Man
over a year ago
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"What is it about fab that we miss ?
The fact that up until a year or so ago , when someone said they wanted to meet , they really did . Now it seems they want to chat for ages , see pics etc... and ultimately go quiet when we say we don't do all that , we prefer to just meet up and see what happens .
Lately we have found way more fun from not using fab for arranging meets , and just turning up at outdoor spots , pubs , etc....
Thank fuck! Someone answered who's not here just for the forum!
You really ought to know by now that the forum has a pack mentality . One person answers a question as they see fit , and everyone else follows .
I didn't see the question as who do you miss from the forum , far from it , but that's the way the op went ... c'est la vie "
Fab is still here so dont miss anything about it lol. The forum is where i lurk. Direct messaging never worked for me. So naturally will miss people from the forum. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"What is it about fab that we miss ?
The fact that up until a year or so ago , when someone said they wanted to meet , they really did . Now it seems they want to chat for ages , see pics etc... and ultimately go quiet when we say we don't do all that , we prefer to just meet up and see what happens .
Lately we have found way more fun from not using fab for arranging meets , and just turning up at outdoor spots , pubs , etc....
Thank fuck! Someone answered who's not here just for the forum!
You really ought to know by now that the forum has a pack mentality . One person answers a question as they see fit , and everyone else follows .
I didn't see the question as who do you miss from the forum , far from it , but that's the way the op went ... c'est la vie "
I suppose because the question was asked in the forums, people tend to think more about how they perceive the forums to have changed for them over the years.
Personally, I see the forums and Fab as two separate entities completely.
I chat on here to pass the time but I meet men who don't use the forums for sex.
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"What is it about fab that we miss ?
The fact that up until a year or so ago , when someone said they wanted to meet , they really did . Now it seems they want to chat for ages , see pics etc... and ultimately go quiet when we say we don't do all that , we prefer to just meet up and see what happens .
Lately we have found way more fun from not using fab for arranging meets , and just turning up at outdoor spots , pubs , etc....
Thank fuck! Someone answered who's not here just for the forum!
You really ought to know by now that the forum has a pack mentality . One person answers a question as they see fit , and everyone else follows .
I didn't see the question as who do you miss from the forum , far from it , but that's the way the op went ... c'est la vie
I suppose because the question was asked in the forums, people tend to think more about how they perceive the forums to have changed for them over the years.
Personally, I see the forums and Fab as two separate entities completely.
I chat on here to pass the time but I meet men who don't use the forums for sex.
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Good point , and we are very much of the same mind as yourself on the meeting side of things |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"What is it about fab that we miss ?
The fact that up until a year or so ago , when someone said they wanted to meet , they really did . Now it seems they want to chat for ages , see pics etc... and ultimately go quiet when we say we don't do all that , we prefer to just meet up and see what happens .
Lately we have found way more fun from not using fab for arranging meets , and just turning up at outdoor spots , pubs , etc....
Thank fuck! Someone answered who's not here just for the forum!
You really ought to know by now that the forum has a pack mentality . One person answers a question as they see fit , and everyone else follows .
I didn't see the question as who do you miss from the forum , far from it , but that's the way the op went ... c'est la vie
I suppose because the question was asked in the forums, people tend to think more about how they perceive the forums to have changed for them over the years.
Personally, I see the forums and Fab as two separate entities completely.
I chat on here to pass the time but I meet men who don't use the forums for sex.
Good point , and we are very much of the same mind as yourself on the meeting side of things "
I think sometimes it feels that people on the forums forget that there is another part of Fab with lots of lovely, sexy people to meet.
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I wouldn't say I miss anything. I think I've changed and my life outside Fab has changed since I came on here and that has probably altered my outlook and the way I see Fab. But in a way for me personally Fab has never been better than it is right now. |
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"I wouldn't say I miss anything. I think I've changed and my life outside Fab has changed since I came on here and that has probably altered my outlook and the way I see Fab. But in a way for me personally Fab has never been better than it is right now."
Completely off topic but god you have some sexy pics  |
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"I wouldn't say I miss anything. I think I've changed and my life outside Fab has changed since I came on here and that has probably altered my outlook and the way I see Fab. But in a way for me personally Fab has never been better than it is right now.
Completely off topic but god you have some sexy pics "
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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago
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"What I miss is respect and women knew how to speak to men, now it just attitudes full of self entitlement And feeling like the site is just like the argos catalogue
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"I wouldn't say I miss anything. I think I've changed and my life outside Fab has changed since I came on here and that has probably altered my outlook and the way I see Fab. But in a way for me personally Fab has never been better than it is right now.
Completely off topic but god you have some sexy pics "
That is a bit off topic but thank you!  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"What I miss is respect and men knew how to speak to women, now it just attitudes full of self entitlement And feeling like the site is just like the argos catalogue "
I wouldn't say that has changed much... guys have always seemed to be like that on here..
However there seems a lot of people now that dont want to actually meet without loads of chit chat and socials and I get bored after a while and my interest and attention wavers.
3 years ago we never failed to find couples.. ladies or guys up for meets.. Now its soooooo hard. Either that or everyone is avoiding us |
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By *amissCouple
over a year ago
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"Decent threads on the forum
The calibre of threads such as "knitting needles on a plane" just isn't there anymore "
I miss those ones, there are some really witty people on here, who make me laugh! |
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"What I miss is respect and women knew how to speak to men, now it just attitudes full of self entitlement And feeling like the site is just like the argos catalogue
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I don't miss anything about Fab. It's exactly the same as its always been, meeting guys for nsa fun That hasn't changed in all the years I/we have been here.
The forums are a very tiny part of Fab for me but they havn't changed either. I don't miss anyone from the forums. The threads are much the same as always too. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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The debates used to be good. People got angry and ranty. People were funny.
It had the feel of people from many varying backgrounds and interests all piling in to the same debates.
Now it's just bland. |
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" Often read people saying they don't think it's as good as it used to be. So what do you miss about it?
For me, i miss the feeling of playing together as a couple. There just doesn't seem to be guys out there who have the skills to play with a couple anymore. "
I miss Kimi, she had a lovely smile... and other friends that have gone AWOL too |
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"I miss Papi
Hahaha he was ace!
Bunnyhop, she was beautiful"
Bunnyhop was using the Fab forums for her dissertation, I'm sure of it. Every post she made was 5 or 6 questions about what the people in Fab thought about this or that. |
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"I miss Papi
Hahaha he was ace!
Bunnyhop, she was beautiful
Bunnyhop was using the Fab forums for her dissertation, I'm sure of it. Every post she made was 5 or 6 questions about what the people in Fab thought about this or that."
I'm mildly disappointed I never got to hang out the back of her. |
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over a year ago
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"The debates used to be good. People got angry and ranty. People were funny.
It had the feel of people from many varying backgrounds and interests all piling in to the same debates.
Now it's just bland."
Its bland due in large part to the same bleeding threads cropping up. People have lost the will to live let alone reply with wit or even venom. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"The debates used to be good. People got angry and ranty. People were funny.
It had the feel of people from many varying backgrounds and interests all piling in to the same debates.
Now it's just bland.
Its bland due in large part to the same bleeding threads cropping up. People have lost the will to live let alone reply with wit or even venom."
You mean BBW chat 355 isn't original 
You'll be saying crazy things like kiss, fuck, pass is the most unimaginative thread ever next |
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By *ieman300Man
over a year ago
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"The debates used to be good. People got angry and ranty. People were funny.
It had the feel of people from many varying backgrounds and interests all piling in to the same debates.
Now it's just bland.
Its bland due in large part to the same bleeding threads cropping up. People have lost the will to live let alone reply with wit or even venom.
You mean BBW chat 355 isn't original
You'll be saying crazy things like kiss, fuck, pass is the most unimaginative thread ever next "
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