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"Just out of a long term relationship and feel empty inside/heartbroken. Scared of being lonely what's the easiest way of dealing with this  "
Get out there with the lads have a few pints a bit of banter and chat up some random woman that takes your fancy... you don't even need to pull her it's just to give you that nudge to move on shit happens in life but you get through it |
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over a year ago
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"Just out of a long term relationship and feel empty inside/heartbroken. Scared of being lonely what's the easiest way of dealing with this "
Get a tub of Haagan Daaz
Put on a weepy chick flick
Have a bottle of lambrini (or 5)
Have a cry
Move on to vodka
Put some Abba on
Have another cry
Wallow in self pity for 7 days (it's allowed)
Write at least 5 texts/messages/emails to them that will embarrass you in your emotional outpouring (it's allowed)
Have them send you a "WTF you on about?" reply (that's standard) and then they will block you on every bit of social media going....
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In time you will start to feel better. It will take time. Distract yourself. Be kind to yourself and look after you.
Chin up lovely. X |
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"Just out of a long term relationship and feel empty inside/heartbroken. Scared of being lonely what's the easiest way of dealing with this
Get a tub of Haagan Daaz
Put on a weepy chick flick
Have a bottle of lambrini (or 5)
Have a cry
Move on to vodka
Put some Abba on
Have another cry
Wallow in self pity for 7 days (it's allowed)
Write at least 5 texts/messages/emails to them that will embarrass you in your emotional outpouring (it's allowed)
Have them send you a "WTF you on about?" reply (that's standard) and then they will block you on every bit of social media going....
BUT
In time you will start to feel better. It will take time. Distract yourself. Be kind to yourself and look after you.
Chin up lovely. X"
Sound advice almost as good as mine  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Try to keep busy, go out even if just for a walk. Put away any items that remind you of the person. Don't try to contact them, don't torture yourself keep thinking about them.
If all else fails buy a darts board and stick their picture on it, my former FWB cock picture is getting very holey! XXX |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Just out of a long term relationship and feel empty inside/heartbroken. Scared of being lonely what's the easiest way of dealing with this "
U already joined fab, and u started to post on fab, so u should be alright. We will take care of u...  |
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By *ibzz OP Man
over a year ago
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Thank you I will try that its just a chat I need really before anything serious it just seems a struggle to meet someone new not because I'm not ready its because I've barely spoken to another woman in the 6 years I was with my (now ex) |
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there isn't an easy way.
Face it, work through the bad feelings, allow yourself to grieve for what you've lost then pick up the pieces and get on with life knowing you're properly healed and haven't buried any issues in beer and casual sex. |
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"Thank you for me the hardest part is being alone after getting used to being with someone its strange to be single if that makes sense."
it makes absolute sense. Being alone can be tough. Do you have friends or family you can lean on?
I think its very true that lots of people have plenty of people they can do something with but nobody to do nothing with.
Nothing endures, things always move on.
Here's to better times! |
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"Thank you I will try that its just a chat I need really before anything serious it just seems a struggle to meet someone new not because I'm not ready its because I've barely spoken to another woman in the 6 years I was with my (now ex) "
We'll break you in  |
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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago
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"Just out of a long term relationship and feel empty inside/heartbroken. Scared of being lonely what's the easiest way of dealing with this
Get a tub of Haagan Daaz
Put on a weepy chick flick
Have a bottle of lambrini (or 5)
Have a cry
Move on to vodka
Put some Abba on
Have another cry
Wallow in self pity for 7 days (it's allowed)
Write at least 5 texts/messages/emails to them that will embarrass you in your emotional outpouring (it's allowed)
Have them send you a "WTF you on about?" reply (that's standard) and then they will block you on every bit of social media going....
BUT
In time you will start to feel better. It will take time. Distract yourself. Be kind to yourself and look after you.
Chin up lovely. X"
Lol made me fucking laugh  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Be kind to yourself, yes it's going to hurt for a while but it does get better. Get out and talk to friends, not about her just the inane things in life. Don't lock yourself away all the time, there will be days you need to do go with it. But lean on friends and the good days will happen more often x |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Just out of a long term relationship and feel empty inside/heartbroken. Scared of being lonely what's the easiest way of dealing with this "
Beer.
You're welcome.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Just out of a long term relationship and feel empty inside/heartbroken. Scared of being lonely what's the easiest way of dealing with this
Get out there with the lads have a few pints a bit of banter and chat up some random woman that takes your fancy... you don't even need to pull her it's just to give you that nudge to move on shit happens in life but you get through it "
This
Just enjoy yourself. A good night out will do you the world of good. Life is far too short. Good luck OP. Hope everything works out for you |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Dip your wick in pastures new  "
Worst advice possible. Do not listen to this advice, its a short term solution at best. In fact, don't take anyone's advice off strangers. Your friend and family are best suited to know how your feeling and can/will get you through something like this.
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