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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Many years ago I met a woman before I joined FAB, we spoke on and off for a while and decided that we would fuck.
The day came and it got to the point where we were both naked, me erect. She looked at it and then at me and said 'is that it'. I promptly got dressed and left.
Prior to this I had always been happy with what I had. It's not huge and it's not small, above average length and good girth.
This one comment destroyed my sexual confidence for a long time and still affects me to this day. Not so much in I lack confidence anymore but I sometimes get that horrible feeling it will happen again.
I know the majority of women are not overly concerned with size and I am still happy with mine. This has however affected how I approach finding prospective playmates on FAB.
I will steer clear of anyone who states a minimum size or who asks for a good size and girth. I often check out veri's to see what sort of guy they go for and when looking at the guys if I see a lot of them have a considerably bigger cock than I do I will not message.
It's something I can't get over psychologically as it really did hurt for a long time.
Has this happened to any other guys, do you have the same fears when looking at other guys that women have met?
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By (user no longer on site)
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Kinda same in sense where erect I'm fine but when soft it's small.
A ex long ago stated without my clothes on she just wasent attracted to me. I ended it there but for years it knocked me in a sense where I wouldn't change in public swimming baths etc.
Now I'm not bothered as alot of women couldn't give a fuck and I learnt that.
Plus I sleep but naked now and that won't ever change. |
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By *DontExistWoman
over a year ago
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i'm probably known for my love of SPH on here, but only do that when it's consensual and i know the guy enjoys it. thing is i like being filled with dick, average dick is fine for me. foreplay is even more important than dick size also.
men shouldn't worry too much. yeah some peoples fantasy is a big dick, same as fat tits are many mens fanatasy. i lack fat tits but don't even care. other people shouldn't care also. hell, there's even saggy tit admirers so hope for us all.  |
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Ah Monkey x brave post & hugs
A big cock is not the be all & end of all of having great sex.
Lots of other factors, the way a person makes you feel emotionally & mentally, what else they do physically.
I wouldn't put the size of someones willy as my top priority if I liked that person & enjoyed being with them x
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Most of the Women who like huge cocks either state it on their profile or openly talk about it, Average looking cocks can look smaller on a taller Man and bigger on a smaller Man,
I have a similar issue with my build and the way I look, I read a profile and what they say in the forums/chat then check their veri's and go from there
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"Kinda same in sense where erect I'm fine but when soft it's small.
A ex long ago stated without my clothes on she just wasent attracted to me. I ended it there but for years it knocked me in a sense where I wouldn't change in public swimming baths etc.
Now I'm not bothered as alot of women couldn't give a fuck and I learnt that.
Plus I sleep but naked now and that won't ever change."
I had something similar, someone saying about my body and it really knocked my confidence I wouldn't go shirtless anywhere I'd swim with a t-shirt on, when I was with ex's I would always make sure I was covered and it took me awhile to go shirtless and not have that worry.
it still gets to me sometimes but I'm a lot better than I was  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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I actually didn't want this to end up being about penis size but knew it probably would be.
Like I said, I'm happy with mine, it works and does the job well. It was more about the psychological effects and how it affects your decision making on here.
Thankfully the women I have met on FAB have all been happy with my willy.
But every new person I meet it always creeps back into my mind. If it happened again I'm not sure if I would get over it. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Respect OP, clearly not an easy post to make but it says a lot about your character than you can talk about it. I think if you asked most women they'd say there's far bigger priorities than the size of a blokes member. Size is such a one dimensional part of sex but maybe as men, we put far too much importance on it? |
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But every new person I meet it always creeps back into my mind. If it happened again I'm not sure if I would get over it."
I spent 15yrs being constantly criticised, made fun of, called names.
I can understand the psychological effects, and how it is something that you never really forget.
I've changed everything about me, my life, the way I look.
But the doubts, anxieties, fears are always there at the back of my head x |
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By (user no longer on site)
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At the end of the day I'm sure most of us has the odd hang up about our bodies and yes, we can be psychologically affected by it.
It's a true strength of character when you can say 'fuck it, accept me for who I am or fuck off'
I'm definitely at that stage now and I just don't worry.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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It's not the size it's how you use and who's attached to it. I'd rather have a smaller size with a bloke that's a gentleman and not a total dick.
Also remember not all women want big some of us are tight down there xxx |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"At the end of the day I'm sure most of us has the odd hang up about our bodies and yes, we can be psychologically affected by it.
It's a true strength of character when you can say 'fuck it, accept me for who I am or fuck off'
I'm definitely at that stage now and I just don't worry.
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It's great when you find that inner peace |
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Male half of the couple here,
That would knock my confidence also OP.
No woman I have been with has ever said anything negative about my size but the little demons of paranoia can gnaw at your confidence regardless.
Recently we got in contact with a couple we were interested in, we were chatting and friended each other, all was well and when we were asked about my penis size, we admitted I was not as big as the guy in the couple.
Immediately the messages stopped, they logged out and the next day they unfriended us.
Did it make me feel  and  ? Yeah... briefly, not gonna lie. But I remember that I have had a lot of fun with my penis, average sized though it may be, and it has brought fun to other women too... and that's enough to bring a to my face.
On a side note it made us think about how we communicate with people here, we wouldn't want to cut off communications so suddenly and (and in our opinion) rudely. A simple "sorry, not interested" I think would be less harsh, but maybe that's just us. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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I had an ex tell me, when I was butt naked and a barely touched 18 year old, that my body wasn't the best, my tits were too small, but I'd do.
I was 3 stone smaller then, so I dread to think what his over opinion would be now.
I've also been asked, is it true us fat birds are good fucks because we're grateful for the attention.
Wish I could say I could laugh it off, but it's probably why I now believe any compliment is a piss take and insincere. Too many years of being told the opposite, it tends to stick with you. |
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"I actually didn't want this to end up being about penis size but knew it probably would be.
Like I said, I'm happy with mine, it works and does the job well. It was more about the psychological effects and how it affects your decision making on here.
Thankfully the women I have met on FAB have all been happy with my willy.
But every new person I meet it always creeps back into my mind. If it happened again I'm not sure if I would get over it."
This a classic case of how an unfortunate episode can fuck someone up for the rest of their life .
I've always told my kids to never bully or say anything hurtful , as so many people can have their who,e life affected by a comment .
Don't let it affect you op. Clearly it's not important anymore . Hopefully by getting off your chest now it's part of the process of throwing that bit of baggage away now |
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"I had an ex tell me, when I was butt naked and a barely touched 18 year old, that my body wasn't the best, my tits were too small, but I'd do.
I was 3 stone smaller then, so I dread to think what his over opinion would be now.
I've also been asked, is it true us fat birds are good fucks because we're grateful for the attention.
Wish I could say I could laugh it off, but it's probably why I now believe any compliment is a piss take and insincere. Too many years of being told the opposite, it tends to stick with you. "
I can fully understand about taking compliments I automatically think that they are taking the piss, I think it's one of the reasons my humour is take the Mick out of myself. |
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"At the end of the day I'm sure most of us has the odd hang up about our bodies and yes, we can be psychologically affected by it.
It's a true strength of character when you can say 'fuck it, accept me for who I am or fuck off'
I'm definitely at that stage now and I just don't worry.
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As it should be  |
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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago
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I'm not a bloke (obviously) so probably cannot empathise too much, but I do find it odd blokes put so much importance on the size of something they cannot change. If she had said 'you're a bit lardy aren't you?' then the OP could have turned into an inspirational tale of diet and exercise, but unless blokes are willing to go under the knife, what exactly are you, and the women who say these awful things to you, hoping will happen?
I think what I am trying to say is, don't let something you cannot change define you, and definitely don't let it affect your behaviour. |
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Most women don't care, if they like you then size really is not important.
If a profile states a certain size requirement, and you don't match, then avoid. But stop looking at veris! They will only give you false information. Whatever size cocks anyone would see looking at veris it would have been noting to do with why I met that guy.
A hurtful comment like you had can definitely knock you. But now you're on here, and people want to meet you, it's time to realise the problem was hers and NOT yours |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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I can't disagree with anything anyone has said, all valid points.
I am more confident these days than I have ever been. I look the best I ever have and I'm in reasonable shape. If anybody is negative towards me I do just let it go. That one incident though has had a lasting effect. Knowing how it killed my confidence keeps it at the back of my mind and it won't go. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Not particularly about my cock but I am pretty self conscious the first time I get naked with a new partner. After being over weight for a long time I don't think my own body image has caught up with how I actually look now. Once I know she likes what she sees then there's no stopping me but I do tend to presume I'm going to be a dissapointment |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Big respect OP for opening up about such a sensitive subject that's clearly affected you!
She was clearly an arsehole!
Just remember.... It's not the size of the boat, it's the motion in the ocean |
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some on off comments or more ongoing behaviour can have lasting effects in you. I got told I am not feminine enough for a long time and I guess part of me is now proving him wrong 
however the first step is to realise what has been hurting you and to then think about it realistically. you are average- meaning most men are like you and they and you can get the job done. there are smaller, there are bigger, slimmer, larger, taller you name it. but they are not you and certain atributes don't define you as a person.
what I am basically saying is- fuck them! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I can kind of get that OP. When I was 18 and a man saw me naked for the first time, he made a comment about my boobs being too small and being out of proportion to the rest of my body. It took me years to get over that.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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My wife has made numerous comments about her many ex partners (size, ability, experience etc) whilst negatively speaking about me and it affects me massively.
Unfortunately some people are just horrible cunts |
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"My wife has made numerous comments about her many ex partners (size, ability, experience etc) whilst negatively speaking about me and it affects me massively.
Unfortunately some people are just horrible cunts "
At least it's not effecting you averagely.... |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"My wife has made numerous comments about her many ex partners (size, ability, experience etc) whilst negatively speaking about me and it affects me massively.
Unfortunately some people are just horrible cunts "
Haha well said |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"My wife has made numerous comments about her many ex partners (size, ability, experience etc) whilst negatively speaking about me and it affects me massively.
Unfortunately some people are just horrible cunts
At least it's not effecting you averagely...."
In the smallest way possible *wiggles little finger*  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"My wife has made numerous comments about her many ex partners (size, ability, experience etc) whilst negatively speaking about me and it affects me massively.
Unfortunately some people are just horrible cunts "
From a relative stranger was bad but from your wife is terrible. If mine did that it would destroy me. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"My wife has made numerous comments about her many ex partners (size, ability, experience etc) whilst negatively speaking about me and it affects me massively.
Unfortunately some people are just horrible cunts
From a relative stranger was bad but from your wife is terrible. If mine did that it would destroy me."
In hindsight a comment was made the first time we were together and it went from there. In future I'd end anything where a person felt the need to make such comments but hindsight is a wonderful thing.
It's all a well learned lesson and can be chalked up to experience |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Nope dont agree with none of it,unkind to mention anyones size or most of all cock size,does cock size really matter,to me NO.You should never say that to a man,the biggest insult. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I like a big dick haha sorry but that's just the way it is for some people and I'm tiny ..
But I would never embarrass or put someone down for having a small one ..
You're a grown up it will be ok maybe she had a huge fanny & new it wouldn't fit look at it from a different angle eh !  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Many years ago I met a woman before I joined FAB, we spoke on and off for a while and decided that we would fuck.
The day came and it got to the point where we were both naked, me erect. She looked at it and then at me and said 'is that it'. I promptly got dressed and left.
Prior to this I had always been happy with what I had. It's not huge and it's not small, above average length and good girth.
This one comment destroyed my sexual confidence for a long time and still affects me to this day. Not so much in I lack confidence anymore but I sometimes get that horrible feeling it will happen again.
I know the majority of women are not overly concerned with size and I am still happy with mine. This has however affected how I approach finding prospective playmates on FAB.
I will steer clear of anyone who states a minimum size or who asks for a good size and girth. I often check out veri's to see what sort of guy they go for and when looking at the guys if I see a lot of them have a considerably bigger cock than I do I will not message.
It's something I can't get over psychologically as it really did hurt for a long time.
Has this happened to any other guys, do you have the same fears when looking at other guys that women have met?
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I would not have been happy, I can't say I've had this or know what reaction I'd have if I did but I would most likely not stand for that. But then I can be an aggressive fuck if I hear personal attacks on me or anyone I care about. I hate when people disregard others feelings.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"At the end of the day I'm sure most of us has the odd hang up about our bodies and yes, we can be psychologically affected by it.
It's a true strength of character when you can say 'fuck it, accept me for who I am or fuck off'
I'm definitely at that stage now and I just don't worry.
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Some never gain that characteristic and are constantly trying to fit in because of other peoples nasty opinion or comments who are so dull themselves they seek twisting others to suit their lack of qualities. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Many years ago I met a woman before I joined FAB, we spoke on and off for a while and decided that we would fuck.
The day came and it got to the point where we were both naked, me erect. She looked at it and then at me and said 'is that it'. I promptly got dressed and left.
Prior to this I had always been happy with what I had. It's not huge and it's not small, above average length and good girth.
This one comment destroyed my sexual confidence for a long time and still affects me to this day. Not so much in I lack confidence anymore but I sometimes get that horrible feeling it will happen again.
I know the majority of women are not overly concerned with size and I am still happy with mine. This has however affected how I approach finding prospective playmates on FAB.
I will steer clear of anyone who states a minimum size or who asks for a good size and girth. I often check out veri's to see what sort of guy they go for and when looking at the guys if I see a lot of them have a considerably bigger cock than I do I will not message.
It's something I can't get over psychologically as it really did hurt for a long time.
Has this happened to any other guys, do you have the same fears when looking at other guys that women have met?
I would not have been happy, I can't say I've had this or know what reaction I'd have if I did but I would most likely not stand for that. But then I can be an aggressive fuck if I hear personal attacks on me or anyone I care about. I hate when people disregard others feelings. "
you get agressive if people say mean things? 
thsts disturbing for a grown man |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Many years ago I met a woman before I joined FAB, we spoke on and off for a while and decided that we would fuck.
The day came and it got to the point where we were both naked, me erect. She looked at it and then at me and said 'is that it'. I promptly got dressed and left.
Prior to this I had always been happy with what I had. It's not huge and it's not small, above average length and good girth.
This one comment destroyed my sexual confidence for a long time and still affects me to this day. Not so much in I lack confidence anymore but I sometimes get that horrible feeling it will happen again.
I know the majority of women are not overly concerned with size and I am still happy with mine. This has however affected how I approach finding prospective playmates on FAB.
I will steer clear of anyone who states a minimum size or who asks for a good size and girth. I often check out veri's to see what sort of guy they go for and when looking at the guys if I see a lot of them have a considerably bigger cock than I do I will not message.
It's something I can't get over psychologically as it really did hurt for a long time.
Has this happened to any other guys, do you have the same fears when looking at other guys that women have met?
I would not have been happy, I can't say I've had this or know what reaction I'd have if I did but I would most likely not stand for that. But then I can be an aggressive fuck if I hear personal attacks on me or anyone I care about. I hate when people disregard others feelings.
you get agressive if people say mean things?
thsts disturbing for a grown man"
Too right. Well can be, takes a lot. Mostly just patronising or silent. |
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Derogatory comments regarding penis size are very common on here .
As is hypocrisy.
I would never insult someone about something that they have zero control over,so why does it seem perfectly acceptable to insult men about their penis ?
People who enjoy SPH both receiving andd giving should think twice about doing it in public.
Maybe send a private message.
Am I over sensitive about this ? Maybe
But I am pretty sure that if I decide to call a woman fat on here then I know that not only would the forum lynch mob would be after me, closely followed by the white Knights.
All I am saying is ladies think twice before saying something derogatory even if you think it's a joke.
As for what people put on profile preference that's upto them and personal choice. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Many years ago I met a woman before I joined FAB, we spoke on and off for a while and decided that we would fuck.
The day came and it got to the point where we were both naked, me erect. She looked at it and then at me and said 'is that it'. I promptly got dressed and left.
Prior to this I had always been happy with what I had. It's not huge and it's not small, above average length and good girth.
This one comment destroyed my sexual confidence for a long time and still affects me to this day. Not so much in I lack confidence anymore but I sometimes get that horrible feeling it will happen again.
I know the majority of women are not overly concerned with size and I am still happy with mine. This has however affected how I approach finding prospective playmates on FAB.
I will steer clear of anyone who states a minimum size or who asks for a good size and girth. I often check out veri's to see what sort of guy they go for and when looking at the guys if I see a lot of them have a considerably bigger cock than I do I will not message.
It's something I can't get over psychologically as it really did hurt for a long time.
Has this happened to any other guys, do you have the same fears when looking at other guys that women have met?
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I wouldn't let it worry you, it's only a small thing after all  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I haven't had any bad comments on the size of mine, I'm about 7 or 8 and I've always considered myself to be average"
Give over, if you're anywhere near 8" that's way over average. |
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"I haven't had any bad comments on the size of mine, I'm about 7 or 8 and I've always considered myself to be average
Give over, if you're anywhere near 8" that's way over average."
National average is just over 5 and circumference 4.5. Seriously never sweat it. Make a joke of it if ever happens again and you are more than likely to still get lucky. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I haven't had any bad comments on the size of mine, I'm about 7 or 8 and I've always considered myself to be average
Give over, if you're anywhere near 8" that's way over average.
National average is just over 5 and circumference 4.5. Seriously never sweat it. Make a joke of it if ever happens again and you are more than likely to still get lucky. "
Nah that can't be right,this site is full of dick pics and they always seem to look bigger than mine |
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This is an interesting thread with some brave honesty. I've never had any negative comments about my cock which is above average I suppose and when I have had comments from partners they have been complimentary.
That said I'm quite short for a man and that precludes me from some people's preferences. I won't message those looking for tall guys or those specifying such and such cock size (even if I meet that cock size).
I can relate to somebodies confidence though. I remember when I played as a couple somebody saying they wanted my partner but not me!
I've found that my Fab career overall has given me a confidence about my body and my abilities in bed that I simply didn't have before so for me it's all positive
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I'm a grower not a shower. Plus I'm very tall so everything looks small hanging off a body this big.
But the thing is if body shaming is so bad why are people happy to accept the current characateurs that are going around on social media and in the press, in particular the statues of Trump etc with the particularly small penis.
It is annoying that a small penis is classed as less manly.
This may harp back to prehistoric times where is is said that the head of the penis when erect is designed to displace already present semen and pull it out of the female so that the current mates sperm takes preference. The longer the penis the deeper it penetrates the more semen in displaces when withdrawn. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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I'm 6.5" long with 5.5" girth, I know it's not small. It was just the brutality of it being face to face with her, me sat there with an erection when she said it.
I've had a comment on here from a woman I messaged. I was hesitant to message her after checking her veri's as they were all big guys. As she didn't state on the profile anything about size I thought fuck it and messaged her. She asked for a cock pic and measurements, sent, her reply was 'why would I waste my time with that'
I was able to brush that off because it was just a comment on the tinterweb.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I've said it before many times on here, but I really, genuinely and whole heartedly couldn't give a flying fuck about cock size.
What a truly hideous thing for her to say, particularly at that moment, and to me it shows a total disconnect for you both sexually anyway.
It's awful that it still hangs over you and you have a fear of it happening again. I think you've probably learned from it though and know what to look out for with potential playmates / meets.
Big hugs x |
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By *icentiousCouple
over a year ago
Up on them there hills |
There was a couple of lines out of one of Tom Shape's books, (paraphrasing as I can't reference) went along the lines off....
"You've never seen a cunt before?"
"Not one that had just given birth to a calf."
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"I'm 6.5" long with 5.5" girth, I know it's not small. It was just the brutality of it being face to face with her, me sat there with an erection when she said it.
I've had a comment on here from a woman I messaged. I was hesitant to message her after checking her veri's as they were all big guys. As she didn't state on the profile anything about size I thought fuck it and messaged her. She asked for a cock pic and measurements, sent, her reply was 'why would I waste my time with that'
I was able to brush that off because it was just a comment on the tinterweb.
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Your quite big just above average so I wouldn't worry about a few of the hand comments from a few people maybe it's a power thing with them |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I'm 6.5" long with 5.5" girth, I know it's not small. It was just the brutality of it being face to face with her, me sat there with an erection when she said it.
I've had a comment on here from a woman I messaged. I was hesitant to message her after checking her veri's as they were all big guys. As she didn't state on the profile anything about size I thought fuck it and messaged her. She asked for a cock pic and measurements, sent, her reply was 'why would I waste my time with that'
I was able to brush that off because it was just a comment on the tinterweb.
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if you're being honest with those measurements you're well into the top 5% when it comes to cock size.
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"I'm 6.5" long with 5.5" girth, I know it's not small. It was just the brutality of it being face to face with her, me sat there with an erection when she said it.
I've had a comment on here from a woman I messaged. I was hesitant to message her after checking her veri's as they were all big guys. As she didn't state on the profile anything about size I thought fuck it and messaged her. She asked for a cock pic and measurements, sent, her reply was 'why would I waste my time with that'
I was able to brush that off because it was just a comment on the tinterweb.
if you're being honest with those measurements you're well into the top 5% when it comes to cock size.
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Yep 100% honest. As I said I'm happy with my size.
When someone says what she did to your face it doesn't matter of you're happy with it. It kicks your confidence to the kirb. |
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"I'm 6.5" long with 5.5" girth, I know it's not small. It was just the brutality of it being face to face with her, me sat there with an erection when she said it.
I've had a comment on here from a woman I messaged. I was hesitant to message her after checking her veri's as they were all big guys. As she didn't state on the profile anything about size I thought fuck it and messaged her. She asked for a cock pic and measurements, sent, her reply was 'why would I waste my time with that'
I was able to brush that off because it was just a comment on the tinterweb.
if you're being honest with those measurements you're well into the top 5% when it comes to cock size.
Yep 100% honest. As I said I'm happy with my size.
When someone says what she did to your face it doesn't matter of you're happy with it. It kicks your confidence to the kirb."
fair enough but this is starting to sound a little like a humble brag thread.
the 2 people who have concerns about thier cock size both happen to have considerably above average size. |
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"I'm 6.5" long with 5.5" girth, I know it's not small. It was just the brutality of it being face to face with her, me sat there with an erection when she said it.
I've had a comment on here from a woman I messaged. I was hesitant to message her after checking her veri's as they were all big guys. As she didn't state on the profile anything about size I thought fuck it and messaged her. She asked for a cock pic and measurements, sent, her reply was 'why would I waste my time with that'
I was able to brush that off because it was just a comment on the tinterweb.
if you're being honest with those measurements you're well into the top 5% when it comes to cock size.
Yep 100% honest. As I said I'm happy with my size.
When someone says what she did to your face it doesn't matter of you're happy with it. It kicks your confidence to the kirb.
fair enough but this is starting to sound a little like a humble brag thread.
the 2 people who have concerns about thier cock size both happen to have considerably above average size."
I never said I had concerns, I was discussing how those comments affected you and how it influence your use of FAB |
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By *alcon43Woman
over a year ago
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"This is something I'm also very wary of when I first get naked with a new partner so thankfully no one has ever said anything bad about my size otherwise it would totally knock my confidence. Had the sense they've been dissapointed though but i now do the same OP and any profiles that state above average or have met guys that have pics of thier cocks that look much bigger then I don't bother messaging. Bloody problem is it always seems to be a really hot perons/s with a perfect profile of what we're both looking for! but I just crack on lol"
You've nothing to worry about regarding size. |
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That's a man's worst nightmare but at the end of the day body shaming is just curl and uncalled for and shows what the person/s really about and in my opinion they're not worth peeing on. I understand everyone has their own opinions and preferences to what they want or looking for. It's like calling a woman fat but just because she's large doesn't mean she won't give you the ride of you're life in the bedroom department. I'm about average or above....never measured but never had complaints. Just because you been told you're small doesn't mean you can't pleasure a woman another way. Shame on that person. |
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"This is something I'm also very wary of when I first get naked with a new partner so thankfully no one has ever said anything bad about my size otherwise it would totally knock my confidence. Had the sense they've been dissapointed though but i now do the same OP and any profiles that state above average or have met guys that have pics of thier cocks that look much bigger then I don't bother messaging. Bloody problem is it always seems to be a really hot perons/s with a perfect profile of what we're both looking for! but I just crack on lol
You've nothing to worry about regarding size. "
Well cheers. It is good to hear it sometimes |
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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago
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It's not just men that get insults on size, I have had so many over the years, I've had a so called doctor extensively message me to say I was anorexic and a woman my age should have bigger boobs than the empty sacks I had, I have had men purposely go out of their way to ask me where are my boobs, I've lost count of the insults I have taken, if I was a lesser person I would have left this place years ago, now I stay just to piss them off lol  |
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over a year ago
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"Many years ago I met a woman before I joined FAB, we spoke on and off for a while and decided that we would fuck.
The day came and it got to the point where we were both naked, me erect. She looked at it and then at me and said 'is that it'. I promptly got dressed and left.
Prior to this I had always been happy with what I had. It's not huge and it's not small, above average length and good girth.
This one comment destroyed my sexual confidence for a long time and still affects me to this day. Not so much in I lack confidence anymore but I sometimes get that horrible feeling it will happen again.
I know the majority of women are not overly concerned with size and I am still happy with mine. This has however affected how I approach finding prospective playmates on FAB.
I will steer clear of anyone who states a minimum size or who asks for a good size and girth. I often check out veri's to see what sort of guy they go for and when looking at the guys if I see a lot of them have a considerably bigger cock than I do I will not message.
It's something I can't get over psychologically as it really did hurt for a long time.
Has this happened to any other guys, do you have the same fears when looking at other guys that women have met?
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over a year ago
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I hope this may be of some encouragement to those men who are feeling a little discouraged about their size.
I met a man recently,not off this site but out there in 'real world land'. We slept together and before we did he told me he was not massively endowed,I assured him it didn't matter to me.
He was maybe 4-4.5 inches long and not very big diameter wise but,the sex was incredible,not only the best I ever experienced but the best I can ever imagine experiencing.
Proof,to me at least,that size isn't everything it's how you use it that counts.This guy really knew how to use it. |
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By *yldstyleWoman
over a year ago
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A brave post OP.
I'm glad you have found your confidence and moved on.
Unfortunately certain people or situations in life can leave us questioning so much. They leave scars. Sadly its often so much easier to believe a negative than a positive.
Words are dangerous things. X |
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"Many years ago I met a woman before I joined FAB, we spoke on and off for a while and decided that we would fuck.
The day came and it got to the point where we were both naked, me erect. She looked at it and then at me and said 'is that it'. I promptly got dressed and left.
Prior to this I had always been happy with what I had. It's not huge and it's not small, above average length and good girth.
This one comment destroyed my sexual confidence for a long time and still affects me to this day. Not so much in I lack confidence anymore but I sometimes get that horrible feeling it will happen again.
I know the majority of women are not overly concerned with size and I am still happy with mine. This has however affected how I approach finding prospective playmates on FAB.
I will steer clear of anyone who states a minimum size or who asks for a good size and girth. I often check out veri's to see what sort of guy they go for and when looking at the guys if I see a lot of them have a considerably bigger cock than I do I will not message.
It's something I can't get over psychologically as it really did hurt for a long time.
Has this happened to any other guys, do you have the same fears when looking at other guys that women have met?
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You should have gone down on her and said hello hello hello hello like it was echoing around a empty canyon |
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over a year ago
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Words really do hurt. I try not to comment on any part of someone else in a negative way. Occasional therapeutic bitch fest with a bestie exempted.
Weirdly I think someone being overly complimentary about a part of my body is also off putting. For example when a guy who was really into bbw made a comment about how much he loved it when my fat wobbled. I was like what? I never knew (or thought) about that wobbling and now I am self conscious about it!
Still, if I meet someone I have real chemistry with I'm too busy enjoying myself to think about it. That's a good measure of how much of a sexy time you're having. |
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By *xelciscoMan
over a year ago
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But every new person I meet it always creeps back into my mind. If it happened again I'm not sure if I would get over it.
I spent 15yrs being constantly criticised, made fun of, called names.
I can understand the psychological effects, and how it is something that you never really forget.
I've changed everything about me, my life, the way I look.
But the doubts, anxieties, fears are always there at the back of my head x "
You look lovely, honest !
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"Kinda same in sense where erect I'm fine but when soft it's small.
A ex long ago stated without my clothes on she just wasent attracted to me. I ended it there but for years it knocked me in a sense where I wouldn't change in public swimming baths etc.
Now I'm not bothered as alot of women couldn't give a fuck and I learnt that.
Plus I sleep but naked now and that won't ever change."
I'm pretty much the same, when in a normal state I'm quite self conscious about how I look down there. But when I am ready for action I think I'm doing ok in the grand scheme of things |
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"i'm probably known for my love of SPH on here, but only do that when it's consensual and i know the guy enjoys it. thing is i like being filled with dick, average dick is fine for me. foreplay is even more important than dick size also.
men shouldn't worry too much. yeah some peoples fantasy is a big dick, same as fat tits are many mens fanatasy. i lack fat tits but don't even care. other people shouldn't care also. hell, there's even saggy tit admirers so hope for us all. "
3SQ what is SPH? |
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By *xelciscoMan
over a year ago
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Brave post dude ! I do have it at the back of my mind too.. Regardless if it is a meet or new girlfriend.. There is always a lingering doubt.
I guess ladies go through the equivalent with "are my tits bit enough" etc.
I am always super careful with people in that sense given insecurities can be deeply hidden but very raw.
I had a situation with an ex long term FWB who had a sexless 6ft2in hubby with a bigger size than me as she commented.. Sex was amazing between us so that comment didnt affect me or us but i heard it... If you see what i mean.
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So fundamentally wrong. Nobody has should take the piss out of something that someone has no control over.... People need to stop taking the piss in general. We all have flaws. Why do some take pleasure in pointing those flaws out for a negative reason? Something I'm glad I will never understand  |
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"So fundamentally wrong. Nobody has should take the piss out of something that someone has no control over.... People need to stop taking the piss in general. We all have flaws. Why do some take pleasure in pointing those flaws out for a negative reason? Something I'm glad I will never understand "
Usually because they have their own insecurities and makes them feel them to belittle someone else |
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"So fundamentally wrong. Nobody has should take the piss out of something that someone has no control over.... People need to stop taking the piss in general. We all have flaws. Why do some take pleasure in pointing those flaws out for a negative reason? Something I'm glad I will never understand
Usually because they have their own insecurities and makes them feel them to belittle someone else"
I think most people have insecurities, yet don't want to put others down. It could be personality type perhaps? |
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By *DontExistWoman
over a year ago
•+• Silicon valley. •+• |
"i'm probably known for my love of SPH on here, but only do that when it's consensual and i know the guy enjoys it. thing is i like being filled with dick, average dick is fine for me. foreplay is even more important than dick size also.
men shouldn't worry too much. yeah some peoples fantasy is a big dick, same as fat tits are many mens fanatasy. i lack fat tits but don't even care. other people shouldn't care also. hell, there's even saggy tit admirers so hope for us all.
3SQ what is SPH? "
small penis humiliation. i like humiliation in general but that one is my favourite. |
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over a year ago
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"i'm probably known for my love of SPH on here, but only do that when it's consensual and i know the guy enjoys it. thing is i like being filled with dick, average dick is fine for me. foreplay is even more important than dick size also.
men shouldn't worry too much. yeah some peoples fantasy is a big dick, same as fat tits are many mens fanatasy. i lack fat tits but don't even care. other people shouldn't care also. hell, there's even saggy tit admirers so hope for us all.
3SQ what is SPH?
small penis humiliation. i like humiliation in general but that one is my favourite."
Please take the Piss out of mine again sometime soon 3some Queen |
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over a year ago
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"Most women got buckets the size the dildos they fucking these days... "
Actually the vaginally stretches to accommodate things, then reverts back to its normal size. As long as they practice their pelvic floor muscles it should stay tight. Perhaps educate yourself before trying to shame females |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Throw that old shame female poo at me like a real retard. This post about women trying shame men because nothing satisfies their fat stinking fanny.. that is the facts.. |
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"Throw that old shame female poo at me like a real retard. This post about women trying shame men because nothing satisfies their fat stinking fanny.. that is the facts.. "
so your anger stems from the fact you are in your own words, unable to satisfy a woman's fanny? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"That is pure shit brained thinking to start with.... ain't no fannys going back to tight haha
oh god that status with those veries is hilarious bravo"
Just read them! Jekyll and Hyde perhaps? |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Depends where you get your education doesn't it. Most went to a brain wash camp where the ability the remember and repeat is all that matters. That education you talking about. Or something way above them levels..... |
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"Depends where you get your education doesn't it. Most went to a brain wash camp where the ability the remember and repeat is all that matters. That education you talking about. Or something way above them levels....."
I meant where you actually learn |
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"That is pure shit brained thinking to start with.... ain't no fannys going back to tight haha
oh god that status with those veries is hilarious bravo
Just read them! Jekyll and Hyde perhaps? "
and the veries are suddenly hidden lol.
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"That is pure shit brained thinking to start with.... ain't no fannys going back to tight haha
oh god that status with those veries is hilarious bravo
Just read them! Jekyll and Hyde perhaps?
and the veries are suddenly hidden lol.
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I noticed that too |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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What an awful thing to say to somebody! Some people are so rude and thoughtless.
I understand what you say about being affected by people's profiles though, I don't have the best confidence, and if somebody has mentioned liking big boobs, or their pics show them with women who I consider more attractive than me, I won't want to reply (drives the hubby mad because he usually disagrees!)
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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The size if what we're supplied with, it's not anything we can change naturally and I don't worry that mine is below average. Perhaps you should have said yes it is all I have and promptly whacked her in the face with it |
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"So fundamentally wrong. Nobody has should take the piss out of something that someone has no control over.... People need to stop taking the piss in general. We all have flaws. Why do some take pleasure in pointing those flaws out for a negative reason? Something I'm glad I will never understand
Usually because they have their own insecurities and makes them feel them to belittle someone else"
Absolutely true.
Insecurities and not being happy with themselves. |
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"i'm probably known for my love of SPH on here, but only do that when it's consensual and i know the guy enjoys it. thing is i like being filled with dick, average dick is fine for me. foreplay is even more important than dick size also.
men shouldn't worry too much. yeah some peoples fantasy is a big dick, same as fat tits are many mens fanatasy. i lack fat tits but don't even care. other people shouldn't care also. hell, there's even saggy tit admirers so hope for us all.
3SQ what is SPH?
small penis humiliation. i like humiliation in general but that one is my favourite."
I think I'll pass on that |
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over a year ago
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My wife experienced this I've been with her 20 years now but when I met her she was very self concous. Her previous fella who she'd been with since she was 14 constantly put her down saying she was fat ugly etc. Made her wear dowdy clothes etc. She eventually got the guts to leave him then she met me. Now I was completely the opposite I encouraged her over time to wear short skirts heels low cut tops etc. She's now a new woman and I love it |
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"The biggest I have had was by NO means the best, in fact far from it, one of the worsted fucks I have ever had...it really is true what they say...its what ya do with it that counts! "
I'm with you on this, one of my ex's had a HUGE cock!....painful, unsatisfactory sex....as if he thought that was all he needed!
Since swinging I've had quite small (less than 5') and enjoyed it immensely.
We are all I'd say very aware of our bodies due society and what is classed as " exceptable " It takes just 1 deliberate derogatory comment and we as humans will be affected.
My ex husbands ( total cunt ) parting words your a fat ugly fucker, used goods and no cunt will want you!
For a very long time I actually believed that!...until I met S he was my game changer!
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"Many years ago I met a woman before I joined FAB, we spoke on and off for a while and decided that we would fuck.
The day came and it got to the point where we were both naked, me erect. She looked at it and then at me and said 'is that it'. I promptly got dressed and left.
Prior to this I had always been happy with what I had. It's not huge and it's not small, above average length and good girth.
This one comment destroyed my sexual confidence for a long time and still affects me to this day. Not so much in I lack confidence anymore but I sometimes get that horrible feeling it will happen again.
I know the majority of women are not overly concerned with size and I am still happy with mine. This has however affected how I approach finding prospective playmates on FAB.
I will steer clear of anyone who states a minimum size or who asks for a good size and girth. I often check out veri's to see what sort of guy they go for and when looking at the guys if I see a lot of them have a considerably bigger cock than I do I will not message.
It's something I can't get over psychologically as it really did hurt for a long time.
Has this happened to any other guys, do you have the same fears when looking at other guys that women have met?
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Maybe she needed bigger to fill her massive bucket! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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What a total bitch
From my experience average is much better than massive. It can be very uncomfortable. That's just my opinion. And sex is the whole package. Fingers. Tongues. Kisses. No one has the right to make anyone feel so terrible about themselves. Shocking. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Anyone who is more focused on the size of cock/tits/ass rather than the person to whom they are attached to is shallow beyond belief. I have a distincly average sized cock (Mrs has a banging pair of boobs mind you) and I have had some rather spiteful remarks passed at parties we have attended where most of the other guys have been hung like donkeys. Says more about people making these remarka than it does about me! Kudos to the OP and excellent to see that your confidence has returned |
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By *DontExistWoman
over a year ago
•+• Silicon valley. •+• |
"i'm probably known for my love of SPH on here, but only do that when it's consensual and i know the guy enjoys it. thing is i like being filled with dick, average dick is fine for me. foreplay is even more important than dick size also.
men shouldn't worry too much. yeah some peoples fantasy is a big dick, same as fat tits are many mens fanatasy. i lack fat tits but don't even care. other people shouldn't care also. hell, there's even saggy tit admirers so hope for us all.
3SQ what is SPH?
small penis humiliation. i like humiliation in general but that one is my favourite.
I think I'll pass on that "
yeah i know it's not for everyone, but sometimes i'll indulge guys who are into it, even if their dick isn't even small. |
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By *DontExistWoman
over a year ago
•+• Silicon valley. •+• |
"i'm probably known for my love of SPH on here, but only do that when it's consensual and i know the guy enjoys it. thing is i like being filled with dick, average dick is fine for me. foreplay is even more important than dick size also.
men shouldn't worry too much. yeah some peoples fantasy is a big dick, same as fat tits are many mens fanatasy. i lack fat tits but don't even care. other people shouldn't care also. hell, there's even saggy tit admirers so hope for us all.
3SQ what is SPH?
small penis humiliation. i like humiliation in general but that one is my favourite.
Please take the Piss out of mine again sometime soon 3some Queen "
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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You should have just asked her if she's looking to smuggle sperm through a crawling space down there because you get claustrophobic in tunnels.
Or, "oh have you lost your youthful elasticity?"
Or, "what, should I have brought more equipment like rope and a torch to get back out of your cave?"
I don't believe in being mean to people for their body but if a woman is going to be rotten like that then they deserve it. She clearly had a very loose hobbit doorway down there and wanted to feel empowered at the expense of your self esteem. Disgusting. |
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"My wife experienced this I've been with her 20 years now but when I met her she was very self concous. Her previous fella who she'd been with since she was 14 constantly put her down saying she was fat ugly etc. Made her wear dowdy clothes etc. She eventually got the guts to leave him then she met me. Now I was completely the opposite I encouraged her over time to wear short skirts heels low cut tops etc. She's now a new woman and I love it "
so she traded one man telling her what to wear for another? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Body issues? Welcome to Transville.
Seriously, come join us. Tuck that horrible thing away and get in touch with your feminine side. You'll feel much better and you'll get lots of lovely compliments to make you feel better about yourself. It really is ace. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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funny how an odd comment hurts and sticks - i was never slim or petite - i was as tall as i am now at the age of 11 - i wasnt fat but solid - i had a few health issues and took iron tablets all my childhood amongst other things - a friends mother said to be one day - 'not surprised youre heavy with all that iron you take' - probably said in jest but for so many years i felt yak because of it - |
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By *TrainMan
over a year ago
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No one has the right to critique the look or appearance of anyone either on or off Fab
Everyone is different, and that is the beauty of the world
Fuck anyone who insults another persons attributes on here. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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When I'm asked if I have a big cock I usually reply to them asking if they have a massive vagina. It generally gets me blocked but if that's all that matters then I'm not interested anyway |
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"Many years ago I met a woman before I joined FAB, we spoke on and off for a while and decided that we would fuck.
The day came and it got to the point where we were both naked, me erect. She looked at it and then at me and said 'is that it'. I promptly got dressed and left.
Prior to this I had always been happy with what I had. It's not huge and it's not small, above average length and good girth.
This one comment destroyed my sexual confidence for a long time and still affects me to this day. Not so much in I lack confidence anymore but I sometimes get that horrible feeling it will happen again.
I know the majority of women are not overly concerned with size and I am still happy with mine. This has however affected how I approach finding prospective playmates on FAB.
I will steer clear of anyone who states a minimum size or who asks for a good size and girth. I often check out veri's to see what sort of guy they go for and when looking at the guys if I see a lot of them have a considerably bigger cock than I do I will not message.
It's something I can't get over psychologically as it really did hurt for a long time.
Has this happened to any other guys, do you have the same fears when looking at other guys that women have met?
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It's like telling a woman she has a sloppy fanny and you can't touch the sides, you just wouldn't do it... |
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"Many years ago I met a woman before I joined FAB, we spoke on and off for a while and decided that we would fuck.
The day came and it got to the point where we were both naked, me erect. She looked at it and then at me and said 'is that it'. I promptly got dressed and left.
Prior to this I had always been happy with what I had. It's not huge and it's not small, above average length and good girth.
This one comment destroyed my sexual confidence for a long time and still affects me to this day. Not so much in I lack confidence anymore but I sometimes get that horrible feeling it will happen again.
I know the majority of women are not overly concerned with size and I am still happy with mine. This has however affected how I approach finding prospective playmates on FAB.
I will steer clear of anyone who states a minimum size or who asks for a good size and girth. I often check out veri's to see what sort of guy they go for and when looking at the guys if I see a lot of them have a considerably bigger cock than I do I will not message.
It's something I can't get over psychologically as it really did hurt for a long time.
Has this happened to any other guys, do you have the same fears when looking at other guys that women have met?
It's like telling a woman she has a sloppy fanny and you can't touch the sides, you just wouldn't do it..."
Some would, they are more commonly known as 'absolute fuckwits' |
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"Many years ago I met a woman before I joined FAB, we spoke on and off for a while and decided that we would fuck.
The day came and it got to the point where we were both naked, me erect. She looked at it and then at me and said 'is that it'. I promptly got dressed and left.
Prior to this I had always been happy with what I had. It's not huge and it's not small, above average length and good girth.
This one comment destroyed my sexual confidence for a long time and still affects me to this day. Not so much in I lack confidence anymore but I sometimes get that horrible feeling it will happen again.
I know the majority of women are not overly concerned with size and I am still happy with mine. This has however affected how I approach finding prospective playmates on FAB.
I will steer clear of anyone who states a minimum size or who asks for a good size and girth. I often check out veri's to see what sort of guy they go for and when looking at the guys if I see a lot of them have a considerably bigger cock than I do I will not message.
It's something I can't get over psychologically as it really did hurt for a long time.
Has this happened to any other guys, do you have the same fears when looking at other guys that women have met?
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I think you look awsome chap really interesting read. That person who said those things isn't worth shit. You sound like a decent guy and you're far better off not being with a women like that. Learn the mgtow way my friend. Its powerful and will empower your mind and your body. |
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It still amuses and amazes me that comment 