"Why do people judge a person for being on here looking for that little bit of no strings fun? After all its a sex site.....we're all looking for the same... "
Because a lot of people don't agree with people cheating on their partners.... |
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They aren't judged for looking for no strings fun
A number of people just don't agree with it unless you are both here or there is permission.
Put it on your profile and carry on as you want to. Just don't whine about it and you'll be fine.
People are less keen on whiners than the married types |
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"Why do people judge a person for being on here looking for that little bit of no strings fun? After all its a sex site.....we're all looking for the same...
Because a lot of people don't agree with people cheating on their partners...."
Well said i like you.  |
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By *amissCouple
over a year ago
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"Why do people judge a person for being on here looking for that little bit of no strings fun? After all its a sex site.....we're all looking for the same... "
It may be a sex site, although some call it a swingers site, doesn't mean to say that we don't have principles  |
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Because the way you put your post across sounds as though you couldn't care less about the feelings of the person you're in a relationship with and despite the fact that this is a swingers site, it doesn't mean everyone suspends human decency, nor do they all want to assist someone in cheating behind their partners back. Many will avoid you if they're aware that's the case and some won't. Individual choice. Fair play for being open and honest on here, but not everyone will empathise with you all the same. |
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By *umyumyum OP Man
over a year ago
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Just because I've posted this doesn't mean it is I that's married or attached. I've come cross a lot of profiles that state married or attached. I've spoken to many that say they get judged but in my eyes there could circumstances surrounding the reason to why they are on here not just the plain eye sore or conclusion people jump straight to that they are cheating. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Just because I've posted this doesn't mean it is I that's married or attached. I've come cross a lot of profiles that state married or attached. I've spoken to many that say they get judged but in my eyes there could circumstances surrounding the reason to why they are on here not just the plain eye sore or conclusion people jump straight to that they are cheating. "
You're right that there may be extenuating circumstances - and that may be the case for many on here - but some will still see that as complicated and not want to get involved all the same. It won't always be about judging others, but more of a discomfort in playing with those who have an unknowing partner at home. There will be some playing with their partners permission too no doubt. Each to their own. |
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"Why do people judge a person for being on here looking for that little bit of no strings fun? After all its a sex site.....we're all looking for the same... "
Last time I checked we weren't North Korea so people are allowed opinions that differ from yours unless you are actually him ? |
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"Just because I've posted this doesn't mean it is I that's married or attached. I've come cross a lot of profiles that state married or attached. I've spoken to many that say they get judged but in my eyes there could circumstances surrounding the reason to why they are on here not just the plain eye sore or conclusion people jump straight to that they are cheating. "
There's many reasons that many people do a lot of things.
Some People on this site have probably: stolen, been abusive, taken class A drugs, lied, d*unk drive, been racist, stalked someone, committed benefit fraud or even worse.
BUT whilst they get judged also, they don't really have to reveal their acts in order to jump in bed with someone. We all get judged everyday for the simplest of things. How it makes people feel is down to them and if you can't cope with being judged don't do what you or whoever is doing?
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"Just because I've posted this doesn't mean it is I that's married or attached. I've come cross a lot of profiles that state married or attached. I've spoken to many that say they get judged but in my eyes there could circumstances surrounding the reason to why they are on here not just the plain eye sore or conclusion people jump straight to that they are cheating. "
People who are meeting behind the back of an unsuspecting partner are cheats, people who have a partner who also have freedom to meet others aren't cheaters, people choose to meet or not meet either party, people judge, people don't judge, with 30,000 members you can't just apply one rule to everyone on here, there are no hard of fast rules for who people will or won't meet.
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"Just because I've posted this doesn't mean it is I that's married or attached. I've come cross a lot of profiles that state married or attached. I've spoken to many that say they get judged but in my eyes there could circumstances surrounding the reason to why they are on here not just the plain eye sore or conclusion people jump straight to that they are cheating. "
Maybe because like you say people are largely looking for no strings and if there's any suspicion that someone is on here behind at partners back or is dishonest that it can open up a whole can of worms if things go south. That's why we aren't interested in attached folk, don't want any drama. |
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There's a thin grey line between swinging and adultary they are definitely not the same . Swinging is something you do as a couple or at least with a partners consent and some participation |
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"Why do people judge a person for being on here looking for that little bit of no strings fun? After all its a sex site.....we're all looking for the same... "
I judge everyone. We're not all looking for the same. |
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"Why do people judge a person for being on here looking for that little bit of no strings fun? After all its a sex site.....we're all looking for the same... "
This has been played again and again.
Sex site this is not, nor is it called Instantshag.com |
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"There's a thin grey line between swinging and adultary they are definitely not the same . Swinging is something you do as a couple or at least with a partners consent and some participation "
Well said! |
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"There's a thin grey line between swinging and adultary they are definitely not the same . Swinging is something you do as a couple or at least with a partners consent and some participation
Well said!"
Bravo! |
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