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How much do you need to see?
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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If we peruse enough profiles, we can see that some have pictures that reveal very little, but somehow we feel compelled to send a message having no concept of what the person looks like, and if there may be attraction.
A foot, a close up bell end looking like the head of a squid, a nipple, a close up kebab shot or even an eye in some cases.
How much do you need to see to get drawn into the web of attraction suckers?  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"What's wrote in the profile stands out more."
I agree, however having looked at a profile with nothing more than a cleavage pic (close up) I thought, that despite the fairly good content; I'm essentially writing to someone I have no attraction to on a purely lucky dip process? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"What's wrote in the profile stands out more.
I agree, however having looked at a profile with nothing more than a cleavage pic (close up) I thought, that despite the fairly good content; I'm essentially writing to someone I have no attraction to on a purely lucky dip process? "
Men mail me when I have no text and one shoe pic. Not sure what to make of that.
I do like seeing the other side of the coin. Thanks OP you've made me think.  
Wow that's the first time I've ever needed to use the light bulb ('bum hole') pic. Sending you 3 pretend alcoholic shots and some cheesy chips!! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I need to see a little bit of personality to spark an interest. It could be a photo but most likely its words in a post or profile.
Ladies - I don't need to see your boobs in a pic ...I need to hold your boobs in a shower.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Facial attractiveness ultimately seals the deal for me.
Providing the guy had a public penis picture and a body picture then I'd only need to see a little bit of chin to know if I want to message him for more pictures. |
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Its more the whole profile for us.
The pics are the initial draw (provided they are all non revealing nude or genital shots)
Then a quick read of the profile followed by a look at the veris.
If they all don't fit then we aren't interested. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Cock pic and face pic for me.
If the personality is good then their body type is irrelevant as long as their cock is decent and their face is attractive to me.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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It depends. If someone is able to put their face pic publicly on their profile, then often that's all I need to see.
Without a face pic then I'd say I need to at least see a full body pic (whether clothed or unclothed doesn't matter to me).
Although my absolute preference would be for a mixed bag of pics.
To me a person's face makes all the difference, though. Someone's personality matters to an extent, but when I'm looking to meet for sex I need some sort of visual stimulation. |
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By *igeiaWoman
over a year ago
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I don't really need to see any pics to be attracted to someone. If I click with someone, I click and so far I have yet to be disappointed in the visual when I see them. I'm aware it might happen at some point, so I'm not saying it isn't a factor at all, but it just hasn't happened yet. I am more likely to make first contact if there is something to attract me in the first place, but that tends to be words rather than images. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I don't have a face pic on my profile, but that's because men are as shallow as fk anyways, and don't really care! "popcorn" anyone? lolol  "
men would care if they are shallow? if they wasn't thry wouldn't be bothered |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Personally I feel that pictures are very important. This is a bit shallow but if I can't find myself sexually attracted to someone then I won't message them. On the other side however I have no desire to meet a horrible woman with a hideous attitude even if she physically represented everything I was after. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I love to see a few nice pics. It's the torso that lures me and a few lines about themselves. Humour too would attract me. But ultimately if the face pic doesn't attract me, I don't normally continue a conversation. And, let's face it... very few profiles have a face pic. |
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"I don't have a face pic on my profile, but that's because men are as shallow as fk anyways, and don't really care! "popcorn" anyone? lolol
men would care if they are shallow? if they wasn't thry wouldn't be bothered"
Shallow as in don't care what the face looks like, just someone to fuck basically! The majority that is, obv not all! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I don't have a face pic on my profile, but that's because men are as shallow as fk anyways, and don't really care! "popcorn" anyone? lolol "
I don't have one in mine. Same reason but for women. |
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"I don't have a face pic on my profile, but that's because men are as shallow as fk anyways, and don't really care! "popcorn" anyone? lolol
I don't have one in mine. Same reason but for women. "
Your going down a rocky road there mister!  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I don't have a face pic on my profile, but that's because men are as shallow as fk anyways, and don't really care! "popcorn" anyone? lolol
I don't have one in mine. Same reason but for women.
Your going down a rocky road there mister! "
You girls fought for equality, this is it!  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We find personality is just as important than looks. So to gauge looks and personality, we just prefer to meet.
We wish to be discreet so we no longer send face pics. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I don't have a face pic on my profile, but that's because men are as shallow as fk anyways, and don't really care! "popcorn" anyone? lolol
men would care if they are shallow? if they wasn't thry wouldn't be bothered
Shallow as in don't care what the face looks like, just someone to fuck basically! The majority that is, obv not all! "
Why is it a bad thing that they fancy a person's body? I don't understand why people get so het up on that. Perhaps body is more important than face to them.
People are always saying that personality is more important than looks (face).
But it's not ok to want to fuck someone because they like their body, they have to like their face too?   |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Facial attractiveness ultimately seals the deal for me.
Providing the guy had a public penis picture and a body picture then I'd only need to see a little bit of chin to know if I want to message him for more pictures. "
 totally agree miss Wilkes.
Funny how a jaw line can tell you about a face? Same with hands really, don't want some nasty, fat pork sausages mauling my body |
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I didn't need to see anything other than personality via the forum and messaging. Pics I ignored unless I saw them on my updates. Profiles I only used to read them if I was looking for someone to message late at night. For the purpose of a chat only therefore I needed to know they were capable |
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"I don't have a face pic on my profile, but that's because men are as shallow as fk anyways, and don't really care! "popcorn" anyone? lolol
men would care if they are shallow? if they wasn't thry wouldn't be bothered
Shallow as in don't care what the face looks like, just someone to fuck basically! The majority that is, obv not all!
Why is it a bad thing that they fancy a person's body? I don't understand why people get so het up on that. Perhaps body is more important than face to them.
People are always saying that personality is more important than looks (face).
But it's not ok to want to fuck someone because they like their body, they have to like their face too? "
Prey tell who said it was a bad thing?? |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"need to know what the persons profile is first, then likes/interests, then photos last, i wont even bother unless i know what the person is into. "
Photos Last? So what draws you to open the profile to look? |
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