I think people are adults and I have zero control or desire to control what other people do. They are big enough to make their own choices and I wouldn't stand in anybody's way. I'd be extremely hurt and trust broken if they brought me into the situation to ask permission so to speak, but then said it's just for a drink for example, but the just a drink bit was lies.

All I personally ask for is honesty. Any feelings I may have for either person are my own to deal with, its when we deception comes into it that I have issues.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I think people are adults and I have zero control or desire to control what other people do. They are big enough to make their own choices and I wouldn't stand in anybody's way. I'd be extremely hurt and trust broken if they brought me into the situation to ask permission so to speak, but then said it's just for a drink for example, but the just a drink bit was lies.

All I personally ask for is honesty. Any feelings I may have for either person are my own to deal with, its when we deception comes into it that I have issues. "

Deception and lies create problems, always have. Always will

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I have asked someone I am close to if it would be okay to chat and potentially meet someone I was interested in. I didn't realise they'd met. When I found out, I thought it only right I ask her if it was okay. I know some think it's everyone for themselves. Anybody else and I wouldn't care. I just really like and respect her. I would say it depends on if you friends or friendly.... There's a big definition. Friends yes. Friendly then no. Especially given the nature of the site

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

" I would say it depends on if you friends or friendly.... There's a big definition. Friends yes. Friendly then no. Especially given the nature of the site

That bit there is good advice.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

If you asked the friend and they said no would you still meet the guy, that is the question? Would you then tell the guy that the bird said no which leads to you and the guy talking abongst yourselves about how annoying your friend is cos shes stopping him meeting people and then that makes the guy dislike your friend. That's what bitches do. If it's s friend then just pick another guy. I wouldn't want to fuck anyone that had been with a friend but I'm not a swinger.

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By *rincess peachWoman over a year ago

shits creek

"If you asked the friend and they said no would you still meet the guy, that is the question? Would you then tell the guy that the bird said no which leads to you and the guy talking abongst yourselves about how annoying your friend is cos shes stopping him meeting people and then that makes the guy dislike your friend. That's what bitches do. If it's s friend then just pick another guy. I wouldn't want to fuck anyone that had been with a friend but I'm not a swinger. "

I agree with your first bit completely. The friend could end up being seen as an "annoying cock block" for want of a better word.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Is that what stops people actually swinging on here.

I have trouble asking permission to the woman I want to fuck, I've got to ask another 6 guys she's fucking as well?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

There wouldn't have been chatting about her behind her back. That's just sly. I would have cut him off. Happened that she only met him once, yonks ago, so she didn't give two figs

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