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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Sex addiction is a genuine thing, am I addicted to it, no. I can take it or leave it. I've gone over a year without it but I do tend to eat more shit when I'm not having regular sex.
I'm addicted to food, but not sex. |
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Addicted ? Possibly as we don't go more than 24 hours without it , and haven't done for the seven years we've been together . We go out three times a week for fun with others , and more often than not have multiple meets on these three nights . So on average we have sex of some sort about 20 times a week .
However we both work and I run a successful business , we have a child who gets the best parenting possible , and our life away from swinging is very much separated from it . So perhaps we are just lucky enough to have our cake and eat it , and just enjoy sex a lot ! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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I don't like it. People spend far too much time, money and energy on finding it, usually without success, when they could be using those things to better effect elsewhere - build a squirell sanctuary, take a watercolour class, learn a musical instrument.
I watched an old flatmate trying to get girls back to the flat, then trying to get them into bed, only to spend most of the next day trying to get them to leave. I asked if the bad d*unken 20-minute shag was really worth it.
Unfortunately it's an evolutionary drive, which was reponsible for the preservation of the species, so for the time being we're stuck with it. Yuck. |
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By *DontExistWoman
over a year ago
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"I don't like it. People spend far too much time, money and energy on finding it, usually without success, when they could be using those things to better effect elsewhere - build a squirell sanctuary, take a watercolour class, learn a musical instrument.
I watched an old flatmate trying to get girls back to the flat, then trying to get them into bed, only to spend most of the next day trying to get them to leave. I asked if the bad d*unken 20-minute shag was really worth it.
Unfortunately it's an evolutionary drive, which was reponsible for the preservation of the species, so for the time being we're stuck with it. Yuck."
i use sex addiction as a coping mechanism. when i feel loved and that it calms down a lot. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Yes. If you can be addicted when your not getting any?
*please someone do the violin emoji for me.  "
You can throw that violin away next week... 
Peach x |
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By (user no longer on site)
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i use sex addiction as a coping mechanism. when i feel loved and that it calms down a lot."
I found learning a musical instrument did a better job of that for me, though I was in puberty at the time, so no surprise here. Watercolours had a calming effect on my dad in later years. I dunno about squirrel sanctuaries though, they look like a bit of a stressful deal. |
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Nope im not addicted can take weeks or months between meets as i pmly meet decent people not just anyone xx For me its just a way to keep my sexual skills in check while im waiting to find a new partner in crime xxx |
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By (user no longer on site)
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An addiction is something that you do/use that has a negative impact on daily life.
Are there sex addicts? Yes
Are they common? No (more common on here due to the nature of the site)
Am I one? No. Just an enthusiast. |
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"I don't like it. People spend far too much time, money and energy on finding it, usually without success, when they could be using those things to better effect elsewhere - build a squirell sanctuary, take a watercolour class, learn a musical instrument.
I watched an old flatmate trying to get girls back to the flat, then trying to get them into bed, only to spend most of the next day trying to get them to leave. I asked if the bad d*unken 20-minute shag was really worth it.
Unfortunately it's an evolutionary drive, which was reponsible for the preservation of the species, so for the time being we're stuck with it. Yuck."
So sex is yuck , and you don't like it .
It's just an unfortunate part of the evolution of the species to ore ent the extinction of humanity ?
Are you sure you're on the right site ?
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By (user no longer on site)
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Yes I think you can.... although I think I more of have a healthy appetite for it..... although they do say the first sign of recovery is admitting you have a problem... |
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"I'm addicted to the excitement of meeting someone new rather than the actual sex. Although having sex is pretty good too I suppose."
I'm the exact opposite. The nerves I suffer in the run up to a meet, absolutely spoil it for me... Once i get going I'm fine though |
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"I'm addicted to the excitement of meeting someone new rather than the actual sex. Although having sex is pretty good too I suppose."
I'm the exact opposite. The nerves I suffer in the run up to a meet, absolutely spoil it for me... Once i get going I'm fine though |
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