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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago

morning, just a quick one guys.. If you get a message from somebody that is over the age limit in your search Patton, do you auto delete it or read and have a look at her/him ? Dicky D

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Age is normally the very last thing I check out anyway.

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By *alandNitaCouple  over a year ago

Scunthorpe


"morning, just a quick one guys.. If you get a message from somebody that is over the age limit in your search Patton, do you auto delete it or read and have a look at her/him ? Dicky D "

For us, the ages are just a guideline. People don't always look their age the people are more important than the numbers.

Cal

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

I read the message and check out their profile otherwise how would I know how old they are?

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By *arciocialWoman  over a year ago

Leicester

Fab automatically set my filters so only people within my Age range can message

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

I like to be flexible. If a woman/couple is outside my age, or any other, range that does not automatically write them off. There are other factors to consider.

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By *arnsleycouple7683Couple  over a year ago

Barnsley

We're a bit flexible so we read and sometimes respond.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

I sometimes find it ironic that I am Outside someone's age bracket and yet I am probably fitter than a lot of other men which are younger than myself I regularly spar in judo and fencing with younger men in their 20s and I beat them, but what do get from keeping fit a bar are well never mind lol

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"morning, just a quick one guys.. If you get a message from somebody that is over the age limit in your search Patton, do you auto delete it or read and have a look at her/him ? Dicky D "

You use a WWII American general to help you search?

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Age isn't that important to me, its more the woman herself.

Bust saying that, I think 18/19 might still be abit young for me

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By *abs..Woman  over a year ago

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I would be flexible on age

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"I sometimes find it ironic that I am Outside someone's age bracket and yet I am probably fitter than a lot of other men which are younger than myself I regularly spar in judo and fencing with younger men in their 20s and I beat them, but what do get from keeping fit a bar are well never mind lol "

Yepha bang on the money with that one

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

I would wonder how they got past my age filters, then have a look at the profile.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

I always chuckle at profiles willing to meet people up to 99 though, fair play like but it ain't for me. 90 is my limit and I'm not going above that for anyone

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"I sometimes find it ironic that I am Outside someone's age bracket and yet I am probably fitter than a lot of other men which are younger than myself I regularly spar in judo and fencing with younger men in their 20s and I beat them, but what do get from keeping fit a bar are well never mind lol "

Physical fitness and physique, is not what every one finds sexually attractive though

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman  over a year ago

The Town by The Cross

Age is the second thing I look at. The first is the message content and style.

ooo maybe the pic is second.... hmmmmmmmmm anyway .... age is not the first thing I look at.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

It would depend how far over, a couple of years wouldn't be a massive issue, but had guys 20 and more years over straight in the bin

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"I always chuckle at profiles willing to meet people up to 99 though, fair play like but it ain't for me. 90 is my limit and I'm not going above that for anyone "

Mines only at 99 so everyone can message me. I used to have filters set then play forum games which involved getting messages so then I'd have to take them back off again.

But with the amount of messages I actually get, filters are redundant anyway

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By *aul1973HullMan  over a year ago

East Hull

What are these messages you speak of?

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

I get messages off guys who are only looking for women up to the age of 30. Go figure

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"morning, just a quick one guys.. If you get a message from somebody that is over the age limit in your search Patton, do you auto delete it or read and have a look at her/him ? Dicky D

You use a WWII American general to help you search?"

Bugger, just seen it !!

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"I get messages off guys who are only looking for women up to the age of 30. Go figure "
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Wishful thinking on there part, T think sweety x

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By *p4funduoCouple  over a year ago

Edinburgh

I certainly have a look. You never know?

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By *revaunanceCouple  over a year ago

Exeter


"If you get a message from somebody that is over the age limit in your search Patton, do you auto delete it or read and have a look at her/him ?"

We chat to a lot of people about a whole host of vanilla things so we always read the message and look at the profile. We reply to the vast majority of messages we receive.

If however they were asking for a meet then we will usually politely decline. We then wonder why they couldn't save us all some time and read our profile in the first place.

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"If you get a message from somebody that is over the age limit in your search Patton, do you auto delete it or read and have a look at her/him ?

We chat to a lot of people about a whole host of vanilla things so we always read the message and look at the profile. We reply to the vast majority of messages we receive.

I read yours.. lol

If however they were asking for a meet then we will usually politely decline. We then wonder why they couldn't save us all some time and read our profile in the first place."

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"If you get a message from somebody that is over the age limit in your search Patton, do you auto delete it or read and have a look at her/him ?

We chat to a lot of people about a whole host of vanilla things so we always read the message and look at the profile. We reply to the vast majority of messages we receive.

I read yours.. lol

If however they were asking for a meet then we will usually politely decline. We then wonder why they couldn't save us all some time and read our profile in the first place. "

OOPs buggered that up, I read yours, lol

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By *tephanjMan  over a year ago

Kettering

I read all messages age is but a number........ But I get very few messages

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Hi there op

We have an age bracket on ours for no other reason than I'm quite young and a lot of older ladies have said I'm too young for them as much as I prefer them that way!

However I'm happy to chat with anyone. The lady I play with alone is older and she us great. It's just a guideline. I will give anyone a go

The Mrs xx

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By *ackDMissMorganCouple  over a year ago

Halifax

Depends how much over

On my old single profile,i had age filters on ,which stopped alot of people out of range ,but some still slipped through.

Miss

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By *oiluvfunMan  over a year ago

Penrith

A message you say?

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By *ornylittlesubWoman  over a year ago

Grangemouth

Always worth a wee look!

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By *reman6976Man  over a year ago

Deeping St James

My age limits are just a guide. I often check older people's profiles if I like the look of them.

I'll check the profile, but the message I receive is a greater influence on my responding. If there's no effort then I usually don't respond.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

https://m.youtube.com/watch?v=QqreRufrkxM
"Age is the second thing I look at. The first is the message content and style.

ooo maybe the pic is second.... hmmmmmmmmm anyway .... age is not the first thing I look at. "

You remind me of this!

https://m.youtube.com/watch?v=QqreRufrkxM

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By *rCurious1Man  over a year ago

North Yorkshire

I was speaking to a ladie and she was 50+. Her body was something to be amazed by. Just wow. Wouldnt have said she was in her 30's never mind 50's. Its just a number.

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By *pider-WomanWoman  over a year ago

Exeter, Bristol, Plymouth, Truro

Flexible on age.

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By *aelawMan  over a year ago

Paisley

I thought it was a hard filter or am I thinking of something different?

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By *ak777Man  over a year ago

shaw

i,m desperate so any age so long that it breathing.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

I would take a peak. Age isn't a biggy for me but I've given up finding George Clooney on here

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By *rCurious1Man  over a year ago

North Yorkshire


"I would take a peak. Age isn't a biggy for me but I've given up finding George Clooney on here "

Getting a few greys now. Just wait a little longer hahaha

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"I always chuckle at profiles willing to meet people up to 99 though, fair play like but it ain't for me. 90 is my limit and I'm not going above that for anyone "

Damn I,m 91 XXX

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By *revaunanceCouple  over a year ago

Exeter


"I thought it was a hard filter or am I thinking of something different? "

I think you might be getting a little confused.

In the message filters section you can prevent people that don't meet your preferred age range from messaging you. However not everyone uses that filter, us for example. We speak with a wide variety of people and so we do not use the site filter to prevent people outside our age range from contacting us.

I believe this is what the OP is getting at.

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By *ot40sCouple  over a year ago

birmingham


"I like to be flexible. If a woman/couple is outside my age, or any other, range that does not automatically write them off. There are other factors to consider."

Own teeth and hair being one

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"morning, just a quick one guys.. If you get a message from somebody that is over the age limit in your search Patton, do you auto delete it or read and have a look at her/him ? Dicky D "

They can't message us as we use age filters to save everyone the trouble

- Mrs. J -

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

id look - i often try people that have their ages set below my age -

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By *aelawMan  over a year ago

Paisley


"I thought it was a hard filter or am I thinking of something different?

I think you might be getting a little confused.

In the message filters section you can prevent people that don't meet your preferred age range from messaging you. However not everyone uses that filter, us for example. We speak with a wide variety of people and so we do not use the site filter to prevent people outside our age range from contacting us.

I believe this is what the OP is getting at. "

Ah I see the difference. Thanks for pointing that out. I don't tend to use them but i didn't quite compute at the time. I blame.......him *points to a random forum member before running away*

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