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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

anybody else struggling on here?

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By *rincess peachWoman over a year ago

shits creek

"anybody else struggling on here? "

In what way? Getting meets?

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By *iss.HoneyWoman over a year ago

...

I stwuggle

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"anybody else struggling on here? "

By your own admission, you want a gym fit woman who has the 'ability' to squirt

Perhaps you are limiting yourself too much?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

You've also said you 'make' them squirt

What messages do you think you are sending OP?

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By *unnoisseurMan over a year ago

Stratford

I'm struggling and I just want a woman. I'm not even fussy!! Lol

I'm not desperate. But general chat alone would be a start.

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

I only meet after talking and connecting with somebody.

I'm on here for the sex don't get me wrong but I like to be friendly connect and have banter with women before we just get down and do it.

struggle to engage with some women especially the hot ones as they are very arrogant, probably due to the amount of men on here.

we're all on here for different reasons I guess

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

When I'm tied up I struggle to get out...is that what you mean?

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By *pider-WomanWoman over a year ago

Exeter, Bristol, Plymouth, Truro

Hello

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By *unforus1965Couple over a year ago

MIDLANDS

"anybody else struggling on here? "

There are lots of single guys on here like you looking for sex.

If you are struggling it will come down to the normal things, quality of profile and pics.

If you take out the massive worthless warning that means nothing, there isn't much of a profile left.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Get ready for all the patronising replies op.

All men 'struggle'. Theres not as meny 'fish' as you and many men think there are. But there's a hell of a lot of men chasing the same woman as you.

Think yourself lucky if you get talking to one of them.

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By *oxy_minxWoman over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen

Yes I struggle to get meets also unfortunately

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By *ady LickWoman over a year ago

Northampton Somewhere

Maybe they've read some of your other threads and they think they're not good enough for you!!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Even us women struggle OP. We may get a lot of messages but It's difficult to find the diamonds on here

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Good god, yes! Really yes as well not the usual Forum "yes" from some who are actually "beating attention" away with a stick!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Yes I struggle to get meets also unfortunately

Me too... I must attract all the idiots lol x

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By *ilent.KnightMan over a year ago

Swindon

"I stwuggle

That's why handcuffs were invented.

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

there are probably alot of great guys on here who don't get a chance due to the volume of men on here. just saying

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By *rincess peachWoman over a year ago

shits creek

"I stwuggle

The stwuggle is wheel

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By *revaunanceCouple over a year ago

Exeter

Anyone can have difficulty from time to time, and the more restrictive your own criteria the harder it may be.

Stick to your guns though, and you'll find someone.

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By *arciocialWoman over a year ago

Leicester

Yup and that's why I gave up on here.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Maybe they've read some of your other threads and they think they're not good enough for you!!

Indeed. OP has said that some of the ladies on here are arrogant

He has clearly forgotten his own posts

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"anybody else struggling on here? "

We all struggle on here finding what we want.

But OP, would you please get rid of the legal crap on your bio. It means nothing. And I can't speak for everyone, but when I see that on a bio I won't message them

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

We struggle to find a child free night when we can both go out to play

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By *HaRiFMan over a year ago

Beyond the shadows.

I suppose it can be a bit difficult to strike up a conversation over a message, I mean there's only so many way's you can brake the ice in a creative way. How many times do you find your self walking down the street or sitting in a bar and someone walk's up to you and rattles of a 4 page essay to brake the ice and introduce them self's.

In the real world a many conversations just start with a simple hello and I suppose many people come here and try to replicate that.

I would suggest you try the chat rooms, the initial conversational flow might be a little bit more like the real world (only a bit mind).

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"We struggle to find a child free night when we can both go out to play

I struggle as can't accommodate due to teenagers. Kids eh! Lol

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By *ilent.KnightMan over a year ago

Swindon

"I only meet after talking and connecting with somebody.

I'm on here for the sex don't get me wrong but I like to be friendly connect and have banter with women before we just get down and do it.

struggle to engage with some women especially the hot ones as they are very arrogant, probably due to the amount of men on here.

we're all on here for different reasons I guess "

It's easy to critique a fellow Fabber ... so I hope you take this in the way it's intended ...

Unless yr opening message is completely non sex related, I can see why a gal may think yr not looking for a deeper connection ...

Gals are gonna be cynical. Especially if someone looks too good to be true.

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By *oxy_minxWoman over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen

"I only meet after talking and connecting with somebody.

I'm on here for the sex don't get me wrong but I like to be friendly connect and have banter with women before we just get down and do it.

struggle to engage with some women especially the hot ones as they are very arrogant, probably due to the amount of men on here.

we're all on here for different reasons I guess

It's easy to critique a fellow Fabber ... so I hope you take this in the way it's intended ...

Unless yr opening message is completely non sex related, I can see why a gal may think yr not looking for a deeper connection ...

Gals are gonna be cynical. Especially if someone looks too good to be true. "

Yeap if anyone messages me in a first message and they mention sex? I give them a wide berth, as I am not here for a one time fuck and they can find someone else for that

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By *pider-WomanWoman over a year ago

Exeter, Bristol, Plymouth, Truro

"I only meet after talking and connecting with somebody.

I'm on here for the sex don't get me wrong but I like to be friendly connect and have banter with women before we just get down and do it.

This

struggle to engage with some women especially the hot ones as they are very arrogant, probably due to the amount of men on here.

we're all on here for different reasons I guess

It's easy to critique a fellow Fabber ... so I hope you take this in the way it's intended ...

Unless yr opening message is completely non sex related, I can see why a gal may think yr not looking for a deeper connection ...

Gals are gonna be cynical. Especially if someone looks too good to be true.

Yeap if anyone messages me in a first message and they mention sex? I give them a wide berth, as I am not here for a one time fuck and they can find someone else for that

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I only meet after talking and connecting with somebody.

I'm on here for the sex don't get me wrong but I like to be friendly connect and have banter with women before we just get down and do it.

This

struggle to engage with some women especially the hot ones as they are very arrogant, probably due to the amount of men on here.

we're all on here for different reasons I guess

It's easy to critique a fellow Fabber ... so I hope you take this in the way it's intended ...

Unless yr opening message is completely non sex related, I can see why a gal may think yr not looking for a deeper connection ...

Gals are gonna be cynical. Especially if someone looks too good to be true.

Yeap if anyone messages me in a first message and they mention sex? I give them a wide berth, as I am not here for a one time fuck and they can find someone else for that

"
same here

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By *sGivesWoodWoman over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL

I struggle, sticking to my regulars now as it's easier

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By *inky-MinxWoman over a year ago

Grantham

Not me

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

My working situation seems to be the biggest issue I suffer to be honest

I've not been as lucky to find ladies who are happy with the lifestyle and the fact I can only accommodate in hotels x

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Patience is the key lol

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Patience is the key lol"

This always makes me smile

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Patience is the key lol"

What he said.

Did you get it wrong the first time?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I struggle with my messages sometimes but that's about it I think

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By *unnoisseurMan over a year ago

Stratford

"Get ready for all the patronising replies op.

All men 'struggle'. Theres not as meny 'fish' as you and many men think there are. But there's a hell of a lot of men chasing the same woman as you.

Think yourself lucky if you get talking to one of them.

Totally agree

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Take it as it is let it flow , if looking hard you'll not see. if you have a nice garden butterflies will land

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Patience is the key lol

This always makes me smile

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Yes, it is fun

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Patience is the key lol

What he said.

Did you get it wrong the first time? "
Yes I did. I forgot the lol bit there.

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By *ilent.KnightMan over a year ago

Swindon

"Take it as it is let it flow , if looking hard you'll not see. if you have a nice garden butterflies will land "

I sniggered at *looking hard*

Although, that said, maybe there's truth in my childishness ...

Always fab when unaroused. Youll come off less one tracked.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I do the is just to much choice it's like being in a sweet shop

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Take it as it is let it flow , if looking hard you'll not see. if you have a nice garden butterflies will land

I sniggered at *looking hard*

Although, that said, maybe there's truth in my childishness ...

Always fab when unaroused. Youll come off less one tracked.

There's a couple meanings to the quote

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

No struggle at all....

I just sit quietly in the man cave

Watch the sunset on the waves talk to my dogs and dance on the beach in the moonlight..

Where's the struggle...

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Patience is the key lol

This always makes me smile

Yes, it is fun

If you ever leave fab, can I carry on this tradition?

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By *ady LickWoman over a year ago

Northampton Somewhere

"No struggle at all....

I just sit quietly in the man cave

Watch the sunset on the waves talk to my dogs and dance on the beach in the moonlight..

Where's the struggle..."

You spend a lot of time in your man cave!!!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Patience is the key lol

This always makes me smile

Yes, it is fun

If you ever leave fab, can I carry on this tradition?"
I will never leave, but yes you could do that if I do lol.

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By *r on the EdgeMan over a year ago

accrington

"anybody else struggling on here? "

Is this a joke?

You've got 5 meet veris and your profile says you're getting loads of messages!

Try swapping shoes with us guys who really are struggling - to date - not one meet- no veris and never had a message which isn't a reply

But good luck

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Patience is the key lol

This always makes me smile

Yes, it is fun

If you ever leave fab, can I carry on this tradition?I will never leave, but yes you could do that if I do lol."

It would be an honour

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"No struggle at all....

I just sit quietly in the man cave

Watch the sunset on the waves talk to my dogs and dance on the beach in the moonlight..

Where's the struggle..."

Do you dance on the beach naked

Just out of interest

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Patience is the key lol

This always makes me smile

Yes, it is fun

If you ever leave fab, can I carry on this tradition?I will never leave, but yes you could do that if I do lol."

YOU MUST never leave been to many I'm leaving threads lately , I cannot cope

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Patience is the key lol

This always makes me smile

Yes, it is fun

If you ever leave fab, can I carry on this tradition?I will never leave, but yes you could do that if I do lol.

YOU MUST never leave been to many I'm leaving threads lately , I cannot cope

"
I wont and you are right, lots of leaving ones lately too, the forum is comedy gold

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

i don't bother with people that have the legal bollocks on their profile, especially when it accounts for over half of the content. I'm sure other women feel the same and that could be a reason why you're struggling (in your words)

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Patience is the key lol

This always makes me smile

Yes, it is fun

If you ever leave fab, can I carry on this tradition?I will never leave, but yes you could do that if I do lol.

YOU MUST never leave been to many I'm leaving threads lately , I cannot cope

I wont and you are right, lots of leaving ones lately too, the forum is comedy gold

Phew , can sleep in peace now

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"No struggle at all....

I just sit quietly in the man cave

Watch the sunset on the waves talk to my dogs and dance on the beach in the moonlight..

Where's the struggle...

You spend a lot of time in your man cave!!!"

I wander out sometimes to buy the prosseco

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"No struggle at all....

I just sit quietly in the man cave

Watch the sunset on the waves talk to my dogs and dance on the beach in the moonlight..

Where's the struggle...

Do you dance on the beach naked

Just out of interest

Only one way to find out

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Patience is the key lol

This always makes me smile

Yes, it is fun

If you ever leave fab, can I carry on this tradition?I will never leave, but yes you could do that if I do lol.

YOU MUST never leave been to many I'm leaving threads lately , I cannot cope

I wont and you are right, lots of leaving ones lately too, the forum is comedy gold

Phew , can sleep in peace now

"
That is good and same here

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By *eesideMan over a year ago

margate sumwear by the sea

"anybody else struggling on here? "

Yes.

Been on hear almost a year now and I've still got no meets.

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By *isaB45Woman over a year ago

Fabville

OP's obsessed with orgies...4 threads in the last few days.

Seems a bit imature...

Got to love the green arrow

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Nope, I'm doing just fine

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I think I need a time machine to get in some people's age ranges

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By *revaunanceCouple over a year ago

Exeter

"Maybe they've read some of your other threads and they think they're not good enough for you!!

Indeed. OP has said that some of the ladies on here are arrogant

He has clearly forgotten his own posts"

Arrogance is saying you'll only meet the 'elite'.

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By *hechapMan over a year ago

Derry

Sometimes breathing can be a struggle if she sits on your face.

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By *ady LickWoman over a year ago

Northampton Somewhere

"Maybe they've read some of your other threads and they think they're not good enough for you!!

Indeed. OP has said that some of the ladies on here are arrogant

He has clearly forgotten his own posts

Arrogance is saying you'll only meet the 'elite'. "

Question or statement?

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By *revaunanceCouple over a year ago

Exeter

Statement. In our opinion at least.

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