He we have been approached by another very sexy couple with a very naughty idea of us wife and husband swapping for sex for 6 months
Rules of engagement are:
1 we only have sex with the wife or husband of the other couple during the time period
2 no sexual contact with your own partner
3 separate room sex only
4 we live with our own partners as usual.
Sounds kinky
Any thoughts guys?? |
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Think you could be treading on dangerous ground if you value your marriage..
Not saying she will, but people can find new company refreshing..you may even find emotions for your new part time partner.. Unexpected or not |
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"It's sex only
We would live as we do now but no sex with our own partners for six months
It's like couples cuckold foursome "
Doesn't matter... Comfort and new alternative perspectives can hold a funny way with human nature..
Not saying she, you, he will.. But can happen.. Prevention is better than cure where I come from |
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Then it's not as exciting
We really like the thought of no sex with our own partners
Imagine lying in bed knowing you can't have sex with your hubby
We've thought about Phone sex between both couples ??? |
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"It's sex only
We would live as we do now but no sex with our own partners for six months
It's like couples cuckold foursome "
Sex only ...what about the cuddles and kisses and knowing what that builds to with your own partner ..not for me ..but each to their own x Storm x |
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Sounds like a recipe for disaster to me but then I dont like the idea of Seperate rooms anyway. And the whole idea is to enhance your sex life not refuse each other and the biggest thrill after sex with someone else is the reclaim sex after.. or at least imho x
But its not for anyone else on here to decide. |
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6 months? That's seems a really long time to not have sex with your own partner. It wouldn't appeal to me at all, but we all like different things, I suppose. |
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I don't see the point personally. The swinger lifestyle as liberating and a way to enjoy fun with more people.
But this is limiting yourself to one person again... and not even the person you love!
Don't you think you'll get frustrated by not being able to have sex with your partner?
It just seems really counter productive 
It doesn't seem as though it would enhance anything between you and your partner. If anything you may find yourself feeling more distant from her if you're not able to be physical with her.
An emotional connection could form with the other woman if she is your only sexual partner for half a year.
It definitely could all go pear shaped. I couldn't do it myself. |
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If it's what you want to do, then weigh it up carefully and do it or not. Personally, I think it's got so many issues you need to be very careful. For most people this all works because it is NSA. You're proposing a huge string lasting 6 months.
I can't see the up side, and the negatives are huge.
Think carefully. |
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Week by week may be not long enough...but six months is a long time.
You asked what people think..... I'd go for a compromise period...like maybe a month? |
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"He we have been approached by another very sexy couple with a very naughty idea of us wife and husband swapping for sex for 6 months
Rules of engagement are:
1 we only have sex with the wife or husband of the other couple during the time period
2 no sexual contact with your own partner
3 separate room sex only
4 we live with our own partners as usual.
Sounds kinky
Any thoughts guys?? "
If you are all on the same page then go for it. You can chat with your partner's on a monthly basis and even the four of you and if at some point any of you aren't feeling of you can just go back to how it was originally. It might be the start of a beautiful friendship between the four of you. Imagine how good the sex will be with your hubby after 6 months oooft  |
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