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15 mins to half hour, depending on how much I really want to meet them, if they aren't keeping in touch en route and are late.
If they are and a plausible problem has come up, I'll wait longer.
No second chances if they don't. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"15 mins to half hour, depending on how much I really want to meet them, if they aren't keeping in touch en route and are late.
If they are and a plausible problem has come up, I'll wait longer.
No second chances if they don't."
Thanks ---- I'm in "benefit of doubt" mode right now... traffic etc and not being naughty texting while driving.... I'll give it a while longer, plus the beer is cold so is helping!  |
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"15 mins to half hour, depending on how much I really want to meet them, if they aren't keeping in touch en route and are late.
If they are and a plausible problem has come up, I'll wait longer.
No second chances if they don't.
Thanks ---- I'm in "benefit of doubt" mode right now... traffic etc and not being naughty texting while driving.... I'll give it a while longer, plus the beer is cold so is helping! "
Hey, if alcohol is involved I might wait all day. |
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I waited an hour once and later found out she arranged 2 meets at the same time with me and another guy
and they sat not far away watching me
she later told me she definitely made the right choice but wanted an apology from me for not meeting her
I did apologise but not sure what for
i often think about her |
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"I waited an hour once and later found out she arranged 2 meets at the same time with me and another guy
and they sat not far away watching me
she later told me she definitely made the right choice but wanted an apology from me for not meeting her
I did apologise but not sure what for
i often think about her "
That's awful.... and has actually made me look around... although we've already met once lol  |
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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago
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"I waited an hour once and later found out she arranged 2 meets at the same time with me and another guy
and they sat not far away watching me
she later told me she definitely made the right choice but wanted an apology from me for not meeting her
I did apologise but not sure what for
i often think about her "
Sorry? You apologised to her?! What the hell for, how bloody rude of her!! |
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"I waited an hour once and later found out she arranged 2 meets at the same time with me and another guy
and they sat not far away watching me
she later told me she definitely made the right choice but wanted an apology from me for not meeting her
I did apologise but not sure what for
i often think about her Sorry? You apologised to her?! What the hell for, how bloody rude of her!! "
More than rude isn't it..... if have been furious, how bloody humiliating!! |
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"I waited an hour once and later found out she arranged 2 meets at the same time with me and another guy
and they sat not far away watching me
she later told me she definitely made the right choice but wanted an apology from me for not meeting her
I did apologise but not sure what for
i often think about her Sorry? You apologised to her?! What the hell for, how bloody rude of her!!
More than rude isn't it..... if have been furious, how bloody humiliating!! "
Hope the beer's still going down well? |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I waited an hour once and later found out she arranged 2 meets at the same time with me and another guy
and they sat not far away watching me
she later told me she definitely made the right choice but wanted an apology from me for not meeting her
I did apologise but not sure what for
i often think about her Sorry? You apologised to her?! What the hell for, how bloody rude of her!!
More than rude isn't it..... if have been furious, how bloody humiliating!! "
Bloody egotistical slapper lol  |
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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago
ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL |
"I waited an hour once and later found out she arranged 2 meets at the same time with me and another guy
and they sat not far away watching me
she later told me she definitely made the right choice but wanted an apology from me for not meeting her
I did apologise but not sure what for
i often think about her Sorry? You apologised to her?! What the hell for, how bloody rude of her!!
More than rude isn't it..... if have been furious, how bloody humiliating!!
Bloody egotistical slapper lol "
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"If they haven't let me know they're running late I'm gone, I hate waiting around no matter who it is.
no man should ever keep a woman waiting kinmi"
No one should ever keep anyone waiting without excuses/notification..
It's arrogant,rude & I am certain deliberate on occasions..
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I waited an hour once and later found out she arranged 2 meets at the same time with me and another guy
and they sat not far away watching me
she later told me she definitely made the right choice but wanted an apology from me for not meeting her
I did apologise but not sure what for
i often think about her "
That was a brass neckand a half she had. CHeeky mare.
Reminds me of when a guy didn't show and when I emailed to ask why, he took two weeks to reply. I don't give out my house number - because of all the no-shows - so he said I was weird for expecting him to call me from the street to get my number. Obviously calling somebody on a mobile phone in the street screams, "Hey everybody, I'm a filthy tranny chaser going for bum sex with one right now!" Who knew? I should've apologised but I was in shock for days. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"I waited an hour once and later found out she arranged 2 meets at the same time with me and another guy
and they sat not far away watching me
she later told me she definitely made the right choice but wanted an apology from me for not meeting her
I did apologise but not sure what for
i often think about her Sorry? You apologised to her?! What the hell for, how bloody rude of her!!
More than rude isn't it..... if have been furious, how bloody humiliating!!
Hope the beer's still going down well?"
Yep it's not too bad - still not here, but it's a lovely place and the sun is out. Only problem it was a 40 minute drive, so I can't have another. Heading off in a sec! |
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"I waited an hour once and later found out she arranged 2 meets at the same time with me and another guy
and they sat not far away watching me
she later told me she definitely made the right choice but wanted an apology from me for not meeting her
I did apologise but not sure what for
i often think about her Sorry? You apologised to her?! What the hell for, how bloody rude of her!!
More than rude isn't it..... if have been furious, how bloody humiliating!!
Hope the beer's still going down well?"
I didn't have a beer I had a water as she told me to drive because if she liked me I could drop her off at her sisters |
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"I waited an hour once and later found out she arranged 2 meets at the same time with me and another guy
and they sat not far away watching me
she later told me she definitely made the right choice but wanted an apology from me for not meeting her
I did apologise but not sure what for
i often think about her Sorry? You apologised to her?! What the hell for, how bloody rude of her!!
More than rude isn't it..... if have been furious, how bloody humiliating!!
Hope the beer's still going down well?
Yep it's not too bad - still not here, but it's a lovely place and the sun is out. Only problem it was a 40 minute drive, so I can't have another. Heading off in a sec! "
Sorry it ended that way...on the plus side, you've started a good thread. Can't have too many of those. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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***Update***
Twas a no show.... however.... I've got my big boy pants on and it's her loss.... and on the plus side, I think I'll head to my local for a cold beverage |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Just no need for that, you can always text if running late. Of course, the person could have been involved in an accident, here's hoping not but If it's a deliberate no show its uncalled for. |
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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago
ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL |
"I waited an hour once and later found out she arranged 2 meets at the same time with me and another guy
and they sat not far away watching me
she later told me she definitely made the right choice but wanted an apology from me for not meeting her
I did apologise but not sure what for
i often think about her Sorry? You apologised to her?! What the hell for, how bloody rude of her!!
More than rude isn't it..... if have been furious, how bloody humiliating!!
Hope the beer's still going down well?
I didn't have a beer I had a water as she told me to drive because if she liked me I could drop her off at her sisters "
it gets worse,free taxi as well |
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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago
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"***Update***
Twas a no show.... however.... I've got my big boy pants on and it's her loss.... and on the plus side, I think I'll head to my local for a cold beverage "
report as a no show and block OP, sorry to hear this has happened, we aren't all like it x  |
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By *ENDAROOSCouple
over a year ago
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We'll usually wait for 30 mins or so.
If they've kept us updated and we feel they're being genuine, we might wait longer.
You can generally get a feel for someone stringing you along and those who are genuinely running late and who will show. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I waited an hour once and later found out she arranged 2 meets at the same time with me and another guy
and they sat not far away watching me
she later told me she definitely made the right choice but wanted an apology from me for not meeting her
I did apologise but not sure what for
i often think about her Sorry? You apologised to her?! What the hell for, how bloody rude of her!!
More than rude isn't it..... if have been furious, how bloody humiliating!!
Hope the beer's still going down well?
I didn't have a beer I had a water as she told me to drive because if she liked me I could drop her off at her sisters "
Bloody hell, she saw you coming, man up! Just teasing, she sounds delightful, not. Just no need to treat people like that, I'd say you had a luck escape. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"When you've got a social meet planned, they're aren't here... and you're giving them a chance haha...... "
if it's a Wetherspoons with cheap beer . up too 5 hours
if it's a hotel . as long as it takes to drink my pint . Then I'm off to the nearest Wetherspoons  |
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We traveled to a meet got to the restarant and the couple cancelled half though our drink saying she was ill then we decided to stay for a meal anyway then we saw them leave there hotel hand in hand didn't look ill to me |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"***Update***
Twas a no show.... however.... I've got my big boy pants on and it's her loss.... and on the plus side, I think I'll head to my local for a cold beverage report as a no show and block OP, sorry to hear this has happened, we aren't all like it x "
Hey it's no sweat Mrs W.... all good and I'm not going to cry like some people seen to do around here  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Just no need for that, you can always text if running late. Of course, the person could have been involved in an accident, here's hoping not but If it's a deliberate no show its uncalled for."
Yeah I aleays think there might be some serious reason - on this occasion apparently Not!! Thanks for posting though |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"***Update***
Twas a no show.... however.... I've got my big boy pants on and it's her loss.... and on the plus side, I think I'll head to my local for a cold beverage report as a no show and block OP, sorry to hear this has happened, we aren't all like it x "
Ya woody is punctual whenever I ask her to meet me , she will be well in advance and will be waiting for me in the forest with a pack of condoms in hand.. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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How long would depend on where we were waiting and how far we'd travelled. If it's a pub or cafe as long as it takes to have the first drink and unless we've heard from them with an ETA we would then make tracks. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Thanks for all the feedback guys and girls... much appreciated!
As it happens, had a good afternoon with friends so all good!
Guess the genuine tag is a tough one to wear sometimes, however all is good in the good!! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Hmmm she's just apologised and said she will meet again.....
What should i do?"
Ooo? Ready for round 2 eh?
I've never been that stupid a second time. That's when I wait for them to jump through my hoops. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Depends on what her excuse is for not turning up and why she didn't let you know sooner. If you do give her a second chance don't put yourself out in case she's a repeat offender. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Hmmm she's just apologised and said she will meet again.....
What should i do?"
Why you asking complete strangers what you should do ? yer a big boy now |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Hmmm she's just apologised and said she will meet again.....
What should i do? Why you asking complete strangers what you should do ? yer a big boy now "
Indeed I am... thank you for noticing |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Hmmm she's just apologised and said she will meet again.....
What should i do? Why you asking complete strangers what you should do ? yer a big boy now
Indeed I am... thank you for noticing "
yer welcome |
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By (user no longer on site)
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I wouldn't give her a second chance, she coulda let you know some how... 40min drive... Surely she had min 2 hrs to prewarn you she was gona chicken out?!...
How hot is she anyways??? Lol x |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Hmmm she's just apologised and said she will meet again.....
What should i do?
Tell her to do one! She's on a power trip and using you."
Or you were a back up plan. It takes 30 secs to send a text. Unless she's broken both arms there's no excuse. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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I chat up someone else at the meeting point, if she is late she can watch me leave with someone else
Second chance would depend on excuse and credibility. But I would probably delete and block without comment. |
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I once arranged to meet a man, not from Fab. I arrived early, waited and waited. Then I rang him, no answer, I rang again and eventually a man answered asking if I was his daughter, seems my date was involved in a serious traffic accident and was being airlifted to hospital and I had spoken to the paramedic. Six months later I met my date who was a complete disappointment. |
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By *ieman300Man
over a year ago
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"I once arranged to meet a man, not from Fab. I arrived early, waited and waited. Then I rang him, no answer, I rang again and eventually a man answered asking if I was his daughter, seems my date was involved in a serious traffic accident and was being airlifted to hospital and I had spoken to the paramedic. Six months later I met my date who was a complete disappointment."
Christ alive. So much roller coaster of emotion in so few words. |
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"I once arranged to meet a man, not from Fab. I arrived early, waited and waited. Then I rang him, no answer, I rang again and eventually a man answered asking if I was his daughter, seems my date was involved in a serious traffic accident and was being airlifted to hospital and I had spoken to the paramedic. Six months later I met my date who was a complete disappointment.
Christ alive. So much roller coaster of emotion in so few words."
Oh I was in bits for weeks, more so that he blamed me cos he was on his way to meet me, he said I was an expensive date. He was a twunt! |
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"Hmmm she's just apologised and said she will meet again.....
What should i do?"
I'd be inclined towards not meeting unless there were credible circumstances that prevailed. If there's any loss of respect for you, it should be a complete end to the relationship imo. |
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