depends, some like being polite some like fancy a fuck, some just choose to block willy nilly
it really is a no win situation at times on here lol but stick at it and i am sure it will come right
a few pics might help but that only cos i am a perv  |
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By *iewMan
over a year ago
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Polite is always the right thing to do, however... if you are out of their age range, sexuality, body shape, safe sex requirements... then that is maybe why you are blocked. |
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over a year ago
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Thing is mate, is that you don't know how they are feeling when they read your message.
If someone else has pissed them off, you could have had the shitty end of the stick, so to speak.
Also, your idea of polite, might not be there's  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"depends, some like being polite some like fancy a fuck, some just choose to block willy nilly
it really is a no win situation at times on here lol but stick at it and i am sure it will come right
a few pics might help but that only cos i am a perv "
I agree.
I love it when profiles ask you to "use your imagination" when messaging.
Lol. Asking for trouble!  |
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"if users not interested just say so blocking is to get rid of annoyin users not as a way of communcating "
any function of this site is to be used as the user sees fit lol
yo may only use the block function to get rid of annoying users, someone else might use it to eep them from contacting people they are not interested in or vice versa
you will find this site much more enjoyable if you just wory about how you use it and not how everyone else does |
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Sometimes someone you know for sure isnt your type, or has messed you about before gets blocked to save time having to read their profiles again. Though sometimes you can change your mind about some people. |
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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago
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"if users not interested just say so blocking is to get rid of annoyin users not as a way of communcating "
And yet, when I tell people I am not interested I get responses ranging from asking me why to calling me a pig. Blocking is easier. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"is been polite in your 1st message a sure way of gettin blocked and no reply after you fulfill all the listed standards of other user "
A quality first message with pictures is the only way to go. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Someone on here was realy pushy, when i changed my mind about meeting him he called me a weirdo. I didnt want to meet him cos he was so pushy. I have blocked him six times now cos he deletes his profile, then puts new one on. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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OP, your profile is a couple of lines long with no pics, honestly come on you know that's not gonna have women jumping on your cock, its says absolutely nothing about you.
And it doesn't matter if you feel you meet their criteria, that does not guarantee a reply or a meet.
Liken it to this. I saw a great job recently and I had all the qualifications they quoted and I could prove experience in relation to the job and person spec. So I sent my CV to them with hope in heart and thought about my inter_iew dress.
I didn't get a reply from them.
Now I had everything they asked but there was something they didn't like about my CV and how I portrayed myself on it.
So that's it, I move on, nothing gained from that particular job but there will be others. I'm a big girl, I can take rejection and I'm not bitter.
(Timewasting bastards, I really wanted that job, ah well their loss)  |
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"if users not interested just say so blocking is to get rid of annoyin users not as a way of communcating
any function of this site is to be used as the user sees fit lol
yo may only use the block function to get rid of annoying users, someone else might use it toY eep them from contacting people they are not interested in or vice versa
you will find this site much more enjoyable if you just wory about how you use it and not how everyone else does "
Couldn't have put it better myself! |
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"is been polite in your 1st message a sure way of gettin blocked and no reply after you fulfill all the listed standards of other user "
A polite first message is the correct approach. However, you have a 2-line profile and no pictures, so you are not 'standing out from the crowd'.
Perhaps you send pictures so that they can see whether or not they find you attractive. And perhaps you send very long messages to demonstrate that you 'fulfill all the listed standards'. But for goodness sake, why not put these on your profile!
Some men seem to hide behind 'generic' profiles, so that they can pretend to be someone they're not, just to get a meet. Don't risk rejection by being seen as one of them! |
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"is been polite in your 1st message a sure way of gettin blocked and no reply after you fulfill all the listed standards of other user
A polite first message is the correct approach. However, you have a 2-line profile and no pictures, so you are not 'standing out from the crowd'.
Perhaps you send pictures so that they can see whether or not they find you attractive. And perhaps you send very long messages to demonstrate that you 'fulfill all the listed standards'. But for goodness sake, why not put these on your profile!
Some men seem to hide behind 'generic' profiles, so that they can pretend to be someone they're not, just to get a meet. Don't risk rejection by being seen as one of them! "
*Nods in agreement* |
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