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over a year ago
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My other half is totally off sex its doing my head in once a month is just not enough !!! Any tips on how i can get her in the mood haha... female viagra ?? |
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"My other half is totally off sex its doing my head in once a month is just not enough !!! Any tips on how i can get her in the mood haha... female viagra ?? "
Does she get excited at the thought of you being on here looking to have sex with others? |
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Without knowing the dynamic of your relationship it's hard to know. There are plenty of reasons she may not be in the mood.
Tired
Unappreciated
Hormones
Not really feeling herself
Stress
The list goes on and on |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"My other half is totally off sex its doing my head in once a month is just not enough !!! Any tips on how i can get her in the mood haha... female viagra ?? "
Women can go off sex for many reasons. Medical, hormonal, stress etc.
The best thing you can do is give her your time and patience. Talk to her about your problems. Find the reason and help resolve together. |
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"My other half is totally off sex its doing my head in once a month is just not enough !!! Any tips on how i can get her in the mood haha... female viagra ?? "
She can't be off sex that much she has tons of veris on her single female profile  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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So she obviously enjoys sex then..have a look at yourself. .not a criticism btw...make her want you..take a bit of the strain of everyday life off her..make her feel good and spoil her..not just for sex ...but all the time...bet you get a different result then..  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"My other half is totally off sex its doing my head in once a month is just not enough !!! Any tips on how i can get her in the mood haha... female viagra ??
Women can go off sex for many reasons. Medical, hormonal, stress etc.
The best thing you can do is give her your time and patience. Talk to her about your problems. Find the reason and help resolve together. "
I've been trying that for a number of years. We're going away for a holiday soon so plan on pepping it up. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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There have been times I've not really felt that sexy or in the mood.
Have you tried massage? Say there's no agenda - you might want to but don't push it - and spend an hour or so, candle lit room, get massage oil and get down to your undies.
That direct skin to skin feeling is wonderful.
Nothing might happen then but you'll get intimately closer and it's more likely to happen at some point  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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It's you. Trust me. I hated the build up of sex with my ex but when we did I'd think of someone else. Helped heaps to get wet. Sometimes imagined it was a complete random stranger. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Don't push the issue, be spontaneously romantic, show her that you want her for her as well as when you're horny.
As others have said could be a number of things like stress, hormones etc, you just have to help her find her mojo again.
My ex did the same thing, she had hit a slump of low self esteem and gone of sex completely, I asked a couple of friends and they gave me the same advice I said at the top and worked wanders, not saying it's the same for everyone but a little love and support goes a long way  good luck! |
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By *rrol.BMan
over a year ago
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"My other half is totally off sex its doing my head in once a month is just not enough !!! Any tips on how i can get her in the mood haha... female viagra ?? "
I don my special hat, a few feathers and perform an erotic dance.
A little undulation, a little gyration, a twist, a twirl, a thrust.
Umph.
It's sexing time. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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I've been trying that for a number of years. We're going away for a holiday soon so plan on pepping it up. "
I've recently just changed my pill and that's completely put me off sex.  |
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I've been trying that for a number of years. We're going away for a holiday soon so plan on pepping it up.
I've recently just changed my pill and that's completely put me off sex. "
She's not on the pill. She says she's gone off it as she doesn't feel sexy anymore. I encourage her to no avail. |
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"My other half is totally off sex its doing my head in once a month is just not enough !!! Any tips on how i can get her in the mood haha... female viagra ?? "
Make the effort!
Set an evening aside, run a hot bath, with bath soaks, candles and a glass of wine.
while she's in it start on tea, nice relaxing music, conversation.
Lead her upstairs and give her a sensual massage, don't rush anything and she'll likely reciprocate.
Make love to her don't fuck her. |
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By *ickawitchCouple
over a year ago
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"There have been times I've not really felt that sexy or in the mood.
Have you tried massage? Say there's no agenda - you might want to but don't push it - and spend an hour or so, candle lit room, get massage oil and get down to your undies.
That direct skin to skin feeling is wonderful.
Nothing might happen then but you'll get intimately closer and it's more likely to happen at some point "
This is perfect! You need to do this - closeness with no agenda. It works wonders and makes girls feel loved up |
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"There have been times I've not really felt that sexy or in the mood.
Have you tried massage? Say there's no agenda - you might want to but don't push it - and spend an hour or so, candle lit room, get massage oil and get down to your undies.
That direct skin to skin feeling is wonderful.
Nothing might happen then but you'll get intimately closer and it's more likely to happen at some point
This is perfect! You need to do this - closeness with no agenda. It works wonders and makes girls feel loved up "
And we mean no agenda!!
The odd soft kiss but no pressure. |
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