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By *rCurious1 OP Man
over a year ago
North Yorkshire |
"Still do it the old fashioned way. Arrange a social with someone, see if there is any chemistry and go from there. Relax and have fun  "
Is it not easy to find out if your compatible socially and sexually on here first.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Sure but that is true of all hook up, dating, swinger sites hence why a social is a good idea. if nothing else you may make a friend or just enjoy some banter. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Maybe put a few more pics up. Let the ladies see this athletic body you say you have.
A main picture may help too "
This... and maybe lose the bit o your profile that says you're not bothered about getting meets on here.... why on earth would anyone want to meet someone who isnt bothered about meets.?!?!  |
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By *rCurious1 OP Man
over a year ago
North Yorkshire |
"Maybe put a few more pics up. Let the ladies see this athletic body you say you have.
A main picture may help too
This... and maybe lose the bit o your profile that says you're not bothered about getting meets on here.... why on earth would anyone want to meet someone who isnt bothered about meets.?!?! "
Not desperate lol not after every mouse in the field haha
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Maybe put a few more pics up. Let the ladies see this athletic body you say you have.
A main picture may help too
To be honest I have pics and will happily share but publicly lol"
Your on that net, it's rare words with catch an eye. A pic that stands out will grab attention. The rest is how well you connect |
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"Still do it the old fashioned way. Arrange a social with someone, see if there is any chemistry and go from there. Relax and have fun
Is it not easy to find out if your compatible socially and sexually on here first.
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Yes it is.
That's what, messages & cams are for.
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By *rCurious1 OP Man
over a year ago
North Yorkshire |
"Maybe put a few more pics up. Let the ladies see this athletic body you say you have.
A main picture may help too
To be honest I have pics and will happily share but publicly lol
Your on that net, it's rare words with catch an eye. A pic that stands out will grab attention. The rest is how well you connect "
You have a valid point
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By *aelawMan
over a year ago
Paisley |
Just browse around for a profile you like. Send a message and see if they message back, rinse and repeat.
Always meet socially first. If you don't get on then always be honest. Polite, but honest  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Maybe put a few more pics up. Let the ladies see this athletic body you say you have.
A main picture may help too
This... and maybe lose the bit o your profile that says you're not bothered about getting meets on here.... why on earth would anyone want to meet someone who isnt bothered about meets.?!?!
Not desperate lol not after every mouse in the field haha
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Wanting a meet from here doesnt make you desperate 
But saying you aint bothered isnt going to attract many to chat...and pics will help... doesnt have to be face |
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By *rCurious1 OP Man
over a year ago
North Yorkshire |
"Just browse around for a profile you like. Send a message and see if they message back, rinse and repeat.
Always meet socially first. If you don't get on then always be honest. Polite, but honest "
Could try it that way lol
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Just browse around for a profile you like. Send a message and see if they message back, rinse and repeat.
Always meet socially first. If you don't get on then always be honest. Polite, but honest "
Oh bloody hell...
Rinse and repeat!!
Pffffft  |
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By *aelawMan
over a year ago
Paisley |
"Just browse around for a profile you like. Send a message and see if they message back, rinse and repeat.
Always meet socially first. If you don't get on then always be honest. Polite, but honest
Oh bloody hell...
Rinse and repeat!!
Pffffft "
Can you tell I work in IT :O *chuckles* |
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By *rCurious1 OP Man
over a year ago
North Yorkshire |
"Just browse around for a profile you like. Send a message and see if they message back, rinse and repeat.
Always meet socially first. If you don't get on then always be honest. Polite, but honest
Oh bloody hell...
Rinse and repeat!!
Pffffft "
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By *ENGUYMan
over a year ago
Hull |
OP. You are sending out mixed messages. You want to meet people but then say you're not bothered about meeting people off FAB.
Come on, you can't have it both ways!
You can't accommodate but don't say why so that puts people off.
You have no Public pics on your profile but don't say why!
Overall, you aren't "selling yourself" at all well and that is the crux of the site. You have to put in the effort to make yourself stand out against all the other 100'side of guys all seeking the same thing.
Get out to clubs and socials of which there are a few in Hull on a regular basis.
You put in an effort and it will pay off.
Good luck. |
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By *rCurious1 OP Man
over a year ago
North Yorkshire |
"Maybe put a few more pics up. Let the ladies see this athletic body you say you have.
A main picture may help too
This... and maybe lose the bit o your profile that says you're not bothered about getting meets on here.... why on earth would anyone want to meet someone who isnt bothered about meets.?!?!
Not desperate lol not after every mouse in the field haha
Wanting a meet from here doesnt make you desperate
But saying you aint bothered isnt going to attract many to chat...and pics will help... doesnt have to be face"
I will take your advice x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Maybe put a few more pics up. Let the ladies see this athletic body you say you have.
A main picture may help too
This... and maybe lose the bit o your profile that says you're not bothered about getting meets on here.... why on earth would anyone want to meet someone who isnt bothered about meets.?!?!
Not desperate lol not after every mouse in the field haha
Wanting a meet from here doesnt make you desperate
But saying you aint bothered isnt going to attract many to chat...and pics will help... doesnt have to be face"
Ok this is where most men are going wrong. We have a woman advising you, the sex you want a meet from right!
You still won't listen.
So I will say it. It's true. Why say you don't care about meeting. It's like you know you won't get a meet so you've thrown in the towel.
Keep your profile positive, load some eye grabbing pics, see what happens. |
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By *rCurious1 OP Man
over a year ago
North Yorkshire |
"Maybe put a few more pics up. Let the ladies see this athletic body you say you have.
A main picture may help too
This... and maybe lose the bit o your profile that says you're not bothered about getting meets on here.... why on earth would anyone want to meet someone who isnt bothered about meets.?!?!
Not desperate lol not after every mouse in the field haha
Wanting a meet from here doesnt make you desperate
But saying you aint bothered isnt going to attract many to chat...and pics will help... doesnt have to be face
Ok this is where most men are going wrong. We have a woman advising you, the sex you want a meet from right!
You still won't listen.
So I will say it. It's true. Why say you don't care about meeting. It's like you know you won't get a meet so you've thrown in the towel.
Keep your profile positive, load some eye grabbing pics, see what happens. "
I have taken the ladies advice and changed it |
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By *rCurious1 OP Man
over a year ago
North Yorkshire |
"OP. You are sending out mixed messages. You want to meet people but then say you're not bothered about meeting people off FAB.
Come on, you can't have it both ways!
You can't accommodate but don't say why so that puts people off.
You have no Public pics on your profile but don't say why!
Overall, you aren't "selling yourself" at all well and that is the crux of the site. You have to put in the effort to make yourself stand out against all the other 100'side of guys all seeking the same thing.
Get out to clubs and socials of which there are a few in Hull on a regular basis.
You put in an effort and it will pay off.
Good luck."
thanks |
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