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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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When you send a message to females/couples/men 
Do you wait for it to be read? Or delete straight away, and if you get a reply then it's a nice surprise?
This can be open to females too.. but it seems men are he ones always complaining about no replies. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"When you send a message to females/couples/men
Do you wait for it to be read? Or delete straight away, and if you get a reply then it's a nice surprise?
This can be open to females too.. but it seems men are he ones always complaining about no replies. "
Sorry, I'm clearly not a man (  ) but I don't get hung up on who replies to me or not ... personally I think if you stress about that you shouldn't be a Fab member |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"When you send a message to females/couples/men
Do you wait for it to be read? Or delete straight away, and if you get a reply then it's a nice surprise?
This can be open to females too.. but it seems men are he ones always complaining about no replies.
Sorry, I'm clearly not a man ( ) but I don't get hung up on who replies to me or not ... personally I think if you stress about that you shouldn't be a Fab member"
Sorry.not thread related but I totally thought I had replied but forgotten when I saw your username!!  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Sorry.not thread related but I totally thought I had replied but forgotten when I saw your username!! "
Did I send you a message then?
I personally delete after sending, that way I am not disappointed if it gets read and no reply/deleted.
Hope to see a full inbox one day though |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Waiting for a reply or them to read, would be like waiting for paint to dry 
I just send & carry on perving, Fabbing or whatever other shenanigans i was upto |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Sorry.not thread related but I totally thought I had replied but forgotten when I saw your username!!
Did I send you a message then?
I personally delete after sending, that way I am not disappointed if it gets read and no reply/deleted.
Hope to see a full inbox one day though "
Sorry that was to the lady who replied before me with an almost identical username to mine! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I never check my outbox,if I get a reply to a message then great,if not then they're obviously not interested.I fail to see why some people make such an issue out of it  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"When you send a message to females/couples/men
Do you wait for it to be read? Or delete straight away, and if you get a reply then it's a nice surprise?
This can be open to females too.. but it seems men are he ones always complaining about no replies.
Sorry, I'm clearly not a man ( ) but I don't get hung up on who replies to me or not ... personally I think if you stress about that you shouldn't be a Fab member
Sorry.not thread related but I totally thought I had replied but forgotten when I saw your username!! "
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I've sent a total of 4 messages in 1 year. 2 straight deletes, 1 unread, 1 reply. I've only contacted women in my area, and have only seen one profile that made me think we were a good match (she was one who straight deleted my message - my profile was visible when I sent the messages). If I'd sent hundreds of messages I'd probably be passé about it all, but I genuinely looked to see if the messages had been read. I don't send messages now, just read the forums, hence why my profile is hidden. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Always get more fun on the club we go to... but just started to use my single profile more, see of there's any local ladies/couples that I may like to chat to.... only a few so far |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Oooh twins!
Or 2 of 69 sisters?
Yes. There are 69 of us. We totally disowned the 70th!
Quickly changing username to minxymoo101  "
Damn the ancestry . Com malarky!! |
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By *tep121Man
over a year ago
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I leave The message till it's been read and ignored or just deleted.
I know women get inundated with messages so I give them time to read them. I only send messages to those that either wink me or have viewed my profile, after I've read there's..
Still don't get a reply though.. even if they wink at me...  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Oooh twins!
Or 2 of 69 sisters?
Yes. There are 69 of us. We totally disowned the 70th!
Quickly changing username to minxymoo101 "
It's an exclusive club of 69 ... I just made it!!  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Oooh twins!
Or 2 of 69 sisters?
Yes. There are 69 of us. We totally disowned the 70th!
Quickly changing username to minxymoo101
It's an exclusive club of 69 ... I just made it!! "
Boo hoo hoo, thought I might have found some kinky step sisters |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Oooh twins!
Or 2 of 69 sisters?
Yes. There are 69 of us. We totally disowned the 70th!
Quickly changing username to minxymoo101
It's an exclusive club of 69 ... I just made it!!
Boo hoo hoo, thought I might have found some kinky step sisters "
Well, we could hold interviews...  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Oooh twins!
Or 2 of 69 sisters?
Yes. There are 69 of us. We totally disowned the 70th!
Quickly changing username to minxymoo101
It's an exclusive club of 69 ... I just made it!!
Boo hoo hoo, thought I might have found some kinky step sisters
Well, we could hold interviews... "
Can't even send you my resume |
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Never delete mails anyway but always check to see if they've been read. Only ever message people I'd like a reply from, though often disappointed as some others have said, always good to get a message but I think my record on logging in is a fairly sad 3 |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Send it forget it and when outbox is getting full delete it...
Otherwise if I get a reply I've probably forgotten what message I had sent...
Not often they change colour though... |
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"When you send a message to females/couples/men
Do you wait for it to be read? Or delete straight away, and if you get a reply then it's a nice surprise?
This can be open to females too.. but it seems men are he ones always complaining about no replies. "
I leave the message in my sent folder for 2 weeks. If it hasn't been read by then, experience shows it probably won't get read, so I delete it then. Most commonly, a message from me will be read, and ignored, or read then straight delete.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"When you send a message to females/couples/men
Do you wait for it to be read? Or delete straight away, and if you get a reply then it's a nice surprise?
This can be open to females too.. but it seems men are he ones always complaining about no replies.
I leave the message in my sent folder for 2 weeks. If it hasn't been read by then, experience shows it probably won't get read, so I delete it then. Most commonly, a message from me will be read, and ignored, or read then straight delete. "
To not sound ignorant, I delete a site been sent. If the reply comes then it comes.
What's the point in continuously checking to see if the message has been read.
Too much time in your hands for all that mate. Not trying tonne rude either. |
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"When you send a message to females/couples/men
Do you wait for it to be read? Or delete straight away, and if you get a reply then it's a nice surprise?
This can be open to females too.. but it seems men are he ones always complaining about no replies.
I leave the message in my sent folder for 2 weeks. If it hasn't been read by then, experience shows it probably won't get read, so I delete it then. Most commonly, a message from me will be read, and ignored, or read then straight delete.
To not sound ignorant, I delete a site been sent. If the reply comes then it comes.
What's the point in continuously checking to see if the message has been read.
Too much time in your hands for all that mate. Not trying tonne rude either. "
What works for one, doesn't necessarily work for another. I just do what I do |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"When you send a message to females/couples/men
Do you wait for it to be read? Or delete straight away, and if you get a reply then it's a nice surprise?
This can be open to females too.. but it seems men are he ones always complaining about no replies.
I leave the message in my sent folder for 2 weeks. If it hasn't been read by then, experience shows it probably won't get read, so I delete it then. Most commonly, a message from me will be read, and ignored, or read then straight delete.
To not sound ignorant, I delete a site been sent. If the reply comes then it comes.
What's the point in continuously checking to see if the message has been read.
Too much time in your hands for all that mate. Not trying tonne rude either.
What works for one, doesn't necessarily work for another. I just do what I do "
I wasn't exactly knocking what you do, just asking what's the point. Like let's say after 8 days, they've been online, haven't looked at your message, you still holding out for the 14 days lol |
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"When you send a message to females/couples/men
Do you wait for it to be read? Or delete straight away, and if you get a reply then it's a nice surprise?
This can be open to females too.. but it seems men are he ones always complaining about no replies.
I leave the message in my sent folder for 2 weeks. If it hasn't been read by then, experience shows it probably won't get read, so I delete it then. Most commonly, a message from me will be read, and ignored, or read then straight delete.
To not sound ignorant, I delete a site been sent. If the reply comes then it comes.
What's the point in continuously checking to see if the message has been read.
Too much time in your hands for all that mate. Not trying tonne rude either.
What works for one, doesn't necessarily work for another. I just do what I do
I wasn't exactly knocking what you do, just asking what's the point. Like let's say after 8 days, they've been online, haven't looked at your message, you still holding out for the 14 days lol"
If I impart all my secrets, you may end up as successful as I am |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"When you send a message to females/couples/men
Do you wait for it to be read? Or delete straight away, and if you get a reply then it's a nice surprise?
This can be open to females too.. but it seems men are he ones always complaining about no replies.
I leave the message in my sent folder for 2 weeks. If it hasn't been read by then, experience shows it probably won't get read, so I delete it then. Most commonly, a message from me will be read, and ignored, or read then straight delete.
To not sound ignorant, I delete a site been sent. If the reply comes then it comes.
What's the point in continuously checking to see if the message has been read.
Too much time in your hands for all that mate. Not trying tonne rude either.
What works for one, doesn't necessarily work for another. I just do what I do
I wasn't exactly knocking what you do, just asking what's the point. Like let's say after 8 days, they've been online, haven't looked at your message, you still holding out for the 14 days lol
If I impart all my secrets, you may end up as successful as I am "
Don't allow your internet success define you as a man.
I'm new to this. Majority of your verifications are outside my age range.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Wait for it to be read but my messages have got shorter due to lack of replies. They ask you to pay attention to their profiles but then don't acknowledge your message...frustrating when you take the time and they can't even say, sorry no thanks! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Send then wait a couple of years then think " fuck em they are not having my cock now " "
There is some sense in there somewhere, not sure where but there is |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I'm like a guy as men can't message me. So I have to put in the legwork. My tactic is to message. Wait 1 minute. Then reply to the message they speedily send back |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Wait for it to be read but my messages have got shorter due to lack of replies. They ask you to pay attention to their profiles but then don't acknowledge your message...frustrating when you take the time and they can't even say, sorry no thanks! "
This has been discussed hundreds of times females dont reply with a no thanks due to the either why nots or the conversations were the guy either tries to change that no or they get abusive so a no reply is your no Ty female replying |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I'm like a guy as men can't message me. So I have to put in the legwork. My tactic is to message. Wait 1 minute. Then reply to the message they speedily send back "
You must have too many messages to answer mine |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I'm like a guy as men can't message me. So I have to put in the legwork. My tactic is to message. Wait 1 minute. Then reply to the message they speedily send back
You must have too many messages to answer mine"
Shit!busted!! . I was busy talking bins. I'm heading over there now |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Wait for it to be read but my messages have got shorter due to lack of replies. They ask you to pay attention to their profiles but then don't acknowledge your message...frustrating when you take the time and they can't even say, sorry no thanks! This has been discussed hundreds of times females dont reply with a no thanks due to the either why nots or the conversations were the guy either tries to change that no or they get abusive so a no reply is your no Ty female replying "
This is obviously the case, but no reply is pure ignorant. No thank you would at least be polite after someone has taken time to read a profile and respond accordingly to requests made.
But hey, women have the power! Lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Wait for it to be read but my messages have got shorter due to lack of replies. They ask you to pay attention to their profiles but then don't acknowledge your message...frustrating when you take the time and they can't even say, sorry no thanks! This has been discussed hundreds of times females dont reply with a no thanks due to the either why nots or the conversations were the guy either tries to change that no or they get abusive so a no reply is your no Ty female replying
This is obviously the case, but no reply is pure ignorant. No thank you would at least be polite after someone has taken time to read a profile and respond accordingly to requests made.
But hey, women have the power! Lol "
Now you're getting it |
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