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Quinsy....would it put you off..xx
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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I just cancelled a meet with a man not on Fab, as he messaged me last night and said he has Quinsy, so can't do oral. That didn't bother me but I looked up Quinsy, turns out its puss in tonsil area, it put me right off. Plus I was worried I might catch an infection as it says bacteria is passed through kissing. Would it put you off...it was a man I have chatted to for a while and I feel a bit bad backing out but I don't want to catch anything xxx |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"To be honest I'm surprised he didn't suggest postponing until it was all cleared up. I would have certainly done the same as you in this situation."
Most definitely |
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By *aelawMan
over a year ago
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You were definitely in the right to cancel if you felt uneasy about it. A little surprised he didn't mention until it was time to arrange a meet.
I have a colostomy and I take the approach of being open and honest about it from the get go. Then we don't have to go through those awkward moments :D |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"You were definitely in the right to cancel if you felt uneasy about it. A little surprised he didn't mention until it was time to arrange a meet.
I have a colostomy and I take the approach of being open and honest about it from the get go. Then we don't have to go through those awkward moments :D"
I would meet a man with a colostomy no problem , but as you say it's best to be upfront. XXX |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Am sure he will be well pleased reading this !
She states hes not on Fab.
Fair enough.
It's early and I haven't got my thinking head on."
Iv been up 4 hours, 2 at work so iv not got that excuse lol |
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"I just cancelled a meet with a man not on Fab, as he messaged me last night and said he has Quinsy, so can't do oral. That didn't bother me but I looked up Quinsy, turns out its puss in tonsil area, it put me right off. Plus I was worried I might catch an infection as it says bacteria is passed through kissing. Would it put you off...it was a man I have chatted to for a while and I feel a bit bad backing out but I don't want to catch anything xxx"
Poor guy I've had it and it's nasty. Biggest needle I've ever seen. I thought it was a cold until I drank and it came out my nose. Proper blocked throat |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Every right to take a rain check if someone's poorly. I've had to do that a few times in the past.
Maybe you could have a social if either of you don't want to let each other down?? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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It's similar to tonsillitis, but a hell of a lot worse. Usually you are admitted to hospital to treat it, don't know why anyone would want to meet while suffering with it. I had a bad case of tonsillitis that they suspected was quinsy and I seriously couldn't even move of the sofa. My temp was 40 and I have never felt so unwell. So yep I would postpone until he's well again
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Stay well away. I had it as a teenager. Two weeks off school, mostly semi conscious in bed. Could not lift my head off the pillow, eat or drink very much. It was agony. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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When i had quinsey there is no way in hell i could have met anyone! Definitely right to pull out!
I pulled out of one when i asked how he was the morning of he told me he had a hangover! I like my playmates to be at their best  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I just cancelled a meet with a man not on Fab, as he messaged me last night and said he has Quinsy, so can't do oral. That didn't bother me but I looked up Quinsy, turns out its puss in tonsil area, it put me right off. Plus I was worried I might catch an infection as it says bacteria is passed through kissing. Would it put you off...it was a man I have chatted to for a while and I feel a bit bad backing out but I don't want to catch anything xxx"
i get this . It's not nice. Usually I have to go into hospital on a drip for a few days . Your throat closes up . Its not a pleasant experience at all. Not had it for 3 years now
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