Does anyone suffer from this and struggles to stay hard within sight of a condom ?
And if you or your partner have suffered with this in the past have you got any useful tips to get over this problem?
(Obviously I'm asking for a friend as I no longer have my penis since the opp !  but i don't think he is ready to lose it completely!)  |
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over a year ago
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I have a phobia of a woman with long nails stretching the condom to put it on me as you would a balloon over a jar. Freaks me out wondering if that's what she's going to do  hah |
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My hubby has this problem as he hates the texture and smell of anything rubber, he can't touch them! But, alas, they are essential, so he concentrates more on other aspects of play until he gets to the "point of no return!" where his cock is so hard nothing can make it go! That's when I step in with the dreaded condom and slip it on for him and guide him into the other fem which adds to his excitement! Problem solved  xx |
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"I have a phobia of a woman with long nails stretching the condom to put it on me as you would a balloon over a jar. Freaks me out wondering if that's what she's going to do hah"
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over a year ago
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On a serious note, have you tried femidoms? It might help him relax and not have to think about condom pressure.
That is, if the femidom doesn't scare him - I know some men can be put off by a contraceptive that can be used as a stunt kite. |
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By *ieman300Man
over a year ago
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"I had this for a while. Posh wank every day sorted it out though - need to break the psychological aspect of the condom. "
Yup. Posh wank to get used to it. It is very much a mind thing. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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" stunt kite.
Lol
I will have to stay an advice thread on femidoms now!! As I have never used them! "
They come in three sizes - small, medium, and not on a windy day |
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" stunt kite.
Lol
I will have to stay an advice thread on femidoms now!! As I have never used them!
They come in three sizes - small, medium, and not on a windy day "
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"My hubby has this problem as he hates the texture and smell of anything rubber, he can't touch them! But, alas, they are essential, so he concentrates more on other aspects of play until he gets to the "point of no return!" where his cock is so hard nothing can make it go! That's when I step in with the dreaded condom and slip it on for him and guide him into the other fem which adds to his excitement! Problem solved xx "
That sounds a great problem solving method (and very horny too). |
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"My hubby has this problem as he hates the texture and smell of anything rubber, he can't touch them! But, alas, they are essential, so he concentrates more on other aspects of play until he gets to the "point of no return!" where his cock is so hard nothing can make it go! That's when I step in with the dreaded condom and slip it on for him and guide him into the other fem which adds to his excitement! Problem solved xx "
have you tried the non latex ones? They may help xx skyns my fave x |
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I can have this trouble if I end up faffing around with it for too long. A little attention from the lady in question usually resolves the issue
I remember one woman had a couple of condoms on the nightstand ready but was occupying herself with giving me a wonderful blowjob. All of a sudden she took her mouth off me, straddled me and I was inside her!! I thought bloody hell, she's gone bareback but I looked and realised I had the condom on! She'd put it on with her mouth but I'd never even seen her open the packet. The best sleight of hand I've ever witnessed |
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Lots of guys are better endowed than they realise and use condoms that are too small.
This makes them too tight and he is then very much aware that he has one on.
Try a bigger size guys. Feel happier in the knowledge that you're 'hung'.
A condom should cover your whole shaft not stop part way down and once it's on and you're inside someone you shouldn't really be able to tell you're wearing it. |
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"I can have this trouble if I end up faffing around with it for too long. A little attention from the lady in question usually resolves the issue
I remember one woman had a couple of condoms on the nightstand ready but was occupying herself with giving me a wonderful blowjob. All of a sudden she took her mouth off me, straddled me and I was inside her!! I thought bloody hell, she's gone bareback but I looked and realised I had the condom on! She'd put it on with her mouth but I'd never even seen her open the packet. The best sleight of hand I've ever witnessed "
That's talent!  |
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We haven't used them in forever as no need between us. In anticipation of new activities we've been trialling a few brands. Despite Mr's protests at not liking them and taking ages to come, I haven't noticed him having any trouble! Feels quite a novelty too  |
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"My hubby has this problem as he hates the texture and smell of anything rubber, he can't touch them! But, alas, they are essential, so he concentrates more on other aspects of play until he gets to the "point of no return!" where his cock is so hard nothing can make it go! That's when I step in with the dreaded condom and slip it on for him and guide him into the other fem which adds to his excitement! Problem solved xx have you tried the non latex ones? They may help xx skyns my fave x "
Ive actually recently purchased some of these but are yet to try them out  x |
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"My hubby has this problem as he hates the texture and smell of anything rubber, he can't touch them! But, alas, they are essential, so he concentrates more on other aspects of play until he gets to the "point of no return!" where his cock is so hard nothing can make it go! That's when I step in with the dreaded condom and slip it on for him and guide him into the other fem which adds to his excitement! Problem solved xx have you tried the non latex ones? They may help xx skyns my fave x
Ive actually recently purchased some of these but are yet to try them out x "
These are so far my favourite. Lovely and soft |
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Skyns are good for not having the latex smell. That is also very handy when swapping he might be wearing one for a bit, then whipping it off for same partner or oral. On a meet it's easy to go through 3 or more before coming, so it's handy to be comfortable with them. |
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As soon as those guys who claim latex allergies show, give them some non-latex ones - they're widely available, including from clinics.
Professional workers can put those things on them in a blink of an eye apparently. |
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I used to find condoms a massive turn off. Then I realised the brand I was using were too small, and too thick. So I posh wanked my way through a selection pack and discovered what a huge difference there was. Skyns, in the right size, were an absolute revelation. They let me stay hard for so much longer... Now I don't go anywhere without 'em |
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By *hechapMan
over a year ago
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"Does anyone suffer from this and struggles to stay hard within sight of a condom ?
And if you or your partner have suffered with this in the past have you got any useful tips to get over this problem?
(Obviously I'm asking for a friend as I no longer have my penis since the opp ! but i don't think he is ready to lose it completely!) "
A phobia of catching STDs would be much better to have.
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"Does anyone suffer from this and struggles to stay hard within sight of a condom ?
And if you or your partner have suffered with this in the past have you got any useful tips to get over this problem?
(Obviously I'm asking for a friend as I no longer have my penis since the opp ! but i don't think he is ready to lose it completely!)
A phobia of catching STDs would be much better to have.
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Yes he has that too ... That's why he wants to fix it!! |
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"yes, causes me to got soft second its on, then causes it to itchy for about a week or so, also wont cum when ones on. "
If it leaves you itchy for a week it sounds like you have a sensitivity to latex.
As has been suggested earlier in the thread try skyns latex free. |
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