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Pregnant fabber!!! Should this be allowed

By *uby100 OP Couple over a year ago

caerphilly

Was just wondering what's people's opinions on a lady who's stated she is pregnant on her profile and looking for naughty fun. I know we are all entitled to do what we want with our own bodies but Surely this isn't right?? Or maybe it's just me.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

in what regard to you think it's not right?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Errmmm why is it not right??!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I don't see why thus shouldn't be allowed. We're all freaky people and if being pregnant fufills someone's kinks why not. It's her body so as long as it's safe and consensual why not good for her xx

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

If a pregnant lady wants sex then why shouldn't it be allowed, it may go against some people's morals but if the lady in question is happy to do it then why shouldn't she be allowed. She's pregnant not a fecking lepper

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By *DontExistWoman over a year ago

•+• Silicon valley. •+•

yes, i'm allowed.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"yes, i'm allowed.

Brian has okayed you putting it about whilst carrying his unborn triplets, then?

What a top bloke

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By *lg1000Couple over a year ago

Bedfordshire

Agree with the previous poster. She's only pregnant and if this doesn't sit well with you morally then just move on. It's her body and her decision, not yours x

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Agree with the previous poster. She's only pregnant and if this doesn't sit well with you morally then just move on. It's her body and her decision, not yours x"

nothing to do with anyone else x

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By *DontExistWoman over a year ago

•+• Silicon valley. •+•

"yes, i'm allowed.

Brian has okayed you putting it about whilst carrying his unborn triplets, then?

What a top bloke"

anal only he said. so the baby doesn't get poked.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"yes, i'm allowed.

Brian has okayed you putting it about whilst carrying his unborn triplets, then?

What a top bloke"

he does sound a bit of a catch! most obliging!

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By *izzy RascallMan over a year ago

Cardiff

Maybe it's just you OP but there's nothing wrong with you having an opinion either

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"yes, i'm allowed.

Brian has okayed you putting it about whilst carrying his unborn triplets, then?

What a top bloke

anal only he said. so the baby doesn't get poked."

caring as well?...definitely a keeper!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Was just wondering what's people's opinions on a lady who's stated she is pregnant on her profile and looking for naughty fun. I know we are all entitled to do what we want with our own bodies but Surely this isn't right?? Or maybe it's just me. "

Why isn't it right? Pregnancy isn't an illness you can catch, so what's the issue?

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By *DontExistWoman over a year ago

•+• Silicon valley. •+•

"yes, i'm allowed.

Brian has okayed you putting it about whilst carrying his unborn triplets, then?

What a top bloke

anal only he said. so the baby doesn't get poked.

caring as well?...definitely a keeper!"

it's true love.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Report her to admin and get her thrown off the site... or mind your own business

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By *ugby 123Couple over a year ago
Forum Mod

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I know we are all entitled to do what we want with our own bodies

You said this ^^^

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Report her to admin and get her thrown off the site... or mind your own business

Well said!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

People having sex while pregnant?? Whatever next

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By *hyone74Man over a year ago

uk and ireland )

Allowed what's the issue

In fact excites me

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By *ugby 123Couple over a year ago
Forum Mod

O o O oo

To be fair to the OP, although I think she may have worded her post better, having sex while pregnant is not the issue if in a relationship. Taking risks swinging while pregnant could be

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Same answer as in many different threads - its down to personal preference, and its not really anybodies business unless they are endangering other people.

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By *axandbooCouple over a year ago

Bristol

1) its her body, her business

2) pregnancy is a fetish so it will appeal to some

3) just because something doesnt turn you on doesnt mean it wont turn others on

This comes up every now and then like its a huge shock pregnant women want sex. We dont know what is going on in her life, we dont know if its one of her kinks.

Ultimately if it bothers move on

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

My first reaction when I saw this was Jesus Christ that's so wrong but good luck to her if she's happy and safe x

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"yes, i'm allowed.

Brian has okayed you putting it about whilst carrying his unborn triplets, then?

What a top bloke

anal only he said. so the baby doesn't get poked."

Just find some guys with tiny willies.

There are plenty on here

I could get my mate to arrange a gangbang for you, if ya like

It'd be easy. He told me so

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By *DontExistWoman over a year ago

•+• Silicon valley. •+•

"yes, i'm allowed.

Brian has okayed you putting it about whilst carrying his unborn triplets, then?

What a top bloke

anal only he said. so the baby doesn't get poked.

Just find some guys with tiny willies.

There are plenty on here

I could get my mate to arrange a gangbang for you, if ya like

It'd be easy. He told me so"

i am only looking for tiny willies at the minute.

as for yoour gb friend...

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By *hoenixAdAstraWoman over a year ago

Hiding in the shadows

It's not upto to us to say how others live their lives.

It's not our place to judge anyone or the decisions they make.

Christ, it's a bloody swingers site, I'm sure lots of folks on here do stuff, that's 'not for me' but I'm not going worry about it

You only get 1 life, live it & be happy.

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By *lg1000Couple over a year ago

Bedfordshire

"yes, i'm allowed.

Brian has okayed you putting it about whilst carrying his unborn triplets, then?

What a top bloke

anal only he said. so the baby doesn't get poked.

Just find some guys with tiny willies.

There are plenty on here

I could get my mate to arrange a gangbang for you, if ya like

It'd be easy. He told me so"

Hahahaha.... Find guys with tiny willies hahahah

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

As long as she is carefull and does not jump around to much there is nothing wrong with what she is doing, she should be allowed to enjoy like us all

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

No pregnant women should be locked up for even wanting to have sex. Disgusting behaviour

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By *arciocialWoman over a year ago

Leicester

Everyone will have differing views on this, as we all have different morals. We can't all agree on everything, so the best thing to do when you see something you don't like is move on.

Personally I don't agree with it, which is my opinion and I'm entitled to it, fortunately I'm not planning on meeting them.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"yes, i'm allowed.

Brian has okayed you putting it about whilst carrying his unborn triplets, then?

What a top bloke

anal only he said. so the baby doesn't get poked.

Just find some guys with tiny willies.

There are plenty on here

I could get my mate to arrange a gangbang for you, if ya like

It'd be easy. He told me so

i am only looking for tiny willies at the minute.

as for yoour gb friend...

Yeah, he's arranging mine as i type. I'm ever so excited

We're just waiting on the late passes from the guy's mums now

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

some men think its horny as fuck shagging a pregnant woman,in fact some years ago myself and wife had a 3sum and the man loved it imagined he was breeding from her or so he said,

some men dont find pregant women attractive or go off sex when their partner is pregers and pregnant women get horny as hell,going off my mrs any way

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

If I ever found out mommy was playing with strangers through sites like this while carrying me it wouldn't sit well

Not something I agree with but its their choice

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"some men think its horny as fuck shagging a pregnant woman,in fact some years ago myself and wife had a 3sum and the man loved it imagined he was breeding from her or so he said,

some men dont find pregant women attractive or go off sex when their partner is pregers and pregnant women get horny as hell,going off my mrs any way "

" breeding from her?" hmmm. Just when you think you've heard it all

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By *DontExistWoman over a year ago

•+• Silicon valley. •+•

"yes, i'm allowed.

Brian has okayed you putting it about whilst carrying his unborn triplets, then?

What a top bloke

anal only he said. so the baby doesn't get poked.

Just find some guys with tiny willies.

There are plenty on here

I could get my mate to arrange a gangbang for you, if ya like

It'd be easy. He told me so

i am only looking for tiny willies at the minute.

as for your gb friend...

Yeah, he's arranging mine as i type. I'm ever so excited

We're just waiting on the late passes from the guy's mums now"

hope it goes well.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

thats exactly what we thought pmsl after a shock look at each other but what ever gets you going i surpose

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"No pregnant women should be locked up for even wanting to have sex. Disgusting behaviour

"
haha,lock them in the tower throw away the key lol

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"To be fair to the OP, although I think she may have worded her post better, having sex while pregnant is not the issue if in a relationship. Taking risks swinging while pregnant could be"

Possibly the only valid point here but if practice safe sex then no issue as no harm to the baby?....which i assume is the concern for op.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"No pregnant women should be locked up for even wanting to have sex. Disgusting behaviour

"
haha,lock them in the tower throw away the key lol

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By *lg1000Couple over a year ago

Bedfordshire

"To be fair to the OP, although I think she may have worded her post better, having sex while pregnant is not the issue if in a relationship. Taking risks swinging while pregnant could be

Possibly the only valid point here but if practice safe sex then no issue as no harm to the baby?....which i assume is the concern for op.

There will always be risks when pregnant, even in everyday life so all you can do in try minimise the risk, which I'm sure she's doing.

I'm 6 months preggo at the mo and horny as hell most of the time. Fortunately I have a good husband

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Not for us to say, me personally I couldn't get turned on enough to have sex with a pregnant women, not even my ex, that's just me, I have me reasons

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Well I'm currently pregnant and my sex drive has gone sky high! Personally I think it's up to the woman if shes happy enough to perform safe sex or even just foreplay then what has it got to do with anyone else? Some people may be into it and some others! Like everyone has said they all got their own opinion on this! I've already spoken to my partner and agreed not to have sex with anyone else whilst pregnant but I'm happy to play! So my opinion in all of this... it's the woman's choice what she does whilst pregnant!

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By *gnitemybodyWoman over a year ago

Onestepoutofthedoor

I don't understand it myself,why would you put your unborn baby at risk just for a shag,but hey it's up to her.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

It's her body, her baby, her choice. Why would it not be allowed OP? We all have different boundaries, these do not inform the rules - legislation does. Mind your own business and pass by any profiles that aren't to your tastes, well that method works for me anyway.

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman over a year ago

The Town by The Cross

"As long as she is carefull and does not jump around to much there is nothing wrong with what she is doing, she should be allowed to enjoy like us all"

How are pregnant women supposed to escape from kangaroos if they cant' jump around?

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By *rishman75Man over a year ago

Chessington/epsom

Nothing wrong with it.

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By *lg1000Couple over a year ago

Bedfordshire

"Well I'm currently pregnant and my sex drive has gone sky high! Personally I think it's up to the woman if shes happy enough to perform safe sex or even just foreplay then what has it got to do with anyone else? Some people may be into it and some others! Like everyone has said they all got their own opinion on this! I've already spoken to my partner and agreed not to have sex with anyone else whilst pregnant but I'm happy to play! So my opinion in all of this... it's the woman's choice what she does whilst pregnant! "

We're exactly the same. We've decided against sex with others but we're still playing!!

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman over a year ago

The Town by The Cross

"If I ever found out mommy was playing with strangers through sites like this while carrying me it wouldn't sit well

Not something I agree with but its their choice"

You're safe. 36 years ago she was furiously trying to invent domestic internet and too busy to meet.

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman over a year ago

The Town by The Cross

"Everyone will have differing views on this, as we all have different morals. We can't all agree on everything, so the best thing to do when you see something you don't like is move on.

Personally I don't agree with it, which is my opinion and I'm entitled to it, fortunately I'm not planning on meeting them."

Stop putting your opinion.

It's contrary to your own advice to move on if you don't like it.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Absolutely no way is knowing play with someone who's pregnant.

I'm of the opinion that you should be able to step back from fucking different people off the internet for 9 months.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Playing is a lot more safer than having sex! We both agreed to play for the time being until baby is born and then go from there! Xx

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By *lg1000Couple over a year ago

Bedfordshire

"Absolutely no way is knowing play with someone who's pregnant.

I'm of the opinion that you should be able to step back from fucking different people off the internet for 9 months."

Playing and fucking are very very different, unless people carry sexually transmitted diseases in their fingers now....

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Absolutely no way is knowing play with someone who's pregnant.

I'm of the opinion that you should be able to step back from fucking different people off the internet for 9 months.

Playing and fucking are very very different, unless people carry sexually transmitted diseases in their fingers now...."

I agree with that, I was exclusively meaning having sex with other people in my post.

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By *ools and the brainCouple over a year ago

couple, us we him her.

"Absolutely no way is knowing play with someone who's pregnant.

I'm of the opinion that you should be able to step back from fucking different people off the internet for 9 months.

Playing and fucking are very very different, unless people carry sexually transmitted diseases in their fingers now...."

Err HPV

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I don't understand it myself,why would you put your unborn baby at risk just for a shag,but hey it's up to her."

What risk? Shouldnt we all practice safe sex?

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By *lg1000Couple over a year ago

Bedfordshire

"Absolutely no way is knowing play with someone who's pregnant.

I'm of the opinion that you should be able to step back from fucking different people off the internet for 9 months.

Playing and fucking are very very different, unless people carry sexually transmitted diseases in their fingers now....

Err HPV "

Wow, then we're all fucked....

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

It each to their own and if she wants to continue then her choice

I know if it was me I would choose not to

But wevare all different

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Allowed" is the word that gives me pause in your op. As a society, we seem overly eager to control what women do with themselves whenever it comes to reproductive health. I understand it, but I also recognize that a woman's body is hers. It doesn't belong to society.

However, I do think there are moral implications to putting your baby at risk. That would be an interesting discussion. But it would have to be divorced from prescriptive norms, in my opinion.

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By *ools and the brainCouple over a year ago

couple, us we him her.

Personally I don't agree with it.

But as said it's up to the woman.

However the unborn baby doesn't get a choice in the matter and just to play devils advocate here.

Let's say a woman is pregnant and has unprotected sex with multiple partners during the pregnancy.

She is doing this without her parents knowledge and contracts a STD.

This is passed on to the unborn child and it's born with it.

Partner finds out about STD and discovers baby is infected.

Could the mother then be charged with child abuse?

Look I am not taking the moral high ground just putting forward a potential issue.

So ok the mother really wants a shag while pregnant from several different guy's,what if she wants a drink or smoke or take drugs.

Is all this ok just because she wants to?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Absolutely no way is knowing play with someone who's pregnant.

I'm of the opinion that you should be able to step back from fucking different people off the internet for 9 months.

Playing and fucking are very very different, unless people carry sexually transmitted diseases in their fingers now....

Err HPV

Wow, then we're all fucked...."

Rare that HPV is passed by anything other than penetration, and also not often passed from mother to child.

Probably more chance of a piano falling on the expectant mother

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Personally I don't agree with it.

But as said it's up to the woman.

However the unborn baby doesn't get a choice in the matter and just to play devils advocate here.

Let's say a woman is pregnant and has unprotected sex with multiple partners during the pregnancy.

She is doing this without her parents knowledge and contracts a STD.

This is passed on to the unborn child and it's born with it.

Partner finds out about STD and discovers baby is infected.

Could the mother then be charged with child abuse?

Look I am not taking the moral high ground just putting forward a potential issue.

So ok the mother really wants a shag while pregnant from several different guy's,what if she wants a drink or smoke or take drugs.

Is all this ok just because she wants to?"

Well put. Especially the last bit. I think its an interesting moral question.

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By *orkie321bWoman over a year ago

Nottingham

It's her body and her baby so she makes the decision.

Just because it doesn't sit well with your morals doesn't mean it shouldn't be allowed. If you don't like it then just move on to the next profile and leave her alone.

If I was in the same situation I would choose not to have penetrative sex with strangers but I won't judge others for choosing differently.

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By *unandbuckCouple over a year ago

Sheffield

"It's her body and her baby so she makes the decision.

Just because it doesn't sit well with your morals doesn't mean it shouldn't be allowed. If you don't like it then just move on to the next profile and leave her alone.

If I was in the same situation I would choose not to have penetrative sex with strangers but I won't judge others for choosing differently."

What are your thoughts on pregnant ladies smoking and drinking while pregnant? I'd put it in the same category.

I don't like seeing people do things that can potentially harm an unborn child. I don't think that's judgemental, it's just caring about a baby more than a person just fancying doing something.

MrB

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By *lg1000Couple over a year ago

Bedfordshire

"Personally I don't agree with it.

But as said it's up to the woman.

However the unborn baby doesn't get a choice in the matter and just to play devils advocate here.

Let's say a woman is pregnant and has unprotected sex with multiple partners during the pregnancy.

She is doing this without her parents knowledge and contracts a STD.

This is passed on to the unborn child and it's born with it.

Partner finds out about STD and discovers baby is infected.

Could the mother then be charged with child abuse?

Look I am not taking the moral high ground just putting forward a potential issue.

So ok the mother really wants a shag while pregnant from several different guy's,what if she wants a drink or smoke or take drugs.

Is all this ok just because she wants to?

Well put. Especially the last bit. I think its an interesting moral question. "

So what if we see a pregnant woman eating a whippy ice cream, or ordering a rare steak or guzzling oysters like they were going out of fashion? Are we all ok with this or would this make us all feel uncomfortable too? Because, these, like many things have risks associated with them...

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Personally I don't agree with it.

But as said it's up to the woman.

However the unborn baby doesn't get a choice in the matter and just to play devils advocate here.

Let's say a woman is pregnant and has unprotected sex with multiple partners during the pregnancy.

She is doing this without her parents knowledge and contracts a STD.

This is passed on to the unborn child and it's born with it.

Partner finds out about STD and discovers baby is infected.

Could the mother then be charged with child abuse?

Look I am not taking the moral high ground just putting forward a potential issue.

So ok the mother really wants a shag while pregnant from several different guy's,what if she wants a drink or smoke or take drugs.

Is all this ok just because she wants to?

Well put. Especially the last bit. I think its an interesting moral question.

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By *unandbuckCouple over a year ago

Sheffield

I'd feel raise an eyebrow sat in a restaurant with a woman eating those things. I certainly wouldn't go with a pregnant woman to a Steak tartar and oyster bar, and finish it all off with a big juicy cigar... Isn't it worth sacrificing minor things for a while??

MrB

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Personally I don't agree with it.

But as said it's up to the woman.

However the unborn baby doesn't get a choice in the matter and just to play devils advocate here.

Let's say a woman is pregnant and has unprotected sex with multiple partners during the pregnancy.

She is doing this without her parents knowledge and contracts a STD.

This is passed on to the unborn child and it's born with it.

Partner finds out about STD and discovers baby is infected.

Could the mother then be charged with child abuse?

Look I am not taking the moral high ground just putting forward a potential issue.

So ok the mother really wants a shag while pregnant from several different guy's,what if she wants a drink or smoke or take drugs.

Is all this ok just because she wants to?

Well put. Especially the last bit. I think its an interesting moral question.

I feel like I'm missing something here. Are you really equating a pregnant woman doing drugs with a pregnant woman eating ice cream?

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By *ugby 123Couple over a year ago
Forum Mod

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"To be fair to the OP, although I think she may have worded her post better, having sex while pregnant is not the issue if in a relationship. Taking risks swinging while pregnant could be

Possibly the only valid point here but if practice safe sex then no issue as no harm to the baby?....which i assume is the concern for op.

Safe sex can fail

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Personally I don't agree with it.

But as said it's up to the woman.

However the unborn baby doesn't get a choice in the matter and just to play devils advocate here.

Let's say a woman is pregnant and has unprotected sex with multiple partners during the pregnancy.

She is doing this without her parents knowledge and contracts a STD.

This is passed on to the unborn child and it's born with it.

Partner finds out about STD and discovers baby is infected.

Could the mother then be charged with child abuse?

Look I am not taking the moral high ground just putting forward a potential issue.

So ok the mother really wants a shag while pregnant from several different guy's,what if she wants a drink or smoke or take drugs.

Is all this ok just because she wants to?

Smoking, drinking and taking drugs are not in the same league as having sex. And no, the mother couldn't be done for child abuse for passing on an std. it might not sit right with you but as long as the lady is careful as all ladies should be, pregnant or not then surely it is up to her and her other half.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

When will women learn? It was having sex that got her pregnant in the first place.

Tut tut

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By *lg1000Couple over a year ago

Bedfordshire

"Personally I don't agree with it.

But as said it's up to the woman.

However the unborn baby doesn't get a choice in the matter and just to play devils advocate here.

Let's say a woman is pregnant and has unprotected sex with multiple partners during the pregnancy.

She is doing this without her parents knowledge and contracts a STD.

This is passed on to the unborn child and it's born with it.

Partner finds out about STD and discovers baby is infected.

Could the mother then be charged with child abuse?

Look I am not taking the moral high ground just putting forward a potential issue.

So ok the mother really wants a shag while pregnant from several different guy's,what if she wants a drink or smoke or take drugs.

Is all this ok just because she wants to?

Well put. Especially the last bit. I think its an interesting moral question.

I feel like I'm missing something here. Are you really equating a pregnant woman doing drugs with a pregnant woman eating ice cream? "

No, I'm making the comparison between having sex and eating 'risky foods' whilst pregnant. I'm asking where we draw the line?

I'm pregnant and wouldn't have penetrative sex with anyone but my husband whilst pregnant but when people are stating HPV as a risk factor for getting a fingering from a stranger then where do we stop?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

No no no. It should not be allowed. It is wrong. Can you point me toward the lady in question so I can tell her personally... in private... I'll host.

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By *igonepetexxxMan over a year ago

swansea

Pregnant women are so sexy if they want fun let them enjoy.... Ladies if u want massage warm oils get in touch...pregnant women I love them

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By *gnitemybodyWoman over a year ago

Onestepoutofthedoor

"I don't understand it myself,why would you put your unborn baby at risk just for a shag,but hey it's up to her.

What risk? Shouldnt we all practice safe sex?"

Safe sex,there is no such thing as safe sex. Catching a sexually transmitted infection can cause damage to the baby!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Personally I don't agree with it.

But as said it's up to the woman.

However the unborn baby doesn't get a choice in the matter and just to play devils advocate here.

Let's say a woman is pregnant and has unprotected sex with multiple partners during the pregnancy.

She is doing this without her parents knowledge and contracts a STD.

This is passed on to the unborn child and it's born with it.

Partner finds out about STD and discovers baby is infected.

Could the mother then be charged with child abuse?

Look I am not taking the moral high ground just putting forward a potential issue.

So ok the mother really wants a shag while pregnant from several different guy's,what if she wants a drink or smoke or take drugs.

Is all this ok just because she wants to?

Well put. Especially the last bit. I think its an interesting moral question.

I feel like I'm missing something here. Are you really equating a pregnant woman doing drugs with a pregnant woman eating ice cream?

No, I'm making the comparison between having sex and eating 'risky foods' whilst pregnant. I'm asking where we draw the line?

Ah, I see.

Personally I think the HPV thing was a bit silly. But safe sex isn't foolproof and there is always the possibility of passing HIV and AIDS on during penetrative sex. I guess that is more along the lines I was thinking.

And as I said above, I don't think anyone has the right to tell a woman she can't do it, but I do think there is a moral discussion to be had regarding the responsibility of a woman to an unborn child, beyond the rights she has over her own body. A lot of that is down to assessment of risk - that is, does penetrative sex during pregnancy concern society in the same way as doing drugs or smoking while pregnant, or is it more like eating under-cooked meat, etc.

I'm not offering an opinion, btw. I'm just saying that such a discussion could be interesting and worthwhile.

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By *ungBlackTopMan over a year ago

salford

Well if she's already pregnant there wont be a need for Jeremy Kyle in a few months but you might wish to tell the midwife just before labour so she can do the necessary swabs, tests needed to make sure baby delivered safely.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"yes, i'm allowed.

Brian has okayed you putting it about whilst carrying his unborn triplets, then?

What a top bloke

anal only he said. so the baby doesn't get poked."

Best line of the day!! Seriously made me laugh x

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

It's nothing to do with anyone else what the lady should be doing. It's her body and their life.....

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"yes, i'm allowed.

Brian has okayed you putting it about whilst carrying his unborn triplets, then?

What a top bloke

anal only he said. so the baby doesn't get poked."

Isn't poking how dimples get made?

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By *loswingersCouple over a year ago

Gloucester

We met a pregnant lady a couple of years ago . What a fantastic night it was . Two hours of sheer delight and we did everything you could imagine and some . She loved it , we loved it and a month later she had a perfect baby boy . Six weeks later we met her again for some more fun with breast milk play ... but that's another story

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By *orkie321bWoman over a year ago

Nottingham

"It's her body and her baby so she makes the decision.

Just because it doesn't sit well with your morals doesn't mean it shouldn't be allowed. If you don't like it then just move on to the next profile and leave her alone.

If I was in the same situation I would choose not to have penetrative sex with strangers but I won't judge others for choosing differently.

What are your thoughts on pregnant ladies smoking and drinking while pregnant? I'd put it in the same category.

I don't like seeing people do things that can potentially harm an unborn child. I don't think that's judgemental, it's just caring about a baby more than a person just fancying doing something.

MrB"

I'm a smoker and I kind of cringe when I see a pregnant lady light up when I'm at the pub etc. Again, I would choose differently and stop smoking if it was me but it's not my decision and not my place to judge.

If you want to make a comparison it's a hell of a lot easier to not have sex for a few months than to try and quit smoking. I've been trying (and failing) to stop smoking for a few years.

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By *rightonsteveMan over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

I don't see what's wrong with it as it's her body.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I don't see what's wrong with it, it might come as a surprise to you OP but pregnant females frequently have sex with their partners. Why shouldn't she if she wants to, pregnant females still have sexual needs x

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I see no issue as long as protection is used. If she's going bareback rodeo everywhere with random peolle then my view would be different, in that case id say that's massively irresponsible and she shouldnt be allowed to reproduce or have children. But as long as its safe, good on her, get out there girl!

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By *elma and ShaggyCouple over a year ago

Bedworth

I have very strong opinions about swinging while pregnant, and they are not favourable!

If protected sex was 100% safe I would not feel quite so negative but it's not. As a parent, one of our main jobs is to protect and keep our children safe. Sex with multiple partners comes with risks, even when protection is used. Putting an unborn baby at risk, no matter how small, is something that I cannot comprehend and would never condone.

Ultimately though it's a woman's right to choose and no one should try to take that away from her. If you feel strongly against swinging while pregnant then block those profiles.

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By *unandbuckCouple over a year ago

Sheffield

"It's her body and her baby so she makes the decision.

Just because it doesn't sit well with your morals doesn't mean it shouldn't be allowed. If you don't like it then just move on to the next profile and leave her alone.

If I was in the same situation I would choose not to have penetrative sex with strangers but I won't judge others for choosing differently.

What are your thoughts on pregnant ladies smoking and drinking while pregnant? I'd put it in the same category.

I don't like seeing people do things that can potentially harm an unborn child. I don't think that's judgemental, it's just caring about a baby more than a person just fancying doing something.

MrB

If you want to make a comparison it's a hell of a lot easier to not have sex for a few months than to try and quit smoking. I've been trying (and failing) to stop smoking for a few years."

We had sex throughout pregnancy with each other. It's the risk of sti's on the baby that sits badly with me.

Is it judgmental? I don't know. I just think the baby comes first.

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By *hechapMan over a year ago

Derry

Depends how far gone she is.

Its fine to have sex while pregnant but i think you are crossing the line once the waters break.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Not my bag but people have choices, choices have consequences. Chill..

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By *yldstyleWoman over a year ago

A world of my own

I continued to have an affair while I was pregnant..

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By *ob198XaMan over a year ago

teleford

"If I ever found out mommy was playing with strangers through sites like this while carrying me it wouldn't sit well

Not something I agree with but its their choice"

Would it sit any better with you to find out she waited til you were a little older and away in school?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Who cares if someone is pregnant?

It's her business what she does with her body, not anyone else's!

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By *ob198XaMan over a year ago

teleford

"I continued to have an affair while I was pregnant.. "

Have you been on Jeremy Kyle yet...

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Who cares if someone is pregnant?

It's her business what she does with her body, not anyone else's!"

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By *icecouple561Couple over a year ago
Forum Mod

East Sussex

I don't think it's down to us to say if something legal and consensual is allowed.

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By *eanut Butter CupWoman over a year ago

B & M Bargains

Not something I would do, along with giving up the fags if I ever did get pregnant I would hope I have the willpower to stop fucking randoms

but I wonder how many have had unprotected sex with their partner unaware he is boffing someone else on the side. And those drinking/smoking/shagging before they find out they are up the duff? You'd have to be wrapped in bubble wrap from the moment you conceive to be rid of all risks, and even then there are probably harmful chemicals in the bubble wrap

I ramble... her body, her choice.

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By *yldstyleWoman over a year ago

A world of my own

"I continued to have an affair while I was pregnant..

Have you been on Jeremy Kyle yet...

No I just needed to feel loved more than ever. Sadly my husband only ever made me feel like crap.

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By *ob198XaMan over a year ago

teleford

"I continued to have an affair while I was pregnant..

Have you been on Jeremy Kyle yet...

No I just needed to feel loved more than ever. Sadly my husband only ever made me feel like crap. "

I can understand that, maybe it was time to bail out before getting pregnant but real life is messy. Ps you husband was a fool

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Good for her and any guys that get to play with her are going to be very lucky.

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By *inky-MinxWoman over a year ago

Grantham

"I know we are all entitled to do what we want with our own bodies"

This, this is true and therefor it is not wrong

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By *all-Eddies QosCouple over a year ago

wirral

"Agree with the previous poster. She's only pregnant and if this doesn't sit well with you morally then just move on. It's her body and her decision, not yours x"

This

.... I played while pregnant, in a club, got a few comments but nothing that didn't bounce off my extremely thick skin

Fuck'em....not literally cos it's morally wrong to fuck other people than your partner

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Personally, I don't agree with it. I see pregnancy as something special- some people don't get honour of being able to have children. Sex with own partner only.

Every time you have sex with a stranger - even with a condom you are putting your self at risk, no contraception is 100% if something was passed on or a condom split the risks to the unborn child are not worth it as far as I'm concerned.

However on the same note that's my personal opinion and it's what I would do but I don't believe it should not be allowed as it's up to the individual if they are willing to put risks on their unborn.

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By *all-Eddies QosCouple over a year ago

wirral

Everyone goes on about the risks to their unborn child...

How about this.... I had 4 children with my ex, he cheated many times during the 12 1/2 years we were together. He told me after we split up "I knew I hadn't caught anything, cos you got checked when you 'book in' with the midwife for a pregnancy and have tests"

Cheers cunt

... How many people are in the exact same boat and unknowingly are out at risk?? I think swingers are probably a bit more careful than your vanilla people, having a fuck behind a bin after some drinks in a sticky floored dive bar.

I also had chickenpox while very early on pregnant.... The stress and worry of the unknown was real, and there was nothing I could have done to prevent it.

When I played, I took measures to lessen the risks.

Baby was fine despite the chickenpox... And having a rubbered up BBC banging hell out of my cervix.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Personally I don't agree with it.

But as said it's up to the woman.

However the unborn baby doesn't get a choice in the matter and just to play devils advocate here.

Let's say a woman is pregnant and has unprotected sex with multiple partners during the pregnancy.

She is doing this without her parents knowledge and contracts a STD.

This is passed on to the unborn child and it's born with it.

Partner finds out about STD and discovers baby is infected.

Could the mother then be charged with child abuse?

Look I am not taking the moral high ground just putting forward a potential issue.

So ok the mother really wants a shag while pregnant from several different guy's,what if she wants a drink or smoke or take drugs.

Is all this ok just because she wants to?

Well put. Especially the last bit. I think its an interesting moral question.

I feel like I'm missing something here. Are you really equating a pregnant woman doing drugs with a pregnant woman eating ice cream?

No, I'm making the comparison between having sex and eating 'risky foods' whilst pregnant. I'm asking where we draw the line?

You stop at the stage you feel is right.

Maybe insist on scrubbing their fingernails with anti-bac before being fingered......

After all skin to skin is how certain strains of HPV & other STD's are transmitted, rare but possible.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"If I ever found out mommy was playing with strangers through sites like this while carrying me it wouldn't sit well

Not something I agree with but its their choice

Would it sit any better with you to find out she waited til you were a little older and away in school?

A little

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By *ust Ms LovinWoman over a year ago

birmingham

It's one of my fantasys to fuck a pregnant lady (ms typing ) pregnant women are horny as fuck !!

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By *sGivesWoodWoman over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL

Personal choice

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Everyone goes on about the risks to their unborn child...

Cheers cunt

I also had chickenpox while very early on pregnant.... The stress and worry of the unknown was real, and there was nothing I could have done to prevent it.

When I played, I took measures to lessen the risks.

Baby was fine despite the chickenpox... And having a rubbered up BBC banging hell out of my cervix. "

What your husband did put you and your child at risk. I don't see how that makes swinging while pregnant ok? The reasoning doesn't follow through. Both things can be wrong/risky. All of it is simply an assessment of risk. Saying that some risky behavior is done unknowingly doesn't make knowingly risky behavior ok.

Anyway, I don't really care what pregnant people do with swinging. Your logic was just bugging me.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Completely up to them. Just like if a woman wanted to abort a child her choice, no one elses

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By *hechapMan over a year ago

Derry

On a positive note she won't be getting all stressed out or worried about getting herself pregnant for a while.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

100% hot.

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By *mike huntMan over a year ago

Clacton On Sea

Most cpls have sex right up until the baby is born, well me and my Mrs did

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By *all-Eddies QosCouple over a year ago

wirral

"Everyone goes on about the risks to their unborn child...

Cheers cunt

I also had chickenpox while very early on pregnant.... The stress and worry of the unknown was real, and there was nothing I could have done to prevent it.

When I played, I took measures to lessen the risks.

Baby was fine despite the chickenpox... And having a rubbered up BBC banging hell out of my cervix.

Anyway, I don't really care what pregnant people do with swinging. Your logic was just bugging me.

We were not swingers.

I was unknowingly put at risk, I'm saying people who are pregnant and swinging are well versed in the choices, risks etc and take the necessary precautions. Which in MY opinion is the smart way to play.... Only my opinion obviously.

The way my ex treated me and endangered our unborn children was reckless.

Swinging while pregnant is a personal choice, if you don't like it, don't fuck a pregnant woman. I'm not saying it's right or without its risks, I'm just saying what happened to me, what I choose to do.

Gets to the point where no one will be able to play cos of the risks.... I mean once you are responsible for children, should you stop playing, just in case you catch something, it gets missed, you end up really poorly and then what. It's ultimately a risk and a choice.... You can't go through life never taking a risk or a chance

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Everyone goes on about the risks to their unborn child...

Cheers cunt

I also had chickenpox while very early on pregnant.... The stress and worry of the unknown was real, and there was nothing I could have done to prevent it.

When I played, I took measures to lessen the risks.

Baby was fine despite the chickenpox... And having a rubbered up BBC banging hell out of my cervix.

Anyway, I don't really care what pregnant people do with swinging. Your logic was just bugging me.

We were not swingers.

The way my ex treated me and endangered our unborn children was reckless.

Again, though, it's about risk assessment. I'm not saying, and I don't think anyone here is saying, that ANY risk means you shouldn't swing. I think the debate is more about how much risk there is. Some people see penetrative sex with strangers while pregnant to be a high risk activity, or not worth the risk. I don't think it adds to the debate about risk to say that everything is risky in some way. That's obvious. The question is how risky this particular activity is. Or whether it's worth the risk at all.

I'm not even focusing on your points in particular. I'm just saying, generally speaking, assesssment of the risk, rather than just saying everything is risky, would be more interesting here. The "everything is risky" argument could lead to logical snowballs in the opposite direction too.....for example, if everything is risky, then let's all just fuck bareback all the time. Well....no. Presumably because the risks outweigh the benefits for some people (those who choose condoms, that is).

So it's really about risk assesssment, not acknowledgment that risk exists generally. Again, I don't have a particular opinion on it, I'm just saying the debate could be argued better.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I reply as neither judge nor jury to this topic.

As a free spirited sole I would say that if a spirited swinging female wished to continue her chosen sexual pleasures whilst pregnant then I see no reason why she should be frowned upon.

I for one find pregnant women very sexy & know from experience that sexual urges can rocket in some women during & right unto conceiving. I also know some men find watching there pregnant wives having sex with other men an extremely erotic experience.

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By *0shades 2000Man over a year ago

coleraine

It's a question of your morals I suppose everyone has needs which is understandable....

Personally I couldn't lay with a woman pregnant by another man it isn't something that would excite me...

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Maybe you answered your own question

Everyone should be allowed to do what they want!...

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By *icecouple561Couple over a year ago
Forum Mod

East Sussex

"It's a question of your morals I suppose everyone has needs which is understandable....

Personally I couldn't lay with a woman pregnant by another man it isn't something that would excite me... "

In the early stages you wouldn't know.

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By *0shades 2000Man over a year ago

coleraine

"It's a question of your morals I suppose everyone has needs which is understandable....

Personally I couldn't lay with a woman pregnant by another man it isn't something that would excite me...

In the early stages you wouldn't know."

Very true...

On the assumption that I did know however I couldn't....

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By *elma and ShaggyCouple over a year ago

Bedworth

"Everyone goes on about the risks to their unborn child...

Cheers cunt

I also had chickenpox while very early on pregnant.... The stress and worry of the unknown was real, and there was nothing I could have done to prevent it.

When I played, I took measures to lessen the risks.

Baby was fine despite the chickenpox... And having a rubbered up BBC banging hell out of my cervix. "

How would you have felt if it hadn't been ok?

I know that point is moot now but what I'm getting at is that what a pregnant woman has to do when assessing the risks prior to making her decision is to ask herself if she could deal with the consequences if things do go wrong

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By *addiesgirl84Woman over a year ago

liverpool

I swung whilst pregnant with all of my children...

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By *loswingersCouple over a year ago

Gloucester

"I swung whilst pregnant with all of my children..."

Good for you , and why shouldn't you ?

All this nonsense about how one should put your own desires on hold for the baby's sake etc..

What if this , what if that .... well what if you get hit by a car crossing the road ? What if you get flu when someone sneezes on you while shopping ? What if the stress of giving up everything that makes you happy while pregnant leaves you an emotional wreck ? There is no reason why you have to wrap yourself up in cotton wool just because you're pregnant .

I guess getting sitters so you can swing after the child is born is wrong too ?

Or if you're a single parent who can't afford sitters , you shouldn't have a meet at home when the little ones tucked up in bed ?

The moral high ground taken by some on this thread is staggering .

It's any wonder we live in a society where kids rule the roost , and grow up with a totally entitled attitude !

Parents can and should be able to make their own decisions before , during and after childbirth without being judged .

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By *ugby 123Couple over a year ago
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O o O oo

Parents can and should be able to make their own decisions before , during and after childbirth without being judged .

We all judge, whether people admit to it or not.

I will judge women who put their unborn child at risk as it is my choice to

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

With kids typically living at home until they are in their 30's these days playing until the last possible moment before privacy, sleep, money and everything else disappears into child rearing should be compulsory

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By *ugby 123Couple over a year ago
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O o O oo

"With kids typically living at home until they are in their 30's these days playing until the last possible moment before privacy, sleep, money and everything else disappears into child rearing should be compulsory

Which is no comparison at all

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Wife became more sexual when she was pregnant

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By *loswingersCouple over a year ago

Gloucester

Parents can and should be able to make their own decisions before , during and after childbirth without being judged .

We all judge, whether people admit to it or not.

I will judge women who put their unborn child at risk as it is my choice to

It's true , we do all judge and that's a shame .

Some are more vocal in their judgement though , and there's often no substance to their words .

Where does it stop ?

To stay on the subject , why should a pregnant woman be made to feel wrong for wanting to remain sexually active during her pregnancy ?

As society is what it is , there are so many pregnancies occurring when the father leaves . So the mother should remain celibate ?

Soft swing , protected intercourse , and various practices carry little or no risk to the baby . No more than car fumes and so many other carcinogens in the atmosphere , in the food we eat , and in bodycare .

I doubt there's a woman on the planet who engages in sex with anyone other than her partner during pregnancy without first weighing up the risk factors .

So you judge her because it's your choice .

She goes ahead because it's her choice .

I say she should follow her own heart , and not listen to those who judge her , simp,y because they choose to .

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

It’s her life.

Let her live it how she wants to live it.

This country is far too judgemental.

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By *ugby 123Couple over a year ago
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O o O oo

She goes ahead because it's her choice .

I say she should follow her own heart , and not listen to those who judge her , simp,y because they choose to .

But she asked for peoples views, they gave it. What she does after that is up to her.

The rest of your post isn't a comparison to the subject.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Totally fine it's up to her what she does with her body

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By *hubaysiWoman over a year ago

Leeds

I personally don't agree with it purely for safety reasons for the unborn child but at the end of the day OP will do as she wishes.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

It is ok and you could have breast feeding too

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By *loswingersCouple over a year ago

Gloucester

She goes ahead because it's her choice .

I say she should follow her own heart , and not listen to those who judge her , simp,y because they choose to .

But she asked for peoples views, they gave it. What she does after that is up to her.

The rest of your post isn't a comparison to the subject."

Well I beg to differ .... the rest of my post seems to be very much relative to the op and the subject matter .

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Parents can and should be able to make their own decisions before , during and after childbirth without being judged .

We all judge, whether people admit to it or not.

I will judge women who put their unborn child at risk as it is my choice to

Absolutely this

I judge and am judged in return.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I all add to my previous comment~ if you don't want judgement, don't post in a public forum ~simples.

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By *all-Eddies QosCouple over a year ago

wirral

"Everyone goes on about the risks to their unborn child...

Cheers cunt

I also had chickenpox while very early on pregnant.... The stress and worry of the unknown was real, and there was nothing I could have done to prevent it.

When I played, I took measures to lessen the risks.

Baby was fine despite the chickenpox... And having a rubbered up BBC banging hell out of my cervix.

How would you have felt if it hadn't been ok?

Because of the chickenpox or because of sex while pregnant?? Obviously I'd be upset, but like with all things, I'd just get on with it.

My consultant said re. The chickenpox and risk of deformaties, and I quote "you'd JUST discontinue the pregnancy" at no point did I consider an abortion, nor would I have if I'd have been unlucky and caught something from a condom splitting or whatever.

Also, this is all very woman oriented...if a couple are swingers, and expecting, is it just the woman who's expected to stop playing and lessen the risks, or does the male come in to the equation, is he gonna stop to, just incase he plays, catches sommat due to condom failure or whatever and then passes it on to his pregnant partner???

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By *loswingersCouple over a year ago

Gloucester

Parents can and should be able to make their own decisions before , during and after childbirth without being judged .

We all judge, whether people admit to it or not.

I will judge women who put their unborn child at risk as it is my choice to

Absolutely this

I judge and am judged in return."

Yep , we all are , each and every one of us who post on the forum .

But there are different levels of judgement , from those who say I don't agree with this that or the other , to those who say it's disgusting , wrong , and shouldn't be allowed .

It's the latter judgement I don't agree with .

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Newly exciting for me, would love to get my hands on a pregnant girl

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Looking at your profile, it says you have a young family and you smoke. Surely you didn't subject your unborn child to that while pregnant. This might be news to you but sex is a natural act whereas intentionally breathing in burning plant is not.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Parents can and should be able to make their own decisions before , during and after childbirth without being judged .

We all judge, whether people admit to it or not.

I will judge women who put their unborn child at risk as it is my choice to

Absolutely this

I judge and am judged in return.

Yep , we all are , each and every one of us who post on the forum .

But there are different levels of judgement , from those who say I don't agree with this that or the other , to those who say it's disgusting , wrong , and shouldn't be allowed .

It's the latter judgement I don't agree with ."

True, but I also think people's interpretation of language can have some bearing too, it's not necessarily judgement it's the wrong connotations/ saying.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Nothing wrong wiyh this in my opinion. Some people find it quite a turn on

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

It's perfectly safe to have sex when you're pregnant

It's you

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By *revaunanceCouple over a year ago

Exeter

It's her body, so carry on.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

We're all going to die from life exposure, one way or another... Some of us waaaaay faster than others!!.

Some people will be more cautious than most... yet they'll die younger than everyone else?!...

Life is a risk in and of itself... It has a start and an end and no amount of life insurance can stave death off or predict when it'll be your turn to leave the stage... I think at the end of life most of us will have regrets... One of which will be "I wish I hadn't listened to what other people thought I should be doing with myself quite as much as I did because my god!... people really are very restrictive most of the time!"...

lol xx

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By *hocolate_HeavenMan over a year ago

Birmingham and Dubai

I know we are all entitled to do what we want with our own bodies

You said this ^^^"

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I have been with pregnant women twice from fab both in different occasions. They get so wet and the boobs are so swollen. I had to be gentle but it was harmless fun.

Sex is way better than smoking or drinking during pregnancy which harms the baby. Sex is normal natural hormonal. It causes no harm.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I swung whilst pregnant with all of my children...

Good for you , and why shouldn't you ?

All this nonsense about how one should put your own desires on hold for the baby's sake etc..

I guess getting sitters so you can swing after the child is born is wrong too ?

Or if you're a single parent who can't afford sitters , you shouldn't have a meet at home when the little ones tucked up in bed ?

The moral high ground taken by some on this thread is staggering .

It's any wonder we live in a society where kids rule the roost , and grow up with a totally entitled attitude !

Parents can and should be able to make their own decisions before , during and after childbirth without being judged .

It's interesting that you think caring for children's safety and wellbeing is 'moral high ground', like it's a bad thing.

You're telling people not to judge yet you're judging them.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Same answer as in many different threads - its down to personal preference, and its not really anybodies business unless they are endangering other people."

Like endangering the unborn child?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Personally I don't agree with it.

But as said it's up to the woman.

However the unborn baby doesn't get a choice in the matter and just to play devils advocate here.

Let's say a woman is pregnant and has unprotected sex with multiple partners during the pregnancy.

She is doing this without her parents knowledge and contracts a STD.

This is passed on to the unborn child and it's born with it.

Partner finds out about STD and discovers baby is infected.

Could the mother then be charged with child abuse?

Look I am not taking the moral high ground just putting forward a potential issue.

So ok the mother really wants a shag while pregnant from several different guy's,what if she wants a drink or smoke or take drugs.

Is all this ok just because she wants to?

Well put. Especially the last bit. I think its an interesting moral question.

I feel like I'm missing something here. Are you really equating a pregnant woman doing drugs with a pregnant woman eating ice cream?

No, I'm making the comparison between having sex and eating 'risky foods' whilst pregnant. I'm asking where we draw the line?

Ah, I see.

I'm not offering an opinion, btw. I'm just saying that such a discussion could be interesting and worthwhile. "

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

No 1 hot pics at the moment is a pregnant lady, just saying.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

How has that even got to no.1. It makes me so flacid

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

There are plenty of fish in the sea, if you find one that you have some morality issue with then why persist?

Just throw that one back, leave it to its own course in life and choose another.

Morality is inflexible in a world that needs flexibility.

M & J

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Absolutely no dramas here. Just be gentle with her, in fact send her over here for some gentle fun.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

This has been interesting, and at times...amusing to read. I'm off to have sex with my pregnant wife. I'll let you all know how it was later

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Damn right it should be allowed.

Last year I had a couple of months of rampant, mind-blowing debauchery with a lovely young lady (25) who got amazingly horny in her middle trimester.... apparently not uncommon.

She came into fab...scratched her itch....then left and went back to her "normal" life.

No harm...no foul!

It's people's choices...simple as that!

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By *r Costa xxMan over a year ago

stirling

Well it most be popular, number 1 in Hot photos!

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By *ugby 123Couple over a year ago
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O o O oo

Assuming the male half of the relationship has stopped swinging while she is pregnant then having sex with your partner while pregnant is not the same as having NSA sex with strangers on the net. If anyone thinks the risks are the same then they are delusional.

If people want to know the risks they could google and they will find lots of sites outlining how bad the risks are.

It isn't about morals for me, it is about giving the child the best start in life, whether that means not eating eggs/ raw meat etc or not taking a chance on getting an STD for a quick bunk up

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"No 1 hot pics at the moment is a pregnant lady, just saying."
i bet. It is so sexy to see pregnant photos.

I was having lots of sex throughout most of my pregnancies x

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By *LCCCouple over a year ago

Cambridge

Do you think you should be the arbiter of who is and isn't allowed to have sex?

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By *adame BWoman over a year ago

C'est moi Boudoir

None of our business. Who gets to say something is "allowed"

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By *loswingersCouple over a year ago

Gloucester

"I swung whilst pregnant with all of my children...

Good for you , and why shouldn't you ?

All this nonsense about how one should put your own desires on hold for the baby's sake etc..

I guess getting sitters so you can swing after the child is born is wrong too ?

Or if you're a single parent who can't afford sitters , you shouldn't have a meet at home when the little ones tucked up in bed ?

The moral high ground taken by some on this thread is staggering .

It's any wonder we live in a society where kids rule the roost , and grow up with a totally entitled attitude !

Parents can and should be able to make their own decisions before , during and after childbirth without being judged .

It's interesting that you think caring for children's safety and wellbeing is 'moral high ground', like it's a bad thing.

You're telling people not to judge yet you're judging them."

That's a bit harsh !

I don't think that safe sexual activity during pregnancy , or other choices I've cited on the thread , are putting the child's safety and wellbeing at risk any more than dozens of other things we do in every day life .

And I did say that I have no issue with a simple statement saying I don't agree with it . It's the over zealous anti brigade I take issue with . Scaremongering and suggesting that those that do are putting their babies life at risk etc......

I guess it's impossible to have an alternative opinion to someone else without coming across as judgemental in some way or another , and I accept this too .

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By *iss_tressWoman over a year ago

London

As you've deduced: she's entitled to do what she wants with her body!

Would I? No!!! Lots of things I'd never consider whilst pregnant, but I don't have to deal with any fall out, so I could care less what others do.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I swung whilst pregnant with all of my children...

Good for you , and why shouldn't you ?

All this nonsense about how one should put your own desires on hold for the baby's sake etc..

I guess getting sitters so you can swing after the child is born is wrong too ?

Or if you're a single parent who can't afford sitters , you shouldn't have a meet at home when the little ones tucked up in bed ?

The moral high ground taken by some on this thread is staggering .

It's any wonder we live in a society where kids rule the roost , and grow up with a totally entitled attitude !

Parents can and should be able to make their own decisions before , during and after childbirth without being judged .

It's interesting that you think caring for children's safety and wellbeing is 'moral high ground', like it's a bad thing.

You're telling people not to judge yet you're judging them.

That's a bit harsh !

I guess it's impossible to have an alternative opinion to someone else without coming across as judgemental in some way or another , and I accept this too .

I apologise for misunderstanding.

Agree about your final comment. We all judge.

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By *ugby 123Couple over a year ago
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O o O oo

Scaremongering and suggesting that those that do are putting their babies life at risk etc......

It isn't scaremongering, it is true.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

It makes me feel uneasy to be honest.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I got really horny when I was pregnant. Must have been the extra hormones racing or something.

I think calling her for suggesting this is what's wrong.

As long as you're careful, no throwing around or being over enthusiastic and you play safe, then I really don't see the issue here

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By *o new WinksMan over a year ago

BSE

Well,are we going to deny all married ladies sex with their hubby?

Of course not. Sex is healthy if you are careful. So...

If not, then surely you are making a moral and not a biological judgement.

Not exactly sure this is the place for that.

You can do what you want yourself, but don't force you morality on others.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

It's entirely their choice. I don't see a problem with it. They have been up front so anyone that isn't into it simply doesn't meet, easy!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Its a special time in a womans life and above all the unborn should not be put at unnecessary risk in a recreational sex sense.

I am old fashioned though!

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By *riskynriskyCouple over a year ago

Essex.

Must be popular, the top profile in the hot pics is a pregnant lady...

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By *adame BWoman over a year ago

C'est moi Boudoir

"Must be popular, the top profile in the hot pics is a pregnant lady..."

It's a beautiful pic, I fabbed it. Was not swinging during my child bearing years but oh wow was I horny

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By *iss_tressWoman over a year ago

London

"Well,are we going to deny all married ladies sex with their hubby?

Of course not. Sex is healthy if you are careful. So...

If not, then surely you are making a moral and not a biological judgement.

Not exactly sure this is the place for that.

You can do what you want yourself, but don't force you morality on others.

I think you're missing the point!

We KNOW sex with strangers carries a risk. Even though we use protection most of us still visit a sexual health clinic. If we we're 100% confident we wouldn't go!

For some of us being pregnant is a special time to be shared with our partners. Some couples don't kiss or hug their playmates, others choose not to meet whilst pregnant.

If people want to take that risk that's down to them and their playmates, but some do make a distinction between having sex with the father of their child and Joe Bloggs.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Well,are we going to deny all married ladies sex with their hubby?

Of course not. Sex is healthy if you are careful. So...

If not, then surely you are making a moral and not a biological judgement.

Not exactly sure this is the place for that.

You can do what you want yourself, but don't force you morality on others.

I think you're missing the point!

We KNOW sex with strangers carries a risk. Even though we use protection most of us still visit a sexual health clinic. If we we're 100% confident we wouldn't go!

For some of us being pregnant is a special time to be shared with our partners. Some couples don't kiss or hug their playmates, others choose not to meet whilst pregnant.

If people want to take that risk that's down to them and their playmates, but some do make a distinction between having sex with the father of their child and Joe Bloggs."

A hell of a lot of people don't get tested though. They think they won't catch anything or because they have no symptoms they are clear.

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By *hubaysiWoman over a year ago

Leeds

As you've deduced: she's entitled to do what she wants with her body!

Would I? No!!! Lots of things I'd never consider whilst pregnant, but I don't have to deal with any fall out, so I could care less what others do."

My thoughts exactly. Why should I care less and if anything happens to unborn baby I haven't the consequences to deal with. At end of the day OP will decide what she does.

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