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Is anyone ever scared to post what they REALLY want to on some threads? Read one 5 mins ago that i really wanted to post on, said it in my head instead and it was fkin hilarious(other opinion's are available) but didn't have the heart/bottle to actually post it!  |
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If I said what I felt all the time I'd get a forum ban so I walk away from the keyboard and make a cup of tea instead. It's not a case of being scared, just awareness of consequences. "Think before you type", is my motto. With immediate effect. |
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over a year ago
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"Is anyone ever scared to post what they REALLY want to on some threads? Read one 5 mins ago that i really wanted to post on, said it in my head instead and it was fkin hilarious(other opinion's are available) but didn't have the heart/bottle to actually post it! "
Tell us what you were going to say, we won't tell anybody. |
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"You have to watch what you write in these forum's otherwise you just end up with a little holiday. I would love to write what I'm actually thinking at time's."
Oh i have had many "little forum holidays"  This one was it just felt too cruel! |
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over a year ago
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I post what I think. Unless it's utterly cuntish* in which case I'd just think it not post it.
(* In my opinion. I'm well aware that other people may think I'm being a cunt when I see no issue with it.) |
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"I post what I think. Unless it's utterly cuntish* in which case I'd just think it not post it.
(* In my opinion. I'm well aware that other people may think I'm being a cunt when I see no issue with it.) "
I will be honest, this one was a bit cuntish! |
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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago
Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum |
If I decide to reply I'll say what I think, but there any many posts that I'll start replying to then think 'what's the point?' and delete my reply. And then there are posts I won't touch with a bargepole. |
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"I post what I think. Unless it's utterly cuntish* in which case I'd just think it not post it.
(* In my opinion. I'm well aware that other people may think I'm being a cunt when I see no issue with it.)
I will be honest, this one was a bit cuntish! "
Sorry 
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"If I decide to reply I'll say what I think, but there any many posts that I'll start replying to then think 'what's the point?' and delete my reply. And then there are posts I won't touch with a bargepole."
The ones I think I shouldn't touch with a bargepole are the ones I usually post on.  |
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"If I decide to reply I'll say what I think, but there any many posts that I'll start replying to then think 'what's the point?' and delete my reply. And then there are posts I won't touch with a bargepole."
You didn't post on "steves enormous cock" thread  |
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"I post what I think. Unless it's utterly cuntish* in which case I'd just think it not post it.
(* In my opinion. I'm well aware that other people may think I'm being a cunt when I see no issue with it.) "
I generally agree with what you post, and mostly if it could be perceived as cuntish it's been deserved  |
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"I often proof read then think, nah not worth it and delete!
Other times I think it may be a bit close to the bone but just maybe it will slip past the radar.....and they never bloody do!   "
Exactly what i did...wrote it out, read it back, then thought nah, too harsh as i fell about laughing! lol |
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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago
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"If I decide to reply I'll say what I think, but there any many posts that I'll start replying to then think 'what's the point?' and delete my reply. And then there are posts I won't touch with a bargepole.
The ones I think I shouldn't touch with a bargepole are the ones I usually post on. "
I avoid the politics forum else I would be perma banned. |
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"You have to watch what you write in these forum's otherwise you just end up with a little holiday. I would love to write what I'm actually thinking at time's.
Oh i have had many "little forum holidays" This one was it just felt too cruel! "
Just so long as it wasn't about me I don't mind a bit of cruel  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I post what I think. Unless it's utterly cuntish* in which case I'd just think it not post it.
(* In my opinion. I'm well aware that other people may think I'm being a cunt when I see no issue with it.)
I generally agree with what you post, and mostly if it could be perceived as cuntish it's been deserved "
Thank you |
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over a year ago
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"I tend to post what i think. It never usually gets noticed as most ignore my comments anyhoo "
If there was a 'Like' button for posts I think you'd be pleasantly surprised. I think a lot of people would. |
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over a year ago
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I post what I want, but I usually try to be a bit careful in my wording.
I have notice that I've become much more flippant since being on the forums a while, though. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I often self-censor, not because I'm scared, but because I don't fancy a little holiday. I would love one day where there was an amnesty and I could just say it though. Actually maybe not, that would be Armageddon. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Just like in real life I edit what I really want to say to others as I don't want to offend. But no matter how hard you try to edit your posts someone somewhere will be offended. |
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over a year ago
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"I often self-censor, not because I'm scared, but because I don't fancy a little holiday. I would love one day where there was an amnesty and I could just say it though. Actually maybe not, that would be Armageddon. "
Isn't that what an epic leaving post is for? |
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I try not to make it personal so hold back,
But sometimes I want to say ffs grow up or If you don't know the answer by now you will never know to a lot of posts, Like people have already said its not worth time on the naughty step and will probably just come back and bite you in the arse |
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"I tend to post what i think. It never usually gets noticed as most ignore my comments anyhoo
If there was a 'Like' button for posts I think you'd be pleasantly surprised. I think a lot of people would. "
Oh don't say that, i like the feeling of hard donebyness |
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"I post what I want, but I usually try to be a bit careful in my wording.
I have notice that I've become much more flippant since being on the forums a while, though."
This for me too 
When I first started out I was way too nicey nice, didn't want to upset anyone with a differing opinion!
Nowadays, I don't post to be intentionally mean but I don't hold back like I used to. |
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over a year ago
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I sometimes think an uncensored thread where people only enter if they can handle shit and everything can be said without fear of holidays.
I really wanna ask a question but don't want to start my own thread about it. Someone ask me what I want to ask please. |
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"I sometimes think an uncensored thread where people only enter if they can handle shit and everything can be said without fear of holidays.
I really wanna ask a question but don't want to start my own thread about it. Someone ask me what I want to ask please. "
What do you want to ask? |
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over a year ago
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"I sometimes think an uncensored thread where people only enter if they can handle shit and everything can be said without fear of holidays.
I really wanna ask a question but don't want to start my own thread about it. Someone ask me what I want to ask please.
What do you want to ask?"
Oh go on then I'll say. Does anyone feel a bit peeved if you write a veri and the person doesn't display it? Like they're embarrassed or something, like I wanna say O mate what's the matter with my verification you should display it with honour! |
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"I sometimes think an uncensored thread where people only enter if they can handle shit and everything can be said without fear of holidays.
I really wanna ask a question but don't want to start my own thread about it. Someone ask me what I want to ask please.
What do you want to ask?
Oh go on then I'll say. Does anyone feel a bit peeved if you write a veri and the person doesn't display it? Like they're embarrassed or something, like I wanna say O mate what's the matter with my verification you should display it with honour!"
Do they show their other verifications ?
I don't always show mine but when I do I show all of them |
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"I sometimes think an uncensored thread where people only enter if they can handle shit and everything can be said without fear of holidays.
I really wanna ask a question but don't want to start my own thread about it. Someone ask me what I want to ask please.
What do you want to ask?
Oh go on then I'll say. Does anyone feel a bit peeved if you write a veri and the person doesn't display it? Like they're embarrassed or something, like I wanna say O mate what's the matter with my verification you should display it with honour!"
Sometimes yes, sometimes no.
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over a year ago
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"I sometimes think an uncensored thread where people only enter if they can handle shit and everything can be said without fear of holidays.
I really wanna ask a question but don't want to start my own thread about it. Someone ask me what I want to ask please.
What do you want to ask?
Oh go on then I'll say. Does anyone feel a bit peeved if you write a veri and the person doesn't display it? Like they're embarrassed or something, like I wanna say O mate what's the matter with my verification you should display it with honour!"
Lots of people here don't display veries. Some of those that do the graphic detail is beyond what we may need to know.
They only prove your real nothing more...
And everyone here knows your real...
But don't sweat the small stuff x |
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"I sometimes think an uncensored thread where people only enter if they can handle shit and everything can be said without fear of holidays.
I really wanna ask a question but don't want to start my own thread about it. Someone ask me what I want to ask please.
What do you want to ask?
Oh go on then I'll say. Does anyone feel a bit peeved if you write a veri and the person doesn't display it? Like they're embarrassed or something, like I wanna say O mate what's the matter with my verification you should display it with honour!
Sometimes yes, sometimes no.
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I'll add to that, it has been mentioned to me before that others are intimidated by me, and been put off meeting due to the other person having a veri from me.
I'm not sure if it's because I'm hot totty or high on the crazy scale. I'm going with the crazy scale thing. |
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"I sometimes think an uncensored thread where people only enter if they can handle shit and everything can be said without fear of holidays.
I really wanna ask a question but don't want to start my own thread about it. Someone ask me what I want to ask please.
What do you want to ask?
Oh go on then I'll say. Does anyone feel a bit peeved if you write a veri and the person doesn't display it? Like they're embarrassed or something, like I wanna say O mate what's the matter with my verification you should display it with honour!
Sometimes yes, sometimes no.
I'll add to that, it has been mentioned to me before that others are intimidated by me, and been put off meeting due to the other person having a veri from me.
I'm not sure if it's because I'm hot totty or high on the crazy scale. I'm going with the crazy scale thing. "
Crazyhottie sound better
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Obviously not scared enough ..ive been banned that many times I've lost count.!! ..I kind of weigh things up before I post something but it's like I say"shall I call them a twat and get banned or hold my tongue? ."..like I said I've been banned lots |
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"I sometimes think an uncensored thread where people only enter if they can handle shit and everything can be said without fear of holidays.
I really wanna ask a question but don't want to start my own thread about it. Someone ask me what I want to ask please.
What do you want to ask?
Oh go on then I'll say. Does anyone feel a bit peeved if you write a veri and the person doesn't display it? Like they're embarrassed or something, like I wanna say O mate what's the matter with my verification you should display it with honour!
Sometimes yes, sometimes no.
I'll add to that, it has been mentioned to me before that others are intimidated by me, and been put off meeting due to the other person having a veri from me.
I'm not sure if it's because I'm hot totty or high on the crazy scale. I'm going with the crazy scale thing. "
Have you got a classic Dudley accent? As in 'Dud-Lay'? |
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I wish more people would post - so many lurkers and people who don't feel confident enough to join in. I know the forums can be intimidating at times but we all want them to be a friendly place.... |
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"I sometimes think an uncensored thread where people only enter if they can handle shit and everything can be said without fear of holidays.
I really wanna ask a question but don't want to start my own thread about it. Someone ask me what I want to ask please.
What do you want to ask?
Oh go on then I'll say. Does anyone feel a bit peeved if you write a veri and the person doesn't display it? Like they're embarrassed or something, like I wanna say O mate what's the matter with my verification you should display it with honour!
Sometimes yes, sometimes no.
I'll add to that, it has been mentioned to me before that others are intimidated by me, and been put off meeting due to the other person having a veri from me.
I'm not sure if it's because I'm hot totty or high on the crazy scale. I'm going with the crazy scale thing.
Have you got a classic Dudley accent? As in 'Dud-Lay'? "
I do not. I'm from Essex ain't I me old china. |
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over a year ago
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"nah I just post anyway.
what's the worst that can happen, someone blocks me? "
I've been blocked by a few forumites which makes me chuckle as I think I'm pretty I offensive... I feel I've finally made it |
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"nah I just post anyway.
what's the worst that can happen, someone blocks me?
I've been blocked by a few forumites which makes me chuckle as I think I'm pretty I offensive... I feel I've finally made it "
I look at you secretly on occasion that's sounded a bit creepy  what I meant was for every one that blocks you, many more will be looking. |
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By *wentMan
over a year ago
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"Is anyone ever scared to post what they REALLY want to on some threads? Read one 5 mins ago that i really wanted to post on, said it in my head instead and it was fkin hilarious(other opinion's are available) but didn't have the heart/bottle to actually post it! "
Yes I don't always post what I want to say. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"nah I just post anyway.
what's the worst that can happen, someone blocks me?
I've been blocked by a few forumites which makes me chuckle as I think I'm pretty I offensive... I feel I've finally made it "
Bloody hell I can't type tonight!
Should read *pretty inoffensive* |
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"nah I just post anyway.
what's the worst that can happen, someone blocks me?
I've been blocked by a few forumites which makes me chuckle as I think I'm pretty I offensive... I feel I've finally made it
I look at you secretly on occasion that's sounded a bit creepy what I meant was for every one that blocks you, many more will be looking. "
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"I wish more people would post - so many lurkers and people who don't feel confident enough to join in. I know the forums can be intimidating at times but we all want them to be a friendly place...."
It's friendly if you say the right things to get people on side. |
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By *ieman300Man
over a year ago
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"Is anyone ever scared to post what they REALLY want to on some threads? Read one 5 mins ago that i really wanted to post on, said it in my head instead and it was fkin hilarious(other opinion's are available) but didn't have the heart/bottle to actually post it! "
Never a question of being scared. More a case of there not being much point in sime cases. Or you weigh up how much grief your going to cause or indeed get |
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"Is anyone ever scared to post what they REALLY want to on some threads? Read one 5 mins ago that i really wanted to post on, said it in my head instead and it was fkin hilarious(other opinion's are available) but didn't have the heart/bottle to actually post it!
Never a question of being scared. More a case of there not being much point in sime cases. Or you weigh up how much grief your going to cause or indeed get "
Think I must be selfish, I am always more aware of the grief I am going to get rather than the grief I am going to cause...what a bitch! |
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"I try to bite my tounge n not say owt but I have been sent on a few holidays for commenting "
Last time I was on a "holiday" I was back for all of 15mins before I went "away" again! So the need to tone it down was definitely there! |
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I think some things need a filter, in case of incurring a ban. I've started writing a comment in the past, then deleted, as I knew i'd get into trouble for posting it. |
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I would love to say what I really think to certain people who post things on some threads but I am loyal and supportive to somebody very close to me and that's? why I don't do it. It makes me the better person for it too x |
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"Is anyone ever scared to post what they REALLY want to on some threads? Read one 5 mins ago that i really wanted to post on, said it in my head instead and it was fkin hilarious(other opinion's are available) but didn't have the heart/bottle to actually post it! "
Never scared, but some threads I get the impression the op started it to be provocative and shit stir. As I believe they're needy, attention seeking brats I just ignore them and not fan the flames. |
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"I try to bite my tounge n not say owt but I have been sent on a few holidays for commenting
Last time I was on a "holiday" I was back for all of 15mins before I went "away" again! So the need to tone it down was definitely there! "
Ha ha that's piss funny |
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By *ieman300Man
over a year ago
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"Is anyone ever scared to post what they REALLY want to on some threads? Read one 5 mins ago that i really wanted to post on, said it in my head instead and it was fkin hilarious(other opinion's are available) but didn't have the heart/bottle to actually post it!
Never a question of being scared. More a case of there not being much point in sime cases. Or you weigh up how much grief your going to cause or indeed get
Think I must be selfish, I am always more aware of the grief I am going to get rather than the grief I am going to cause...what a bitch! "
Ill be taking more note of your posts in future lol. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"About 95% of the time I type something out and just delete it instead of posting.
I've only gone bat shit crazy the once and had a little holiday afterwards. "
Let all out. If you can't here where can you x |
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By (user no longer on site)
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""scared" isn't the right word, but I am cautious, Fabs is the most heavily moderated board I've ever posted on.
They seem to have their preferences "
Oh yeah I am always cautious. Think twice and all that |
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"As a 'non outspoken' person, it was strange that I once got a 5 day forum ban..a reason was never given  "
It can be something fairly innocuous like posting a non approved web link.....  |
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