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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Take her for a slap up cheese burger meal and at wimpy oh they closed down years ago so a take away in back of van in country lane with some music playing |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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When the football is on and she's mithering for sex i would just phone that mate of mine i know she fancies and let him fuck her into a frenzy.
Nothing should come between a bloke and his football  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"How would u show a lady u cared about them...
Would u send flowers??
Take her for a meal??
Come on let's us ladies know....
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I'd probably ask her name.... ( after we'd done it) |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Try to make every day as good as the first one, being genuinely excited to get home from work to listen , be interested in hearing about her day, the good and the "Ive heard you talk about that issue every day for the past week" problems which still haven't been resolved.. Feeding her the information she needs to solve her stress at work, without telling her , but influencing her to get the solution ... Oh and sitting through the endless soap operas , those that truly sap the life from within you, smiling through the painful dribble that makes her happy... |
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"Pamper evening... cook dinner run her a candlelit bath followed by massage simple really
Give that man a million brownie points!  "
Hahah thank you but not the most extravagant idea.. simple but effective |
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By *rrol.BMan
over a year ago
Wrexham |
I'd put up with their nonsense, help with their problems, listen when needed, answer honestly when asked and generally just be there for them no matter what.
That shows I care. Everything else is just fluff. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I'd put up with their nonsense, help with their problems, listen when needed, answer honestly when asked and generally just be there for them no matter what.
That shows I care. Everything else is just fluff."
*joke*
Liar - if they asked does my bum look big in this you would honestly answer ? You know no answer is ever gonna be right  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I'd put up with their nonsense, help with their problems, listen when needed, answer honestly when asked and generally just be there for them no matter what.
That shows I care. Everything else is just fluff."
 add lots of sex, kisses and cuddles and this is perfect! |
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By *rrol.BMan
over a year ago
Wrexham |
"I'd put up with their nonsense, help with their problems, listen when needed, answer honestly when asked and generally just be there for them no matter what.
That shows I care. Everything else is just fluff.
*joke*
Liar - if they asked does my bum look big in this you would honestly answer ? You know no answer is ever gonna be right "
Hah! Fortunately I've never been asked that one. I did tell her once that the dress she was wearing made her look like a frumpy teapot though. Honesty is always the best policy. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"When the football is on and she's mithering for sex i would just phone that mate of mine i know she fancies and let him fuck her into a frenzy.
Nothing should come between a bloke and his football "
Haha luckily Mr let me interrupt him watching Man Utd at the weekend.
But that's a good option too Mrs |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"When the football is on and she's mithering for sex i would just phone that mate of mine i know she fancies and let him fuck her into a frenzy.
Nothing should come between a bloke and his football
Haha luckily Mr let me interrupt him watching Man Utd at the weekend.
But that's a good option too Mrs"
Problem is i'd love to just have the option.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I've spent my whole life saying presents/flowers/gifts don't matter, let's just have a lovely time.
I think now I'd actually like a bit of that! I feel like I've missed out |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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My man brings me lunch most days, when we wake up he says good morning and snuggles into me, snuzzling my neck and makes coffee before checking his messages. He always makes sure he buys the yoghurt I like and buys eggs for me even though he can't stand them.
He let's me fuss around after him and always eats what I cook even if it isn't perfect.
He gives me a huge smile and a hug when he comes in from work followed by a lovely snog.
He took the time to learn what I liked in bed and does it so bloody well and often.
He fills up my car with fuel when I've never asked him to. He understands I don't earn nearly as much as him and takes me out to incredible restaurants weekly. When I save up and take him to less fancy places, he makes a big deal of enjoying the meal and pretending it's as good as the posh places he takes me.
He always buys the right conditioner and let's me watch funny animal clips on YouTube after we watch a scary film so I don't get nightmares.
All these little considerations make me feel loved and I do my best to return the favour. |
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By *DontExistWoman
over a year ago
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"My man brings me lunch most days, when we wake up he says good morning and snuggles into me, snuzzling my neck and makes coffee before checking his messages. He always makes sure he buys the yoghurt I like and buys eggs for me even though he can't stand them.
He let's me fuss around after him and always eats what I cook even if it isn't perfect.
He gives me a huge smile and a hug when he comes in from work followed by a lovely snog.
He took the time to learn what I liked in bed and does it so bloody well and often.
He fills up my car with fuel when I've never asked him to. He understands I don't earn nearly as much as him and takes me out to incredible restaurants weekly. When I save up and take him to less fancy places, he makes a big deal of enjoying the meal and pretending it's as good as the posh places he takes me.
He always buys the right conditioner and let's me watch funny animal clips on YouTube after we watch a scary film so I don't get nightmares.
All these little considerations make me feel loved and I do my best to return the favour. "
i want all this. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I've spent my whole life saying presents/flowers/gifts don't matter, let's just have a lovely time.
I think now I'd actually like a bit of that! I feel like I've missed out "
My other half has just come home with a big bunch of flowers as a 'well done' for getting on my uni course.
I retract what I typed  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I always found it was the little things that showed he cared. Messaging to make sure I was okay, massaging my legs and feet when I had a tiring day. Cuddling and telling me how much he loved me. Always there whenever I needed him, come what may.... Getting a little emotional now. Tiptoeing off the thread |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"My man brings me lunch most days, when we wake up he says good morning and snuggles into me, snuzzling my neck and makes coffee before checking his messages. He always makes sure he buys the yoghurt I like and buys eggs for me even though he can't stand them.
He let's me fuss around after him and always eats what I cook even if it isn't perfect.
He gives me a huge smile and a hug when he comes in from work followed by a lovely snog.
He took the time to learn what I liked in bed and does it so bloody well and often.
He fills up my car with fuel when I've never asked him to. He understands I don't earn nearly as much as him and takes me out to incredible restaurants weekly. When I save up and take him to less fancy places, he makes a big deal of enjoying the meal and pretending it's as good as the posh places he takes me.
He always buys the right conditioner and let's me watch funny animal clips on YouTube after we watch a scary film so I don't get nightmares.
All these little considerations make me feel loved and I do my best to return the favour. "
That sounds lovely |
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"I always found it was the little things that showed he cared. Messaging to make sure I was okay, massaging my legs and feet when I had a tiring day. Cuddling and telling me how much he loved me. Always there whenever I needed him, come what may.... Getting a little emotional now. Tiptoeing off the thread "
Quick put an Adele cd on.
Hello. Can you hear me? We split up years ago but I keep ringing up and you don't answer. Hello.
I think that's how the song starts |
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"My man brings me lunch most days, when we wake up he says good morning and snuggles into me, snuzzling my neck and makes coffee before checking his messages. He always makes sure he buys the yoghurt I like and buys eggs for me even though he can't stand them.
He let's me fuss around after him and always eats what I cook even if it isn't perfect.
He gives me a huge smile and a hug when he comes in from work followed by a lovely snog.
He took the time to learn what I liked in bed and does it so bloody well and often.
He fills up my car with fuel when I've never asked him to. He understands I don't earn nearly as much as him and takes me out to incredible restaurants weekly. When I save up and take him to less fancy places, he makes a big deal of enjoying the meal and pretending it's as good as the posh places he takes me.
He always buys the right conditioner and let's me watch funny animal clips on YouTube after we watch a scary film so I don't get nightmares.
All these little considerations make me feel loved and I do my best to return the favour. "
That's lovely. |
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"When the football is on and she's mithering for sex i would just phone that mate of mine i know she fancies and let him fuck her into a frenzy.
Nothing should come between a bloke and his football "
You are perfect |
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By *s_macWoman
over a year ago
Traffic land |
"My man brings me lunch most days, when we wake up he says good morning and snuggles into me, snuzzling my neck and makes coffee before checking his messages. He always makes sure he buys the yoghurt I like and buys eggs for me even though he can't stand them.
He let's me fuss around after him and always eats what I cook even if it isn't perfect.
He gives me a huge smile and a hug when he comes in from work followed by a lovely snog.
He took the time to learn what I liked in bed and does it so bloody well and often.
He fills up my car with fuel when I've never asked him to. He understands I don't earn nearly as much as him and takes me out to incredible restaurants weekly. When I save up and take him to less fancy places, he makes a big deal of enjoying the meal and pretending it's as good as the posh places he takes me.
He always buys the right conditioner and let's me watch funny animal clips on YouTube after we watch a scary film so I don't get nightmares.
All these little considerations make me feel loved and I do my best to return the favour. "
You're a lucky lady 
I think it's always the little thoughtful things that show you care rather than an expensive/grand gesture. |
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"My man brings me lunch most days, when we wake up he says good morning and snuggles into me, snuzzling my neck and makes coffee before checking his messages. He always makes sure he buys the yoghurt I like and buys eggs for me even though he can't stand them.
He let's me fuss around after him and always eats what I cook even if it isn't perfect.
He gives me a huge smile and a hug when he comes in from work followed by a lovely snog.
He took the time to learn what I liked in bed and does it so bloody well and often.
He fills up my car with fuel when I've never asked him to. He understands I don't earn nearly as much as him and takes me out to incredible restaurants weekly. When I save up and take him to less fancy places, he makes a big deal of enjoying the meal and pretending it's as good as the posh places he takes me.
He always buys the right conditioner and let's me watch funny animal clips on YouTube after we watch a scary film so I don't get nightmares.
All these little considerations make me feel loved and I do my best to return the favour. "
Aww yeah, he cares!  |
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"I've spent my whole life saying presents/flowers/gifts don't matter, let's just have a lovely time.
I think now I'd actually like a bit of that! I feel like I've missed out "
Yes, I don't think flowers have to signify romance at all - they're just NICE!! And I don't men tasteless showy bouquets or anything, a couple of £3 bunches of stocks or tulips are wonderful in a room, some people just buy cut flowers to have around the house anyway, they're lovely.
I think it's thoughtful, I like buying people flowers |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Let her touch my crown jewels
I love to get my hands and mouth around your crown jewels gorgeous XXXXXX
That's it freezing cold shower time for you off you go sexy  "
Only if you come help me in. Soap up my body |
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By *andsonjohnMan
over a year ago
in the eye of the storm |
"Let her touch my crown jewels
I love to get my hands and mouth around your crown jewels gorgeous XXXXXX
That's it freezing cold shower time for you off you go sexy
Only if you come help me in. Soap up my body "
Cheeky little minx tell you what I will towel you down afterwards to warm you back up |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I've spent my whole life saying presents/flowers/gifts don't matter, let's just have a lovely time.
I think now I'd actually like a bit of that! I feel like I've missed out
Yes, I don't think flowers have to signify romance at all - they're just NICE!! And I don't men tasteless showy bouquets or anything, a couple of £3 bunches of stocks or tulips are wonderful in a room, some people just buy cut flowers to have around the house anyway, they're lovely.
I think it's thoughtful, I like buying people flowers "
Daffodils in spring, on a windowsill. Simple pleasures |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Let her touch my crown jewels
I love to get my hands and mouth around your crown jewels gorgeous XXXXXX
That's it freezing cold shower time for you off you go sexy
Only if you come help me in. Soap up my body
Cheeky little minx tell you what I will towel you down afterwards to warm you back up "
Ohhhh you warm me up gorgeous you get me hot |
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By *andsonjohnMan
over a year ago
in the eye of the storm |
"Let her touch my crown jewels
I love to get my hands and mouth around your crown jewels gorgeous XXXXXX
That's it freezing cold shower time for you off you go sexy
Only if you come help me in. Soap up my body
Cheeky little minx tell you what I will towel you down afterwards to warm you back up
Ohhhh you warm me up gorgeous you get me hot "
Now I know your after my crown jewels that it I'm putting them out of your reach |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Let her touch my crown jewels
I love to get my hands and mouth around your crown jewels gorgeous XXXXXX
That's it freezing cold shower time for you off you go sexy
Only if you come help me in. Soap up my body
Cheeky little minx tell you what I will towel you down afterwards to warm you back up
Ohhhh you warm me up gorgeous you get me hot
Now I know your after my crown jewels that it I'm putting them out of your reach "
That won't be to hard I'm a short arse |
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By *andsonjohnMan
over a year ago
in the eye of the storm |
"Let her touch my crown jewels
I love to get my hands and mouth around your crown jewels gorgeous XXXXXX
That's it freezing cold shower time for you off you go sexy
Only if you come help me in. Soap up my body
Cheeky little minx tell you what I will towel you down afterwards to warm you back up
Ohhhh you warm me up gorgeous you get me hot
Now I know your after my crown jewels that it I'm putting them out of your reach
That won't be to hard I'm a short arse "
Sexy fit little short arse |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Let her touch my crown jewels
I love to get my hands and mouth around your crown jewels gorgeous XXXXXX
That's it freezing cold shower time for you off you go sexy
Only if you come help me in. Soap up my body
Cheeky little minx tell you what I will towel you down afterwards to warm you back up
Ohhhh you warm me up gorgeous you get me hot
Now I know your after my crown jewels that it I'm putting them out of your reach
That won't be to hard I'm a short arse
Sexy fit little short arse "
Just right to chuck me around the bedroom |
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By *andsonjohnMan
over a year ago
in the eye of the storm |
"Let her touch my crown jewels
I love to get my hands and mouth around your crown jewels gorgeous XXXXXX
That's it freezing cold shower time for you off you go sexy
Only if you come help me in. Soap up my body
Cheeky little minx tell you what I will towel you down afterwards to warm you back up
Ohhhh you warm me up gorgeous you get me hot
Now I know your after my crown jewels that it I'm putting them out of your reach
That won't be to hard I'm a short arse
Sexy fit little short arse
Just right to chuck me around the bedroom "
And to pin down and go caveman on |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Let her touch my crown jewels
I love to get my hands and mouth around your crown jewels gorgeous XXXXXX
That's it freezing cold shower time for you off you go sexy
Only if you come help me in. Soap up my body
Cheeky little minx tell you what I will towel you down afterwards to warm you back up
Ohhhh you warm me up gorgeous you get me hot
Now I know your after my crown jewels that it I'm putting them out of your reach
That won't be to hard I'm a short arse
Sexy fit little short arse
Just right to chuck me around the bedroom
And to pin down and go caveman on "
You know I love a cave man |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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When we can get some time to ourselves, I.e date night. I get a rose for her and write a loverly message for her to read, this includes some pamper time for her, so she can be her. And not mummy. When I know she is on her way back, I run a bath for her, with some scented candles, and chill out music.let her relax for a bit, and offer to join her. Then we start of having sex in the bath, then take it to the bedroom to have a few hours of fun. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"It's all about intimacy....you don't have to spoil your lady with chocolates or flowers but it doesn't hurt just make your lady feel wanted  "
Spot on |
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Never really had to show by getting flowers and all that stuff although when I'm in a relationship I like doing all that stuff naturally.
I would much prefer the she gets home for a hard day graft I've already started a nice meal, bath has been run lots of candles and bubbles glass of her favourite alcoholic beverage waiting. She can go relax and unwind while i finish off dinner then a nice chilled meal. And to finish off a nice early night with a deep soothing massage until she falls asleep. I can have my fun another night
Actually done this many times for that special someone in the past. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"How would u show a lady u cared about them...
Would u send flowers??
Take her for a meal??
Come on let's us ladies know....
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Simple really,I would tell her. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"How would u show a lady u cared about them...
Would u send flowers??
Take her for a meal??
Come on let's us ladies know....
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If I really, really liked them?... I suppose I may make them a post coital cuppa |
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"How would u show a lady u cared about them...
Would u send flowers??
Take her for a meal??
Come on let's us ladies know....
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Are you talking about ladies the guys care about, or women that they want to swing with? |
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A nice meal. Good conversation. Lots of taling and listening. Little tactile moments. Telling her how good she looks. NOT looking at other girls for once..... followed by a romantic candle lit massage.... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I probably just wouldn't be an ass hole to her, respect her, care when she's down and help her laugh, plenty hugs and awesome sex lol. This is not a comprehensive list lol.
Candle baths and flowers are all good and well but if you do the above properly then it's all part of it . |
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By *litterbabeWoman
over a year ago
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It depends completely on the woman.
Listen to what she has to say, look at how she is, and have a think about what would really make her smile.
For one lady it could be a candle lit home dinner, and for another it could be lingerie or flowers.
For someone else it might be a poem in a card.
It depends on what makes that person tick.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"My man brings me lunch most days, when we wake up he says good morning and snuggles into me, snuzzling my neck and makes coffee before checking his messages. He always makes sure he buys the yoghurt I like and buys eggs for me even though he can't stand them.
He let's me fuss around after him and always eats what I cook even if it isn't perfect.
He gives me a huge smile and a hug when he comes in from work followed by a lovely snog.
He took the time to learn what I liked in bed and does it so bloody well and often.
He fills up my car with fuel when I've never asked him to. He understands I don't earn nearly as much as him and takes me out to incredible restaurants weekly. When I save up and take him to less fancy places, he makes a big deal of enjoying the meal and pretending it's as good as the posh places he takes me.
He always buys the right conditioner and let's me watch funny animal clips on YouTube after we watch a scary film so I don't get nightmares.
All these little considerations make me feel loved and I do my best to return the favour. "
This is simply amazing. I'm actually a wee bit jealous of your happiness |
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"I've spent my whole life saying presents/flowers/gifts don't matter, let's just have a lovely time.
I think now I'd actually like a bit of that! I feel like I've missed out
Yes, I don't think flowers have to signify romance at all - they're just NICE!! And I don't men tasteless showy bouquets or anything, a couple of £3 bunches of stocks or tulips are wonderful in a room, some people just buy cut flowers to have around the house anyway, they're lovely.
I think it's thoughtful, I like buying people flowers
Daffodils in spring, on a windowsill. Simple pleasures "
Exactly! Lidl pink or mauve tulips at £2 a bunch for weeks on end! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I fucking hate flowers
What about a cactus plant? "
do they make pollen and can they live without me having to do anything?
cause if somone buys me a house plant theyve not given me a gift they've given me a chore that makes me sneeze and my eyes hurt  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I fucking hate flowers
What about a cactus plant?
do they make pollen and can they live without me having to do anything?
cause if somone buys me a house plant theyve not given me a gift they've given me a chore that makes me sneeze and my eyes hurt "
I'm not a cactus expert but apparently there is a shop in Dalston dedicated to cactus plants called Prick
It made me laugh  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I fucking hate flowers
What about a cactus plant?
do they make pollen and can they live without me having to do anything?
cause if somone buys me a house plant theyve not given me a gift they've given me a chore that makes me sneeze and my eyes hurt
I'm not a cactus expert but apparently there is a shop in Dalston dedicated to cactus plants called Prick
It made me laugh "
Ever one needs one of them. I've had a few pricks in my life |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I have never been given flowers
Im appreciate actions ( not that i have much experience of these either) more than random gifts.x "
aren't random gifts an action? |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I have never been given flowers
Im appreciate actions ( not that i have much experience of these either) more than random gifts.x
aren't random gifts an action?"
Yeah i worded that wrong. I meant along the lines of grand gestures. Small thoughtful gifts that they know i will like rather than over the top things they think they should be doing. My brain is frazzled today so im not very articulate!  |
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By *ex LutherMan
over a year ago
Closer than you think |
I like to surprise someone with small tokens of my affection I listen and make a mental note of what she might like and act on it later....or a simple careful worded message showing my appreciation... |
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I'll even put the bog seat down as well 
