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This maybe/ hopefully a little premature as it's tonight the meets is supposed to be happening. Been messaging all week agreed to meet said we would book a hotel like we have and now no messages since even though she's been on line since & read our message telling her about the room! We are getting that sinking feeling lol. Hopefully it will happen.  |
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over a year ago
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Presumably it's too early to book into the hotel yet so maybe you could check what time you can cancel up to?
Many hotels allow you to cancel on the day upto say 2pm. If she hasn't responded to your messages by then, I'd cancel or enjoy the room for just the two of you. |
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"Presumably it's too early to book into the hotel yet so maybe you could check what time you can cancel up to?
Many hotels allow you to cancel on the day upto say 2pm. If she hasn't responded to your messages by then, I'd cancel or enjoy the room for just the two of you. "
24hrs unfortunately, but we will be enjoying it ourselves if she doesn't show. |
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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago
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"Might be worth putting the feelers out for someone else to join you."
This is a good idea, although as the OP is looking for a single female they might struggle. Maybe see if there is a club or social nearby?
Orrrr, maybe she's just in the shower and will reply soon  |
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"Might be worth putting the feelers out for someone else to join you.
This is a good idea, although as the OP is looking for a single female they might struggle. Maybe see if there is a club or social nearby?
Orrrr, maybe she's just in the shower and will reply soon "
yes very unlikely that a female just waiting in the wings. lol it's been a long shower! Haha, |
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over a year ago
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It's awful, that feeling.
I know when me and a FB arrange a meet, we have one or two guys in reserve, but single bi fems are hard to come by so I hope yours at least lets you know.
As one of the previous posters said, get her to confirm by a certain time..
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Looks like it's not happening, we haven't tried any further messages but we have been blocked & defriended! £80 for the room in our home town when we have perfectly good beds at home! lol.
Any genuine girl fancies saving the day with no expectations from us get in contact.  |
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"Looks like it's not happening, we haven't tried any further messages but we have been blocked & defriended! £80 for the room in our home town when we have perfectly good beds at home! lol.
Any genuine girl fancies saving the day with no expectations from us get in contact. "
Good luck! |
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Update.. no show... not a shock just a real shame that someone feels it right to treat people like that. We had our own fun but it's making us feel that it taking all the fun out of what supposed to be fun times. Anyone has the right to change there mind but not to message and block is bang out of order. Only realised yesterday's that's she not photo verified! So this maybe there idea of fun!! Anyone who wants to know her name so not to fall into the same thing pm us. The search continues lol |
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My experience of being on here (the forums) single bi females are the most rarest and smallest group on here. I'd have to speak to them on the phone, send live pictures on kik or even direct picture on here. Even then it's not a guaranty. |
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"Looks like it's not happening, we haven't tried any further messages but we have been blocked & defriended! £80 for the room in our home town when we have perfectly good beds at home! lol.
Any genuine girl fancies saving the day with no expectations from us get in contact. "
I'm sorry they turned out to be a timewaster but why did you book a hotel in your home town when your profile says you can accommodate? |
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"Rip it up and start again
Rip it up and start again
I hope to god your not as dumb as you make out
I hope to god
I hope to god"
2 things why do you repeat yourself & care to explain the why you feel you need to insult us? |
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"Looks like it's not happening, we haven't tried any further messages but we have been blocked & defriended! £80 for the room in our home town when we have perfectly good beds at home! lol.
Any genuine girl fancies saving the day with no expectations from us get in contact.
I'm sorry they turned out to be a timewaster but why did you book a hotel in your home town when your profile says you can accommodate?"
some say can accommodate if they are happy to provide a hotel room - personally i take it as at home but not all do |
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By *osweet69Couple
over a year ago
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"My experience of being on here (the forums) single bi females are the most rarest and smallest group on here. I'd have to speak to them on the phone, send live pictures on kik or even direct picture on here. Even then it's not a guaranty. "
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"You spent out £80 on the promise of a meet with an *unverified* woman???  "
live & learn unfortunately, luckily can afford it but is it too much trouble to ask for a bit of respect & honesty? May I add she been on here for a good while that's probably why we didn't notice this. |
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"Looks like it's not happening, we haven't tried any further messages but we have been blocked & defriended! £80 for the room in our home town when we have perfectly good beds at home! lol.
Any genuine girl fancies saving the day with no expectations from us get in contact.
I'm sorry they turned out to be a timewaster but why did you book a hotel in your home town when your profile says you can accommodate?
some say can accommodate if they are happy to provide a hotel room - personally i take it as at home but not all do "
That's understandable |
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"You spent out £80 on the promise of a meet with an *unverified* woman??? live & learn unfortunately, luckily can afford it but is it too much trouble to ask for a bit of respect & honesty? May I add she been on here for a good while that's probably why we didn't notice this. "
Had she been meet verified?
I'm not photo verified but I am meet verified and I think those verifications count for more than a photo verification, |
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"Update.. no show... not a shock just a real shame that someone feels it right to treat people like that. We had our own fun but it's making us feel that it taking all the fun out of what supposed to be fun times. Anyone has the right to change there mind but not to message and block is bang out of order. Only realised yesterday's that's she not photo verified! So this maybe there idea of fun!! Anyone who wants to know her name so not to fall into the same thing pm us. The search continues lol"
I'm not photo verified and I'm real although not bi... so don't go by that alone & tbh just because someone has veris isn't a guarantee against 'no shows'.
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"Update.. no show... not a shock just a real shame that someone feels it right to treat people like that. We had our own fun but it's making us feel that it taking all the fun out of what supposed to be fun times. Anyone has the right to change there mind but not to message and block is bang out of order. Only realised yesterday's that's she not photo verified! So this maybe there idea of fun!! Anyone who wants to know her name so not to fall into the same thing pm us. The search continues lol"
Would like to know but age filters are on. |
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"You spent out £80 on the promise of a meet with an *unverified* woman??? live & learn unfortunately, luckily can afford it but is it too much trouble to ask for a bit of respect & honesty? May I add she been on here for a good while that's probably why we didn't notice this.
Had she been meet verified?no idea now & can't check with us being blocked. lol
I'm not photo verified but I am meet verified and I think those verifications count for more than a photo verification,"
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By *s_macWoman
over a year ago
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"Rip it up and start again
Rip it up and start again
I hope to god your not as dumb as you make out
I hope to god
I hope to god2 things why do you repeat yourself & care to explain the why you feel you need to insult us? "
It's lyrics from a song..
https://youtu.be/ESy-Z8vqMrE |
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"Presumably it's too early to book into the hotel yet so maybe you could check what time you can cancel up to?
Many hotels allow you to cancel on the day upto say 2pm. If she hasn't responded to your messages by then, I'd cancel or enjoy the room for just the two of you. 24hrs unfortunately, but we will be enjoying it ourselves if she doesn't show. "
If I wasn't too old - and unavailable tonight - I'd offer to fill in! 
Some great pics op! |
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"You spent out £80 on the promise of a meet with an *unverified* woman??? live & learn unfortunately, luckily can afford it but is it too much trouble to ask for a bit of respect & honesty? May I add she been on here for a good while that's probably why we didn't notice this.
Had she been meet verified?
I'm not photo verified but I am meet verified and I think those verifications count for more than a photo verification,"
Agreed!
All photo verification does is prove they've got the bits they say they have! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Rip it up and start again
Rip it up and start again
I hope to god your not as dumb as you make out
I hope to god
I hope to god2 things why do you repeat yourself & care to explain the why you feel you need to insult us? "
Orange juice ~ rip it up
Was the first thing that came to mind when reading your op, I like to relate things to music.
I interpreted it as ... never mind, try again and learn from your mistakes. Wasn't designed to offend.
If you've taken offence then that's your issue, booking and paying for a hotel in your home town to meet an unverified single fem seemed rather dumb to me but hey, you're the 'professionals' so it's probably me that's dumb.
Better luck next time, and happy swinging
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"This maybe/ hopefully a little premature as it's tonight the meets is supposed to be happening. Been messaging all week agreed to meet said we would book a hotel like we have and now no messages since even though she's been on line since & read our message telling her about the room! We are getting that sinking feeling lol. Hopefully it will happen. "
We have had this too, once with a couple and twice with a single guy.
They just get off on playing you.
One was very convincing, even sent confirmation of the hotel booking.
Strangely it was cancelled later the same day.
Fingers crossed for you, but would say most likely a wind up, sorry  |
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"Presumably it's too early to book into the hotel yet so maybe you could check what time you can cancel up to?
Many hotels allow you to cancel on the day upto say 2pm. If she hasn't responded to your messages by then, I'd cancel or enjoy the room for just the two of you. 24hrs unfortunately, but we will be enjoying it ourselves if she doesn't show.
If I wasn't too old - and unavailable tonight - I'd offer to fill in!
Some great pics op! "
Thank you. You have great pics too. |
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On a positive note op - you're a couple!
When I get let down I'm knackered. You've already got the company of someone you love!
Personally I'd turn it into a treat/date night! Go for dinner, dress nicely, flirt - maybe even a little role play - then go back to the hotel to tease, please and have the best sex you've had in ages!
Hell - you may even end up being glad she let you down!! |
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"On a positive note op - you're a couple!
When I get let down I'm knackered. You've already got the company of someone you love!
Personally I'd turn it into a treat/date night! Go for dinner, dress nicely, flirt - maybe even a little role play - then go back to the hotel to tease, please and have the best sex you've had in ages!
Hell - you may even end up being glad she let you down!! "
think they did that - it was last night  |
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"On a positive note op - you're a couple!
When I get let down I'm knackered. You've already got the company of someone you love!
Personally I'd turn it into a treat/date night! Go for dinner, dress nicely, flirt - maybe even a little role play - then go back to the hotel to tease, please and have the best sex you've had in ages!
Hell - you may even end up being glad she let you down!!
think they did that - it was last night "
Oops!
Ok plan B!
You and I show up at the room with our combined age of 100 and show 'em what the old folk can do!! |
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"Rip it up and start again
Rip it up and start again
I hope to god your not as dumb as you make out
I hope to god
I hope to god2 things why do you repeat yourself & care to explain the why you feel you need to insult us?
Orange juice ~ rip it up
Was the first thing that came to mind when reading your op, I like to relate things to music.
I interpreted it as ... never mind, try again and learn from your mistakes. Wasn't designed to offend.
If you've taken offence then that's your issue, booking and paying for a hotel in your home town to meet an unverified single fem seemed rather dumb to me but hey, you're the 'professionals' so it's probably me that's dumb.
Better luck next time, and happy swinging
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Thanks for clearing that up for me, I should have realised it was a song. Thanks for the second sly dig in the last part, (Well done on never making a mistake) no need to reply again to explain to me just saying that I noticed it. Enjoy your day and thank you for the input. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"On a positive note op - you're a couple!
When I get let down I'm knackered. You've already got the company of someone you love!
Personally I'd turn it into a treat/date night! Go for dinner, dress nicely, flirt - maybe even a little role play - then go back to the hotel to tease, please and have the best sex you've had in ages!
Hell - you may even end up being glad she let you down!!
think they did that - it was last night
Oops!
Ok plan B!
You and I show up at the room with our combined age of 100 and show 'em what the old folk can do!! "
Or add me too and make it 150 lol |
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"On a positive note op - you're a couple!
When I get let down I'm knackered. You've already got the company of someone you love!
Personally I'd turn it into a treat/date night! Go for dinner, dress nicely, flirt - maybe even a little role play - then go back to the hotel to tease, please and have the best sex you've had in ages!
Hell - you may even end up being glad she let you down!! "
lol, we did have a great night tbf. |
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"On a positive note op - you're a couple!
When I get let down I'm knackered. You've already got the company of someone you love!
Personally I'd turn it into a treat/date night! Go for dinner, dress nicely, flirt - maybe even a little role play - then go back to the hotel to tease, please and have the best sex you've had in ages!
Hell - you may even end up being glad she let you down!!
think they did that - it was last night
Oops!
Ok plan B!
You and I show up at the room with our combined age of 100 and show 'em what the old folk can do!! "
lol |
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"On a positive note op - you're a couple!
When I get let down I'm knackered. You've already got the company of someone you love!
Personally I'd turn it into a treat/date night! Go for dinner, dress nicely, flirt - maybe even a little role play - then go back to the hotel to tease, please and have the best sex you've had in ages!
Hell - you may even end up being glad she let you down!! lol, we did have a great night tbf. "
Aw delighted to hear it! You seem a really nice couple!
May be worth looking at your age limit? Not referring to myself personally - but there are a lot of very attractive over 40 ladies on here - and I imagine a more mature lady who has to juggle jobs/childcare etc would be more likely to value yours/their own free time and be less likely to play stupid games!
Just a thought! Xx |
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"On a positive note op - you're a couple!
When I get let down I'm knackered. You've already got the company of someone you love!
Personally I'd turn it into a treat/date night! Go for dinner, dress nicely, flirt - maybe even a little role play - then go back to the hotel to tease, please and have the best sex you've had in ages!
Hell - you may even end up being glad she let you down!!
think they did that - it was last night
Oops!
Ok plan B!
You and I show up at the room with our combined age of 100 and show 'em what the old folk can do!!
Or add me too and make it 150 lol"
Hell yeah!  |
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