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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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This has confused me all my adult life. Why do you wear beautiful revealing tops and then look disgusted when we try to steal a cheeky glance? Are we not supposed to look down or just constantly stare in to your eyes? For the time being I'll keep my sunnies on  |
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"This has confused me all my adult life. Why do you wear beautiful revealing tops and then look disgusted when we try to steal a cheeky glance? Are we not supposed to look down or just constantly stare in to your eyes? For the time being I'll keep my sunnies on "
Talk to the person not the breasts and you won't go far wrong. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"This has confused me all my adult life. Why do you wear beautiful revealing tops and then look disgusted when we try to steal a cheeky glance? Are we not supposed to look down or just constantly stare in to your eyes? For the time being I'll keep my sunnies on
Talk to the person not the breasts and you won't go far wrong."
But that's the issue, when they're proudly on display it's difficult not too  |
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"This has confused me all my adult life. Why do you wear beautiful revealing tops and then look disgusted when we try to steal a cheeky glance? Are we not supposed to look down or just constantly stare in to your eyes? For the time being I'll keep my sunnies on
Talk to the person not the breasts and you won't go far wrong. But that's the issue, when they're proudly on display it's difficult not too "
Ok. It is difficult for men. As I said though don't assume that women dress for men's benefit. It can be dispiriting for a woman to be having a serious professional discussion and have a man staring at a body part.
Realistic women know that men look and realistic men know to be discreet about it unless the situation requires otherwise. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"This has confused me all my adult life. Why do you wear beautiful revealing tops and then look disgusted when we try to steal a cheeky glance? Are we not supposed to look down or just constantly stare in to your eyes? For the time being I'll keep my sunnies on
Talk to the person not the breasts and you won't go far wrong. But that's the issue, when they're proudly on display it's difficult not too
Ok. It is difficult for men. As I said though don't assume that women dress for men's benefit. It can be dispiriting for a woman to be having a serious professional discussion and have a man staring at a body part.
Realistic women know that men look and realistic men know to be discreet about it unless the situation requires otherwise."
I thought he meant when casually passing.  |
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It depends on how you look!
I'm proud of my body, I'm not going to hide it away, it's very flattering to know that people look at you, find you attractive, but there's a huge difference from someone giving me an admiring glance to soneone having a full on dirty ketch.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Personally I think women wear revealing tops knowing men are going to look.
I find it funny when they take a sneaky look and hope you haven't noticed
Having the odd look is fine but continually looking at their boobs and not their face when chatting is rude. |
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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago
Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum |
This is not a problem I experience.
I'm curious: is it what the woman is wearing? Or is it the women that is wearing it too? I suspect the latter, else the OP would be gazing lustily at every woman in a skimpy top. Every. Woman!  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I'm not stupid enough to not know that showing my cleavage will attract attention to my breasts. This is why I always dressed conservatively at work. While I was at my last job we had a pep talk from the head, regarding dress code. Trousers and shirts for men, smart skirts/trousers/dresses for women-not too short- and no revealing tops.
My sister worked for a very big company and they sent a memo around, about not wearing revealing tops, because some younger woman were wearing them.
If you show it, people will look. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"i don't mind you looking at my tits....i will look at your crotch"
A cheeky crotch glance is a huge turn on and that's why I wear nice trousers to get the best impact. There's no difference in this stance to a revealing top in my mind
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"This has confused me all my adult life. Why do you wear beautiful revealing tops and then look disgusted when we try to steal a cheeky glance? Are we not supposed to look down or just constantly stare in to your eyes? For the time being I'll keep my sunnies on
Talk to the person not the breasts and you won't go far wrong. But that's the issue, when they're proudly on display it's difficult not too
Ok. It is difficult for men. As I said though don't assume that women dress for men's benefit. It can be dispiriting for a woman to be having a serious professional discussion and have a man staring at a body part.
Realistic women know that men look and realistic men know to be discreet about it unless the situation requires otherwise.
I thought he meant when casually passing. "
Difficult to stare constantly into someone's eyes while casually passing |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"This has confused me all my adult life. Why do you wear beautiful revealing tops and then look disgusted when we try to steal a cheeky glance? Are we not supposed to look down or just constantly stare in to your eyes? For the time being I'll keep my sunnies on
Talk to the person not the breasts and you won't go far wrong. But that's the issue, when they're proudly on display it's difficult not too
Ok. It is difficult for men. As I said though don't assume that women dress for men's benefit. It can be dispiriting for a woman to be having a serious professional discussion and have a man staring at a body part.
Realistic women know that men look and realistic men know to be discreet about it unless the situation requires otherwise.
I thought he meant when casually passing.
Difficult to stare constantly into someone's eyes while casually passing "
Making eye contact can be no more than a glance, i thought you would have known that. |
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"Look by all means but if you want to engage in a conversation, talk to my face not to my tits...."
Agreed.
On holiday one year there was an older guy who used to stare at my chest whenever we chatted to him. We used to laugh about it, not in a good way. |
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"This has confused me all my adult life. Why do you wear beautiful revealing tops and then look disgusted when we try to steal a cheeky glance? Are we not supposed to look down or just constantly stare in to your eyes? For the time being I'll keep my sunnies on
Talk to the person not the breasts and you won't go far wrong. But that's the issue, when they're proudly on display it's difficult not too
Ok. It is difficult for men. As I said though don't assume that women dress for men's benefit. It can be dispiriting for a woman to be having a serious professional discussion and have a man staring at a body part.
Realistic women know that men look and realistic men know to be discreet about it unless the situation requires otherwise.
I thought he meant when casually passing.
Difficult to stare constantly into someone's eyes while casually passing
Making eye contact can be no more than a glance, i thought you would have known that. "
I'm just going by what the op wrote. It's no big deal. You have your interpretation, I have mine. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"This has confused me all my adult life. Why do you wear beautiful revealing tops and then look disgusted when we try to steal a cheeky glance? Are we not supposed to look down or just constantly stare in to your eyes? For the time being I'll keep my sunnies on
Talk to the person not the breasts and you won't go far wrong. But that's the issue, when they're proudly on display it's difficult not too
Ok. It is difficult for men. As I said though don't assume that women dress for men's benefit. It can be dispiriting for a woman to be having a serious professional discussion and have a man staring at a body part.
Realistic women know that men look and realistic men know to be discreet about it unless the situation requires otherwise.
I thought he meant when casually passing.
Difficult to stare constantly into someone's eyes while casually passing
Making eye contact can be no more than a glance, i thought you would have known that.
I'm just going by what the op wrote. It's no big deal. You have your interpretation, I have mine. "
That'll teach me for not reading a post properly, doh. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"This has confused me all my adult life. Why do you wear beautiful revealing tops and then look disgusted when we try to steal a cheeky glance? Are we not supposed to look down or just constantly stare in to your eyes? For the time being I'll keep my sunnies on "
If they're on show feel free to look. If I was bothered about you looking I would cover them
I've not always had boobs tho! x |
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I don't mind people taking a look, what annoys me is when people don't look me in the face when having a conversation.
All my adult life i have had the same problem, men and women seem to just talk to my boobs no matter what I'm wearing. I know they are big and hard to miss but how hard is it to direct your attention a little bit higher up?
Even at work (in a supermarket wearing the most unflattering, shapeless uniform known to man) the customers stare and talk to my chest  |
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