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over a year ago
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"Just wondering if all the blokes complaining about not meeting anyone have ever considered visiting a professional lady instead"
I know a man who used to. If I was a man probably I'd do the same. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Maybe they could / should, but that is something completely different to what this site is about."
Why? Some women in couples on here search endlessly to have their first proper bi sexual experience with a woman they really fancy. We met a couple of swingers the other day who bypassed all that hassle, picked a super sexy escort from a site, and had what sounded like a truly amazing first time.
In all honesty the vast majority of single guys on this site only want to get their dicks wet. Why shouldn't they be directed to hire an escort instead? They can pick a super hot one, don't have to send out endless messages without any reply, don't have to bother with such inconvenient things as flirting and seducing someone (I'm being ironic)... and it's not like the women on here really want to be treated like free escorts is it? So pointing those guys in that direction is helpful to all parties.
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"Maybe they could / should, but that is something completely different to what this site is about.
Why? Some women in couples on here search endlessly to have their first proper bi sexual experience with a woman they really fancy. We met a couple of swingers the other day who bypassed all that hassle, picked a super sexy escort from a site, and had what sounded like a truly amazing first time.
In all honesty the vast majority of single guys on this site only want to get their dicks wet. Why shouldn't they be directed to hire an escort instead? They can pick a super hot one, don't have to send out endless messages without any reply, don't have to bother with such inconvenient things as flirting and seducing someone (I'm being ironic)... and it's not like the women on here really want to be treated like free escorts is it? So pointing those guys in that direction is helpful to all parties.
Just saying it as it is "
Well, I said maybe they could or should. But going to a proffesional isn't swinging, it's something else. |
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I'm sure many would help a friend, for the right package. We may have insights that guys don't get. In my years of helping guys here to get more fulfilment with others, I ought to have professional status. |
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"Well, I said maybe they could or should. But going to a proffesional isn't swinging, it's something else."
Yeah I know where you're coming from but I just don't know if I'm convinced now. It's a bit like saying nsa sex between singles isn't swinging. It isn't. Swinging involves a swap and singles don't have anything to swap. But now we've gone so far past that. It's clear the swinging scene, at least on Fab, has morphed into something much broader and singles are more than welcome, if not vital to it.
We've met couples who started off having threesomes and foursomes with independent escorts. That clearly belongs under the fab umbrella doesn't it?
We had an unfortunate break in Gran Canaria where everyone was much older and out of shape. Then we struck lucky and happened across a club with two seriously hot Spanish women making out. We started playing and next thing we were all entwined. It was only as we walked away that we both commented on how incongruous it was that they were both so hot. Then the penny dropped... they'd been hired by the club to liven things up. We're sooo naive sometimes lol 
So what is the line between the swinging scene, the culture on Fab, and independent escorts? Yes I know Fab doesn't allow paying for services. So there's a definite line. But if you look beyond that it seems a bit blurry.
Just to be clear... apart from that time, we've never played with escorts... although it's something we've discussed |
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