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Is your "swinging lifestyle" a secret from family and friends.
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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None of my friends know i am into the swinging lifestyle the same goes for family members(brother,sisters)does anyone else keep there swinging habits secret from some friends anyway. |
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"None of my friends know i am into the swinging lifestyle the same goes for family members(brother,sisters)does anyone else keep there swinging habits secret from some friends anyway."
Yes only one mate knows |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Does anyone else find the OP's handle less than appealing 
Have to say fairly sure if I mentioned "Stinkfist" was interested in meeting Mrs Two2 would hint at "NO FUCIN WAY" ta very much  |
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"Does anyone else find the OP's handle less than appealing
Have to say fairly sure if I mentioned "Stinkfist" was interested in meeting Mrs Two2 would hint at "NO FUCIN WAY" ta very much "
Lol I find some of the males names/handles funny. Ones like like "lovetolickpussy" or "expertlover". You just get the feeling they hope some woman will see their handle and think oh you love to lick pussy oh I must contact you. I mean if you are male and don't like to lick pussy this website is the wrong place for you lol. |
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By *im53Man
over a year ago
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"Does anyone else find the OP's handle less than appealing
Have to say fairly sure if I mentioned "Stinkfist" was interested in meeting Mrs Two2 would hint at "NO FUCIN WAY" ta very much
Lol I find some of the males names/handles funny. Ones like like "lovetolickpussy" or "expertlover". You just get the feeling they hope some woman will see their handle and think oh you love to lick pussy oh I must contact you. I mean if you are male and don't like to lick pussy this website is the wrong place for you lol."
bit like pubs who adveritse "good food" as if the would say bad food which it usualy is |
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"Does anyone else find the OP's handle less than appealing
Have to say fairly sure if I mentioned "Stinkfist" was interested in meeting Mrs Two2 would hint at "NO FUCIN WAY" ta very much
Lol I find some of the males names/handles funny. Ones like like "lovetolickpussy" or "expertlover". You just get the feeling they hope some woman will see their handle and think oh you love to lick pussy oh I must contact you. I mean if you are male and don't like to lick pussy this website is the wrong place for you lol.
bit like pubs who adveritse "good food" as if the would say bad food which it usualy is "
Lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Does anyone else find the OP's handle less than appealing
Have to say fairly sure if I mentioned "Stinkfist" was interested in meeting Mrs Two2 would hint at "NO FUCIN WAY" ta very much "
Yes but being so rightly so its absolutely non of anyones business but his surely lol....  |
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"Yes, and rightly so as what we get up to is no business of anyone else at all."
same here, with the exception of one very close friend who always knows where i am and with whom...thats a safety thing as a single female as much as anything else |
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i have not formally told anyone ..but from the hints .smiles and winks ..many of my family are guessing and my daughter (a biologist) keeps smiling and saying ...you be careful dad ...and be safe and she bought me a box of condoms so i think the gigs up !!
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By (user no longer on site)
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"i have not formally told anyone ..but from the hints .smiles and winks ..many of my family are guessing and my daughter (a biologist) keeps smiling and saying ...you be careful dad ...and be safe and she bought me a box of condoms so i think the gigs up !!
pd"
Sounds like it lol xx  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Playing devils advocate here........
Isnt the secrecy and cloak and daggers of it all why the swinging lifestyle was classed as "seedy" and "depraved" by the media and those that dont partake?
I mean, if everyone that swung openly admitted it, then the media etc wouldnt get the same reaction when they uncovered their next MP/Celeb that swung etc.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I bet more people know than folk realise... just to polite to want to say anything more........  "
Yep suprising how fast things get round lol
We live in a little village so we have no chance pmsl xx |
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"Playing devils advocate here........
Isnt the secrecy and cloak and daggers of it all why the swinging lifestyle was classed as "seedy" and "depraved" by the media and those that dont partake?
I mean, if everyone that swung openly admitted it, then the media etc wouldnt get the same reaction when they uncovered their next MP/Celeb that swung etc.
Steve "
i know what you're saying but personally i dont discuss my vanilla sex life either ( when i have one ! ) so i think i'm a private one what ever im doing. Its nothing to do with shame and all to do with privacy. x |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I bet more people know than folk realise... just to polite to want to say anything more........
Yep suprising how fast things get round lol
We live in a little village so we have no chance pmsl xx"
Yes but your ad in the parish newspaper did kinda highlight your desperation pmsl xxx |
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We have kept it a "secret" for two main reasons.
One is that Jayne would defo lose her job if her boss found out.
The other is that we like having something thats "ours", something that only we know about, it feels naughty and sexy!! |
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I aint a swinger so im ok. Come to the decision single blokes cant be after reading all the single bloke swinging threds. Thin im just a “randy stop out half the night” So not a secret but not shouting it from the hill tops. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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my mum knows we are swingers and the look on mandys face when i told my mum was a picture lol mandys sister also knows what we do makes it easier when we ask her to baby sit lol
at the end of the day if friends and family care for you they should accept who you are and what you choose to do with your life |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"We could not care less who knows and pretty much whoever knows us knows xx"
Same here, my mum is my babysitter and she has to know when it's not wise for her to attend the premises unannounced  as does the rest of my family coz they think my house is a hotel pmsl |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"We could not care less who knows and pretty much whoever knows us knows xx
Same here, my mum is my babysitter and she has to know when it's not wise for her to attend the premises unannounced as does the rest of my family coz they think my house is a hotel pmsl"
wtf yer posting from work. how yer doing hun. are we livening up yer day fer yer |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"We could not care less who knows and pretty much whoever knows us knows xx"
Same here,how can you keep something so good to yourselves?
However,that doesn't mean we're not discrete as far as people we play with are concerned.
XXXX |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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told all our close friends 2 weeks ago ....cos they kept wondering where we kept disappearing to ....all took it really well ...and a couple werent surprised ...rob told his brother ...he wasnt shocked as he has been swinging for 15 years ...but was very shocked that i was doing it ...we 99% sure our eldest son knows (cringe!) makes life a damn sight easier! kaz x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I bet more people know than folk realise... just to polite to want to say anything more........
Yep suprising how fast things get round lol
We live in a little village so we have no chance pmsl xx
Yes but your ad in the parish newspaper did kinda highlight your desperation pmsl xxx "
Oh you saw it ten xx |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I reckon those who know me , know im up to summat
but dont know "what"
but as im not up to much at the mo, thats ok...
though in my job it would spell TROUBLE if they found out. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I reckon those who know me , know im up to summat
but dont know "what"
but as im not up to much at the mo, thats ok...
though in my job it would spell TROUBLE if they found out. "
You make those little lettered bricks for kids dont ya? x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I made the dreadful mistake of agreeing to go to a swingers club with a guy i worked in a pub with ( we had sort of guessed eachother did this). Anyway when i got to the club and got naked infront of my him it felt so wrong. He agreed that he wouldnt tell a soul but next day when i was behind the bar 'The oldest swinger in town' kept playing over the music system. Ive since decided its better kept a secret! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I made the dreadful mistake of agreeing to go to a swingers club with a guy i worked in a pub with ( we had sort of guessed eachother did this). Anyway when i got to the club and got naked infront of my him it felt so wrong. He agreed that he wouldnt tell a soul but next day when i was behind the bar 'The oldest swinger in town' kept playing over the music system. Ive since decided its better kept a secret!"
Dunno about oldest lol but deff one of the sexiest xx |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I made the dreadful mistake of agreeing to go to a swingers club with a guy i worked in a pub with ( we had sort of guessed eachother did this). Anyway when i got to the club and got naked infront of my him it felt so wrong. He agreed that he wouldnt tell a soul but next day when i was behind the bar 'The oldest swinger in town' kept playing over the music system. Ive since decided its better kept a secret!"
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Does anyone else find the OP's handle less than appealing
Have to say fairly sure if I mentioned "Stinkfist" was interested in meeting Mrs Two2 would hint at "NO FUCIN WAY" ta very much
Lol I find some of the males names/handles funny. Ones like like "lovetolickpussy" or "expertlover". You just get the feeling they hope some woman will see their handle and think oh you love to lick pussy oh I must contact you. I mean if you are male and don't like to lick pussy this website is the wrong place for you lol."
licked a pussy ????? never seen one in my life wouldnt know what to do with the thing |
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By *phroditeWoman
over a year ago
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"None of my friends know i am into the swinging lifestyle the same goes for family members(brother,sisters)does anyone else keep there swinging habits secret from some friends anyway."
Just wondered.... do we let our swining friends know about our family life.. with kids etc lol.. in the spirit of equality ? |
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"None of my friends know i am into the swinging lifestyle the same goes for family members(brother,sisters)does anyone else keep there swinging habits secret from some friends anyway.
Just wondered.... do we let our swining friends know about our family life.. with kids etc lol.. in the spirit of equality ? "
If people become friends then you open up to some extent. Mind you could bore the tits off em |
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By *umourCouple
over a year ago
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"Were discreet but if they found out so be it, were not doing anything were ashamed of.. so far anyway. "
We better meet up with you and show you what you missing!!! lol
Our kids know... We had to tell em when someone at Mrs Rumours work found out! They both were perfectly OK with it and Emma even asked to see the outfits Mrs R went out in!
My sister knows because her daughter found our web site and told her. Funny thing, the only way to find that web site was by using numbers or being on a swingers site as a member! It was hosted on a site that used numbers as a password and never came up on a search engine, so she was busted!!! lol
I also read that someone would defo lose their job if their boss found out? If that happened, it would cost them a fortune ever since sexual equality came in. They are NOT allowed to discriminate against peoples sexual behaviour |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"None of my friends know i am into the swinging lifestyle the same goes for family members(brother,sisters)does anyone else keep there swinging habits secret from some friends anyway.
Just wondered.... do we let our swining friends know about our family life.. with kids etc lol.. in the spirit of equality ? "
Family life,kids etc, is nowhere near as interesting though is it?
Start talking about it and most listeners shut off,talk about swinging though and they'll soon wake up!
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