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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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I've been wondering for a day or so now if this would be a helpful idea & if others indeed do the same..
Whenever a profile is of a negative state, i.e. they've not returned a msg, or you've viewed them & they're not to your taste, or indeed they've ruled you out ~ is blocking them a good idea to save seeing them in searches or anything again thus helping you concentrate on profiles that may be more suited for you....? |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Only thing with this is you might end up with a veryyyyyyy long block list xx"
But if it's only full of profiles that don't interest you or you don't interest them.... what's the downside? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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There is no downside to having a long block list.
I block people that I get a "no thanks" from all the time. Saves me pissing them off by messaging them again so something like that! |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Yes this is exactly what I do. Cuts down the news feed  "
That's what I was thinking too
Many a time I've clicked on an account & due to a name change or something I discover I've seen it before and could do without so.
Good tactic then yeah  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Only thing with this is you might end up with a veryyyyyyy long block list xx
But if it's only full of profiles that don't interest you or you don't interest them.... what's the downside?"
nothing I guess xx |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"There is no downside to having a long block list.
I block people that I get a "no thanks" from all the time. Saves me pissing them off by messaging them again so something like that! "
Wheat from the chaff scenario |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"There is no downside to having a long block list.
I block people that I get a "no thanks" from all the time. Saves me pissing them off by messaging them again so something like that! "
i think a block list is good to a point because most of the time people block you without a reason  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"There is no downside to having a long block list.
I block people that I get a "no thanks" from all the time. Saves me pissing them off by messaging them again so something like that! "
You say that but I sent a cheekier message to one I had already messaged and me and the cheeky bitch are having a good banter and you never know... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"There is no downside to having a long block list.
I block people that I get a "no thanks" from all the time. Saves me pissing them off by messaging them again so something like that!
i think a block list is good to a point because most of the time people block you without a reason "
But they have their reasons for blocking you. If they're not interested then they may as well block you so you dont keep appearing on their new feed or searches or what not. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"There is no downside to having a long block list.
I block people that I get a "no thanks" from all the time. Saves me pissing them off by messaging them again so something like that!
i think a block list is good to a point because most of the time people block you without a reason
But they have their reasons for blocking you. If they're not interested then they may as well block you so you dont keep appearing on their new feed or searches or what not. "
i see oh well mean no play no joy then haha |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Only thing with this is you might end up with a veryyyyyyy long block list xx
But if it's only full of profiles that don't interest you or you don't interest them.... what's the downside?"
you'll cut off all contact.. which is pathetic.. unless your inbox is unmanageable or you're the sort who "ahem" to get annoyed by unwanted attention.
people you aren't interested in sexually are still worth talking to if they are polite and respect the boundaries. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Only thing with this is you might end up with a veryyyyyyy long block list xx
But if it's only full of profiles that don't interest you or you don't interest them.... what's the downside?
you'll cut off all contact.. which is pathetic.. unless your inbox is unmanageable or you're the sort who "ahem" to get annoyed by unwanted attention.
people you aren't interested in sexually are still worth talking to if they are polite and respect the boundaries."
The voice of sanity |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Only thing with this is you might end up with a veryyyyyyy long block list xx
But if it's only full of profiles that don't interest you or you don't interest them.... what's the downside?
you'll cut off all contact.. which is pathetic.. unless your inbox is unmanageable or you're the sort who "ahem" to get annoyed by unwanted attention.
people you aren't interested in sexually are still worth talking to if they are polite and respect the boundaries."
But on a site where you are actively looking for sexual encounters, why should you have contact with someone you have no interest in and never will. 
Yes some people do come for a chat but we are not all looking for the same. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Only thing with this is you might end up with a veryyyyyyy long block list xx
But if it's only full of profiles that don't interest you or you don't interest them.... what's the downside?
you'll cut off all contact.. which is pathetic.. unless your inbox is unmanageable or you're the sort who "ahem" to get annoyed by unwanted attention.
people you aren't interested in sexually are still worth talking to if they are polite and respect the boundaries."
your 100% right because i respect all  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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If I was on fewer block lists I might have more people to talk with...
But the mindset of those who hit the block button as first and instant reaction often confuses me.
Sometimes maybe people should stol take a breath embrace the calm and maybe they would take a different view... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Only thing with this is you might end up with a veryyyyyyy long block list xx
But if it's only full of profiles that don't interest you or you don't interest them.... what's the downside?
you'll cut off all contact.. which is pathetic.. unless your inbox is unmanageable or you're the sort who "ahem" to get annoyed by unwanted attention.
people you aren't interested in sexually are still worth talking to if they are polite and respect the boundaries."
What is the point though? I only want to talk to those I'm interested in. I'm not saying no one else is worthy just that I don't want to waste my or their time. I don't get how that is pathetic. That is managing and making the most of my time on fab  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Only thing with this is you might end up with a veryyyyyyy long block list xx
But if it's only full of profiles that don't interest you or you don't interest them.... what's the downside?
you'll cut off all contact.. which is pathetic.. unless your inbox is unmanageable or you're the sort who "ahem" to get annoyed by unwanted attention.
people you aren't interested in sexually are still worth talking to if they are polite and respect the boundaries.
What is the point though? I only want to talk to those I'm interested in. I'm not saying no one else is worthy just that I don't want to waste my or their time. I don't get how that is pathetic. That is managing and making the most of my time on fab "
Here here |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Only thing with this is you might end up with a veryyyyyyy long block list xx
But if it's only full of profiles that don't interest you or you don't interest them.... what's the downside?
you'll cut off all contact.. which is pathetic.. unless your inbox is unmanageable or you're the sort who "ahem" to get annoyed by unwanted attention.
people you aren't interested in sexually are still worth talking to if they are polite and respect the boundaries.
What is the point though? I only want to talk to those I'm interested in. I'm not saying no one else is worthy just that I don't want to waste my or their time. I don't get how that is pathetic. That is managing and making the most of my time on fab "
As is entirely your right...your fab ...your way.
But times change people change our connections and desires can change
And by blocking as an immediate reaction to ...well anything...we preclude the possibility that what we may want or not want today we will never want for as long as we remain on fab.
Everyone should use the site the way it works for them...
For me closing the door permanently..ie blocking someone is taking a decision about a future a cannot know.. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Only thing with this is you might end up with a veryyyyyyy long block list xx
But if it's only full of profiles that don't interest you or you don't interest them.... what's the downside?
you'll cut off all contact.. which is pathetic.. unless your inbox is unmanageable or you're the sort who "ahem" to get annoyed by unwanted attention.
people you aren't interested in sexually are still worth talking to if they are polite and respect the boundaries.
What is the point though? I only want to talk to those I'm interested in. I'm not saying no one else is worthy just that I don't want to waste my or their time. I don't get how that is pathetic. That is managing and making the most of my time on fab
As is entirely your right...your fab ...your way.
But times change people change our connections and desires can change
And by blocking as an immediate reaction to ...well anything...we preclude the possibility that what we may want or not want today we will never want for as long as we remain on fab.
Everyone should use the site the way it works for them...
For me closing the door permanently..ie blocking someone is taking a decision about a future a cannot know.."
I'm more than happy with that a block means there is zero interest. I'm really really really unlikely to change my mind about that. And if there's a chance I would change my mind I'm really happy living with that decision. In 6 years I've never regretted blocking someone. Yep. We all use this site differently so I object when others call my way of doing things pathetic just because it doesn't match their way. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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This exactly what I do OP. Yes I've a long block list but helps so much with searches. Some don't like it as some say they want to search on their own when they want so may have not looking for single men. That's ok by as we probably wouldn't meet anyway as I'm a sapiophile and mentally i can be switched off quickly if ifeel there's little interest and it's very hard for the other to switch my mind back on to them again. Probably not worth the effort bearing in mind the ratio of men to women here any way. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I use the block button as a filter, our block list is huge.
However this is the 3rd time we've been here, reasons I block - blatantly fake profiles, repeated messages after a polite decline, im absolutely not attracted to them, they're begging for drugs or someone to do drugs with them, unable to hold conversation, stalking me on social media probably more reasons too to be fair.
The block list is my "never would I ever" circumstances might change, but that will not.
We've a hectic life, I spend all day talking to people I'd rather not for a living, in my small slice of me time, I now use it wisely on here, wasn't always the way, but circumstances dictate.
Hubby rarely adds anyone to the block list.
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I've not block yet as will always chat to anyone but been blocked twice for saying hi in email with no reply I think it's just personal choice and attitude really. Or a lot of bad experiences and easier |
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By *andsonjohnMan
over a year ago
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"Only thing with this is you might end up with a veryyyyyyy long block list xx
But if it's only full of profiles that don't interest you or you don't interest them.... what's the downside?
you'll cut off all contact.. which is pathetic.. unless your inbox is unmanageable or you're the sort who "ahem" to get annoyed by unwanted attention.
people you aren't interested in sexually are still worth talking to if they are polite and respect the boundaries.
But on a site where you are actively looking for sexual encounters, why should you have contact with someone you have no interest in and never will.
Yes some people do come for a chat but we are not all looking for the same. "
kind of makes sense what you do but its a very cold and selfish way of looking at your fellow human being in my opinion .
don't have a need to you so your blocked
don't have a need to you ether so your blocked
you don't offer me anything i want so your blocked
I'm in this for me your hear me ME.
selfishness yuck totally unattractive human trait in my opinion .
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By (user no longer on site)
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I see many of you using blocking as a filtering tool, sensible...... but, outside of meeting, one thing I enjoy about Fab is keeping track of the promiscuous exploits of people I wouldn't touch with a bargepole, a veritable cornucopia of badly packed kebabs, micro penises and cows udders. The block list policy would deny me that viewing 'delight'. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I see many of you using blocking as a filtering tool, sensible...... but, outside of meeting, one thing I enjoy about Fab is keeping track of the promiscuous exploits of people I wouldn't touch with a bargepole, a veritable cornucopia of badly packed kebabs, micro penises and cows udders. The block list policy would deny me that viewing 'delight'. "
How funny, watching from a distance all the sordid aspects of the badly packed kebabs....interesting view point |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I've been wondering for a day or so now if this would be a helpful idea & if others indeed do the same..
Whenever a profile is of a negative state, i.e. they've not returned a msg, or you've viewed them & they're not to your taste, or indeed they've ruled you out ~ is blocking them a good idea to save seeing them in searches or anything again thus helping you concentrate on profiles that may be more suited for you....?"
This is what we do, if we have exchanged any mails and one parties isn't for the other we block them |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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My block list is growing.
Never used to use it but it's becoming a useful tool!
Last to be blocked was a couple (not looking for couples) who have repeatedly viewed my profile but with no contact, I find that a little creepy. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I've been wondering for a day or so now if this would be a helpful idea & if others indeed do the same..
Whenever a profile is of a negative state, i.e. they've not returned a msg, or you've viewed them & they're not to your taste, or indeed they've ruled you out ~ is blocking them a good idea to save seeing them in searches or anything again thus helping you concentrate on profiles that may be more suited for you....?"
We block for loads of reasons, simply to avoid their profiles reappearing in searches.
The main one we block over is they get chatty, then silence. Some weeks later, they get chatty and then silence. Normally with, "Can you meet tonight". We sense he/she/they're on a bottle of wine again so we block.
We've blocked based on photos. We hit 'Who's near' and a guy's profile pick is of his areshole with his legs in the air. No thank you, block.
Failed to show at a meet, block.
Bad attitude/personality, block.
Bodies we never dream of touching, block.
We often block TV's to reduce the search results, not our scene.
And loads of other reasons so yes, make a lot of use of the block option, it avoids you wasting time with profiles you've already ruled out. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I've been wondering for a day or so now if this would be a helpful idea & if others indeed do the same..
Whenever a profile is of a negative state, i.e. they've not returned a msg, or you've viewed them & they're not to your taste, or indeed they've ruled you out ~ is blocking them a good idea to save seeing them in searches or anything again thus helping you concentrate on profiles that may be more suited for you....?"
I block all women in a 20 mile radius that I'm not interested in meeting just so they don't keep coming up on my searches.
Anyone who doesn't want to meet me I put a note on their profile to remind me, that way if they change their mind they can always get back in touch with me |
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By (user no longer on site)
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kind of makes sense what you do but its a very cold and selfish way of looking at your fellow human being in my opinion .
don't have a need to you so your blocked
don't have a need to you ether so your blocked
you don't offer me anything i want so your blocked
I'm in this for me your hear me ME.
selfishness yuck totally unattractive human trait in my opinion .
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If I don't find someone attractive and don't want to sleep with someone it doesn't make me selfish. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Let's put it another way.
How many people you come across at work or even some neighbours who are bloody gobshites?
I bet you wish you had a real life block button  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"My block list is growing.
Never used to use it but it's becoming a useful tool!
Last to be blocked was a couple (not looking for couples) who have repeatedly viewed my profile but with no contact, I find that a little creepy. "
I tend to do that, just window shopping. Sorry! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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The block button is your friend.
Who cares if your block list is long? Only you see it. Mine has thousands on.
Use the site as YOU see fit! Make it work for you.
Best wishes.  |
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"I've been wondering for a day or so now if this would be a helpful idea & if others indeed do the same..
Whenever a profile is of a negative state, i.e. they've not returned a msg, or you've viewed them & they're not to your taste, or indeed they've ruled you out ~ is blocking them a good idea to save seeing them in searches or anything again thus helping you concentrate on profiles that may be more suited for you....?"
I already do this.. saves on making the mistake twice!! |
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By *andsonjohnMan
over a year ago
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kind of makes sense what you do but its a very cold and selfish way of looking at your fellow human being in my opinion .
don't have a need to you so your blocked
don't have a need to you ether so your blocked
you don't offer me anything i want so your blocked
I'm in this for me your hear me ME.
selfishness yuck totally unattractive human trait in my opinion .
If I don't find someone attractive and don't want to sleep with someone it doesn't make me selfish. "
The fact you don't want to sleep with them doesn't make you selfish
The fact you block said people on those grounds screams I don't want to use you for sex so you I have no use for you so your blocked
Selfish using behavior is what that I a display of one could also argue a case for it being narcissistic behavior bouldering on mildly Psychopathic behavior ether way it screams avoid in my opinion . |
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By (user no longer on site)
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kind of makes sense what you do but its a very cold and selfish way of looking at your fellow human being in my opinion .
don't have a need to you so your blocked
don't have a need to you ether so your blocked
you don't offer me anything i want so your blocked
I'm in this for me your hear me ME.
selfishness yuck totally unattractive human trait in my opinion .
If I don't find someone attractive and don't want to sleep with someone it doesn't make me selfish.
The fact you don't want to sleep with them doesn't make you selfish
The fact you block said people on those grounds screams I don't want to use you for sex so you I have no use for you so your blocked
Selfish using behavior is what that I a display of one could also argue a case for it being narcissistic behavior bouldering on mildly Psychopathic behavior ether way it screams avoid in my opinion ."
Woo now hang on John.
The site gives us many facilities for our personal use.. the block button being one of them for everyone to use as they see fit!
Now by someone using it differently to you it does not give you the right to call them psychopaths are narcissists in which way they use it....their button their right to use as they want |
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By (user no longer on site)
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The fact you don't want to sleep with them doesn't make you selfish
The fact you block said people on those grounds screams I don't want to use you for sex so you I have no use for you so your blocked
Selfish using behavior is what that I a display of one could also argue a case for it being narcissistic behavior bouldering on mildly Psychopathic behavior ether way it screams avoid in my opinion ."
If I don't want to sleep with someone then your right, I have no use for them here and they also have no use for me.
Blocking cuts down the messages and news feed making my time here more productive and enjoyable.
If this in your mind makes me a psychopath then I'm cool with that. |
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By *andsonjohnMan
over a year ago
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kind of makes sense what you do but its a very cold and selfish way of looking at your fellow human being in my opinion .
don't have a need to you so your blocked
don't have a need to you ether so your blocked
you don't offer me anything i want so your blocked
I'm in this for me your hear me ME.
selfishness yuck totally unattractive human trait in my opinion .
If I don't find someone attractive and don't want to sleep with someone it doesn't make me selfish.
The fact you don't want to sleep with them doesn't make you selfish
The fact you block said people on those grounds screams I don't want to use you for sex so you I have no use for you so your blocked
Selfish using behavior is what that I a display of one could also argue a case for it being narcissistic behavior bouldering on mildly Psychopathic behavior ether way it screams avoid in my opinion .
Woo now hang on John.
The site gives us many facilities for our personal use.. the block button being one of them for everyone to use as they see fit!
Now by someone using it differently to you it does not give you the right to call them psychopaths are narcissists in which way they use it....their button their right to use as they want "
true and my right to view how they use it anyway i want
in this case if i knew anyone i was interested was using the block button it that way
i would avoid meeting them not block as there is no need after I've said thanks but no thanks
i wouldn't avoid contact with them after that again as theres no need as they have done nothing wrong apart from putting my off sleeping with them or if you want to crude fucking them .
i would avoid them on grounds of selfish behaviour someone looking to use me who really doesn't give a toss about me past trying to use me .
i have a over inflated ego and opinion of myself this fact would never allow me to allow someone to use me in such away ,
experience has taught me to avoid users as they have a tendency to be slightly narcissistic and slightly psychopathical when you turn them down and don't dance to their tune .
your right it was a bit harsh straight talking no bullshit often is offense was not my intent though just giving a honest take on how i see such behaviour discussed . |
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By (user no longer on site)
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kind of makes sense what you do but its a very cold and selfish way of looking at your fellow human being in my opinion .
don't have a need to you so your blocked
don't have a need to you ether so your blocked
you don't offer me anything i want so your blocked
I'm in this for me your hear me ME.
selfishness yuck totally unattractive human trait in my opinion .
If I don't find someone attractive and don't want to sleep with someone it doesn't make me selfish.
The fact you don't want to sleep with them doesn't make you selfish
The fact you block said people on those grounds screams I don't want to use you for sex so you I have no use for you so your blocked
Selfish using behavior is what that I a display of one could also argue a case for it being narcissistic behavior bouldering on mildly Psychopathic behavior ether way it screams avoid in my opinion .
Woo now hang on John.
The site gives us many facilities for our personal use.. the block button being one of them for everyone to use as they see fit!
Now by someone using it differently to you it does not give you the right to call them psychopaths are narcissists in which way they use it....their button their right to use as they want
true and my right to view how they use it anyway i want
in this case if i knew anyone i was interested was using the block button it that way
i would avoid meeting them not block as there is no need after I've said thanks but no thanks
i wouldn't avoid contact with them after that again as theres no need as they have done nothing wrong apart from putting my off sleeping with them or if you want to crude fucking them .
i would avoid them on grounds of selfish behaviour someone looking to use me who really doesn't give a toss about me past trying to use me .
i have a over inflated ego and opinion of myself this fact would never allow me to allow someone to use me in such away ,
experience has taught me to avoid users as they have a tendency to be slightly narcissistic and slightly psychopathical when you turn them down and don't dance to their tune .
your right it was a bit harsh straight talking no bullshit often is offense was not my intent though just giving a honest take on how i see such behaviour discussed . "
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By (user no longer on site)
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The fact you don't want to sleep with them doesn't make you selfish
The fact you block said people on those grounds screams I don't want to use you for sex so you I have no use for you so your blocked
Selfish using behavior is what that I a display of one could also argue a case for it being narcissistic behavior bouldering on mildly Psychopathic behavior ether way it screams avoid in my opinion .
If I don't want to sleep with someone then your right, I have no use for them here and they also have no use for me.
Blocking cuts down the messages and news feed making my time here more productive and enjoyable.
If this in your mind makes me a psychopath then I'm cool with that. "
Psychopath and narcissistic person here too |
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kind of makes sense what you do but its a very cold and selfish way of looking at your fellow human being in my opinion .
don't have a need to you so your blocked
don't have a need to you ether so your blocked
you don't offer me anything i want so your blocked
I'm in this for me your hear me ME.
selfishness yuck totally unattractive human trait in my opinion .
If I don't find someone attractive and don't want to sleep with someone it doesn't make me selfish.
The fact you don't want to sleep with them doesn't make you selfish
The fact you block said people on those grounds screams I don't want to use you for sex so you I have no use for you so your blocked
Selfish using behavior is what that I a display of one could also argue a case for it being narcissistic behavior bouldering on mildly Psychopathic behavior ether way it screams avoid in my opinion .
Woo now hang on John.
The site gives us many facilities for our personal use.. the block button being one of them for everyone to use as they see fit!
Now by someone using it differently to you it does not give you the right to call them psychopaths are narcissists in which way they use it....their button their right to use as they want
true and my right to view how they use it anyway i want
in this case if i knew anyone i was interested was using the block button it that way
i would avoid meeting them not block as there is no need after I've said thanks but no thanks
i wouldn't avoid contact with them after that again as theres no need as they have done nothing wrong apart from putting my off sleeping with them or if you want to crude fucking them .
i would avoid them on grounds of selfish behaviour someone looking to use me who really doesn't give a toss about me past trying to use me .
i have a over inflated ego and opinion of myself this fact would never allow me to allow someone to use me in such away ,
experience has taught me to avoid users as they have a tendency to be slightly narcissistic and slightly psychopathical when you turn them down and don't dance to their tune .
your right it was a bit harsh straight talking no bullshit often is offense was not my intent though just giving a honest take on how i see such behaviour discussed . "
Blimey don't you go on, I've blocked people before so that I no longer appear on their feed, it has nothing to do with being psychotic, it's to help them as they cant keep repeating their offers to meet and ware their time, I also explain why I am blocking them coz i'm good like that |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Psychopath and narcissistic person here too
Yaaaay, come and take a seat and join my crazy club 
I have a feeling the crazy club will be pretty busy "
County me in.....oh hang on...I'm too narcissistic to be in a group |
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By *andsonjohnMan
over a year ago
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The fact you don't want to sleep with them doesn't make you selfish
The fact you block said people on those grounds screams I don't want to use you for sex so you I have no use for you so your blocked
Selfish using behavior is what that I a display of one could also argue a case for it being narcissistic behavior bouldering on mildly Psychopathic behavior ether way it screams avoid in my opinion .
If I don't want to sleep with someone then your right, I have no use for them here and they also have no use for me.
Blocking cuts down the messages and news feed making my time here more productive and enjoyable.
If this in your mind makes me a psychopath then I'm cool with that.
Psychopath and narcissistic person here too "
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By *andsonjohnMan
over a year ago
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kind of makes sense what you do but its a very cold and selfish way of looking at your fellow human being in my opinion .
don't have a need to you so your blocked
don't have a need to you ether so your blocked
you don't offer me anything i want so your blocked
I'm in this for me your hear me ME.
selfishness yuck totally unattractive human trait in my opinion .
If I don't find someone attractive and don't want to sleep with someone it doesn't make me selfish.
The fact you don't want to sleep with them doesn't make you selfish
The fact you block said people on those grounds screams I don't want to use you for sex so you I have no use for you so your blocked
Selfish using behavior is what that I a display of one could also argue a case for it being narcissistic behavior bouldering on mildly Psychopathic behavior ether way it screams avoid in my opinion .
Woo now hang on John.
The site gives us many facilities for our personal use.. the block button being one of them for everyone to use as they see fit!
Now by someone using it differently to you it does not give you the right to call them psychopaths are narcissists in which way they use it....their button their right to use as they want
true and my right to view how they use it anyway i want
in this case if i knew anyone i was interested was using the block button it that way
i would avoid meeting them not block as there is no need after I've said thanks but no thanks
i wouldn't avoid contact with them after that again as theres no need as they have done nothing wrong apart from putting my off sleeping with them or if you want to crude fucking them .
i would avoid them on grounds of selfish behaviour someone looking to use me who really doesn't give a toss about me past trying to use me .
i have a over inflated ego and opinion of myself this fact would never allow me to allow someone to use me in such away ,
experience has taught me to avoid users as they have a tendency to be slightly narcissistic and slightly psychopathical when you turn them down and don't dance to their tune .
your right it was a bit harsh straight talking no bullshit often is offense was not my intent though just giving a honest take on how i see such behaviour discussed .
Blimey don't you go on, I've blocked people before so that I no longer appear on their feed, it has nothing to do with being psychotic, it's to help them as they cant keep repeating their offers to meet and ware their time, I also explain why I am blocking them coz i'm good like that "
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I've been wondering for a day or so now if this would be a helpful idea & if others indeed do the same..
Whenever a profile is of a negative state, i.e. they've not returned a msg, or you've viewed them & they're not to your taste, or indeed they've ruled you out ~ is blocking them a good idea to save seeing them in searches or anything again thus helping you concentrate on profiles that may be more suited for you....?"
Yes, that's what we do. |
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