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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Ooooh oh oh
Having lunch by myself and uhmmm a lovely man has just sat himself to the table next to me. Place has been laid for one. Ordered 1 x glass white wine. Unfortunately he's table is positioned so I can't see his face to catch his eye. This has made it more difficult for me. Geez my heart is racing. I think this man just wants a quiet lunch. When to flirt and have the balls to do it or just to recognise that that's that. Sigggggghhhhhh |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Y'see, I feel the same way about this as I do about guys hitting on girls in public places that aren't your typical "look for other people to meet" kind of places.
Good luck to you, OP, but if I were dining on my own I'd probably want some peace and quiet to do so, otherwise I'd find a friend to dine with. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Can you walk past his table to go to the toilet?
Maybe drop something and try the bend and snap?  "
Haha youuuuuu lol
Pssst I must admit the thought ran through my head  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Y'see, I feel the same way about this as I do about guys hitting on girls in public places that aren't your typical "look for other people to meet" kind of places.
Good luck to you, OP, but if I were dining on my own I'd probably want some peace and quiet to do so, otherwise I'd find a friend to dine with. "
Yeahhhhhh did think that sigggghhhh |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Screw up a napkin and throw it at him 
Oh my god that's made me chuckle real loud lol Well he's heard my laugh "
Hopefully you don't snort when you laugh then. That'll be your chances ruined |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"It is mid-day. Unless you ask to join him, he wont have a clue, he'll be like you, enjoying lunch, in the company of others. "
Do you know me or something How come you know me? |
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"He's back is within arm reach.....I could run my hand down it....test the waters lol "
can you see his socks..?
everyone knows if a blokes socks are anything but black or dark grey then he's probably gay..
honest..
ooh ooh and has he got a 'man bag'..?  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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There's me enjoying my tapas and sound of the day, and all i can hear is this woman giggling...
Shes having bangbang chicken i think... Id like to bangbang some thing and its not chicken...
Wishful thinking. Im say eating my pasta salad in the garden.....
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Y'see, I feel the same way about this as I do about guys hitting on girls in public places that aren't your typical "look for other people to meet" kind of places.
Good luck to you, OP, but if I were dining on my own I'd probably want some peace and quiet to do so, otherwise I'd find a friend to dine with. "
But,,,a restaurant/café/bar IS a typical 'look for people to meet' kind of place and there is a world of difference between a little eye contact,a smile,a twirl of the hair and 'hitting on someone'. The latter implies a bit of unwelcome persistence. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Y'see, I feel the same way about this as I do about guys hitting on girls in public places that aren't your typical "look for other people to meet" kind of places.
Good luck to you, OP, but if I were dining on my own I'd probably want some peace and quiet to do so, otherwise I'd find a friend to dine with.
But,,,a restaurant/café/bar IS a typical 'look for people to meet' kind of place and there is a world of difference between a little eye contact,a smile,a twirl of the hair and 'hitting on someone'. The latter implies a bit of unwelcome persistence."
Bar yes, cafe maybe, restaurant I'd expect to be left alone to dine. I don't know anyone who goes to a restaurant to look for people to meet. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Y'see, I feel the same way about this as I do about guys hitting on girls in public places that aren't your typical "look for other people to meet" kind of places.
Good luck to you, OP, but if I were dining on my own I'd probably want some peace and quiet to do so, otherwise I'd find a friend to dine with.
But,,,a restaurant/café/bar IS a typical 'look for people to meet' kind of place and there is a world of difference between a little eye contact,a smile,a twirl of the hair and 'hitting on someone'. The latter implies a bit of unwelcome persistence.
Bar yes, cafe maybe, restaurant I'd expect to be left alone to dine. I don't know anyone who goes to a restaurant to look for people to meet. "
That's because you probably have your face in the plate Ste |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Y'see, I feel the same way about this as I do about guys hitting on girls in public places that aren't your typical "look for other people to meet" kind of places.
Good luck to you, OP, but if I were dining on my own I'd probably want some peace and quiet to do so, otherwise I'd find a friend to dine with.
But,,,a restaurant/café/bar IS a typical 'look for people to meet' kind of place and there is a world of difference between a little eye contact,a smile,a twirl of the hair and 'hitting on someone'. The latter implies a bit of unwelcome persistence.
Bar yes, cafe maybe, restaurant I'd expect to be left alone to dine. I don't know anyone who goes to a restaurant to look for people to meet.
That's because you probably have your face in the plate Ste "
Hey, I paid for that meal, I'm going to enjoy every last crumb of it |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Y'see, I feel the same way about this as I do about guys hitting on girls in public places that aren't your typical "look for other people to meet" kind of places.
Good luck to you, OP, but if I were dining on my own I'd probably want some peace and quiet to do so, otherwise I'd find a friend to dine with.
But,,,a restaurant/café/bar IS a typical 'look for people to meet' kind of place and there is a world of difference between a little eye contact,a smile,a twirl of the hair and 'hitting on someone'. The latter implies a bit of unwelcome persistence.
Bar yes, cafe maybe, restaurant I'd expect to be left alone to dine. I don't know anyone who goes to a restaurant to look for people to meet.
That's because you probably have your face in the plate Ste
Hey, I paid for that meal, I'm going to enjoy every last crumb of it "
And nobody would judge you for it. |
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By *oodmessMan
over a year ago
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"Y'see, I feel the same way about this as I do about guys hitting on girls in public places that aren't your typical "look for other people to meet" kind of places.
Good luck to you, OP, but if I were dining on my own I'd probably want some peace and quiet to do so, otherwise I'd find a friend to dine with.
But,,,a restaurant/café/bar IS a typical 'look for people to meet' kind of place and there is a world of difference between a little eye contact,a smile,a twirl of the hair and 'hitting on someone'. The latter implies a bit of unwelcome persistence.
Bar yes, cafe maybe, restaurant I'd expect to be left alone to dine. I don't know anyone who goes to a restaurant to look for people to meet.
That's because you probably have your face in the plate Ste
Hey, I paid for that meal, I'm going to enjoy every last crumb of it
And nobody would judge you for it. "
Well nobody outside Yorkshire at least |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"He's back is within arm reach.....I could run my hand down it....test the waters lol
can you see his socks..?
everyone knows if a blokes socks are anything but black or dark grey then he's probably gay..
honest..
ooh ooh and has he got a 'man bag'..? "
Ohhh my god I'm laughing lol Didn't get as far as that |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"oh my gosh.. i'm sat waiting to see what happened? lol"
Okay so this is what happened....I finished eating my Bang Bang Chicken and then noticed out the corner of my eye him taking his last mouthful of Pulled Pork and Meatball tapas (I know because I had asked). And then I said , "Did you enjoy your lunch?" And looked behind and said to me, "yes very much thank you!" I then asked if he'd like to either join me for dessert or a coffee. God I was so proud of myself for throwing in the coffee idea lol And he said sure and asked what I'd like. Well an espresso +1 x white wine later. A lovely chat and connectioning. We're going to hook up to play tennis, badminton and table tennis. I love playing games. He asked how he could contact me to play and pointed to my phone. We exchanged numbers.
Okay so how do you think I did?
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By (user no longer on site)
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"oh my gosh.. i'm sat waiting to see what happened? lol
Okay so this is what happened....I finished eating my Bang Bang Chicken and then noticed out the corner of my eye him taking his last mouthful of Pulled Pork and Meatball tapas (I know because I had asked). And then I said , "Did you enjoy your lunch?" And looked behind and said to me, "yes very much thank you!" I then asked if he'd like to either join me for dessert or a coffee. God I was so proud of myself for throwing in the coffee idea lol And he said sure and asked what I'd like. Well an espresso +1 x white wine later. A lovely chat and connectioning. We're going to hook up to play tennis, badminton and table tennis. I love playing games. He asked how he could contact me to play and pointed to my phone. We exchanged numbers.
Okay so how do you think I did?
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3/10
Poor effort
Should of offered him a blowie in the toilets! I've been on the edge of my seat reading this!!
Table tennis is quite the anti climax  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"There's me enjoying my tapas and sound of the day, and all i can hear is this woman giggling...
Shes having bangbang chicken i think... Id like to bangbang some thing and its not chicken...
Wishful thinking. Im say eating my pasta salad in the garden.....
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Oh it's so good to belly laugh! I knew someone would have a right play with all the words. Every word is true lol |
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"oh my gosh.. i'm sat waiting to see what happened? lol
Okay so this is what happened....I finished eating my Bang Bang Chicken and then noticed out the corner of my eye him taking his last mouthful of Pulled Pork and Meatball tapas (I know because I had asked). And then I said , "Did you enjoy your lunch?" And looked behind and said to me, "yes very much thank you!" I then asked if he'd like to either join me for dessert or a coffee. God I was so proud of myself for throwing in the coffee idea lol And he said sure and asked what I'd like. Well an espresso +1 x white wine later. A lovely chat and connectioning. We're going to hook up to play tennis, badminton and table tennis. I love playing games. He asked how he could contact me to play and pointed to my phone. We exchanged numbers.
Okay so how do you think I did?
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you did fucking amazing. You go girl |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Y'see, I feel the same way about this as I do about guys hitting on girls in public places that aren't your typical "look for other people to meet" kind of places.
Good luck to you, OP, but if I were dining on my own I'd probably want some peace and quiet to do so, otherwise I'd find a friend to dine with.
But,,,a restaurant/café/bar IS a typical 'look for people to meet' kind of place and there is a world of difference between a little eye contact,a smile,a twirl of the hair and 'hitting on someone'. The latter implies a bit of unwelcome persistence.
Bar yes, cafe maybe, restaurant I'd expect to be left alone to dine. I don't know anyone who goes to a restaurant to look for people to meet. "
I've lived a bit....you'd be surprised! Anyway there's nothing to loose. A smile. A laugh. A yes. A no. Let's live! |
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"oh my gosh.. i'm sat waiting to see what happened? lol
Okay so this is what happened....I finished eating my Bang Bang Chicken and then noticed out the corner of my eye him taking his last mouthful of Pulled Pork and Meatball tapas (I know because I had asked). And then I said , "Did you enjoy your lunch?" And looked behind and said to me, "yes very much thank you!" I then asked if he'd like to either join me for dessert or a coffee. God I was so proud of myself for throwing in the coffee idea lol And he said sure and asked what I'd like. Well an espresso +1 x white wine later. A lovely chat and connectioning. We're going to hook up to play tennis, badminton and table tennis. I love playing games. He asked how he could contact me to play and pointed to my phone. We exchanged numbers.
Okay so how do you think I did?
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you did well..
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By (user no longer on site)
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"oh my gosh.. i'm sat waiting to see what happened? lol
Okay so this is what happened....I finished eating my Bang Bang Chicken and then noticed out the corner of my eye him taking his last mouthful of Pulled Pork and Meatball tapas (I know because I had asked). And then I said , "Did you enjoy your lunch?" And looked behind and said to me, "yes very much thank you!" I then asked if he'd like to either join me for dessert or a coffee. God I was so proud of myself for throwing in the coffee idea lol And he said sure and asked what I'd like. Well an espresso +1 x white wine later. A lovely chat and connectioning. We're going to hook up to play tennis, badminton and table tennis. I love playing games. He asked how he could contact me to play and pointed to my phone. We exchanged numbers.
Okay so how do you think I did?
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Awesome hope you have a fantastic time |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I met a lover this way .he got up and kicked my table by accident and spilt my coffee .Got me another one and invited me to his table. "
Haha priceless! I shall remember that next time...be all clumsy like perfect lol |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Can you walk past his table to go to the toilet?
Maybe drop something and try the bend and snap? "
Aaah as in the Reese Witherspoon "Legally Blonde I & II" bend & snap! One of favourite fun movies. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Can you walk past his table to go to the toilet?
Maybe drop something and try the bend and snap?
Aaah as in the Reese Witherspoon "Legally Blonde I & II" bend & snap! One of favourite fun movies. "
With my puppies doing a move like that I would surely poke my eye out or his lol |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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Oh glory days! The man has gone to buy me a tennis racket and I'm meeting him for a game this evening! Oh god please lord let me have skill to hit and run!!!!! My adrenaline |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"oh my gosh.. i'm sat waiting to see what happened? lol
Okay so this is what happened....I finished eating my Bang Bang Chicken and then noticed out the corner of my eye him taking his last mouthful of Pulled Pork and Meatball tapas (I know because I had asked). And then I said , "Did you enjoy your lunch?" And looked behind and said to me, "yes very much thank you!" I then asked if he'd like to either join me for dessert or a coffee. God I was so proud of myself for throwing in the coffee idea lol And he said sure and asked what I'd like. Well an espresso +1 x white wine later. A lovely chat and connectioning. We're going to hook up to play tennis, badminton and table tennis. I love playing games. He asked how he could contact me to play and pointed to my phone. We exchanged numbers.
Okay so how do you think I did?
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Ooh brave, well done I would have been struck dumb |
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"oh my gosh.. i'm sat waiting to see what happened? lol
Okay so this is what happened....I finished eating my Bang Bang Chicken and then noticed out the corner of my eye him taking his last mouthful of Pulled Pork and Meatball tapas (I know because I had asked). And then I said , "Did you enjoy your lunch?" And looked behind and said to me, "yes very much thank you!" I then asked if he'd like to either join me for dessert or a coffee. God I was so proud of myself for throwing in the coffee idea lol And he said sure and asked what I'd like. Well an espresso +1 x white wine later. A lovely chat and connectioning. We're going to hook up to play tennis, badminton and table tennis. I love playing games. He asked how he could contact me to play and pointed to my phone. We exchanged numbers.
Okay so how do you think I did?
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That's 'ace'
Well done op, hope you win this game to love |
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"oh my gosh.. i'm sat waiting to see what happened? lol
Okay so this is what happened....I finished eating my Bang Bang Chicken and then noticed out the corner of my eye him taking his last mouthful of Pulled Pork and Meatball tapas (I know because I had asked). And then I said , "Did you enjoy your lunch?" And looked behind and said to me, "yes very much thank you!" I then asked if he'd like to either join me for dessert or a coffee. God I was so proud of myself for throwing in the coffee idea lol And he said sure and asked what I'd like. Well an espresso +1 x white wine later. A lovely chat and connectioning. We're going to hook up to play tennis, badminton and table tennis. I love playing games. He asked how he could contact me to play and pointed to my phone. We exchanged numbers.
Okay so how do you think I did?
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Who suggested the games to play?
Shuttle-cock and 2 balls!  |
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"Ooooh oh oh
Having lunch by myself and uhmmm a lovely man has just sat himself to the table next to me. Place has been laid for one. Ordered 1 x glass white wine. Unfortunately he's table is positioned so I can't see his face to catch his eye. This has made it more difficult for me. Geez my heart is racing. I think this man just wants a quiet lunch. When to flirt and have the balls to do it or just to recognise that that's that. Sigggggghhhhhh"
Why didn't you come over? I loved the way you didn't spoil the dress line by wearing underwear. Next time perhaps? |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Oh glory days! The man has gone to buy me a tennis racket and I'm meeting him for a game this evening! Oh god please lord let me have skill to hit and run!!!!! My adrenaline
Will he call for new balls by the end of the night you think? "
Are you psychic lol |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"This has been fabulous to read. I was rooting for you "
Thank you SO much!!! Somehow I played OK tennis....1hr30 not bad and I cannot remember when last I played lol I looked like a tomato! |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"oh my gosh.. i'm sat waiting to see what happened? lol
Okay so this is what happened....I finished eating my Bang Bang Chicken and then noticed out the corner of my eye him taking his last mouthful of Pulled Pork and Meatball tapas (I know because I had asked). And then I said , "Did you enjoy your lunch?" And looked behind and said to me, "yes very much thank you!" I then asked if he'd like to either join me for dessert or a coffee. God I was so proud of myself for throwing in the coffee idea lol And he said sure and asked what I'd like. Well an espresso +1 x white wine later. A lovely chat and connectioning. We're going to hook up to play tennis, badminton and table tennis. I love playing games. He asked how he could contact me to play and pointed to my phone. We exchanged numbers.
Okay so how do you think I did?
Who suggested the games to play?
Shuttle-cock and 2 balls! "
We were talking about sport and he said that he finds it hard to find friends or people to play with him so I said I would lol....not knowing that I was going to play tennis this evening lol |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Wow this thread should be made into a film! Virtual high five to you lady! "
Oh my god you've made me smile so huge. Thank you for your lovely energy for me x |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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Would you believe we had supper together as well! I'm knackered with a capital N lol! What an absolute fun day....thanks for all the lovely comments. I feel quite happy for such lovely moments and for feeling like I'm living. Big love to you all x
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awww hun, i'm so happy you updated, i kept checking and checking till i had to go out..
So proud you went for it and got an evening out too.. sounds like you had fun too.
Always remember, nothing ventured... nothing gained
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Oh glory days! The man has gone to buy me a tennis racket and I'm meeting him for a game this evening! Oh god please lord let me have skill to hit and run!!!!! My adrenaline
Will he call for new balls by the end of the night you think?
Are you psychic lol "
Of course I am |
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"Ooooh oh oh
Having lunch by myself and uhmmm a lovely man has just sat himself to the table next to me. Place has been laid for one. Ordered 1 x glass white wine. Unfortunately he's table is positioned so I can't see his face to catch his eye. This has made it more difficult for me. Geez my heart is racing. I think this man just wants a quiet lunch. When to flirt and have the balls to do it or just to recognise that that's that. Sigggggghhhhhh"
I know if it was me I would be thinking I would love to flirt with that sexy woman drinking the wine. Your profile picture is very sexy. |
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Well done you! 
