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Forum Irritations!!
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Im a regular forum lurker and occasional poster.
Recently my trips in here have irritated me beyond belief because of posters (one in particular  ) who either uses a thread to moan about lack of meets/messages/ various other stuff, or their contribution to every thread is a snippet of info about themselves. Often this info is of no relevance to the thread! 
Interested to hear other forumites irritations, or indeed will happily be told to get a life  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Sorry about that |
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Fabbers asking for advice that no one on here can give when it's usually a case of communicating better with people around them.
So irritating.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Don't you want me to give snippets of information about myself anymore?  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I've got a smooth willy today, today's useless and irrelevant info'  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Fabbers asking for advice that no one on here can give when it's usually a case of communicating better with people around them.
So irritating.
Exactly this
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Really need to stop doing that |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Don't you want me to give snippets of information about myself anymore? "
Of course, that's how people's personality comes through, however not every single thread one posts on |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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It irritates me when everyone is being nice too each other.....  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"It irritates me when everyone is being nice too each other..... "
F*** off then! |
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When I read something I don't like, I've decided instead of posting to either a) leave the screen and go and make a cup of tea, b) see how long I can hold my breathe for, or c) have a wank. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"It irritates me when everyone is being nice too each other.....
F*** off then!"
And that being nice soxy |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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My biggest irritation has to be men being angry as to why they haven't had a meetbon here..... maybe if you sort your attitude out instead of harassing us hahahaha  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"When I read something I don't like, I've decided instead of posting to either a) leave the screen and go and make a cup of tea, b) see how long I can hold my breathe for, or c) have a wank. "
Same |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"It irritates me when everyone is being nice too each other.....
F*** off then!
And that being nice soxy "
Much appreciated needle dick  |
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"When I read something I don't like, I've decided instead of posting to either a) leave the screen and go and make a cup of tea, b) see how long I can hold my breathe for, or c) have a wank.
Same "
Mr Middle-aged boring git here tends towards A |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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The 'Why don't women reply to every single message' threads, just too repetitive, and the 'look at me' threads - although there is often joy watching forumites take the OP down in myriad creative ways. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"When I read something I don't like, I've decided instead of posting to either a) leave the screen and go and make a cup of tea, b) see how long I can hold my breathe for, or c) have a wank.
Same
Mr Middle-aged boring git here tends towards A "
Mrs Middle-aged boring git here tends towards making lots of audible 'huffing and puffing' type of noises then chooses A |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I get slightly vexed when people ramble on about their day and what they have been upto on say a wander in the hills . Then go off at a tangent about how beautiful the day is ans the stars or the sky and clouds . Or witter on about how their pet is how they feel or what they said .
They just never get to the point just endlessly womble on with their daft musings
Pooch ,,, don't tell Taff i nicked his phone
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"When I read something I don't like, I've decided instead of posting to either a) leave the screen and go and make a cup of tea, b) see how long I can hold my breathe for, or c) have a wank.
Same
And then C
Mr Middle-aged boring git here tends towards A
Mrs Middle-aged boring git here tends towards making lots of audible 'huffing and puffing' type of noises then chooses A "
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Oooo'er I've thought of one.....
Threads claiming the 80's and 90's were the best for music......  |
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" or their contribution to every thread is a snippet of info about themselves. Often this info is of no relevance to the thread! "
That does my head in too
Ray
Single
Living in Brighton
Looking for meets |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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OMG I think one of the culprits could be me XXX |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"OMG I think one of the culprits could be me XXX"
Nope |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I just scroll past after reading something that annoys me. I huff and puff to myself then think did it life's too short x |
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Pleading for advice on their profiles.
Really annoys the hell out of me... |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I just scroll past after reading something that annoys me. I huff and puff to myself then think did it life's too short x "
I should do this however I'm so wound up by it, and I have no idea why. |
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"Pleading for advice on their profiles.
Really annoys the hell out of me..."
Seems to have been a lot of this recently. |
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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago
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The threads from men who think they are so entitled that think any woman on here should just drop their knickers to anyone that messages.
And the men who are really scary, their wording of threads show their true contempt against the females on here |
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" or their contribution to every thread is a snippet of info about themselves. Often this info is of no relevance to the thread!
That does my head in too
Ray
Single
Living in Brighton
Looking for meets "
Off to put the kettle on
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Nothing irritates me much on here (except people pasting song lyrics, then others quoting them to give them a thumbs up, meaning I have lots of scrolling ). I feel sorry for some people though. |
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"The threads from men who think they are so entitled that think any woman on here should just drop their knickers to anyone that messages.
And the men who are really scary, their wording of threads show their true contempt against the females on here "
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By *ucyfur77Woman
over a year ago
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Ones who ask for profile advice and then give nothing but attitude back
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By *ieman300Man
over a year ago
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"Oooo'er I've thought of one.....
Threads claiming the 80's and 90's were the best for music...... "
Well they were! |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Ones who ask for profile advice and then give nothing but attitude back
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Or totally ignore the advice, don't comment again on the thread, then start another asking the same thing!!! |
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Ones who ask for advice but don't give the full story! Usually couples. Yes I know it's 'private' but they've come here for advice, get narky when someone offers a solution then tells us to mind our own business! What the f**k just tell us the whole story!!!
Proper gets my goat does this. |
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I can't say that I find the forums irritating.
I simply bypass the repeat offenders.
Though I do sometimes get caught up in discussions that are not directly related to the original thread. Sorry
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"Ones who ask for profile advice and then give nothing but attitude back
Or totally ignore the advice, don't comment again on the thread, then start another asking the same thing!!!"
I just think they're sad / desperate and use it as a "look at me".
Nita |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I find a lot of people using the forum to be just plain boring.
Same thread everyday, at first i won't lie i thought it was fun, after using the forum for 2/3months..... This is booooooriiiiiing ! And tbh, the forum is making me think about leaving Fabs. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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The attention seeking and drama are just pathetic also. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"When I read something I don't like, I've decided instead of posting to either a) leave the screen and go and make a cup of tea, b) see how long I can hold my breathe for, or c) have a wank. "
I bet you've perfected wanking |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"OMG I think one of the culprits could be me XXX
Nope "
Phew......xxx |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"The attention seeking and drama are just pathetic also."
Hmmmm |
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By *SAchickWoman
over a year ago
Hillside desolate |
Not an irritation more an observation, but the same handful of people snog, fuck, avoiding each other all day! |
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But now and again they give us classic gold like yesterday's "teacher shaving her doggy"
Makes all the sh.t posts worth putting up with |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"But now and again they give us classic gold like yesterday's "teacher shaving her doggy"
Makes all the sh.t posts worth putting up with "
Shitposting that's the word i was thinking about, seems like a lot of people don't mind shitposting as long as they have a bit of attention. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Not an irritation more an observation, but the same handful of people snog, fuck, avoiding each other all day! "
Agreed, alongside the people who have fabbed each other to death and the tunes one in which no one really cares what the other people are listening to |
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I'm too easily pleased - sometimes - but experience is a wonderful thing, letting me know when a threads not my cuppa or it's lost it.
We could have a newopic area, unofficially termed shit, where people post shite stuff. Shite meet success etc. Users could click a turd icon to get threads moved from the lounge into it too. Voila, everyone is happy |
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"Not an irritation more an observation, but the same handful of people snog, fuck, avoiding each other all day! "
This irritates me too.
Snog, fuck, avoid - wtf
Kiss or pint - wtf
Send a pic to the person above - nope
Comment on the person above - nope
This goes on too much! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Im a regular forum lurker and occasional poster.
Recently my trips in here have irritated me beyond belief because of posters (one in particular ) who either uses a thread to moan about lack of meets/messages/ various other stuff, or their contribution to every thread is a snippet of info about themselves. Often this info is of no relevance to the thread!
Interested to hear other forumites irritations, or indeed will happily be told to get a life "
I hear you. I find my custard being regularly curdled by a certain individual. I think I need a break. |
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"But now and again they give us classic gold like yesterday's "teacher shaving her doggy"
Makes all the sh.t posts worth putting up with
Shitposting that's the word i was thinking about, seems like a lot of people don't mind shitposting as long as they have a bit of attention."
I don't mind someone starting a shit post of there own it's those that hijack someone else's thread that pees me off |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Not an irritation more an observation, but the same handful of people snog, fuck, avoiding each other all day! "
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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The fact forums get closed when they get to about 170 items. |
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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago
Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum |
Using the forums to swap messages with your meet. We get it; you're sooooo in demand you need everyone else on Fab to know that you're meeting people. Zzzzzzz |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I don't get irritated easily.
People tend to get irritated with the things they don't like about themselves.
Projection is a bastard but it's often crystal in it's reflection.
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That if you tell someone to go fuck themselves you get put on the naughty step. I'm aware it's necessary and understand it though. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Not an irritation more an observation, but the same handful of people snog, fuck, avoiding each other all day!
This irritates me too.
Snog, fuck, avoid - wtf
Kiss or pint - wtf
Send a pic to the person above - nope
Comment on the person above - nope
This goes on too much! "
Ignore those threads then, it really isn't hard to do |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Using the forums to swap messages with your meet. We get it; you're sooooo in demand you need everyone else on Fab to know that you're meeting people. Zzzzzzz
Lamppost pissing at its finest "
Naaaawwwww I think it's sweet. Fills me with a fuzzy belly when I see it. Let people enjoy themselves and be happy |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Using the forums to get there pics fabs .. so they can make the front page . lol |
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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago
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"That if you tell someone to go fuck themselves you get put on the naughty step. I'm aware it's necessary and understand it though."
Or as the quote below says, 'we know you have fucked each other big deal, get over yourselves'
Earned me one  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Using the forums to swap messages with your meet. We get it; you're sooooo in demand you need everyone else on Fab to know that you're meeting people. Zzzzzzz
Lamppost pissing at its finest
Naaaawwwww I think it's sweet. Fills me with a fuzzy belly when I see it. Let people enjoy themselves and be happy "
No one is stopping them being happy or enjoying themselves, I just don't know why they have to use the forums to swap messages that can be swapped by private messages. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Thinking of changing my name to Thrush... |
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I tend to ignore what I don't like and it doesn't bug me much anyway.
I don't like it when some troll starts to pick on someone.
And it bugs me a bit when people don't shorten the posts they quote, so you have to scroll for any hour just to see the next person put "Lol" |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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who was it OP |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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just the one in particular that has that effect on you ? - thats pretty good going by forum standards |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Im a regular forum lurker and occasional poster.
Recently my trips in here have irritated me beyond belief because of posters (one in particular ) who either uses a thread to moan about lack of meets/messages/ various other stuff, or their contribution to every thread is a snippet of info about themselves. Often this info is of no relevance to the thread!
Interested to hear other forumites irritations, or indeed will happily be told to get a life "
I have a feeling I know exactly who you mean OP |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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its a forum - some days im doing stuff that it seems annoy some of you - another i will be the opposite and that annoys others -- fuck it im still gonna post whenever and wherever i want - ignore block or join in with me i dont give a jot - ive made some good forum buddies here - i love the flirty banter and i rarely get into a stroppy row (has been known though the odd time) - ive met a fair few as well and i think they all like me once they seen the real me is much like the forum me which is much like my profile - so there |
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There are very few regular forum posters who get on my nerves . Those who do I tend to ignore whatever they write . Unless it's particularly irritating and then I may say something , but it's usually pointless .
I guess it's not possible to get on with everyone , especially online , so the fact that there are only a couple of posters who piss me off is not so bad |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"There are very few regular forum posters who get on my nerves . Those who do I tend to ignore whatever they write . Unless it's particularly irritating and then I may say something , but it's usually pointless .
I guess it's not possible to get on with everyone , especially online , so the fact that there are only a couple of posters who piss me off is not so bad "
Sorry  |
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"There are very few regular forum posters who get on my nerves . Those who do I tend to ignore whatever they write . Unless it's particularly irritating and then I may say something , but it's usually pointless .
I guess it's not possible to get on with everyone , especially online , so the fact that there are only a couple of posters who piss me off is not so bad
Sorry "
Ha ha ... and you're definately not one of the ones that piss me off |
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By *igeiaWoman
over a year ago
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There are a handful of regular posters I tend to find irritating but I normally manage to just avoid them. On the rare occasions I bite the results always consolidate their irritativeness. To be fair, they probably feel exactly the same about me.
I am also mildly irritated by overuse of punctuation so I avoid another poster for no reason other than that. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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id actually be a bit sad if people disliked me on here - not massively mind you  |
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I confess to being a forum irritation!  |
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By *s_macWoman
over a year ago
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"Not an irritation more an observation, but the same handful of people snog, fuck, avoiding each other all day!
Agreed, alongside the people who have fabbed each other to death and the tunes one in which no one really cares what the other people are listening to "
The music threads are actually my favourites, I love being reminded of a certain song or discovering something new.
Nothing irritates me, unless someone is just being out and out horrid for the sake of it, which thankfully doesn't happen often. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Not an irritation more an observation, but the same handful of people snog, fuck, avoiding each other all day!
Agreed, alongside the people who have fabbed each other to death and the tunes one in which no one really cares what the other people are listening to
The music threads are actually my favourites, I love being reminded of a certain song or discovering something new.
Nothing irritates me, unless someone is just being out and out horrid for the sake of it, which thankfully doesn't happen often."
But I do it so well |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Silly random odd status messages |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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The only thing that irritates me is threads started about a specific person . So for example - who has the best ass on fab? I think it's xxxx
Just bloody message them ! |
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Jusgy Malone!
Best ass on fab!
Apologies just getting in the forum irritation mood |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Jusgy Malone!
Best ass on fab!
Apologies just getting in the forum irritation mood "
Nah. I have the best arse in fab |
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"Jusgy Malone!
Best ass on fab!
Apologies just getting in the forum irritation mood
Nah. I have the best arse in fab "
Nah! damn you!
Had to look, hand over eyes and peeking between fingers, thankfully no arse pic |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Not forum related but I hate myself for using emojis on messages that always end up as ???? I never learn my lesson... maybe one day |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"who was it OP"
Not allowed to name and shame, however judging by the amount of pms I've had tonight, lots know exactly who! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Snog |
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I can't get meets. Nobody will talk to me. Why was I blocked... Blah blah blah
Repetitive post... All the time
Worded a million ways
The result is always the same |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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No cake here so I'll piss off somewhere else |
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Bbw threads, where the self deprecators arrive to be fawned over........i'm not a bbw, i'm just fat. Cue the stamping and snorting of white steeds, as their riders interject with statememts of....no you're lovely, allow me to fawn over you madam...for a mere peek twixt your (chubby) thighs |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Blokes who will fawn/do/say ANYTHING to get a wink/like/message off a female!
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Oh I dont know who it is 
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Oh I dont know who it is
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I do |
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"Fabbers asking for advice that no one on here can give when it's usually a case of communicating better with people around them.
So irritating.
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This!!! Plus threads by the needy in search of constant reassurance about something or another. |
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"The 'Why don't women reply to every single message' threads, just too repetitive, and the 'look at me' threads - although there is often joy watching forumites take the OP down in myriad creative ways."
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"The attention seeking and drama are just pathetic also."
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"It irritates me when everyone is being nice too each other.....
F*** off then!"
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"Bbw threads, where the self deprecators arrive to be fawned over........i'm not a bbw, i'm just fat. Cue the stamping and snorting of white steeds, as their riders interject with statememts of....no you're lovely, allow me to fawn over you madam...for a mere peek twixt your (chubby) thighs"
Pathetic isn't it! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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people who bitch and moan about others like this is some fucking playground. This place isn't yours , it belongs to whoever wants to be a part of it. You don't own this space.. sonlive and let the fuck live |
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"Bbw threads, where the self deprecators arrive to be fawned over........i'm not a bbw, i'm just fat. Cue the stamping and snorting of white steeds, as their riders interject with statememts of....no you're lovely, allow me to fawn over you madam...for a mere peek twixt your (chubby) thighs"
I find potential heart disease VERY sexy! Mmmmmmmmmmmm! Wheeeezy sexyness |
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By *abs..Woman
over a year ago
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Status updates - particularly the 'woe is me' type. Some people have those down to a fine art!
Mood hoovers and moaners - doesn't matter what's being discussed, they breeze in with their negativity.
Other than that ... it's all good |
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By *andsonjohnMan
over a year ago
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so the op finds I certain poster a irritant and then brags further down the post about she's glad others agree with her ,
i wonder how the person in question feels upon reading this post .
was any of this necessary the op may feel vindicated even happy that others agree with but this happiness is at the expense of another persons happiness
all because the op and others in here feel they have the right to moan about something or someone that irritates regardless of whether it upsets those in question or not basically not caring about anyone's feeling but there own .
very attractive behaviour and a great advert for fabs forums don't you think.
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"who was it OP
Not allowed to name and shame, however judging by the amount of pms I've had tonight, lots know exactly who! "
I think I do and I don't think it's anything to smile about.
I've just realised there is something that irritates me on here. |
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Sycophants and the sycophantic nature of the forum make's me want to vom at times.
The same people telling each other how amazing they are then jumping on someone who dares to be different..
Also those of you out there who think your opinion is the only opinion everyone else is wrong. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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People who play out their relationship/ sex life in the forum. So much so that the thread becomes full of their exchanges
Kinda " look at us, we are having sex. Arent we grown up?"
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Everything that's been mentioned so far.
But to add, the self righteous crusaders who try and impose their way of thinking on to people, and how they think what they type is some kind of authority that must be obeyed. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"People who play out their relationship/ sex life in the forum. So much so that the thread becomes full of their exchanges
Kinda " look at us, we are having sex. Arent we grown up?"
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"There are a handful of regular posters I tend to find irritating but I normally manage to just avoid them. On the rare occasions I bite the results always consolidate their irritativeness. To be fair, they probably feel exactly the same about me.
I am also mildly irritated by overuse of punctuation so I avoid another poster for no reason other than that. "
Oh I do that |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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is it me OK? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"is it me OK?"
because if you're brave enough to spit venom about someone you don't know.. have the knockers to admit if you're pulled up on it |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Most of the topics are repeated time after time. That's the biggest gripe, however it's not the end of the world. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"who was it OP
Not allowed to name and shame, however judging by the amount of pms I've had tonight, lots know exactly who! "
Wow! No idea who you are but being proud and bragging about being centre of some kind of attention, or drama, is an unattractive quality.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I couldn't give a shit who i annoy. It's a public forum on a swinging site. Paid my fiver and i'm not going anywhere.
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"I couldn't give a shit who i annoy. It's a public forum on a swinging site. Paid my fiver and i'm not going anywhere.
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Exactly this. People need to get off their gossip wagons and get a grip. |
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By *eliWoman
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For once, I actually agree with John. This is a bit of a shitty thread (understated as ever).
If you have such an issue with someone you want to start a thread about it, it's probably time to go and do something else that doesn't involve being online. Have a wank or a cup of tea. Or eat some of the bloody cake that's frequently discussed.
People rarely irritate me on here - I log off for a bit and get a grip.
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"For once, I actually agree with John. This is a bit of a shitty thread (understated as ever).
If you have such an issue with someone you want to start a thread about it, it's probably time to go and do something else that doesn't involve being online. Have a wank or a cup of tea. Or eat some of the bloody cake that's frequently discussed.
People rarely irritate me on here - I log off for a bit and get a grip.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Forum irritations.
Erm, those that tell others how they should be posting. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Forum irritations.
Erm, those that tell others how they should be posting."
Exactly. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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If you are being irritated by it, you’re taking it too seriously.
Think of it like magazine, if you don’t like the content of one article, move to the next.
If you don’t like article after article then don’t open the magazine. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"If you are being irritated by it, you’re taking it too seriously.
Think of it like magazine, if you don’t like the content of one article, move to the next.
If you don’t like article after article then don’t open the magazine. "
Very much like that analogy.
Otherwise all articles/posts would be the same to match the criteria of one individual. Variety is the spice of life. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"If you are being irritated by it, you’re taking it too seriously.
Think of it like magazine, if you don’t like the content of one article, move to the next.
If you don’t like article after article then don’t open the magazine.
Very much like that analogy.
Otherwise all articles/posts would be the same to match the criteria of one individual. Variety is the spice of life."
thank you.
Very true. Needs to be some variety. |
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By *abs..Woman
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"If you are being irritated by it, you’re taking it too seriously.
Think of it like magazine, if you don’t like the content of one article, move to the next.
If you don’t like article after article then don’t open the magazine.
Very much like that analogy.
Otherwise all articles/posts would be the same to match the criteria of one individual. Variety is the spice of life."
This is exactly why people have as much right to comment on this thread as any other. It was a question about irritations and therefore people have an opinion about that and can express it here. That's what the forum is. If people don't enjoy reading about what irritates people then don't read it and move on to the next 'article' |
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The same questions getting asked over and over again such as “Why don't you rude fuckers reply to my emails. It only takes under a minute to type no thanks.”, “Should we name and shame timewasters.”, etc. The forum has a search function.
Look at me threads
Men playing the white night in shining armour in threads hoping it will get them a fuck. It’s so bloody obvious what you are up to. On that note women who put things up like I am fat. Knowing/hoping the white nights will come to their thread and tell them they are not fat and they are very sexy.
People who ask for profile advice and don't change a thing about their profile. It's another look at me thread.
Moaning threads about not getting a meet despite only being on her a few days or weeks.
Men who think this website is called Ishaganybodywhoasksme.com or instantfucks.com or freefucks.com
People who complain they have had 20 timewasters in the last month. Who is the common denominator in that one? If you constantly meet timewasters it’s you who is doing something wrong.
Kiss, have drink with or avoid threads
I cheat because I am in a sexless relationship threads. Sex is fantastic when done right. If your wife or girlfriend doesn’t like having sex with you maybe it’s that you are not so good at it?
People who derail a thread and post something totally not relevant to the thread. Totally off topic.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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People that mention popcorn when someone disagrees with someone else!
Are you really getting popcorn out? No, you don't even have any! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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All the talk of cake on here, so bloody pathetic |
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By *ieman300Man
over a year ago
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"I tend to ignore what I don't like and it doesn't bug me much anyway.
I don't like it when some troll starts to pick on someone.
And it bugs me a bit when people don't shorten the posts they quote, so you have to scroll for any hour just to see the next person put "Lol" "
I hate that!
I am also guilty of doing it |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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People who go out of their way to be condescending and look down on others...though that's not irrational.
Ok....the facepic or wink threads where people add "I'm in...but no-one will notice anyway" stop it!!! |
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By *ieman300Man
over a year ago
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"Bbw threads, where the self deprecators arrive to be fawned over........i'm not a bbw, i'm just fat. Cue the stamping and snorting of white steeds, as their riders interject with statememts of....no you're lovely, allow me to fawn over you madam...for a mere peek twixt your (chubby) thighs"
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We all have our personal irritants but I can guarantee you'll see the same type of behaviours repeated on *any* forum, regardless of its subject matter because that's just what happens when you give a diverse mix of people a sounding board ..... you'll always get someone showing off in some capacity, someone shit stirring, someone else being rude or spiteful, someone being negative, someone who thinks they're better than everyone else, someone bigoted, someone being irrelevant - or irreverent, someone attention seeking, someone (me) writing long boring replies etc., etc.
If you're going to use any forum, all of that comes with the territory so, notwithstanding calling out anyone who's grossly offensive, you kind of have to like it or lump it .... |
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By *ieman300Man
over a year ago
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"[Removed by poster at 14/08/17 08:55:31]"
Not sure why you removed. You was bloody spot on. |
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By *ieman300Man
over a year ago
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"We all have our personal irritants but I can guarantee you'll see the same type of behaviours repeated on *any* forum, regardless of its subject matter because that's just what happens when you give a diverse mix of people a sounding board ..... you'll always get someone showing off in some capacity, someone shit stirring, someone else being rude or spiteful, someone being negative, someone who thinks they're better than everyone else, someone bigoted, someone being irrelevant - or irreverent, someone attention seeking, someone (me) writing long boring replies etc., etc.
If you're going to use any forum, all of that comes with the territory so, notwithstanding calling out anyone who's grossly offensive, you kind of have to like it or lump it ...."
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Not sure why you removed. You was bloody spot on."
My OCD for spelling and punctuation! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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It can be a bit clique!! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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So after 140 of posts, we've learned that it's basically 'just suck it up buttercup'? Awesome!
Now that's over, fancy a fuck? |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"So after 140 of posts, we've learned that it's basically 'just suck it up buttercup'? Awesome!
Now that's over, fancy a fuck? "
that's the problem...most people do but the forum is the waiting room, hence all the pent up aggression !!! |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"who was it OP
Not allowed to name and shame, however judging by the amount of pms I've had tonight, lots know exactly who!
I think I do and I don't think it's anything to smile about.
I've just realised there is something that irritates me on here. "
And you are perfectly entitled to feel that was as am I. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"who was it OP
Not allowed to name and shame, however judging by the amount of pms I've had tonight, lots know exactly who!
I think I do and I don't think it's anything to smile about.
I've just realised there is something that irritates me on here.
And you are perfectly entitled to feel that was as am I."
Your spark is fading.. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"is it me OK?
because if you're brave enough to spit venom about someone you don't know.. have the knockers to admit if you're pulled up on it"
Did I say it was someone I didn't know? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"All the talk of cake on here, so bloody pathetic "
Agreed |
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"It can be a bit clique!!"
Wish it was as I'd be cliquing my fingers getting a fuck left right and centre. But I know what you mean |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"is it me OK?
because if you're brave enough to spit venom about someone you don't know.. have the knockers to admit if you're pulled up on it
Did I say it was someone I didn't know?"
ok let's play it your way for shits n giggles...
Your words have raised the hackles of a lot of innocent people who don't know it's not aimed at them. you've created a poisonous vibe.. All because you can't get what you want. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"is it me OK?
because if you're brave enough to spit venom about someone you don't know.. have the knockers to admit if you're pulled up on it
Did I say it was someone I didn't know?
ok let's play it your way for shits n giggles...
Your words have raised the hackles of a lot of innocent people who don't know it's not aimed at them. you've created a poisonous vibe.. All because you can't get what you want."
What do I want? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Two things for us. Usernames with hot or sexy in them when the term is very subjective and when you get competitive sniping in the chat rooms. Not been part of it but witnessed it a bit. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"is it me OK?
because if you're brave enough to spit venom about someone you don't know.. have the knockers to admit if you're pulled up on it
Did I say it was someone I didn't know?
ok let's play it your way for shits n giggles...
Your words have raised the hackles of a lot of innocent people who don't know it's not aimed at them. you've created a poisonous vibe.. All because you can't get what you want.
What do I want? "
I don't care anymore. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I must be the only person clueless to what's going on
But to answer the question I'm rarely irritated by the forum.
If it irritated me I would simply go and find domething else to do.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I must be the only person clueless to what's going on
But to answer the question I'm rarely irritated by the forum.
If it irritated me I would simply go and find domething else to do.
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I wouldn't worry about it.. It's nothing that matters. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"so the op finds I certain poster a irritant and then brags further down the post about she's glad others agree with her ,
i wonder how the person in question feels upon reading this post .
was any of this necessary the op may feel vindicated even happy that others agree with but this happiness is at the expense of another persons happiness
all because the op and others in here feel they have the right to moan about something or someone that irritates regardless of whether it upsets those in question or not basically not caring about anyone's feeling but there own .
very attractive behaviour and a great advert for fabs forums don't you think.
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Totally agree...these type of threads that start with the guessing game about one poster...then to go on about private messaging about that poster..are just wrong! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"who was it OP
Not allowed to name and shame, however judging by the amount of pms I've had tonight, lots know exactly who!
I think I do and I don't think it's anything to smile about.
I've just realised there is something that irritates me on here.
And you are perfectly entitled to feel that was as am I.
Your spark is fading.. "
Oh and so what you were saying.. is that there are 20odd other cowards in here.. Too afraid to say how they feel out in the open?
I'm going to love this Forum |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Im a regular forum lurker and occasional poster.
Recently my trips in here have irritated me beyond belief because of posters (one in particular ) who either uses a thread to moan about lack of meets/messages/ various other stuff, or their contribution to every thread is a snippet of info about themselves. Often this info is of no relevance to the thread!
Interested to hear other forumites irritations, or indeed will happily be told to get a life
I hear you. I find my custard being regularly curdled by a certain individual. I think I need a break. "
Am I a culprit? I'm new to the forums if it is me ruining them |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Im a regular forum lurker and occasional poster.
Recently my trips in here have irritated me beyond belief because of posters (one in particular ) who either uses a thread to moan about lack of meets/messages/ various other stuff, or their contribution to every thread is a snippet of info about themselves. Often this info is of no relevance to the thread!
Interested to hear other forumites irritations, or indeed will happily be told to get a life
I hear you. I find my custard being regularly curdled by a certain individual. I think I need a break.
Am I a culprit? I'm new to the forums if it is me ruining them"
Nope.. it's not you |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Im a regular forum lurker and occasional poster.
Recently my trips in here have irritated me beyond belief because of posters (one in particular ) who either uses a thread to moan about lack of meets/messages/ various other stuff, or their contribution to every thread is a snippet of info about themselves. Often this info is of no relevance to the thread!
Interested to hear other forumites irritations, or indeed will happily be told to get a life
I hear you. I find my custard being regularly curdled by a certain individual. I think I need a break.
Am I a culprit? I'm new to the forums if it is me ruining them"
I doubt it mate...but what these threads do when pointing to one person is cause a lot of paranoia to others.
But the worst bit is the openly admitting they are talking in private about the one person in mind..whilst this avoids the naming and shaming rule...it is blatantly happening in private which is hurtful to someone on here and just not right! |
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Get a grip guys. It's just a website. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Get a grip guys. It's just a website."
So you think it's OK to have whispering threads? |
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In summary: If you treat other people with respect, you can't go far wrong. Don't forget that the forums are meant to be fun, if you find yourself fuming and writing long angry messages you're probably best taking a break from it. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Im a regular forum lurker and occasional poster.
Recently my trips in here have irritated me beyond belief because of posters (one in particular ) who either uses a thread to moan about lack of meets/messages/ various other stuff, or their contribution to every thread is a snippet of info about themselves. Often this info is of no relevance to the thread!
Interested to hear other forumites irritations, or indeed will happily be told to get a life
I hear you. I find my custard being regularly curdled by a certain individual. I think I need a break.
Am I a culprit? I'm new to the forums if it is me ruining them
I doubt it mate...but what these threads do when pointing to one person is cause a lot of paranoia to others.
But the worst bit is the openly admitting they are talking in private about the one person in mind..whilst this avoids the naming and shaming rule...it is blatantly happening in private which is hurtful to someone on here and just not right!"
It's not hurtful to the person it's directed at. But others are caught in the crossfire.. that's not on. |
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"Get a grip guys. It's just a website.
So you think it's OK to have whispering threads?"
I couldn't give a single solitary shit how children behave on here. |
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By *ieman300Man
over a year ago
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Its all mind games. Chat to your friends. Post as you see fit within the rules. Meet and fuck.
Enjoy people. |
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"Its all mind games. Chat to your friends. Post as you see fit within the rules. Meet and fuck.
Enjoy people."
Oh you make it sound so simple! Oh wait, it is! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Its all mind games. Chat to your friends. Post as you see fit within the rules. Meet and fuck.
Enjoy people."
Nail on the head |
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By *ugby 123Couple
over a year ago
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"who was it OP
Not allowed to name and shame, however judging by the amount of pms I've had tonight, lots know exactly who! "
This really isn't nice.
Just avoid a persons posts on the forum rather than start a thread about them |
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