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"Just checking if anyone has had this problem??" Not a problem at all; quickest way to discover how shallow someone is, then you can block them and move on  | |||
"Just checking if anyone has had this problem?? Not a problem at all; quickest way to discover how shallow someone is, then you can block them and move on "That's what I do although my block list is growing daily | |||
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"It happens to everyone. " Even you!! | |||
"Just checking if anyone has had this problem?? Not a problem at all; quickest way to discover how shallow someone is, then you can block them and move on
That's what I do although my block list is growing daily "Mine is huge (oo-er Missus), but block lists are open-ended, and it means you can concentrate on people you'd want to meet | |||
"Just checking if anyone has had this problem?? Not a problem at all; quickest way to discover how shallow someone is, then you can block them and move on "Why is it shallow? I'm not gonna fuck someone I'm not physically attracted to, are you? "Don't look at the fireplace when you're stoking the fire"? "Put a bag over his/her head"? If I were looking for a relationship then maybe I would look past the fact that someone isn't that attractive and fall for someone's personality and outlook on life. But this isn't a dating site!!! If not wanting to be intimate with someone who I don't find attractive makes me shallow, then that must mean that you'd fuck anything that offered regardless of looks because you're desperate? | |||
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"It happens to everyone. Even you!! " Yep. Many times. | |||
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"The best i had. I sent a pic then she explained in the most kindest way that, im not for her. I was so grateful to her rather that just blocking me. I'd never bother her again ! So the blocks are completely irrelevant unless ur in stalker mode!" They stop showing up in you're search then. Hence makes room for more newbies | |||
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"Just checking if anyone has had this problem??" It's not a problem, it's a given You can't appeal to everyone | |||
"Just checking if anyone has had this problem?? Not a problem at all; quickest way to discover how shallow someone is, then you can block them and move on "Shallow? Really? 
Is your ego really that delicate that someone not replying because they don't find you attractive is shallow.
If someone sends us face pics and we're not attracted it doesn't go any further. | |||
"Just checking if anyone has had this problem?? Not a problem at all; quickest way to discover how shallow someone is, then you can block them and move on
Why is it shallow?
I'm not gonna fuck someone I'm not physically attracted to, are you?
"Don't look at the fireplace when you're stoking the fire"?
"Put a bag over his/her head"?
If I were looking for a relationship then maybe I would look past the fact that someone isn't that attractive and fall for someone's personality and outlook on life.
But this isn't a dating site!!!
If not wanting to be intimate with someone who I don't find attractive makes me shallow, then that must mean that you'd fuck anything that offered regardless of looks because you're desperate? "That makes me shallow too, I prefer to call it having standards tho | |||
"It happens every minute of every hour on here "yes everyone get that in general.  | |||
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"Just checking if anyone has had this problem?? Not a problem at all; quickest way to discover how shallow someone is, then you can block them and move on "You know....its not about being shallow. It's about whether one is attracted. It's a fact that we will not be everyone's cup. | |||
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"many times,but how can anyone judge a person by looking at a picture nor ever met them in person?" Make sure you have a really good clear pic of yourself. People need to think past your keyboard and think people skills....just as if you were going to meet someone in reality. It's best to accept that there will always be rejection in life especially more so on here. | |||
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"many times,but how can anyone judge a person by looking at a picture nor ever met them in person?" Because that picture along with your profile and message is all they have to go on. I can't meet everybody who messages to give them a fair chance unfortunately, I doubt anyone would. | |||
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"A moronic expressionless still from a,webcam like a serial killer.. I get sent a lot of those... Never mind silence, run... "I have to agree, a lot of pics I get sent, the men look so pissed off. You'd think they were going to be sent to jail rather than on a site looking to meet people and hopefully have sex with them | |||
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"No, I'm very good looking. " It is not a curse, having all the ladies (and men) fall at your feet, Clem? | |||
"No, I'm very good looking. It is not a curse, having all the ladies (and men) fall at your feet, Clem? "You get used to it. That's why I'm so choosy as to who gets to see it. | |||
"Just checking if anyone has had this problem?? Not a problem at all; quickest way to discover how shallow someone is, then you can block them and move on
Why is it shallow?
I'm not gonna fuck someone I'm not physically attracted to, are you?
"Don't look at the fireplace when you're stoking the fire"?
"Put a bag over his/her head"?
If I were looking for a relationship then maybe I would look past the fact that someone isn't that attractive and fall for someone's personality and outlook on life.
But this isn't a dating site!!!
If not wanting to be intimate with someone who I don't find attractive makes me shallow, then that must mean that you'd fuck anything that offered regardless of looks because you're desperate? "A realist. I like your style ma'am | |||
"Or think of it another way, they saw your face and realised they werent in your league "Haha brilliant. | |||
"No, I'm very good looking. It is not a curse, having all the ladies (and men) fall at your feet, Clem?
You get used to it. That's why I'm so choosy as to who gets to see it. "That's very sensible of you. Otherwise, it could turn into a full time job batting them all off. I won't ask to see, I've only just put my knickers on. I don't want to get them messy. | |||
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"It's not a problem, they simply don't like what they see. NEXT!!" | |||
"No, I'm very good looking. It is not a curse, having all the ladies (and men) fall at your feet, Clem?
You get used to it. That's why I'm so choosy as to who gets to see it.
That's very sensible of you.
Otherwise, it could turn into a full time job batting them all off.
I won't ask to see, I've only just put my knickers on. I don't want to get them messy. "Very wise. | |||
"Just checking if anyone has had this problem??" I don't see it as a problem. There are two reasons for such; either they don't find me attractive so don't want us to waste each other's time in further fruitless conversation or they are so intimidated by my glorious countenance they can't cope. Either reason is fine. | |||
"Just checking if anyone has had this problem?? I don't see it as a problem. There are two reasons for such; either they don't find me attractive so don't want us to waste each other's time in further fruitless conversation or they are so intimidated by my glorious countenance they can't cope. Either reason is fine." | |||
"Just checking if anyone has had this problem?? Not a problem at all; quickest way to discover how shallow someone is, then you can block them and move on "Why is it shallow? For most of us this is fantasy and we're looking for our fantasy figure. A white couple may be looking for a black playmate and get a pic from a white guy. Doesn't mean he's hideous, just not what they're looking for. You send a face pic knowing you'll not appeal to everyone: no one has universal appeal, something some on here fail to recognise. There are some who don't take rejection well: to avoid being insulted some choose to stop contact with those they're not interested in. C'est la vie! | |||
"Just checking if anyone has had this problem?? Not a problem at all; quickest way to discover how shallow someone is, then you can block them and move on
Why is it shallow?
I'm not gonna fuck someone I'm not physically attracted to, are you?
"Don't look at the fireplace when you're stoking the fire"?
"Put a bag over his/her head"?
If I were looking for a relationship then maybe I would look past the fact that someone isn't that attractive and fall for someone's personality and outlook on life.
But this isn't a dating site!!!
If not wanting to be intimate with someone who I don't find attractive makes me shallow, then that must mean that you'd fuck anything that offered regardless of looks because you're desperate? "
Exactly my point!!!
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"yes it has happened and ive done the same myself and blocked many times - just the easiest way to stop the chatter from going on when its going to go nowhere - if you had messaged me i probably wouldnt have bothered as you dont have the most enthralling profile - no pics at all and not much text " Hahaha no faffing around! | |||
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"all the time, i tend to scare people off lol " Me too get much luck your end of Cheshire? | |||
"yes it has happened and ive done the same myself and blocked many times - just the easiest way to stop the chatter from going on when its going to go nowhere - if you had messaged me i probably wouldnt have bothered as you dont have the most enthralling profile - no pics at all and not much text Hahaha no faffing around!" no time for faffing or faffers | |||
"Just checking if anyone has had this problem?? Not a problem at all; quickest way to discover how shallow someone is, then you can block them and move on
Why is it shallow?
I'm not gonna fuck someone I'm not physically attracted to, are you?
"Don't look at the fireplace when you're stoking the fire"?
"Put a bag over his/her head"?
If I were looking for a relationship then maybe I would look past the fact that someone isn't that attractive and fall for someone's personality and outlook on life.
But this isn't a dating site!!!
If not wanting to be intimate with someone who I don't find attractive makes me shallow, then that must mean that you'd fuck anything that offered regardless of looks because you're desperate? "You're talking to a bloke, most of us will say we have standards but if someone puts a fanny in front of us then we're probably going to want to fuck it | |||
"yes it has happened and ive done the same myself and blocked many times - just the easiest way to stop the chatter from going on when its going to go nowhere - if you had messaged me i probably wouldnt have bothered as you dont have the most enthralling profile - no pics at all and not much text Hahaha no faffing around! no time for faffing or faffers " or faffety faff faff fack. Or feck fuck lol | |||
"Just checking if anyone has had this problem?? Not a problem at all; quickest way to discover how shallow someone is, then you can block them and move on
Why is it shallow?
I'm not gonna fuck someone I'm not physically attracted to, are you?
"Don't look at the fireplace when you're stoking the fire"?
"Put a bag over his/her head"?
If I were looking for a relationship then maybe I would look past the fact that someone isn't that attractive and fall for someone's personality and outlook on life.
But this isn't a dating site!!!
If not wanting to be intimate with someone who I don't find attractive makes me shallow, then that must mean that you'd fuck anything that offered regardless of looks because you're desperate? "Not at all. I was referring to my experiences in here, when I've taken the time to craft a respectful, thought-out message to someone I'm interested in, to receive a one-line reply of "Face pic?", which I then have either ignored, straight delete, or the ubiquitous "Not my type" and blocked. My apologies if I'm coming across as embittered and hardened | |||
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"Just checking if anyone has had this problem?? Not a problem at all; quickest way to discover how shallow someone is, then you can block them and move on
Shallow? Really?
Is your ego really that delicate that someone not replying because they don't find you attractive is shallow.
If someone sends us face pics and we're not attracted it doesn't go any further."Again, it's not about the strength of my ego, I just look for more than a really good selfie from someone | |||
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"Just checking if anyone has had this problem?? Not a problem at all; quickest way to discover how shallow someone is, then you can block them and move on
Why is it shallow?
I'm not gonna fuck someone I'm not physically attracted to, are you?
"Don't look at the fireplace when you're stoking the fire"?
"Put a bag over his/her head"?
If I were looking for a relationship then maybe I would look past the fact that someone isn't that attractive and fall for someone's personality and outlook on life.
But this isn't a dating site!!!
If not wanting to be intimate with someone who I don't find attractive makes me shallow, then that must mean that you'd fuck anything that offered regardless of looks because you're desperate?
You're talking to a bloke, most of us will say we have standards but if someone puts a fanny in front of us then we're probably going to want to fuck it "Tut tut  | |||
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"many times,but how can anyone judge a person by looking at a picture nor ever met them in person? Make sure you have a really good clear pic of yourself. People need to think past your keyboard and think people skills....just as if you were going to meet someone in reality. It's best to accept that there will always be rejection in life especially more so on here." lol that still doesnt answer my question | |||
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"Just checking if anyone has had this problem?? Not a problem at all; quickest way to discover how shallow someone is, then you can block them and move on
Why is it shallow?
I'm not gonna fuck someone I'm not physically attracted to, are you?
"Don't look at the fireplace when you're stoking the fire"?
"Put a bag over his/her head"?
If I were looking for a relationship then maybe I would look past the fact that someone isn't that attractive and fall for someone's personality and outlook on life.
But this isn't a dating site!!!
If not wanting to be intimate with someone who I don't find attractive makes me shallow, then that must mean that you'd fuck anything that offered regardless of looks because you're desperate?
You're talking to a bloke, most of us will say we have standards but if someone puts a fanny in front of us then we're probably going to want to fuck it "Well more fool you!!! But then again, looking at some people's veri's that really doesn't surprise me!!! | |||
"many times,but how can anyone judge a person by looking at a picture nor ever met them in person? Because that picture along with your profile and message is all they have to go on. I can't meet everybody who messages to give them a fair chance unfortunately, I doubt anyone would. " and what about sending a clear pic on pm? | |||
"Just checking if anyone has had this problem??" Ive had that occur. Not exactly a problem though. | |||
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"I've tried to tell a bloke in the past very kindly that although he sent us a very decent message had verications etc but he just didn't do anything for me, he then became very rude, nasty and repulsive! No I just don't respond if I'm not attracted as I never or should have to go through that again! I think you do have to have some kind of an attraction! I would never be offended if I wasn't someone's cup of tea it's just one of those things. " No need for rudeness on either part. At least you know you made the right decision | |||
"It doesn't happen to us because we don't have face pics here and wouldn't show or rely on them anyway - they're far too easy to fake. We don't need to see a face to establish whether a guy is charming and attractive or just an arrogant plonker who spends more time looking in the mirror than anything else. Yes there needs to be some mutual attraction but for us there's far more to that than just a face so we look for likeminded people. We'll only meet someone after we've chatted, got to know them and seen eachother on cam. That might involve partially showing faces but it's not essential. It works well for us." well said | |||
"I've tried to tell a bloke in the past very kindly that although he sent us a very decent message had verications etc but he just didn't do anything for me, he then became very rude, nasty and repulsive! No I just don't respond if I'm not attracted as I never or should have to go through that again! I think you do have to have some kind of an attraction! I would never be offended if I wasn't someone's cup of tea it's just one of those things. " yes a number of woman have said this. Some cant take rejection. Losers lol | |||
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"Yep happens to everyone I can conquer...sometimes I'm not sure it's inetional but it does happen" The face is only one part of the body, a small percentage of them as a whole lol | |||
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"many times,but how can anyone judge a person by looking at a picture nor ever met them in person?" pretty easily. I mean you look at the picture, decide if you like the picture, and you're done! | |||
"Just checking if anyone has had this problem?? Not a problem at all; quickest way to discover how shallow someone is, then you can block them and move on
Why is it shallow?
I'm not gonna fuck someone I'm not physically attracted to, are you?
"Don't look at the fireplace when you're stoking the fire"?
"Put a bag over his/her head"?
If I were looking for a relationship then maybe I would look past the fact that someone isn't that attractive and fall for someone's personality and outlook on life.
But this isn't a dating site!!!
If not wanting to be intimate with someone who I don't find attractive makes me shallow, then that must mean that you'd fuck anything that offered regardless of looks because you're desperate?
Not at all. I was referring to my experiences in here, when I've taken the time to craft a respectful, thought-out message to someone I'm interested in, to receive a one-line reply of "Face pic?", which I then have either ignored, straight delete, or the ubiquitous "Not my type" and blocked. My apologies if I'm coming across as embittered and hardened "tbh if your message was so well thought out it would have included a face pic | |||
"Just checking if anyone has had this problem?? Not a problem at all; quickest way to discover how shallow someone is, then you can block them and move on
Why is it shallow?
I'm not gonna fuck someone I'm not physically attracted to, are you?
"Don't look at the fireplace when you're stoking the fire"?
"Put a bag over his/her head"?
If I were looking for a relationship then maybe I would look past the fact that someone isn't that attractive and fall for someone's personality and outlook on life.
But this isn't a dating site!!!
If not wanting to be intimate with someone who I don't find attractive makes me shallow, then that must mean that you'd fuck anything that offered regardless of looks because you're desperate?
Not at all. I was referring to my experiences in here, when I've taken the time to craft a respectful, thought-out message to someone I'm interested in, to receive a one-line reply of "Face pic?", which I then have either ignored, straight delete, or the ubiquitous "Not my type" and blocked. My apologies if I'm coming across as embittered and hardened
tbh if your message was so well thought out it would have included a face pic "Tbf; I usually include a face pic if their profile is photo-verified, has photos in their public or private galleries, or they have actual meet verifications | |||
"Just checking if anyone has had this problem?? Not a problem at all; quickest way to discover how shallow someone is, then you can block them and move on
Why is it shallow?
I'm not gonna fuck someone I'm not physically attracted to, are you?
"Don't look at the fireplace when you're stoking the fire"?
"Put a bag over his/her head"?
If I were looking for a relationship then maybe I would look past the fact that someone isn't that attractive and fall for someone's personality and outlook on life.
But this isn't a dating site!!!
If not wanting to be intimate with someone who I don't find attractive makes me shallow, then that must mean that you'd fuck anything that offered regardless of looks because you're desperate?
Not at all. I was referring to my experiences in here, when I've taken the time to craft a respectful, thought-out message to someone I'm interested in, to receive a one-line reply of "Face pic?", which I then have either ignored, straight delete, or the ubiquitous "Not my type" and blocked. My apologies if I'm coming across as embittered and hardened
tbh if your message was so well thought out it would have included a face pic
Tbf; I usually include a face pic if their profile is photo-verified, has photos in their public or private galleries, or they have actual meet verifications "so you only have a problem when messaging unverified profiles with no pictures and no meets? I mean fair enough but this seems like a non issue? | |||
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 just fun times. If ya face is that bad just do it doggie problems solved haha  | |||
"Just checking if anyone has had this problem?? Not a problem at all; quickest way to discover how shallow someone is, then you can block them and move on
Why is it shallow?
I'm not gonna fuck someone I'm not physically attracted to, are you?
"Don't look at the fireplace when you're stoking the fire"?
"Put a bag over his/her head"?
If I were looking for a relationship then maybe I would look past the fact that someone isn't that attractive and fall for someone's personality and outlook on life.
But this isn't a dating site!!!
If not wanting to be intimate with someone who I don't find attractive makes me shallow, then that must mean that you'd fuck anything that offered regardless of looks because you're desperate?
Not at all. I was referring to my experiences in here, when I've taken the time to craft a respectful, thought-out message to someone I'm interested in, to receive a one-line reply of "Face pic?", which I then have either ignored, straight delete, or the ubiquitous "Not my type" and blocked. My apologies if I'm coming across as embittered and hardened
tbh if your message was so well thought out it would have included a face pic
Tbf; I usually include a face pic if their profile is photo-verified, has photos in their public or private galleries, or they have actual meet verifications
so you only have a problem when messaging unverified profiles with no pictures and no meets?
I mean fair enough but this seems like a non issue?"Not all the time no; I've had some cracking rapport built up over a spread of time with some people, people like myself with verified profiles, working up to the point of a potential meet, so face pic sent, then like the OP says, silence. Or blocked. Don't you find it's a bit of a juggling game this, being forward enough to show how keen you are, but walking the tightrope of not seeming desperate, or pushy? What I really don't like though, are the unverified profiles, with no pics, or meets, who ask for a face pic, and then you're blocked, and you don't know who has viewed your pic, and did they save it, so they can use it elsewhere? | |||
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"many times,but how can anyone judge a person by looking at a picture nor ever met them in person? Because that picture along with your profile and message is all they have to go on. I can't meet everybody who messages to give them a fair chance unfortunately, I doubt anyone would. and what about sending a clear pic on pm?" Yes, as I said, that's an important factor in choosing who I would meet, along with their message and profile. | |||
"I think if I'd asked to see a face pic, then I would have to reply back either yay or nay, would seem rude not too. " Same. | |||
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"I think if I'd asked to see a face pic, then I would have to reply back either yay or nay, would seem rude not too. Same. " I see where you are coming from there. Personally though I think I'd rather just have the delete. When it's so obviously my face that is the issue I don't know that I'd want the pain prolonged. | |||
"Just checking if anyone has had this problem??" yea but i'm an ugly fucker | |||
"Just checking if anyone has had this problem?? yea but i'm an ugly fucker "I'm the same. I scare everyone off | |||
"I think if I'd asked to see a face pic, then I would have to reply back either yay or nay, would seem rude not too. Same. I see where you are coming from there. Personally though I think I'd rather just have the delete. When it's so obviously my face that is the issue I don't know that I'd want the pain prolonged. " I have a way of soothing the pain. Never had anyone get pissed off when I've said no thank you. | |||
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