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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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I see loads of pictures posted by men involving them performing a sex act or having one performed upon them and was wondering do the women involved actually have a say whether the picture is posted? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I see loads of pictures posted by men involving them performing a sex act or having one performed upon them and was wondering do the women involved actually have a say whether the picture is posted? "
yes.. I was very angry. it had been discussed first.. it's ok provided my face and tats weren't on show. Check back on the couple a week later.. there's my mug and leg tattoo on display for all to see.
Now.. I couldn't care less if I'm honest.. but back then.. mortified. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I had a meet a while back with a couple, I didn't know pictures were taken that night until I logged on here the next day and seen the same couple had added new pics well I was horrified to see my whole body in a pic including my face eating her pussy but funny enough just her pussy showing in the pic, I messaged straight away asking for an explanation and for them to be taken down as I didn't give my permission for them to even be taken never mind posted! Also found out we were on cam too  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I only have one with another user but it was entirely her idea, we'd agreed before hand that any pictures and videos were strictly our own so I was quite surprised  |
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By *evaquitCouple
over a year ago
Catthorpe |
Yes
We try to keep our pics in our control but once had a meet where their camera was superior and they wanted the better quality, we agreed as long as I (he) could take some pics on their camera too. Yes, I deleted everything they'd taken with our face pics on it. Won't agree to that again, lesson learnt. |
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"I had a meet a while back with a couple, I didn't know pictures were taken that night until I logged on here the next day and seen the same couple had added new pics well I was horrified to see my whole body in a pic including my face eating her pussy but funny enough just her pussy showing in the pic, I messaged straight away asking for an explanation and for them to be taken down as I didn't give my permission for them to even be taken never mind posted! Also found out we were on cam too "
That's bloody outrageous cheeky gits,how can they that's exceptable! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I know my view won't be popular but if there is no way to prove consent has been given, pics containing more than the profile holder/s shouldn't be allowed to be posted.  |
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"I know my view won't be popular but if there is no way to prove consent has been given, pics containing more than the profile holder/s shouldn't be allowed to be posted. "
Sounds right to me. I dislike it. Single men with women on their pics, what's that all about? Your profile is your selling point. How does having other people show what you're like? Does it make them feel popular / hey look, I pulled this stunner.
And some couples just as bad. We get a lot of views from couples clearly into black guys or interracial. Often their profiles show a white and a black guy. Erm so which one is the male half ?
No need for it, people view profile photos to see what the profile owner(s) like.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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A couple of pics with me in are on another member's profile, I am perfectly fine with it. I would expect someone to a) ask and b) not have any identifying features in the pic.
In turn we have one or two with a single guy we've met in, discussed with him when the pictures were taken and have his approval. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I had a meet a while back with a couple, I didn't know pictures were taken that night until I logged on here the next day and seen the same couple had added new pics well I was horrified to see my whole body in a pic including my face eating her pussy but funny enough just her pussy showing in the pic, I messaged straight away asking for an explanation and for them to be taken down as I didn't give my permission for them to even be taken never mind posted! Also found out we were on cam too "
I'd have been fuming. I don't get angry very often.. but when I do.. I'm venomous and unforgiving. Did you ever meet them again? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I've seen myself in someone else's pics, I told them about it and the replaced it. I didn't mind at all though.
I've also seen one of my mates in somebody else pics. I've not said anything to him yet. |
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A lad we hadnt met but had been chatting to actually copied a few of my pics and posted them on his profile trying to meet couples. Only found out after we stopped talking as he waited to put them up then but we were still friends. Took ages for anything to be done about it and probably has a new profile with them on now  |
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By *olliPineCouple
over a year ago
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We have shared pics with a single male who we'd played with, my eyes blurred in case they ever appeared online and said could use them for his profile. But to find them on his FB profile is misleading |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Yes, I always discuss it beforehand and I send the photo to the other party to get their opinion on editing and approval first. Anything on my profile had been approved. |
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By *elnkazCouple
over a year ago
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Yes. He used pics on here without my permission after constant harrassment to him and threat of legal action he took them off. Fortunately for me i have plenty of friends on here and one spotted my pics again. Legal action threat again. My spy works well and checks his profile a lot. Kaz |
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Yep.
The person no longer uses the sure but still has a profile. There I am in the public pics. I wouldn't mind if they still used their profile or we still spoke but this person has gone off the radar. |
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By *ikeC81Man
over a year ago
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It's hard because sometimes consent at the time may be given then 3 or 4 years later that consent maybe taken away
Does that make you a bad person nope. I have one or two pics with ladies and couples I have met. I blur out as much as possible, and I still have the originals.
If someone was not happy about a pic - I would say contact me first, and I can remove or blur more. Also uploading a pic just after a veri is a surefire way to guess who the person is.
I would give it a bit of time between veri and pic  |
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"I see loads of pictures posted by men involving them performing a sex act or having one performed upon them and was wondering do the women involved actually have a say whether the picture is posted? "
Yes.. . An unauthorised pic with me in it was used.... not their best move....!!!!!
I am recognisable due to tattoos..... work would have found out! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I had a meet a while back with a couple, I didn't know pictures were taken that night until I logged on here the next day and seen the same couple had added new pics well I was horrified to see my whole body in a pic including my face eating her pussy but funny enough just her pussy showing in the pic, I messaged straight away asking for an explanation and for them to be taken down as I didn't give my permission for them to even be taken never mind posted! Also found out we were on cam too
I'd have been fuming. I don't get angry very often.. but when I do.. I'm venomous and unforgiving. Did you ever meet them again?"
I've never set up a meet with them since but I have spotted them in a club didn't take long before they left didn't have to say anything either they just got the look |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Who the fuck would want me in their pics ruining the ambiance.
Erm I'd best delete it then "
My hands aren't that hideous, they are still the worst part of the pic though  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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One of the things that most puts me off a man is him happily showing pics of the women he's fucked-with faces,bodies and tattoos showing, and nothing of him except his thighs, abdomen and an inch of cock. |
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"I know my view won't be popular but if there is no way to prove consent has been given, pics containing more than the profile holder/s shouldn't be allowed to be posted.
Sounds right to me. I dislike it. Single men with women on their pics, what's that all about? Your profile is your selling point. How does having other people show what you're like? Does it make them feel popular / hey look, I pulled this stunner.
And some couples just as bad. We get a lot of views from couples clearly into black guys or interracial. Often their profiles show a white and a black guy. Erm so which one is the male half ?
No need for it, people view profile photos to see what the profile owner(s) like.
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Years ago when man chat ruled the world I got chatting to a fab couple, quite well known from another site as prolific cammers.
They seemed quite interested in me and rolled through their avatar pics to prove the encounters they had. Then they produced a pic of my naked torso en flagrante with a woman I knew wasn't the female of the couple..shocked I was. The next pic was even better..again a pic of me with the same woman but my grimmacing visage on full display!
I suggested we cam, they wouldn't show their faces..imagine their surprise when I revealed mine! |
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"Years ago when man chat ruled the world I got chatting to a fab couple, quite well known from another site as prolific cammers.
They seemed quite interested in me and rolled through their avatar pics to prove the encounters they had. Then they produced a pic of my naked torso en flagrante with a woman I knew wasn't the female of the couple..shocked I was. The next pic was even better..again a pic of me with the same woman but my grimmacing visage on full display!
I suggested we cam, they wouldn't show their faces..imagine their surprise when I revealed mine!"
** msn chat |
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We ask if we can take pics, and we send them copies, and we ask if we can use the pics, with the caveat that all identifying faces/marks/scars/tattoos/jewellery are hidden, no-one has ever said no. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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yep.... we were sent a pic of us onstage at Whitby Goth Weekend by someone who had seen it on Facebook...!!!!
so they posted it on their own fab profile and must have had it passed by the photo mods .... then sent it in a message to us...
was pissed at the photo mods mainly for allowing it.... should have reported it but, of course, didn't .... tbe moderation here is very flakey to say the least.... perhaps the couple were mods (one rule etc)
in future we would report etc |
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I tend not to trust guys with women in their profiles as I doubt they get permission.
It's never happened to me but then I don't allow photography anyway.
Having said that there is a photo of a part of me on someone's profile but I took the pic myself  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I see loads of pictures posted by men involving them performing a sex act or having one performed upon them and was wondering do the women involved actually have a say whether the picture is posted? "
Yes. I don't mind as long as face not showing, tho my ink usually is! And they keep them friends only x
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"yep.... we were sent a pic of us onstage at Whitby Goth Weekend by someone who had seen it on Facebook...!!!!
so they posted it on their own fab profile and must have had it passed by the photo mods .... then sent it in a message to us...
was pissed at the photo mods mainly for allowing it.... should have reported it but, of course, didn't .... tbe moderation here is very flakey to say the least.... perhaps the couple were mods (one rule etc)
in future we would report etc"
Presumably the mods wouldn't have known the pic wasn't of the people posting it, or have I missed something? |
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By *yldstyleWoman
over a year ago
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A few years ago I'd met someone a few times.I agreed to him taking photos. I was blindfolded and didn't know what he was taking photos of. However I said that I didn't want to see them or for them to be shared but he could have them since he wanted them.
The meet was fine all was well. I logged into fab the next day and was horrified by what I saw. He put them on his profile. They were eventually taken down. I was devastated. I vowed I would never put myself in that position again.
For clarification I have full permission for the ones on mine.
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I defer to Sydney 
Unless you actually have a written contract then there's little more than he said, she said, unfortunately. 
I do believe that admin will remove photos, on request, if there are any identifiable photos, and a blank mark put against the profile |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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If you look carefully at Michaelangelo's last supper, the guy serving wine in the blue robe, that's me that is.
On a serious note, I get annoyed seeing other people in pics where they are obviously unaware that they are on this site. Particularly when single males post pics of a woman and they ate not even in it. Ive reported a few that have been taken down. |
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We did once delete pics of us in action off someone's camera before we left a party.
He didn't ask if he could take them, and we wernt aware, luckily someone else was looking through the pics and commenting, we asked to take a look and then just scrolled through deleting any of us. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Not on here but my ex FWB posted an add on an internet site using a picture he took of me naked restrained on his bed. He got angry I had asked him to take it off. It had my face in it too. XXX |
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"I see loads of pictures posted by men involving them performing a sex act or having one performed upon them and was wondering do the women involved actually have a say whether the picture is posted? "
I'd hope so but I'm guessing not always? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I only have one with another user but it was entirely her idea, we'd agreed before hand that any pictures and videos were strictly our own so I was quite surprised "
I didn't force you to post it though, did I? I just said that your cock looks great on that photo |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"yep.... we were sent a pic of us onstage at Whitby Goth Weekend by someone who had seen it on Facebook...!!!!
so they posted it on their own fab profile and must have had it passed by the photo mods .... then sent it in a message to us...
was pissed at the photo mods mainly for allowing it.... should have reported it but, of course, didn't .... tbe moderation here is very flakey to say the least.... perhaps the couple were mods (one rule etc)
in future we would report etc
Presumably the mods wouldn't have known the pic wasn't of the people posting it, or have I missed something?"
pic of the two of us with about 20 others clearly visible plus the singer.. so, yep you are |
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By *ara JTV/TS
over a year ago
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"I see loads of pictures posted by men involving them performing a sex act or having one performed upon them and was wondering do the women involved actually have a say whether the picture is posted? "
Yes, and yes I gave my permission, Last time I looked it was still his profile pic - his cock penetrating my ass. I still smile when I see it, because it's not a view I normally see. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Yes a pic of my hubby and the other couples hubby both bent over the sofa getting whipped. One of there faces as they got whipped was great seeing the look of there faces and the other was of there arses and them looking over the shoulder towards us.
Was a great laugh |
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Profile pix with someone else else in the pic make me a bit queasy as I always wonder if the other person even knows their photo is out there.
I think there should be some kind of tick box before the pic is passed by the mods to confirm consent has been given by all parties.
Wouldn't stop all pics going up but might make some people think before they post.
Some guys profiles have more pictures of random fanny than of themselves. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Caught someone using my pictures as their own . I guess I should be flattered especially as they were allegedly 30 and I am 50 "
There's a backhanded compliment in there somewhere |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Caught someone using my pictures as their own . I guess I should be flattered especially as they were allegedly 30 and I am 50
There's a backhanded compliment in there somewhere "
Just means that there’s a 30 year old out there who needs specsavers |
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By *tonMessCouple
over a year ago
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"I see loads of pictures posted by men involving them performing a sex act or having one performed upon them and was wondering do the women involved actually have a say whether the picture is posted? "
This is exactly why we "thanks but no thanks" people showing pictures of other people in their gallery. Who knows if consent has been given to share them? Who knows if somebody might know the person featured? It could be somebodys sister, cousin, wife etc...
An ex FB put pictures of me in his profile... I went ballistic at him and refused to meet him again, even though he assured me he had deleted them.
I don't understand the mentality where you see male profiles and most of their gallery is him hanging out some poor womans ass or gob, she's not likely to be part of the deal meeting him anyway so why do we need to see her? |
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Yes on quite a few profiles. The most revealing one I was asked before it was posted, which I found quite cute as I already had the same pic on my profile!
Others I wasn’t necessarily asked directly but I control what gets seen in pics as they’re taken on my phone and they only received pics that had been edited for face/identifying things and for me when I send them it’s implicit they can publish. I find it a compliment of a hot time.
And then of course there’s the profiles where I see me in the pic...because it’s been stolen... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I saw old pics of myself on a profile that were taken on an old flip phone with an old out of touch friend / fuck buddy from about 12yrs ago. I messaged and the profile vanished soon after for a couple months then reappeared as a different profile, but im not messaging this time. |
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