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sort of given up on the site, but stick around
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By *riskygaz OP Man
over a year ago
birmingham |
Well I sure don't hold my breath waiting for a message, when you read women constantly saying things like, WOW just checked my mail box got a 108 messages in the last 16 hours. You cant help thinking what chance do you have of getting a response, if that happened a couple of a days in a row, the girls must just do a mass delete, you are not going to read all of them, But here I am still on the site, well maybe I will get lucky every now and then  ha ha, who else feels the same way ? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Well I sure don't hold my breath waiting for a message, when you read women constantly saying things like, WOW just checked my mail box got a 108 messages in the last 16 hours. You cant help thinking what chance do you have of getting a response, if that happened a couple of a days in a row, the girls must just do a mass delete, you are not going to read all of them, But here I am still on the site, well maybe I will get lucky every now and then ha ha, who else feels the same way ?"
 I treat it as a bit of fun, if it goes somewhere all well and good. It's worth staying just to check out some of the arguments that ensure in the forums from the keyboard commandos |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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The site is something like 90% single males - if you set your expectations to just have a laugh and see what happens then you shouldn't be disappointed, but if you set your expectations on lots of sex then it's probably not going to meet that expectation
I'd say go to socials and get to know people, but I've done precisely zero of that (thus far, I really need to start going to socials!) so not really good for me to give advice that I don't follow myself  |
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Is it single man complaint day or something?
Always makes me giggle when men complain about lack of meets but they only focus on meeting single women, hardly doing themselves any favours really aiming for the smallest percentage of members on here.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Is it single man complaint day or something?
Always makes me giggle when men complain about lack of meets but they only focus on meeting single women, hardly doing themselves any favours really aiming for the smallest percentage of members on here.
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Thursday is rant day just getting it off their chests |
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By *K430Man
over a year ago
Tipperary |
"Well I sure don't hold my breath waiting for a message, when you read women constantly saying things like, WOW just checked my mail box got a 108 messages in the last 16 hours. You cant help thinking what chance do you have of getting a response, if that happened a couple of a days in a row, the girls must just do a mass delete, you are not going to read all of them, But here I am still on the site, well maybe I will get lucky every now and then ha ha, who else feels the same way ? I treat it as a bit of fun, if it goes somewhere all well and good. It's worth staying just to check out some of the arguments that ensure in the forums from the keyboard commandos"
Agree exactly, treat it as a bit of a laugh,enjoy the bit of banter on here , if you happen to hook up with someone, great, if not ,you'll live , wouldn't take it too seriously |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I find that using filters wisely helps me to find the men I like. Some filter themselves out for me.
My profile, at the moment, is set to filter almost everyone out, but I'm still talking to prospective sexual partners.
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"Is it single man complaint day or something?
Always makes me giggle when men complain about lack of meets but they only focus on meeting single women, hardly doing themselves any favours really aiming for the smallest percentage of members on here.
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A lot of guys aren't comfortable with another guy present, so naturally they won't look for couples  |
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"Is it single man complaint day or something?
Always makes me giggle when men complain about lack of meets but they only focus on meeting single women, hardly doing themselves any favours really aiming for the smallest percentage of members on here.
A lot of guys aren't comfortable with another guy present, so naturally they won't look for couples "
Many single guys are also secure enough not to be phased by other men... fortunately 
Nita |
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"Move somewhere rural, I never get hundreds of messages as there are so few people here compared to the cities"
I'm quite rural too, and receive messages like "Oh, you're so lucky to live in such a beautiful part of the country! But you're too far away for me x" |
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"Is it single man complaint day or something?
Always makes me giggle when men complain about lack of meets but they only focus on meeting single women, hardly doing themselves any favours really aiming for the smallest percentage of members on here.
A lot of guys aren't comfortable with another guy present, so naturally they won't look for couples
Many single guys are also secure enough not to be phased by other men... fortunately
Nita"
Yes they are |
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"Well as a single woman I'm supposed to have my pick of the site but I'm not doing that well on here either. It's the forums that keep me here. "
You've had 6 meets in your 6 weeks membership, but your last meet was 3 weeks ago, so 6 meets in 3 weeks is pretty good going compared to most guys who are lucky if they get 1 meet in a year |
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By *ieman300Man
over a year ago
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"Is it single man complaint day or something?
Always makes me giggle when men complain about lack of meets but they only focus on meeting single women, hardly doing themselves any favours really aiming for the smallest percentage of members on here.
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The op is hardly complaining. Just making an observation of how the site is. The first reply was from a couple in the same boat. Single chaps are fully aware they are in the majority and are aware they are seeking the minority. Should they change what they want and go fab straight? |
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