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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

Hi Ladies. Two questions for you:

1. What attracts you about my profile?

2. What would make you reject me - before or after you click on my profile?

Genuine questions.

Thank you xxx

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By *oiluvfunMan over a year ago

Penrith

Don't worry; the rest of us guys will be reading the responses

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By *rincess peachWoman over a year ago

shits creek

You don't exactly look thrilled to be here.

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By *emini ManMan over a year ago

There and to the left a bit

Ian't this pretty much the same as your other thread just dressed up differently OP? Maybe act on some of the advice given there and then ask this question?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

It's another "I want women to look at my profile" thing dressed up as an advice request :D

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By *orum TrollWoman over a year ago

•+• Access Denied •+•

"2. What would make you reject me -"

looking for good old-fashioned fun, genuine, fun. I'm sub or dom,

I have valid reasons for being unable to accommodate

5'9" 175cm

Social drinker

No tattoos

No piercings

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By *radleywigginsMan over a year ago

northwest

Hope you don't mind if I copy it

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I wouldn't look at your profile as there's no profile photo to encourage me to want to see more

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

1. Nothing - soz

2. No avatar, I probably won't bother looking and if I did (which I just did) your biog confuses me; want old fashioned fun, but what is this? Occasionally bi?

Peach x

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Do a picture in the iron man suit too

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

Thank you LADIES. The male responses here are unhelpful and exactly why I didn't want them

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Ian't this pretty much the same as your other thread just dressed up differently OP? Maybe act on some of the advice given there and then ask this question?

No, it's a different question - specifically about my profile.

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"It's another "I want women to look at my profile" thing dressed up as an advice request :D"

I'm not dressing anything up. Like I said, I'm only looking for female advice. Thanks for your unhelpful input

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Hope you don't mind if I copy it"

Up to you. Doesn't help me though

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman over a year ago

little house on the praire

I wouldnt open it

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I wouldn't look due to the lack of avatar.

However your profile text is quite bland, and are you bi curious or not? Choose whether you'd like to present yourself as bi curious or straight on fab and stick to it.

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"I wouldn't look at your profile as there's no profile photo to encourage me to want to see more

You're welcome to see more - don't want to scare you though haha xx

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"You don't exactly look thrilled to be here. "

To be honest, I'm not sure I am right now. This site is doing nothing for me, hence asking for advice from you lovely ladies xx

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"2. What would make you reject me -

looking for good old-fashioned fun, genuine, fun. I'm sub or dom,

I have valid reasons for being unable to accommodate

5'9" 175cm

Social drinker

No tattoos

No piercings

So basically everything? Lol xx

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"1. Nothing - soz

2. No avatar, I probably won't bother looking and if I did (which I just did) your biog confuses me; want old fashioned fun, but what is this? Occasionally bi?

Peach x"

Hmm need to phrase this better. Thanks xx

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Do a picture in the iron man suit too"

Haha I wish I had one xx

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"I wouldnt open it"

For what reason? xx

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By *emini ManMan over a year ago

There and to the left a bit

"Ian't this pretty much the same as your other thread just dressed up differently OP? Maybe act on some of the advice given there and then ask this question?

No, it's a different question - specifically about my profile."

Was the other not then? Copy/pasted it as I don't see a deal of difference when you actually read it:

"How did you guys get your first meet? I'm yet to have mine - the reasons given by ladies include.....

.....Any advice would be welcome - this isn't an invitation for anything other than constructive criticism haha"

Now you were given a lot of positive and constructive advice on that thread but haven't acted on it - hence my suggestion that maybe THIS thread would have been better posted once you had taken some of the advice on board and made the changes suggested.

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"I wouldn't look due to the lack of avatar.

However your profile text is quite bland, and are you bi curious or not? Choose whether you'd like to present yourself as bi curious or straight on fab and stick to it. "

Thank you xx

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By *orkie321bWoman over a year ago

Nottingham

OP the men on the forums are capable of giving you good advice too, indeed many if the men who have commented on this post meet ladies and couples regularly so they are obviously getting it right.

Perhaps you would be wise seeking their opinion too instead of getting annoyed when they respond

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By *aterjetWoman over a year ago

South West

In life you get banter always a good start to take it just as that.

I think a sense of humour is needed.

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By *aterjetWoman over a year ago

South West

"OP the men on the forums are capable of giving you good advice too, indeed many if the men who have commented on this post meet ladies and couples regularly so they are obviously getting it right.

Perhaps you would be wise seeking their opinion too instead of getting annoyed when they respond

You said it better than I did

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By *rincess peachWoman over a year ago

shits creek

"You don't exactly look thrilled to be here.

To be honest, I'm not sure I am right now. This site is doing nothing for me, hence asking for advice from you lovely ladies xx"

I'm gonna recommend taking a look at a profile for some ideas on really good guy pics. The profile is iworkout. I'm not saying you should have that kind of body, however there are different pic styles you could take some inspiration from

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Ian't this pretty much the same as your other thread just dressed up differently OP? Maybe act on some of the advice given there and then ask this question?

No, it's a different question - specifically about my profile.

Was the other not then? Copy/pasted it as I don't see a deal of difference when you actually read it:

"How did you guys get your first meet? I'm yet to have mine - the reasons given by ladies include.....

.....Any advice would be welcome - this isn't an invitation for anything other than constructive criticism haha"

The first was about reasons I've been given for being rejected - either because of me or the other person's preferences. This is specifically about my profile. It's really not that difficult to grasp - and exactly the kind of response I've come to expect from guys, hence why I asked for FEMALE ONLY.

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By *orum TrollWoman over a year ago

•+• Access Denied •+•

"2. What would make you reject me -

looking for good old-fashioned fun, genuine, fun. I'm sub or dom,

I have valid reasons for being unable to accommodate

5'9" 175cm

Social drinker

No tattoos

No piercings

So basically everything? Lol xx"

pretty much.

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"OP the men on the forums are capable of giving you good advice too, indeed many if the men who have commented on this post meet ladies and couples regularly so they are obviously getting it right.

Perhaps you would be wise seeking their opinion too instead of getting annoyed when they respond

I specifically asked ladies because I want their advice only. If I'd wanted male advice, I would have asked for it or not stated FEMALE ONLY

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By *opsy RogersWoman over a year ago

London

I green arrowed you, that was enough to tell me I don't want to meet you, I don't need to look at your profile.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I think a sense of humour is needed."

Having seen some of the replies to constructive advice I fear he may struggle there

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Ian't this pretty much the same as your other thread just dressed up differently OP? Maybe act on some of the advice given there and then ask this question?

No, it's a different question - specifically about my profile.

Was the other not then? Copy/pasted it as I don't see a deal of difference when you actually read it:

"How did you guys get your first meet? I'm yet to have mine - the reasons given by ladies include.....

.....Any advice would be welcome - this isn't an invitation for anything other than constructive criticism haha"

The beauty of a public forum is that you don't get to dictate who can and can't post in these threads. And the people here see a hell of a lot, a HELL of a lot, of very similar requests for advice, so excuse us if some of us are a little sarky and jaded about such threads.

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"In life you get banter always a good start to take it just as that.

I think a sense of humour is needed."

I have a sense of humour. Just utterly fed up when a simple request turns into guys hijacking threads unnecessarily xx

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"I green arrowed you, that was enough to tell me I don't want to meet you, I don't need to look at your profile."

Sorry, what does this mean? xx

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

I think a sense of humour is needed.

Having seen some of the replies to constructive advice I fear he may struggle there

Another unhelpful comment

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By *lkDomWhtSubBiCpleCouple over a year ago

Somewhere / Everywhere /Kinksville

"1. Nothing - soz

2. No avatar, I probably won't bother looking and if I did (which I just did) your biog confuses me; want old fashioned fun, but what is this? Occasionally bi?

Peach x"

Same here

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Ian't this pretty much the same as your other thread just dressed up differently OP? Maybe act on some of the advice given there and then ask this question?

No, it's a different question - specifically about my profile.

Was the other not then? Copy/pasted it as I don't see a deal of difference when you actually read it:

"How did you guys get your first meet? I'm yet to have mine - the reasons given by ladies include.....

.....Any advice would be welcome - this isn't an invitation for anything other than constructive criticism haha"

And excuse me if I get annoyed at guys who either can't read or choose to ignore the name of the thread. If you don't like it, just ignore the thread

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By *andsonjohnMan over a year ago

in the eye of the storm

"Hi Ladies. Two questions for you:

1. What attracts you about my profile?

2. What would make you reject me - before or after you click on my profile?

Genuine questions.

Thank you xxx"

your profile should reflect you as a man be a true reflection of you as a man .

if you do that one of two things will happen a lady will think I like the sound of him and ether respond to your message or send you one off of her own back .

the other thing that will happen is a lady will think no not for me ether way it doesn't matter .

all that matters is that your profile is a true reflection of you as a man the rest will take care of its self .

the worst thing you can do is falsely represent yourself on sites like this by trying to portray yourself in a way that bears no resemblance to the real you ,

if you take that route you may get the odd social but the chances of it going further will be very low .

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By *opsy RogersWoman over a year ago

London

"I green arrowed you, that was enough to tell me I don't want to meet you, I don't need to look at your profile.

Sorry, what does this mean? xx"

The green arrow next to your name, click on it and you'll see all the threads you've ever posted on, but this thread is doing a great job of letting everyone know what sort of person you are.

Well done!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"And excuse me if I get annoyed at guys who either can't read or choose to ignore the name of the thread. If you don't like it, just ignore the thread"

Nah, more fun to wind up the people that post them :D

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By *rincess peachWoman over a year ago

shits creek

"Hi Ladies. Two questions for you:

1. What attracts you about my profile?

2. What would make you reject me - before or after you click on my profile?

Genuine questions.

Thank you xxx

your profile should reflect you as a man be a true reflection of you as a man .

if you do that one of two things will happen a lady will think I like the sound of him and ether respond to your message or send you one off of her own back .

the other thing that will happen is a lady will think no not for me ether way it doesn't matter .

all that matters is that your profile is a true reflection of you as a man the rest will take care of its self .

the worst thing you can do is falsely represent yourself on sites like this by trying to portray yourself in a way that bears no resemblance to the real you ,

if you take that route you may get the odd social but the chances of it going further will be very low .

Perfect reply.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"OP the men on the forums are capable of giving you good advice too, indeed many if the men who have commented on this post meet ladies and couples regularly so they are obviously getting it right.

Perhaps you would be wise seeking their opinion too instead of getting annoyed when they respond

this.

There's a fair share of men who use the forums who are as successful on fab as they wish to be.

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Hi Ladies. Two questions for you:

1. What attracts you about my profile?

2. What would make you reject me - before or after you click on my profile?

Genuine questions.

Thank you xxx

your profile should reflect you as a man be a true reflection of you as a man .

if you do that one of two things will happen a lady will think I like the sound of him and ether respond to your message or send you one off of her own back .

the other thing that will happen is a lady will think no not for me ether way it doesn't matter .

all that matters is that your profile is a true reflection of you as a man the rest will take care of its self .

the worst thing you can do is falsely represent yourself on sites like this by trying to portray yourself in a way that bears no resemblance to the real you ,

if you take that route you may get the odd social but the chances of it going further will be very low .

"
For once, I actually appreciate this reply from a male. Thank you. If only all males were this helpful. Much appreciated

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By *rincess peachWoman over a year ago

shits creek

"You don't exactly look thrilled to be here.

To be honest, I'm not sure I am right now. This site is doing nothing for me, hence asking for advice from you lovely ladies xx

Actually don't bother with this, you've been quite rude to people so now I don't wanna help

*blows raspberry*

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"I green arrowed you, that was enough to tell me I don't want to meet you, I don't need to look at your profile.

Sorry, what does this mean? xx

The green arrow next to your name, click on it and you'll see all the threads you've ever posted on, but this thread is doing a great job of letting everyone know what sort of person you are.

Well done!"
This thread says nothing about me. It reflects my frustration at guys being unable to read a simple request. But thanks anyway xx

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"OP the men on the forums are capable of giving you good advice too, indeed many if the men who have commented on this post meet ladies and couples regularly so they are obviously getting it right.

Perhaps you would be wise seeking their opinion too instead of getting annoyed when they respond

this.

There's a fair share of men who use the forums who are as successful on fab as they wish to be.

Granted. However on this occasion I specifically wanted female perspectives xx

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I had such profound advice too give but alas I'm not....

See what I did there.....

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"You don't exactly look thrilled to be here.

To be honest, I'm not sure I am right now. This site is doing nothing for me, hence asking for advice from you lovely ladies xx

Actually don't bother with this, you've been quite rude to people so now I don't wanna help

*blows raspberry*"

*blows raspberry back* I'm not being rude. I'm genuinely not. All I wanted was some help from a lady's perspective. Guys pitching in doesn't help me see things from a lady's viewpoint. And thank you, I appreciate you wanting to help me xx

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"I had such profound advice too give but alas I'm not....

See what I did there.....

Haha thanks

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By *aterjetWoman over a year ago

South West

I like hearing responses to question from men and women, it's good to get both sides.

A cheer for the guys

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By *opsy RogersWoman over a year ago

London

"I green arrowed you, that was enough to tell me I don't want to meet you, I don't need to look at your profile.

Sorry, what does this mean? xx

The green arrow next to your name, click on it and you'll see all the threads you've ever posted on, but this thread is doing a great job of letting everyone know what sort of person you are.

Well done! This thread says nothing about me. It reflects my frustration at guys being unable to read a simple request. But thanks anyway xx"

Ah, just because you don't think it does, doesn't make it true.

You are speaking volumes on here.

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By *orkie321bWoman over a year ago

Nottingham

OP you could have the best profile on fab and I still wouldn't be interested.

Your attitude on this post stinks and tells me all I need to know about you as a person. You are most definitely not my type and your attitude leaves my cunt feeling drier than the gobi desert.

Good luck on fab, you're gonna need it!

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"I like hearing responses to question from men and women, it's good to get both sides.

A cheer for the guys

Yes it is. But for once I wanted a female perspective. It really wasn't much to ask xx

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By *opsy RogersWoman over a year ago

London

"I like hearing responses to question from men and women, it's good to get both sides.

A cheer for the guys

Yes it is. But for once I wanted a female perspective. It really wasn't much to ask xx"

You don't get to dictate who contributes on the forum!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Nothing attracts me to it.

Everything puts me off.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

You know, if you hadn't whined on and on about wanting a woman's perspective, you might have got more genuine replies.

Just saying, like. Think about how you present yourself, because even through text you present a side to your personality that many may not like. I'm sure many do not like my personality based on things I say here.

Best serious advice I can give is get over yourself. Chill, don't take thigs too seriously, and don't get all wound up when you don't get what you want. Because that's a sure fire way to stop women giving you what you want them to give you.

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By *uxom redCouple over a year ago

Shrewsbury

"Hi Ladies. Two questions for you:

1. What attracts you about my profile?

2. What would make you reject me - before or after you click on my profile?

Genuine questions.

Thank you xxx"

Sorry but nothing attracts me to your profile, no profile pic.

What info you have on there is limited.

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"I green arrowed you, that was enough to tell me I don't want to meet you, I don't need to look at your profile.

Sorry, what does this mean? xx

The green arrow next to your name, click on it and you'll see all the threads you've ever posted on, but this thread is doing a great job of letting everyone know what sort of person you are.

Well done! This thread says nothing about me. It reflects my frustration at guys being unable to read a simple request. But thanks anyway xx

Ah, just because you don't think it does, doesn't make it true.

You are speaking volumes on here."

Well if guys hadn't waded in, ladies would have seen me for who I really am, not the guy who is so fed up of the macho male ego on here. All I wanted was a female perspective without wading through unhelpful comments xx

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I like hearing responses to question from men and women, it's good to get both sides.

A cheer for the guys

Not when you want a specific gender's opinion.

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By *aterjetWoman over a year ago

South West

Me things you are being sexist

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By *emini ManMan over a year ago

There and to the left a bit

"Ian't this pretty much the same as your other thread just dressed up differently OP? Maybe act on some of the advice given there and then ask this question?

No, it's a different question - specifically about my profile.

Was the other not then? Copy/pasted it as I don't see a deal of difference when you actually read it:

"How did you guys get your first meet? I'm yet to have mine - the reasons given by ladies include.....

.....Any advice would be welcome - this isn't an invitation for anything other than constructive criticism haha"

OP I grasp it trust me - and believe it or not am actually trying to help you here (take a look at my post on your other thread which you thanked me for if you're in any doubt) - what you seem to be missing is the two threads DO go hand in hand - one of the reasons for being rejected is your profile and lack of pics.

You say you want advice from ladies only, but do you not think that some of us guys that have been around the site for a while and have some idea of what works and what doesn't might be just as well placed, if not better, to offer you constructive advice - which is ALL I have done across both your threads.

Either way good luck I wish you well

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"I like hearing responses to question from men and women, it's good to get both sides.

A cheer for the guys

Yes it is. But for once I wanted a female perspective. It really wasn't much to ask xx

You don't get to dictate who contributes on the forum!"
I'm not dictating, just asking guys not to post unhelpful comments - to avoid situations like this xx

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Hi Ladies. Two questions for you:

1. What attracts you about my profile?

2. What would make you reject me - before or after you click on my profile?

Genuine questions.

Thank you xxx

Sorry but nothing attracts me to your profile, no profile pic.

What info you have on there is limited.

Thank you xx

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"I like hearing responses to question from men and women, it's good to get both sides.

A cheer for the guys

Not when you want a specific gender's opinion. "

Exactly. Thank you! xx

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Not enough cock pictures for my liking xx

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By *opsy RogersWoman over a year ago

London

"I green arrowed you, that was enough to tell me I don't want to meet you, I don't need to look at your profile.

Sorry, what does this mean? xx

The green arrow next to your name, click on it and you'll see all the threads you've ever posted on, but this thread is doing a great job of letting everyone know what sort of person you are.

Well done! This thread says nothing about me. It reflects my frustration at guys being unable to read a simple request. But thanks anyway xx

Ah, just because you don't think it does, doesn't make it true.

You are speaking volumes on here.

By Christ it's like pulling teeth. You are now blaming other men for your behaviour!

What else have you got? Is Tina around with the forum insurance forms anywhere?

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By *lkDomWhtSubBiCpleCouple over a year ago

Somewhere / Everywhere /Kinksville

If a thread existed on Fab that only had helpful comments, it would go down in history!

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Me things you are being sexist

I really am not being sexist. I just want to see how ladies see me for once xx

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Not enough cock pictures for my liking xx"

Not helpful

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By *lkDomWhtSubBiCpleCouple over a year ago

Somewhere / Everywhere /Kinksville

Stop encouraging him, he's ruining my stinky finger thread

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By *orum TrollWoman over a year ago

•+• Access Denied •+•

"I like hearing responses to question from men and women, it's good to get both sides.

A cheer for the guys

Yes it is. But for once I wanted a female perspective. It really wasn't much to ask xx

You don't get to dictate who contributes on the forum! I'm not dictating, just asking guys not to post unhelpful comments - to avoid situations like this xx"

i would honestly just ignore their comments. even by replying to them or saying stuff like the above it will encourage those who like to antagonise to post.

anyone can ask for certain types of advice from certain people if they want to, but like they say it's a public forum so anyone can post even if it was unwanted.

just act like the useless stuff (to you) does not exist. you don't ever have to acknowledge a person on here, especially if their attention is unwanted.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Stop encouraging him, he's ruining my stinky finger thread

My fingers smell of profile advice :D

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Not enough cock pictures for my liking xx

Not helpful"

But honest xx

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By *hoenixAdAstraWoman over a year ago

Hiding in the shadows

"I wouldn't look at your profile as there's no profile photo to encourage me to want to see more

THIS!

No pic no look

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Ian't this pretty much the same as your other thread just dressed up differently OP? Maybe act on some of the advice given there and then ask this question?

No, it's a different question - specifically about my profile.

Was the other not then? Copy/pasted it as I don't see a deal of difference when you actually read it:

"How did you guys get your first meet? I'm yet to have mine - the reasons given by ladies include.....

.....Any advice would be welcome - this isn't an invitation for anything other than constructive criticism haha"

Either way good luck I wish you well

I don't disagree with you. However I had a specific reason for asking for female only on this thread but it kind of lost its purpose now. Thank you for your advice on the other thread - I do appreciate it

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By *aterjetWoman over a year ago

South West

"Not enough cock pictures for my liking xx"

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Not enough cock pictures for my liking xx

Brb sending you cock pics xx

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

You would do well to take advice from the successful forum guys rather than try and exclude them on a public forum. Your responses haven't cast you in a favourable light.

Answering your question, no avatar, bored looking face pics, inconsistency about whether you're straight or bi-curious and the bit about having a legit reason for not accommodating would all put us off, along with a general impression you either don't know or aren't fussy about what got want from a meet.

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"I green arrowed you, that was enough to tell me I don't want to meet you, I don't need to look at your profile.

Sorry, what does this mean? xx

The green arrow next to your name, click on it and you'll see all the threads you've ever posted on, but this thread is doing a great job of letting everyone know what sort of person you are.

Well done! This thread says nothing about me. It reflects my frustration at guys being unable to read a simple request. But thanks anyway xx

Ah, just because you don't think it does, doesn't make it true.

You are speaking volumes on here.

By Christ it's like pulling teeth. You are now blaming other men for your behaviour!

What else have you got? Is Tina around with the forum insurance forms anywhere?"

I'm not blaming anyone for my 'behaviour'. Just stating facts xx

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By *lkDomWhtSubBiCpleCouple over a year ago

Somewhere / Everywhere /Kinksville

If I make a thread and say only cats can reply, would I get mostly dogs or is that just barking

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I'm not blaming anyone for my 'behaviour'. Just stating facts xx"

Who let Rafa Benitez and his facts in here?

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"I like hearing responses to question from men and women, it's good to get both sides.

A cheer for the guys

Yes it is. But for once I wanted a female perspective. It really wasn't much to ask xx

You don't get to dictate who contributes on the forum! I'm not dictating, just asking guys not to post unhelpful comments - to avoid situations like this xx

i would honestly just ignore their comments. even by replying to them or saying stuff like the above it will encourage those who like to antagonise to post.

anyone can ask for certain types of advice from certain people if they want to, but like they say it's a public forum so anyone can post even if it was unwanted.

just act like the useless stuff (to you) does not exist. you don't ever have to acknowledge a person on here, especially if their attention is unwanted."
Very true, thank you xx

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By *lkDomWhtSubBiCpleCouple over a year ago

Somewhere / Everywhere /Kinksville

"You would do well to take advice from the successful forum guys rather than try and exclude them on a public forum. Your responses haven't cast you in a favourable light.

To be fair, if we didn't have so many CW posts the forums would be a bit boring. Carry on OP

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"You would do well to take advice from the successful forum guys rather than try and exclude them on a public forum. Your responses haven't cast you in a favourable light.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Some of these comments though

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

I have completely lost track now. Exactly the reason I stated specifically what I wanted from this thread. So thanks to all the guys for that. However thank you ladies for your valued input - and to the very few guys who were indeed helpful

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By *lkDomWhtSubBiCpleCouple over a year ago

Somewhere / Everywhere /Kinksville

I'm a lady, but my input was twaddle.

My bad.

Soz OP

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

1.What attracts you about my profile?

Nothing. No avatar so no reason to even look. Epic fail.

2. What would make you reject me - before or after you click on my profile?

Boring pics. Are you bi or not, make your mind up and I absolutely hate the expression "I don't bite" it's so crappy.

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By *unniebee1970Woman over a year ago

The Hive

Feel a block coming on...

Pre-emptive of dying of boredom.

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"I'm a lady, but my input was twaddle.

My bad.

Soz OP

lol I like your humour xx

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"1.What attracts you about my profile?

Nothing. No avatar so no reason to even look. Epic fail.

2. What would make you reject me - before or after you click on my profile?

Boring pics. Are you bi or not, make your mind up and I absolutely hate the expression "I don't bite" it's so crappy. "

Thank you xx

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Feel a block coming on...

Pre-emptive of dying of boredom.

Me blocking guys, you mean? Lol xx

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

No profile pic

Your pics don't exactly look like you'd be much fun.

Your attitude on here is also off putting.

The I don't bite unless you want me to is such a cliche too.

A sense of humour seems to be sadly lacking.

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"No profile pic

Your pics don't exactly look like you'd be much fun.

Your attitude on here is also off putting.

The I don't bite unless you want me to is such a cliche too.

A sense of humour seems to be sadly lacking."

Thank you, much appreciated. I'm more fun in real life, I promise haha xx

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Lack of profile pic

Can't accommodate

Attitude

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Lack of profile pic

Can't accommodate

Attitude "

Thank you. Honestly and sincerely appreciated xx

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By *ticky_vikkiWoman over a year ago

Herts

this!!

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By *elma and ShaggyCouple over a year ago

Bedworth

"OP the men on the forums are capable of giving you good advice too, indeed many if the men who have commented on this post meet ladies and couples regularly so they are obviously getting it right.

Perhaps you would be wise seeking their opinion too instead of getting annoyed when they respond

this.

There's a fair share of men who use the forums who are as successful on fab as they wish to be.

Granted. However on this occasion I specifically wanted female perspectives xx"

I don't quite understand why a female perspective is so important to you op. The females of the forum are not, on the whole, looking to meet single ladies. The men, and yourself are! The people best placed to give you advice to help you in your quest to meet single ladies are those who successfully do so

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By *axandbooCouple over a year ago

Bristol

No profile pic

Blurb is very wishy washy

Nothing to inspire us to go deeper and find out more.

2 photos, both face but you dont look happy in either.

What would i change?

Add a body shot or some other photos, leave the cock out of it!

Make the blurb more interesting.... Sell yourself with it...the odds are stacked against you its up to you to level the field!

You might have good reasons not to accomodate but unless your willing to say it on your profile, people will assume you have a wife!

I would also research other local men profiles... You can see the ones who get meets and ones who dont and then adjust your profile accordingly

Oh this came from the man of the couple!

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman over a year ago

little house on the praire

To be honest op. It would of been better you asking the successful forum guys than the women.

But to be honest i dont think you will have much success. You already turned down a genuine offer of a verification

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"OP the men on the forums are capable of giving you good advice too, indeed many if the men who have commented on this post meet ladies and couples regularly so they are obviously getting it right.

Perhaps you would be wise seeking their opinion too instead of getting annoyed when they respond

this.

There's a fair share of men who use the forums who are as successful on fab as they wish to be.

Granted. However on this occasion I specifically wanted female perspectives xx

Not when I want to know what it is that would attract a lady to my profile in the first place xx

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"No profile pic

Blurb is very wishy washy

Nothing to inspire us to go deeper and find out more.

2 photos, both face but you dont look happy in either.

What would i change?

Add a body shot or some other photos, leave the cock out of it!

Make the blurb more interesting.... Sell yourself with it...the odds are stacked against you its up to you to level the field!

You might have good reasons not to accomodate but unless your willing to say it on your profile, people will assume you have a wife!

I would also research other local men profiles... You can see the ones who get meets and ones who dont and then adjust your profile accordingly

Oh this came from the man of the couple!

"
Thank you, much appreciated xx

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"To be honest op. It would of been better you asking the successful forum guys than the women.

But to be honest i dont think you will have much success. You already turned down a genuine offer of a verification"

Thank you. On this occasion I just wanted a female perspective. Have sorted out the verification offer, it was incredibly sweet of her xx

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By *orum TrollWoman over a year ago

•+• Access Denied •+•

pretty sure most of the guys who use the forums are using them coz they aren't getting meets.

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By *elma and ShaggyCouple over a year ago

Bedworth

"OP the men on the forums are capable of giving you good advice too, indeed many if the men who have commented on this post meet ladies and couples regularly so they are obviously getting it right.

Perhaps you would be wise seeking their opinion too instead of getting annoyed when they respond

this.

There's a fair share of men who use the forums who are as successful on fab as they wish to be.

Granted. However on this occasion I specifically wanted female perspectives xx

Not when I want to know what it is that would attract a lady to my profile in the first place xx"

Well op, I think the consensus of the forum ladies is that absolutely nothing would attract them to your profile!

Ready for help from the successful guys yet?

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By *axandbooCouple over a year ago

Bristol

I feel i should also point out, a lot of people read threads but dont comment (they bring their own popcorn) Ladies and couples, so in one thread you have displayed a bit of a bad attitude to peoples comments rather than joining in on the banter.

Personally we wouldn't invite you for a drink based on my previous comment and how you have come across on this thread.

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"pretty sure most of the guys who use the forums are using them coz they aren't getting meets. "

True. Hence why I wanted to know where I'm going wrong xx

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"OP the men on the forums are capable of giving you good advice too, indeed many if the men who have commented on this post meet ladies and couples regularly so they are obviously getting it right.

Perhaps you would be wise seeking their opinion too instead of getting annoyed when they respond

this.

There's a fair share of men who use the forums who are as successful on fab as they wish to be.

Granted. However on this occasion I specifically wanted female perspectives xx

Not when I want to know what it is that would attract a lady to my profile in the first place xx

Well op, I think the consensus of the forum ladies is that absolutely nothing would attract them to your profile!

Ready for help from the successful guys yet?"

I won't give up just yet. I'll work on it based on what the ladies have said - along with the odd male helpful advice too. Thanks xx

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"pretty sure most of the guys who use the forums are using them coz they aren't getting meets. "

I for one am typing this all with my erect and underutilised penis.

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"I feel i should also point out, a lot of people read threads but dont comment (they bring their own popcorn) Ladies and couples, so in one thread you have displayed a bit of a bad attitude to peoples comments rather than joining in on the banter.

Personally we wouldn't invite you for a drink based on my previous comment and how you have come across on this thread. "
All I can say is it wouldn't have escalated if guys hadn't pitched in. Thanks anyway xx

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"pretty sure most of the guys who use the forums are using them coz they aren't getting meets.

I for one am typing this all with my erect and underutilised penis. "

I think this proves my 'unhelpful' comment!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"pretty sure most of the guys who use the forums are using them coz they aren't getting meets.

I for one am typing this all with my erect and underutilised penis.

I think this proves my 'unhelpful' comment!"

It also proves you have zero sense of humour, despite what you repeatedly and vehemently claim

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman over a year ago

little house on the praire

Personally we wouldn't invite you for a drink based on my previous comment and how you have come across on this thread. All I can say is it wouldn't have escalated if guys hadn't pitched in. Thanks anyway xx"
stop moaning. You had advice on your last thread and advice on this. What do you want people to do hold your hand.

To be honest if someone hasnt the brains to come up with a decent profile themselves im not interested

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"pretty sure most of the guys who use the forums are using them coz they aren't getting meets.

I for one am typing this all with my erect and underutilised penis.

I think this proves my 'unhelpful' comment!

It also proves you have zero sense of humour, despite what you repeatedly and vehemently claim

"
Then you clearly don't know me

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

Personally we wouldn't invite you for a drink based on my previous comment and how you have come across on this thread. All I can say is it wouldn't have escalated if guys hadn't pitched in. Thanks anyway xxstop moaning. You had advice on your last thread and advice on this. What do you want people to do hold your hand.

To be honest if someone hasnt the brains to come up with a decent profile themselves im not interested"
Thank you xx

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By *orum TrollWoman over a year ago

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"pretty sure most of the guys who use the forums are using them coz they aren't getting meets.

I for one am typing this all with my erect and underutilised penis. "

lol, if you really had a dick that skilled you'd be getting meets alright.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"pretty sure most of the guys who use the forums are using them coz they aren't getting meets.

I for one am typing this all with my erect and underutilised penis.

I think this proves my 'unhelpful' comment!

It also proves you have zero sense of humour, despite what you repeatedly and vehemently claim

Then you clearly don't know me"

I (and many others here) know enough about you from the things you post in this thread - and as I said before, think about how you present yourself, because as much as you think you can hide who you are, your true personality always comes through. And so far, it ain't looking good for you, champ!

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"pretty sure most of the guys who use the forums are using them coz they aren't getting meets.

I for one am typing this all with my erect and underutilised penis.

lol, if you really had a dick that skilled you'd be getting meets alright.

"
Damn I knew there was something missing

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"pretty sure most of the guys who use the forums are using them coz they aren't getting meets.

I for one am typing this all with my erect and underutilised penis.

lol, if you really had a dick that skilled you'd be getting meets alright.

Well, I would if the circus didn't have a stringent insurance policy that stops me doing anything that might cause injury

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"pretty sure most of the guys who use the forums are using them coz they aren't getting meets.

I for one am typing this all with my erect and underutilised penis.

I think this proves my 'unhelpful' comment!

It also proves you have zero sense of humour, despite what you repeatedly and vehemently claim

Then you clearly don't know me

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By *axandbooCouple over a year ago

Bristol

But we have and i am the male half of this couple...look at things from my perspective... I am the one who selects meets for boos to approve so i like to chat, have a conversation and a giggle...cant take a simple ribbing over something then its not a good start really...we are here for fun and banter is all a part of it...give as good as you get in a fun way

As its been said, you had advice in another thread and its similar if not the same thats been said on this thread... Now its a case of either taking it on board or not.

For a 2nd post asking advice you have had quite an easy run on it, if there is another the ribbing and jokes will only get worse

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"pretty sure most of the guys who use the forums are using them coz they aren't getting meets.

I for one am typing this all with my erect and underutilised penis.

I think this proves my 'unhelpful' comment!

It also proves you have zero sense of humour, despite what you repeatedly and vehemently claim

Then you clearly don't know me

Well you're not exactly showing off much else, are you?

Chill out, don't be so serious and you'll find it a much more fun place!

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By *orum TrollWoman over a year ago

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"pretty sure most of the guys who use the forums are using them coz they aren't getting meets.

I for one am typing this all with my erect and underutilised penis.

lol, if you really had a dick that skilled you'd be getting meets alright.

Well, I would if the circus didn't have a stringent insurance policy that stops me doing anything that might cause injury

circus you say?

*interest piquing*

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By *axandbooCouple over a year ago

Bristol

"pretty sure most of the guys who use the forums are using them coz they aren't getting meets.

I for one am typing this all with my erect and underutilised penis.

lol, if you really had a dick that skilled you'd be getting meets alright.

Well, I would if the circus didn't have a stringent insurance policy that stops me doing anything that might cause injury

circus you say?

*interest piquing*"

Most men have some ball juggling skills

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"pretty sure most of the guys who use the forums are using them coz they aren't getting meets.

I for one am typing this all with my erect and underutilised penis.

lol, if you really had a dick that skilled you'd be getting meets alright.

Well, I would if the circus didn't have a stringent insurance policy that stops me doing anything that might cause injury

circus you say?

*interest piquing*"

Well, I say circus, it's more a sort of experimental testing facility...I had to grow my pubes out so my penis could go into hiding when I wanted out.

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

As its been said, you had advice in another thread and its similar if not the same thats been said on this thread... Now its a case of either taking it on board or not.

For a 2nd post asking advice you have had quite an easy run on it, if there is another the ribbing and jokes will only get worse "

Your dynamic is different and won't help single guys much.

As I said, the other thread was a different question and not looking for specifically a female perspective.

I'm not intending putting another thread on this site for a very long time. Don't worry about that. This has just reinforced my opinion that I was wasting my time - hence my reason for posting in the first place. So well done guys.

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By *orum TrollWoman over a year ago

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"pretty sure most of the guys who use the forums are using them coz they aren't getting meets.

I for one am typing this all with my erect and underutilised penis.

lol, if you really had a dick that skilled you'd be getting meets alright.

Well, I would if the circus didn't have a stringent insurance policy that stops me doing anything that might cause injury

circus you say?

*interest piquing*

Well, I say circus, it's more a sort of experimental testing facility...I had to grow my pubes out so my penis could go into hiding when I wanted out. "

ah, ok. lovely image their in my head now...

*interest waning*

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By *sGivesWoodWoman over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL

"OP the men on the forums are capable of giving you good advice too, indeed many if the men who have commented on this post meet ladies and couples regularly so they are obviously getting it right.

Perhaps you would be wise seeking their opinion too instead of getting annoyed when they respond

"
very well said, most of the regular forum guys on here are successful and generally give good advice, try taking it OP instead of being rude to them!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Like I said, there's no magic forumula to profiles. It's all about the pictures. People look at pictures and decide if they want to meet. I've met guys that purely have "will fill in later" on their profile but they've got massive dicks and handsome faces and they're tall.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Like I said, there's no magic forumula to profiles. It's all about the pictures. People look at pictures and decide if they want to meet. I've met guys that purely have "will fill in later" on their profile but they've got massive dicks and handsome faces and they're tall. "

Right, so I've got my checklist now...where can I get a massive dick, a handsome face and become tall? Where did Tom Hanks find that machine thingy again?

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By *sGivesWoodWoman over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL

Right, so I've got my checklist now...where can I get a massive dick, a handsome face and become tall? Where did Tom Hanks find that machine thingy again?"
get your coat.. you've pulled...

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By *orum TrollWoman over a year ago

•+• Access Denied •+•

"pretty sure most of the guys who use the forums are using them coz they aren't getting meets.

I for one am typing this all with my erect and underutilised penis.

lol, if you really had a dick that skilled you'd be getting meets alright.

Well, I would if the circus didn't have a stringent insurance policy that stops me doing anything that might cause injury

circus you say?

*interest piquing*

Most men have some ball juggling skills

i'd love a clown gangbang with jugglers on the side.

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"OP the men on the forums are capable of giving you good advice too, indeed many if the men who have commented on this post meet ladies and couples regularly so they are obviously getting it right.

Perhaps you would be wise seeking their opinion too instead of getting annoyed when they respond

very well said, most of the regular forum guys on here are successful and generally give good advice, try taking it OP instead of being rude to them!"

I tried, but believe me, it's hard! Xx

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

How important is a massive dick in the grand scheme of things? I've got no hope lol xx

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"pretty sure most of the guys who use the forums are using them coz they aren't getting meets.

I for one am typing this all with my erect and underutilised penis.

lol, if you really had a dick that skilled you'd be getting meets alright.

Well, I would if the circus didn't have a stringent insurance policy that stops me doing anything that might cause injury

circus you say?

*interest piquing*

Most men have some ball juggling skills

i'd love a clown gangbang with jugglers on the side.

Oh jesus, I just looked up clown porn and wish I hadn't...

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By *axandbooCouple over a year ago

Bristol

As its been said, you had advice in another thread and its similar if not the same thats been said on this thread... Now its a case of either taking it on board or not.

For a 2nd post asking advice you have had quite an easy run on it, if there is another the ribbing and jokes will only get worse

Your dynamic is different and won't help single guys much.

As I said, the other thread was a different question and not looking for specifically a female perspective.

My advice wont help single guys much?? Interesting...before igot with Boo, i was a single guy on here and i did quite well for myself... So my advice actually comes from someone who has been In your shoes and did quite well when i was given the exact same device. Its also given from the perspective of couple who does look for a single man so to just throw it away shows a lot about how you really see the world.

Ultimately the advice has been the same from everyone and your choosing not to take it because its come from a man which im sorry to say is quite pathetic really.

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

As its been said, you had advice in another thread and its similar if not the same thats been said on this thread... Now its a case of either taking it on board or not.

For a 2nd post asking advice you have had quite an easy run on it, if there is another the ribbing and jokes will only get worse

Your dynamic is different and won't help single guys much.

As I said, the other thread was a different question and not looking for specifically a female perspective.

Ultimately the advice has been the same from everyone and your choosing not to take it because its come from a man which im sorry to say is quite pathetic really.

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Think what you like. Like I said it's a female perspective I'm looking for so you're really not helping

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

Just

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Few

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Comments

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By *orum TrollWoman over a year ago

•+• Access Denied •+•

"pretty sure most of the guys who use the forums are using them coz they aren't getting meets.

I for one am typing this all with my erect and underutilised penis.

lol, if you really had a dick that skilled you'd be getting meets alright.

Well, I would if the circus didn't have a stringent insurance policy that stops me doing anything that might cause injury

circus you say?

*interest piquing*

Most men have some ball juggling skills

i'd love a clown gangbang with jugglers on the side.

Oh jesus, I just looked up clown porn and wish I hadn't..."

look up gorilla suit porn too, that's also one of my fantasies.

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

This

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Thread

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Lol.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

You can try to smile lol.

You have no profile pic.

If you cover yourself in baked beans and lard then I would be saying WITYYYY WOOOOOOOO lol x

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"You can try to smile lol.

You have no profile pic.

If you cover yourself in baked beans and lard then I would be saying WITYYYY WOOOOOOOO lol x "

Ha ha thanks. I knew there was something missing xxx

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By *axandbooCouple over a year ago

Bristol

As its been said, you had advice in another thread and its similar if not the same thats been said on this thread... Now its a case of either taking it on board or not.

For a 2nd post asking advice you have had quite an easy run on it, if there is another the ribbing and jokes will only get worse

Your dynamic is different and won't help single guys much.

As I said, the other thread was a different question and not looking for specifically a female perspective.

Ultimately the advice has been the same from everyone and your choosing not to take it because its come from a man which im sorry to say is quite pathetic really.

Think what you like. Like I said it's a female perspective I'm looking for so you're really not helping"

Lmfao i have said the same thing as the ladies have said!!! Jeez are you actually reading the responses?.... Actually i can answer that for you. No your not... I said about being the male half in the first comment i made.

As for this being a genuine ask for help...nope because its been going on now for 2 hours and you havent actually done any of the advice Thats been given...if you removed the attitude and actually took the advice on board AND made changes by now you could have a half decent profile....instead because ive got balls and not tits you instantly dismiss any advice given, never mind that i did bloody well on here... In this case im not sure which is greater the arrogance or the ignorance

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By *orum TrollWoman over a year ago

•+• Access Denied •+•

"Before"

you can get forum banned for doing this, ask for your topic to be closed by reporting it instead.

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By *sGivesWoodWoman over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL

As its been said, you had advice in another thread and its similar if not the same thats been said on this thread... Now its a case of either taking it on board or not.

For a 2nd post asking advice you have had quite an easy run on it, if there is another the ribbing and jokes will only get worse

Your dynamic is different and won't help single guys much.

As I said, the other thread was a different question and not looking for specifically a female perspective.

Ultimately the advice has been the same from everyone and your choosing not to take it because its come from a man which im sorry to say is quite pathetic really.

Think what you like. Like I said it's a female perspective I'm looking for so you're really not helping"
actually by being so negative towards the guys on this thread you are really not doing yourself any favours OP, lighten up, and join in with the banter, the forums are meant to be fun, based solely on your attitude on this thread I would not meet you!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Can one of the women suggest not throwing the toys out of the pram as well

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

As its been said, you had advice in another thread and its similar if not the same thats been said on this thread... Now its a case of either taking it on board or not.

For a 2nd post asking advice you have had quite an easy run on it, if there is another the ribbing and jokes will only get worse

Your dynamic is different and won't help single guys much.

As I said, the other thread was a different question and not looking for specifically a female perspective.

Ultimately the advice has been the same from everyone and your choosing not to take it because its come from a man which im sorry to say is quite pathetic really.

Think what you like. Like I said it's a female perspective I'm looking for so you're really not helping actually by being so negative towards the guys on this thread you are really not doing yourself any favours OP, lighten up, and join in with the banter, the forums are meant to be fun, based solely on your attitude on this thread I would not meet you!"
You made this point earlier, and I made mine. Thanks xx

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

As its been said, you had advice in another thread and its similar if not the same thats been said on this thread... Now its a case of either taking it on board or not.

For a 2nd post asking advice you have had quite an easy run on it, if there is another the ribbing and jokes will only get worse

Your dynamic is different and won't help single guys much.

As I said, the other thread was a different question and not looking for specifically a female perspective.

Ultimately the advice has been the same from everyone and your choosing not to take it because its come from a man which im sorry to say is quite pathetic really.

Think what you like. Like I said it's a female perspective I'm looking for so you're really not helping

You clearly haven't looked at my profile once the last half an hour. If you had you'd see I've made changes. You'd rather continue attacking me though. Carry on

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By *ady LickWoman over a year ago

Northampton Somewhere

1. Not much

2. Before

I wouldn't bother looking at your profile purely because you don't have a profile pic.

I haven't read all of the thread but it sounds like it didn't go the way you planned. Often the way on here

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Take no notice of these lot as there all silly and just well gel of you.

Here's my advice:

Have a shave.

Have a basin hair cut.

Wear lots of green clothes.

And then you will look like the North Korean man Kim or what ever his name is.

People will think your really mysterious then and that you have a massive weapon x

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"1. Not much

2. Before

I wouldn't bother looking at your profile purely because you don't have a profile pic.

I haven't read all of the thread but it sounds like it didn't go the way you planned. Often the way on here

lol that's an understatement! I'm working on the pics thing. Thank you xx

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Take no notice of these lot as there all silly and just well gel of you.

Here's my advice:

Have a shave.

Have a basin hair cut.

Wear lots of green clothes.

And then you will look like the North Korean man Kim or what ever his name is.

People will think your really mysterious then and that you have a massive weapon x "
Haha. BEST RESPONSE EVER! Thank you lol xxx

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By *oxy_minxWoman over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen

"I green arrowed you, that was enough to tell me I don't want to meet you, I don't need to look at your profile.

Sorry, what does this mean? xx

The green arrow next to your name, click on it and you'll see all the threads you've ever posted on, but this thread is doing a great job of letting everyone know what sort of person you are.

Well done! This thread says nothing about me. It reflects my frustration at guys being unable to read a simple request. But thanks anyway xx

Ah, just because you don't think it does, doesn't make it true.

You are speaking volumes on here.

By Christ it's like pulling teeth. You are now blaming other men for your behaviour!

What else have you got? Is Tina around with the forum insurance forms anywhere?"

Totally agree with this

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By *emini ManMan over a year ago

There and to the left a bit

OP despite your frankly petulant responses throughout this thread - well done for having at least made an attempt at updating your profile as suggested - it's an improvement but does still have a way to go.

For starters lines like "My experiences on here thus far haven't exactly been brilliant but I'm hoping that can change" just come across as negative - try and be more upbeat.

You also mention not having an age preference but have an upper limit of 41 set - either you do or you don't.

You're still listed as straight despite stating you're curious in your blurb.

Your pics? I'd remove and start again - at least smile

Maybe add some body shots too?

Keep at it and taking on board the advice given, rather than going on the offensive every time someone says something, and you'll get there

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"OP despite your frankly petulant responses throughout this thread - well done for having at least made an attempt at updating your profile as suggested - it's an improvement but does still have a way to go.

For starters lines like "My experiences on here thus far haven't exactly been brilliant but I'm hoping that can change" just come across as negative - try and be more upbeat.

You also mention not having an age preference but have an upper limit of 41 set - either you do or you don't.

You're still listed as straight despite stating you're curious in your blurb.

Your pics? I'd remove and start again - at least smile

Maybe add some body shots too?

Keep at it and taking on board the advice given, rather than going on the offensive every time someone says something, and you'll get there

I'm really not unreasonable. It was a reasonable request for female advice. Not my fault guys chose to ignore it

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By *ak777Man over a year ago

shaw

stop having a go at him ,he,s going to take his ball home ,and tell is mum and dad.

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"stop having a go at him ,he,s going to take his ball home ,and tell is mum and dad."

Funny

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

For starters lines like "My experiences on here thus far haven't exactly been brilliant but I'm hoping that can change" just come across as negative - try and be more upbeat.

You also mention not having an age preference but have an upper limit of 41 set - either you do or you don't.

You're still listed as straight despite stating you're curious in your blurb.

Your pics? I'd remove and start again - at least smile

Maybe add some body shots too?

Keep at it and taking on board the advice given, rather than going on the offensive every time someone says something, and you'll get there

I'm really not unreasonable. It was a reasonable request for female advice. Not my fault guys chose to ignore it"

You should have just ignored the men.

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By *orkie321bWoman over a year ago

Nottingham

For starters lines like "My experiences on here thus far haven't exactly been brilliant but I'm hoping that can change" just come across as negative - try and be more upbeat.

You also mention not having an age preference but have an upper limit of 41 set - either you do or you don't.

You're still listed as straight despite stating you're curious in your blurb.

Your pics? I'd remove and start again - at least smile

Maybe add some body shots too?

Keep at it and taking on board the advice given, rather than going on the offensive every time someone says something, and you'll get there

I'm really not unreasonable. It was a reasonable request for female advice. Not my fault guys chose to ignore it"

The gentleman above has given you some very good advice and yet again you choose to be rude because he is male. This guy has 15 verification displayed from the last 5 months so he knows what a single man needs to do in order to succeed on fab but you choose to ignore his advice and be a twunt purely because he is male.

There really is no helping some people

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By *espectful 1Man over a year ago

DY8

Bloody brilliant i'm envious now if you get chance can you help me sort mine out

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

For starters lines like "My experiences on here thus far haven't exactly been brilliant but I'm hoping that can change" just come across as negative - try and be more upbeat.

You also mention not having an age preference but have an upper limit of 41 set - either you do or you don't.

You're still listed as straight despite stating you're curious in your blurb.

Your pics? I'd remove and start again - at least smile

Maybe add some body shots too?

Keep at it and taking on board the advice given, rather than going on the offensive every time someone says something, and you'll get there

I'm really not unreasonable. It was a reasonable request for female advice. Not my fault guys chose to ignore it"

You could have just ignored the input from the guys, or listened to all of those saying that actually you should take heed of their advice. Guys who do well on here will have impressed a number of women, us women can only give you a single person's perspective.

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By *alandNitaCouple over a year ago

Scunthorpe

For me, I probably wouldn't even bother looking since you don't have an avatar picture.

Text is Ok but need photos of your body.

However, your responses on this thread to any man who dared to post would put me off... if I got far enough to read any forum posts.

I like to read any posts people make, as it can give a good insight into their character.

Nita

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By *sGivesWoodWoman over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL

For starters lines like "My experiences on here thus far haven't exactly been brilliant but I'm hoping that can change" just come across as negative - try and be more upbeat.

You also mention not having an age preference but have an upper limit of 41 set - either you do or you don't.

You're still listed as straight despite stating you're curious in your blurb.

Your pics? I'd remove and start again - at least smile

Maybe add some body shots too?

Keep at it and taking on board the advice given, rather than going on the offensive every time someone says something, and you'll get there

I'm really not unreasonable. It was a reasonable request for female advice. Not my fault guys chose to ignore it"
a polite thanks for advice to Gemini Man would be a good thing for you to do at this point OP

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By *sGivesWoodWoman over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL

For starters lines like "My experiences on here thus far haven't exactly been brilliant but I'm hoping that can change" just come across as negative - try and be more upbeat.

You also mention not having an age preference but have an upper limit of 41 set - either you do or you don't.

You're still listed as straight despite stating you're curious in your blurb.

Your pics? I'd remove and start again - at least smile

Maybe add some body shots too?

Keep at it and taking on board the advice given, rather than going on the offensive every time someone says something, and you'll get there

I'm really not unreasonable. It was a reasonable request for female advice. Not my fault guys chose to ignore it"
why should they? It's an open forum.

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By *elma and ShaggyCouple over a year ago

Bedworth

"OP the men on the forums are capable of giving you good advice too, indeed many if the men who have commented on this post meet ladies and couples regularly so they are obviously getting it right.

Perhaps you would be wise seeking their opinion too instead of getting annoyed when they respond

very well said, most of the regular forum guys on here are successful and generally give good advice, try taking it OP instead of being rude to them!

I tried, but believe me, it's hard! Xx"

So op, you find it hard not to be rude...........

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