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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I've never used any dried fruits while swinging.
Nor nuts.
Well there was that one time in band camp..."
You didn't with a flute you didn't put in your mouth after |
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By *andsonjohn OP Man
over a year ago
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"Define what a date is to you? "
really 
isn't it the same for anyone you spend a couple of hours in someone's company over a meal then you get down to fun it you both feel that way ,
if its a regular you still enjoy a meal together as part of the fun even if that meal is half way through a day of fun or near the end of a day of fun . |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Define what a date is to you?
really
isn't it the same for anyone you spend a couple of hours in someone's company over a meal then you get down to fun it you both feel that way ,
if its a regular you still enjoy a meal together as part of the fun even if that meal is half way through a day of fun or near the end of a day of fun ."
A date to me wouldn't end in sex. Having a drink or meal before sex is foreplay. We did it yesterday. It definitely wasn't a date. |
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By *andsonjohn OP Man
over a year ago
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"Define what a date is to you?
really
isn't it the same for anyone you spend a couple of hours in someone's company over a meal then you get down to fun it you both feel that way ,
if its a regular you still enjoy a meal together as part of the fun even if that meal is half way through a day of fun or near the end of a day of fun .
A date to me wouldn't end in sex. Having a drink or meal before sex is foreplay. We did it yesterday. It definitely wasn't a date. "
is this don't read the post properly Monday or something .
I'm sure I used the term date like experience i.e not really dating but date like .
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By *amissCouple
over a year ago
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"Date like experience with in the swinging / sex meets world .
Well is there my fellow fabbers . ?"
Yes John, I think there is, why not. Some people want that and others just want sex. There are people on here who have met their partners and gone on to have successful relationships, so yes.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Define what a date is to you?
really
isn't it the same for anyone you spend a couple of hours in someone's company over a meal then you get down to fun it you both feel that way ,
if its a regular you still enjoy a meal together as part of the fun even if that meal is half way through a day of fun or near the end of a day of fun .
A date to me wouldn't end in sex. Having a drink or meal before sex is foreplay. We did it yesterday. It definitely wasn't a date.
is this don't read the post properly Monday or something .
I'm sure I used the term date like experience i.e not really dating but date like .
jessus "
People have different ideas of what dates mean. Why is it a bad thing to clarify?
There's a place for everything on here. From fuck n go to dates to romance. |
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By *andsonjohn OP Man
over a year ago
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"Date like experience with in the swinging / sex meets world .
Well is there my fellow fabbers . ?
Yes John, I think there is, why not. Some people want that and others just want sex. There are people on here who have met their partners and gone on to have successful relationships, so yes. "
glad to here it as to be honest I wouldn't dream of playing with anyone who would be seem in public with me that the acid test for getting into my pants |
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Yes.. having a date like experience beforehand gives you time to talk about what you both like and also helps build up the excitement if you tease a little. I went to the loo and came back and stuffed my panties in the guys top pocket.. that certainly did the trick  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Define what a date is to you?
really
isn't it the same for anyone you spend a couple of hours in someone's company over a meal then you get down to fun it you both feel that way ,
if its a regular you still enjoy a meal together as part of the fun even if that meal is half way through a day of fun or near the end of a day of fun .
A date to me wouldn't end in sex. Having a drink or meal before sex is foreplay. We did it yesterday. It definitely wasn't a date.
is this don't read the post properly Monday or something .
I'm sure I used the term date like experience i.e not really dating but date like .
jessus "
It doesn't feel like a date to me. So, it's not date like. It's just having a drink before we fuck.. |
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By *andsonjohn OP Man
over a year ago
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"Yes.. having a date like experience beforehand gives you time to talk about what you both like and also helps build up the excitement if you tease a little. I went to the loo and came back and stuffed my panties in the guys top pocket.. that certainly did the trick "
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"I've never used any dried fruits while swinging."
I just went to a shop, and not a greengrocer (this is pertinent). The man at the till was holding a large cucumber in his left hand when I went to pay. Slightly disconcerting. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I've never used any dried fruits while swinging.
I just went to a shop, and not a greengrocer (this is pertinent). The man at the till was holding a large cucumber in his left hand when I went to pay. Slightly disconcerting. "
Did you get his number? |
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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago
Scotland - Aberdeen |
"Define what a date is to you?
really
isn't it the same for anyone you spend a couple of hours in someone's company over a meal then you get down to fun it you both feel that way ,
if its a regular you still enjoy a meal together as part of the fun even if that meal is half way through a day of fun or near the end of a day of fun ."
I totally agree! This is what I call social skills, and this is why I struggle, as most men in my area just expect a fuck and go, so I have gone months with nothing as I wont compromise how I use this site or myself  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Define what a date is to you?
really
isn't it the same for anyone you spend a couple of hours in someone's company over a meal then you get down to fun it you both feel that way ,
if its a regular you still enjoy a meal together as part of the fun even if that meal is half way through a day of fun or near the end of a day of fun .
I totally agree! This is what I call social skills, and this is why I struggle, as most men in my area just expect a fuck and go, so I have gone months with nothing as I wont compromise how I use this site or myself "
I think a lot of men (most... not all!) come to this site *because* they have no social skills. Their brain can't handle it when women say no thanks to their kind offer of a shag. |
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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago
Scotland - Aberdeen |
"Define what a date is to you?
really
isn't it the same for anyone you spend a couple of hours in someone's company over a meal then you get down to fun it you both feel that way ,
if its a regular you still enjoy a meal together as part of the fun even if that meal is half way through a day of fun or near the end of a day of fun .
I totally agree! This is what I call social skills, and this is why I struggle, as most men in my area just expect a fuck and go, so I have gone months with nothing as I wont compromise how I use this site or myself
I think a lot of men (most... not all!) come to this site *because* they have no social skills. Their brain can't handle it when women say no thanks to their kind offer of a shag. "
Unfortunately I totally agree with you |
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By *s_macWoman
over a year ago
Traffic land |
"Date like experience with in the swinging / sex meets world .
Well is there my fellow fabbers . ?"
I think so. I've met a few fabbers for dinner now, which is a traditional dating activity, rather than for a coffee social. I feel equally sick with nerves for a fab social or a vanilla date!
I think it all depends on your interaction with the person you're talking too. I'm quite clear about wanting to enjoy someone's company socially as well as sex, so I guess going out for a bite to eat is fairly natural in this scenario. |
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I've been for meals, bowling, gigs, parties, drives and parks with people from here.
If they aren't prepared to spend time with me out of the bedroom they sure as hell ain't getting the chance to spend time with me in the bedroom (unless there are exceptional circumstances)
Even in a club, you don't just walk up to someone and fuck them do ya, you still need to converse in some way, even if it's sign language.
I've met my closest friends here on fab. Some people have a lot more to offer than a cock or vag. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I've been for meals, bowling, gigs, parties, drives and parks with people from here.
If they aren't prepared to spend time with me out of the bedroom they sure as hell ain't getting the chance to spend time with me in the bedroom (unless there are exceptional circumstances)
Even in a club, you don't just walk up to someone and fuck them do ya, you still need to converse in some way, even if it's sign language.
I've met my closest friends here on fab. Some people have a lot more to offer than a cock or vag. "
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"I've never used any dried fruits while swinging.
I just went to a shop, and not a greengrocer (this is pertinent). The man at the till was holding a large cucumber in his left hand when I went to pay. Slightly disconcerting. "
What kind of shop was it? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Not on your Nellie! I'm completely socially inept, can't talk and even worse at listening. I'm a crap shag too. Good job I stopped trying to meet people really. |
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By *andsonjohn OP Man
over a year ago
in the eye of the storm |
"Define what a date is to you?
really
isn't it the same for anyone you spend a couple of hours in someone's company over a meal then you get down to fun it you both feel that way ,
if its a regular you still enjoy a meal together as part of the fun even if that meal is half way through a day of fun or near the end of a day of fun .
I totally agree! This is what I call social skills, and this is why I struggle, as most men in my area just expect a fuck and go, so I have gone months with nothing as I wont compromise how I use this site or myself
I think a lot of men (most... not all!) come to this site *because* they have no social skills. Their brain can't handle it when women say no thanks to their kind offer of a shag. "
I don't think its all the men's thought
when I first joined fab and started using the forums
I used to get told off for using the term date instead of meet by women I might add not men .
date to me inverse friendly social fun where as meet inverse business like serious
even to this day my mind still thinks on them terms although I use the term meet today as it saves me being told it meet not date by woman .
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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago
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"I've been for meals, bowling, gigs, parties, drives and parks with people from here.
If they aren't prepared to spend time with me out of the bedroom they sure as hell ain't getting the chance to spend time with me in the bedroom (unless there are exceptional circumstances) "
Absobloodylutely! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Date like experience with in the swinging / sex meets world .
Well is there my fellow fabbers . ?
Not for us no
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You being a couple I get that. But I think the singles who use this site may feel a lot different....you already have a partner and too much socialising is probably not what a couple is looking for
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By *ugby 123Couple
over a year ago
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"Date like experience with in the swinging / sex meets world .
Well is there my fellow fabbers . ?
Not for us no
You being a couple I get that. But I think the singles who use this site may feel a lot different....you already have a partner and too much socialising is probably not what a couple is looking for
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I agree.
Having said that, if I was single and looking for NSA sex, I wouldn't want to be dated or have a date like experience either. I would probably make sure I had a social before meeting but that would be it. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I'd like a "date like experience" even if it's just lunch 
That sort of stuff makes me feel fuzzy inside instead of the "business like transaction" that someone else mentioned. |
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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago
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"I wouldn't count having a meal or drink beforehand as a date like experience.
That's just pretty standard and what quite a few people do.
That's just being social, isn't it?
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Agreed but the guys in my area seem to think they can just come round to mine for a first meet which just isn't going to happen! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Define what a date is to you?
really
isn't it the same for anyone you spend a couple of hours in someone's company over a meal then you get down to fun it you both feel that way ,
if its a regular you still enjoy a meal together as part of the fun even if that meal is half way through a day of fun or near the end of a day of fun .
I totally agree! This is what I call social skills, and this is why I struggle, as most men in my area just expect a fuck and go, so I have gone months with nothing as I wont compromise how I use this site or myself
I think a lot of men (most... not all!) come to this site *because* they have no social skills. Their brain can't handle it when women say no thanks to their kind offer of a shag.
I don't think its all the men's thought
when I first joined fab and started using the forums
I used to get told off for using the term date instead of meet by women I might add not men .
date to me inverse friendly social fun where as meet inverse business like serious
even to this day my mind still thinks on them terms although I use the term meet today as it saves me being told it meet not date by woman .
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I suppose everyone uses different words. If someone on here asked me on a date I'd find it odd but that's just me. I'd clarify first though. Use the terms you like.  |
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By *ady LickWoman
over a year ago
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I hate been described as 'a meet', it makes me feel like I'm one of a long line of women! It feels cold and well just horrid. I don't want to be referred to as 'a date' either, and I'm not in a position to be. A date says to me you're going out socially to see if you are relationship material together.
Hell I don't know.....Im just me, no labels |
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"I hate been described as 'a meet', it makes me feel like I'm one of a long line of women! It feels cold and well just horrid. I don't want to be referred to as 'a date' either, and I'm not in a position to be. A date says to me you're going out socially to see if you are relationship material together.
Hell I don't know.....Im just me, no labels "
Could try liaison  |
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"I wouldn't count having a meal or drink beforehand as a date like experience.
That's just pretty standard and what quite a few people do.
That's just being social, isn't it?
Agreed but the guys in my area seem to think they can just come round to mine for a first meet which just isn't going to happen! "
Ah yes, I'm in your area can I come now and give you a pounding? Hell no twinkle toes, we've never even spoken before |
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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago
Scotland - Aberdeen |
"I wouldn't count having a meal or drink beforehand as a date like experience.
That's just pretty standard and what quite a few people do.
That's just being social, isn't it?
Agreed but the guys in my area seem to think they can just come round to mine for a first meet which just isn't going to happen!
Ah yes, I'm in your area can I come now and give you a pounding? Hell no twinkle toes, we've never even spoken before "
Or they agree to a social and when they keep making excuses about when suits them as I always state a weekend only, they then say, well I'll just come to yours then......hmmm no you wont! That's all I've had this year  |
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By *ady LickWoman
over a year ago
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"I hate been described as 'a meet', it makes me feel like I'm one of a long line of women! It feels cold and well just horrid. I don't want to be referred to as 'a date' either, and I'm not in a position to be. A date says to me you're going out socially to see if you are relationship material together.
Hell I don't know.....Im just me, no labels
Could try liaison "
What's that? |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I hate been described as 'a meet', it makes me feel like I'm one of a long line of women! It feels cold and well just horrid. I don't want to be referred to as 'a date' either, and I'm not in a position to be. A date says to me you're going out socially to see if you are relationship material together.
Hell I don't know.....Im just me, no labels
Could try liaison
What's that?"
Dangerous |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I hate been described as 'a meet', it makes me feel like I'm one of a long line of women! It feels cold and well just horrid. I don't want to be referred to as 'a date' either, and I'm not in a position to be. A date says to me you're going out socially to see if you are relationship material together.
Hell I don't know.....Im just me, no labels
Could try liaison
What's that?"
Main Entry: affair
Part of Speech: noun
Definition: illicit sexual relationship
Synonyms: affaire, amour, carrying on, extracurricular activity, fling, goings-on, hanky-panky, intimacy, intrigue, liaison, love, playing around, relationship, rendezvous, romance, thing together, two-timing
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By *ady LickWoman
over a year ago
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Could try liaison
What's that?
Main Entry: affair
Part of Speech: noun
Definition: illicit sexual relationship
Synonyms: affaire, amour, carrying on, extracurricular activity, fling, goings-on, hanky-panky, intimacy, intrigue, liaison, love, playing around, relationship, rendezvous, romance, thing together, two-timing
Copy and paste job "
Thanks, I know what it means! I thought it was another website I didn't know about!! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Could try liaison
What's that?
Main Entry: affair
Part of Speech: noun
Definition: illicit sexual relationship
Synonyms: affaire, amour, carrying on, extracurricular activity, fling, goings-on, hanky-panky, intimacy, intrigue, liaison, love, playing around, relationship, rendezvous, romance, thing together, two-timing
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Thanks, I know what it means! I thought it was another website I didn't know about!!"
Aw feck off  |
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"Define what a date is to you?
really
isn't it the same for anyone you spend a couple of hours in someone's company over a meal then you get down to fun it you both feel that way ,
if its a regular you still enjoy a meal together as part of the fun even if that meal is half way through a day of fun or near the end of a day of fun .
A date to me wouldn't end in sex. Having a drink or meal before sex is foreplay. We did it yesterday. It definitely wasn't a date. "
The only dates I get are in a fkin box at Christmas. |
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By *ady LickWoman
over a year ago
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Could try liaison
What's that?
Main Entry: affair
Part of Speech: noun
Definition: illicit sexual relationship
Synonyms: affaire, amour, carrying on, extracurricular activity, fling, goings-on, hanky-panky, intimacy, intrigue, liaison, love, playing around, relationship, rendezvous, romance, thing together, two-timing
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Thanks, I know what it means! I thought it was another website I didn't know about!!
Aw feck off "
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