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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Really frustrated when people say I'm in the area can I come now..... Well erm no I can't and if u read my profile it explains I have a 16month old.... arghhh it's so annoying |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Hmmm yea that could work.... Dam dam boyfriend changing it again argh xx"
We're passing by in a while. Fancy it 
Sorry I'm the forum idiot with stupid comment Tourette's  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"There brave asking for a meet.
Says you're last was 2years ago lol "
It was 2 years ago we left n came back about 4 weeks ago and nobody seems I'm treated unless it's there nd then x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"There brave asking for a meet.
Says you're last was 2years ago lol
It was 2 years ago we left n came back about 4 weeks ago and nobody seems I'm treated unless it's there nd then x"
The wife's probably popped out shopping |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"There brave asking for a meet.
Says you're last was 2years ago lol
Don't see that that's relevant, not everyone leaves a veri anyway XXX"
I wouldn't contact a profile that was verified once 2 years ago. That's why  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Really frustrated when people say I'm in the area can I come now..... Well erm no I can't and if u read my profile it explains I have a 16month old.... arghhh it's so annoying "
Where on your profile? |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Really frustrated when people say I'm in the area can I come now..... Well erm no I can't and if u read my profile it explains I have a 16month old.... arghhh it's so annoying
Where on your profile?"
The fella changed it lol x |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Really frustrated when people say I'm in the area can I come now..... Well erm no I can't and if u read my profile it explains I have a 16month old.... arghhh it's so annoying
Where on your profile?
The fella changed it lol x"
Within 15 minutes of your post?
Who are you hoping will contact you? Uri Geller? |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Really frustrated when people say I'm in the area can I come now..... Well erm no I can't and if u read my profile it explains I have a 16month old.... arghhh it's so annoying
Where on your profile?
The fella changed it lol x
Within 15 minutes of your post?
Who are you hoping will contact you? Uri Geller?"
no he changed it a week ago apparently I just hadn't noticed till I posted this |
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"Really frustrated when people say I'm in the area can I come now..... Well erm no I can't and if u read my profile it explains I have a 16month old.... arghhh it's so annoying "
Yup, unfortunately there's a very large percentage of the male population that seem unable to read lol |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Really frustrated when people say I'm in the area can I come now..... Well erm no I can't and if u read my profile it explains I have a 16month old.... arghhh it's so annoying
Yup, unfortunately there's a very large percentage of the male population that seem unable to read lol "
Agreed |
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By *ikeC81Man
over a year ago
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I have same problem - I can't read lol
I must I know what it is like about meeting at drop of the hat. I wished I could, but without a car it's hard.
Also every other weekend I am normally in Manchester but not always free  |
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"Really frustrated when people say I'm in the area can I come now..... Well erm no I can't and if u read my profile it explains I have a 16month old.... arghhh it's so annoying "
Oh it's painfully annoying! I'm currently copy and pasting that part of my messages, with the quote incase you have not read my profile..lol |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Really frustrated when people say I'm in the area can I come now..... Well erm no I can't and if u read my profile it explains I have a 16month old.... arghhh it's so annoying
Oh it's painfully annoying! I'm currently copy and pasting that part of my messages, with the quote incase you have not read my profile..lol"
Good idea |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I've just agreed to meet someone who met once before. I'm not at mine and I'm wearing old clothes and shoes, no make up on and mad hair.
We're going for a drink first  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"I've just agreed to meet someone who met once before. I'm not at mine and I'm wearing old clothes and shoes, no make up on and mad hair.
We're going for a drink first "
It's ok if u can meet like that but for us couples and mum's it's not that easy |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Really frustrated when people say I'm in the area can I come now..... Well erm no I can't and if u read my profile it explains I have a 16month old.... arghhh it's so annoying "
Are they really expecting or just doing a slant on what women do by posting. .. free to meet now.
I don't see it as expecting but just seeing someone is free. They may have even copied and pasted that same message to 19 others in the area.. 
I wouldn't take it so personal. You weren't available so you didn't loose out.
Maybe I've misread what you're trying to say. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Really frustrated when people say I'm in the area can I come now..... Well erm no I can't and if u read my profile it explains I have a 16month old.... arghhh it's so annoying
Yup, unfortunately there's a very large percentage of the male population that seem unable to read lol
Agreed "
This may be true... but i feel it could be part of a backfire.... apparently on here ..'not meeting single men' doesn't mean not meeting single men. It means I'm not wanting my inbox full of messages so ill look myself.
Now.... how are we to know what fab ladies actually mean if they don't say what they mean? Just seeing it from a different perspective. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Really frustrated when people say I'm in the area can I come now..... Well erm no I can't and if u read my profile it explains I have a 16month old.... arghhh it's so annoying
Yup, unfortunately there's a very large percentage of the male population that seem unable to read lol
Agreed
This may be true... but i feel it could be part of a backfire.... apparently on here ..'not meeting single men' doesn't mean not meeting single men. It means I'm not wanting my inbox full of messages so ill look myself.
Now.... how are we to know what fab ladies actually mean if they don't say what they mean? Just seeing it from a different perspective. "
Thought you Couldnt message if there not looking for single guys |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Really frustrated when people say I'm in the area can I come now..... Well erm no I can't and if u read my profile it explains I have a 16month old.... arghhh it's so annoying
Yup, unfortunately there's a very large percentage of the male population that seem unable to read lol
Agreed
This may be true... but i feel it could be part of a backfire.... apparently on here ..'not meeting single men' doesn't mean not meeting single men. It means I'm not wanting my inbox full of messages so ill look myself.
Now.... how are we to know what fab ladies actually mean if they don't say what they mean? Just seeing it from a different perspective. "
It said on my profile if i want a so for man I will find him myself |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Really frustrated when people say I'm in the area can I come now..... Well erm no I can't and if u read my profile it explains I have a 16month old.... arghhh it's so annoying
Yup, unfortunately there's a very large percentage of the male population that seem unable to read lol
Agreed
This may be true... but i feel it could be part of a backfire.... apparently on here ..'not meeting single men' doesn't mean not meeting single men. It means I'm not wanting my inbox full of messages so ill look myself.
Now.... how are we to know what fab ladies actually mean if they don't say what they mean? Just seeing it from a different perspective. "
It says 'not looking for men' automatically when people block mail from men. It's just a site glitch, it doesn't do it for other mail block types.
It's easier to block men and search them yourself as it cuts down on mail. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Really frustrated when people say I'm in the area can I come now..... Well erm no I can't and if u read my profile it explains I have a 16month old.... arghhh it's so annoying
Yup, unfortunately there's a very large percentage of the male population that seem unable to read lol
Agreed
This may be true... but i feel it could be part of a backfire.... apparently on here ..'not meeting single men' doesn't mean not meeting single men. It means I'm not wanting my inbox full of messages so ill look myself.
Now.... how are we to know what fab ladies actually mean if they don't say what they mean? Just seeing it from a different perspective.
It says 'not looking for men' automatically when people block mail from men. It's just a site glitch, it doesn't do it for other mail block types.
It's easier to block men and search them yourself as it cuts down on mail. "
How can guys message then if there blocked |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Really frustrated when people say I'm in the area can I come now..... Well erm no I can't and if u read my profile it explains I have a 16month old.... arghhh it's so annoying "
Why get annoyed? People will see your pics and see you're online and ask to meet. If you don't want to meet them say no thanks.
See it as a filter. I have no pics to put the wankers* off. It works great.
*Men wanking over pics with no intention of meeting. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Really frustrated when people say I'm in the area can I come now..... Well erm no I can't and if u read my profile it explains I have a 16month old.... arghhh it's so annoying
Yup, unfortunately there's a very large percentage of the male population that seem unable to read lol
Agreed
This may be true... but i feel it could be part of a backfire.... apparently on here ..'not meeting single men' doesn't mean not meeting single men. It means I'm not wanting my inbox full of messages so ill look myself.
Now.... how are we to know what fab ladies actually mean if they don't say what they mean? Just seeing it from a different perspective.
It says 'not looking for men' automatically when people block mail from men. It's just a site glitch, it doesn't do it for other mail block types.
It's easier to block men and search them yourself as it cuts down on mail.
How can guys message then if there blocked "
They can't. They are blocked. They go look for men themselves. What don't you understand? |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Really frustrated when people say I'm in the area can I come now..... Well erm no I can't and if u read my profile it explains I have a 16month old.... arghhh it's so annoying
Yup, unfortunately there's a very large percentage of the male population that seem unable to read lol
Agreed
This may be true... but i feel it could be part of a backfire.... apparently on here ..'not meeting single men' doesn't mean not meeting single men. It means I'm not wanting my inbox full of messages so ill look myself.
Now.... how are we to know what fab ladies actually mean if they don't say what they mean? Just seeing it from a different perspective.
It says 'not looking for men' automatically when people block mail from men. It's just a site glitch, it doesn't do it for other mail block types.
It's easier to block men and search them yourself as it cuts down on mail.
How can guys message then if there blocked
They can't. They are blocked. They go look for men themselves. What don't you understand?"
Why moan about guys messaging then if they can't  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Really frustrated when people say I'm in the area can I come now..... Well erm no I can't and if u read my profile it explains I have a 16month old.... arghhh it's so annoying "
No offence, but please don't think it's just you they have sent that message to.
They have probably sent that same email to every woman and couple on the local updates list, they do this hoping to play the odds. The more messages they send out, the more chance of a response. They would have paid little if any attention at all your or anyone else's profile text. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Really frustrated when people say I'm in the area can I come now..... Well erm no I can't and if u read my profile it explains I have a 16month old.... arghhh it's so annoying
No offence, but please don't think it's just you they have sent that message to.
They have probably sent that same email to every woman and couple on the local updates list, they do this hoping to play the odds. The more messages they send out, the more chance of a response. They would have paid little if any attention at all your or anyone else's profile text. "
No offence taken I act agree it's just annoying x |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Really frustrated when people say I'm in the area can I come now..... Well erm no I can't and if u read my profile it explains I have a 16month old.... arghhh it's so annoying
Yup, unfortunately there's a very large percentage of the male population that seem unable to read lol
Agreed
This may be true... but i feel it could be part of a backfire.... apparently on here ..'not meeting single men' doesn't mean not meeting single men. It means I'm not wanting my inbox full of messages so ill look myself.
Now.... how are we to know what fab ladies actually mean if they don't say what they mean? Just seeing it from a different perspective.
Thought you Couldnt message if there not looking for single guys "
That us true if you have that filter ticked. ..what I'm referring to are many women who have that in their heading or in their profile but not necessarily as a filter...which means one still can message them.
I tend to block ladies who have that so they don't keep reappearing in my searches. They just get annoyed if you do message...problem is I get some abusive messages when i say that as if it's their right to have that in their profile and be able to message me if they want to meet or chat. You can't win. I just then think if they abusive with that then I probably wouldn't meet them anyway.
I do remove those said ladies out I'd block list to see if they have changed their header later on...so still a chance of messaging if they're looking. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Really frustrated when people say I'm in the area can I come now..... Well erm no I can't and if u read my profile it explains I have a 16month old.... arghhh it's so annoying
Yup, unfortunately there's a very large percentage of the male population that seem unable to read lol
Agreed
This may be true... but i feel it could be part of a backfire.... apparently on here ..'not meeting single men' doesn't mean not meeting single men. It means I'm not wanting my inbox full of messages so ill look myself.
Now.... how are we to know what fab ladies actually mean if they don't say what they mean? Just seeing it from a different perspective.
It says 'not looking for men' automatically when people block mail from men. It's just a site glitch, it doesn't do it for other mail block types.
It's easier to block men and search them yourself as it cuts down on mail.
How can guys message then if there blocked
They can't. They are blocked. They go look for men themselves. What don't you understand?
Why moan about guys messaging then if they can't "
Ah ok sorry confused here I think.
The OP doesn't have men blocked. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Really frustrated when people say I'm in the area can I come now..... Well erm no I can't and if u read my profile it explains I have a 16month old.... arghhh it's so annoying
Yup, unfortunately there's a very large percentage of the male population that seem unable to read lol
Agreed
This may be true... but i feel it could be part of a backfire.... apparently on here ..'not meeting single men' doesn't mean not meeting single men. It means I'm not wanting my inbox full of messages so ill look myself.
Now.... how are we to know what fab ladies actually mean if they don't say what they mean? Just seeing it from a different perspective.
It says 'not looking for men' automatically when people block mail from men. It's just a site glitch, it doesn't do it for other mail block types.
It's easier to block men and search them yourself as it cuts down on mail.
How can guys message then if there blocked
They can't. They are blocked. They go look for men themselves. What don't you understand?
Why moan about guys messaging then if they can't
Ah ok sorry confused here I think.
The OP doesn't have men blocked. "
You're not the only one confused
I see now though |
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"Really frustrated when people say I'm in the area can I come now..... Well erm no I can't and if u read my profile it explains I have a 16month old.... arghhh it's so annoying "
In the 5 years I've had a profile in here, I've only received 2 such messages, so I think I'll live |
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"Really frustrated when people say I'm in the area can I come now..... Well erm no I can't and if u read my profile it explains I have a 16month old.... arghhh it's so annoying "
They are hedging their bets, mailing a few who are local to where they are going to be and hoping for a bite off one. I doubt they've even read your profile, to see that you don't do spontaneous meets.... Too busy messaging others It doesn't frustrate me. I just ignore it |
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"Really frustrated when people say I'm in the area can I come now..... Well erm no I can't and if u read my profile it explains I have a 16month old.... arghhh it's so annoying
Yup, unfortunately there's a very large percentage of the male population that seem unable to read lol
Agreed
This may be true... but i feel it could be part of a backfire.... apparently on here ..'not meeting single men' doesn't mean not meeting single men. It means I'm not wanting my inbox full of messages so ill look myself.
Now.... how are we to know what fab ladies actually mean if they don't say what they mean? Just seeing it from a different perspective.
It says 'not looking for men' automatically when people block mail from men. It's just a site glitch, it doesn't do it for other mail block types.
It's easier to block men and search them yourself as it cuts down on mail.
How can guys message then if there blocked
They can't. They are blocked. They go look for men themselves. What don't you understand?
Why moan about guys messaging then if they can't
Ah ok sorry confused here I think.
The OP doesn't have men blocked. "
Hense why I said what I said earlier about those saying they not meeting men in heading or profile. They can still be messaged. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I've just agreed to meet someone who met once before. I'm not at mine and I'm wearing old clothes and shoes, no make up on and mad hair.
We're going for a drink first
It's ok if u can meet like that but for us couples and mum's it's not that easy "
That's the joys of being a parent. I have grandchildren who take up a lot of my time; I arrange my life around them. It never ends. |
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