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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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One man brought a weekend packed bag with him to a 'social meet'. I couldn't get him to understand what a social was. He insisted the social was meet, kiss, sex if we fancied each other. He wasn't doing anything this weekend, so he thought we could have a weekend of fun |
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"One man brought a weekend packed bag with him to a 'social meet'. I couldn't get him to understand what a social was. He insisted the social was meet, kiss, sex if we fancied each other. He wasn't doing anything this weekend, so he thought we could have a weekend of fun "
Did you knee him in the balls and run for the hills? |
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"One man brought a weekend packed bag with him to a 'social meet'. I couldn't get him to understand what a social was. He insisted the social was meet, kiss, sex if we fancied each other. He wasn't doing anything this weekend, so he thought we could have a weekend of fun
Did you knee him in the balls and run for the hills?"
Nooooo. He just couldn't understand. If you met and you liked, why not have sex. Why not have sex all weekend, he wasn't doing anything else.
The best bit was, I was working 2 x 12 hour shifts that weekend. He said 'it's all right, I'll keep your bed warm til you come home'. But I can't leave a stranger in my house all weekend ? 'I'm not a stranger now we have met'....... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Socials are great
So is sex
I never set out for a meet with closed options in mind
Go prepared for any eventuality
But don't pin your hopes on anything
Always carry :
- gum
- wet wipes
- a flannel
- Brut
- scratch & sniff tester kit
- excuses for a sharp exit
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I've had my share of first date fucks in my time.
Do I regret that? ..... yes, but only because a fair few of those developed into crap relationships and would have been far better off in retrospect remaining as one night stands ...
On here, I've had one social that didn't go any further and a number of 'let's see what happens' meets which turned out rather well |
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"now im not saying that i usually fuck on the first date/meet but if the woman wants to then who am i to say no? but am just wondering who actually does?"
We've even been known to fuck people we haven't met.
Cal
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By *alcon43Woman
over a year ago
Paisley |
People have dates?
Yes I've played on a first meet. Within an hour of meeting once lol. Saw him for about a year!
Last time took a whole 4 hours before we had fun lol.
If it's going well and there's an attraction why not. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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yes - arrange a meet - have a get to know you drink and chat and if all happy then playtime - hard enough to get people together for a meet - and so far never had to say sorry and kick them out of the door or walk away |
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By *ENDAROOSCouple
over a year ago
South West London / Surrey |
Well, I/we don't date but, yes, we have (numberous) times fucked on a first meet.
Most of our meets are arranged as, see how things go with no expectations. Very few have been arranged as a purely social/ coffee meet only. |
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"yes - arrange a meet - have a get to know you drink and chat and if all happy then playtime - hard enough to get people together for a meet - and so far never had to say sorry and kick them out of the door or walk away "
i will say this that i tend to let the woman decide whether to have fun or not on the first date/meet. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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A swinging meet is that, yeah? On a 'date' I haven't had sex before several dates but swinging is a meet to see if we click for sex. Sometimes that is within minutes, others is after a couple of socials. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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A swinging meet. Yes usually, although circumstantial. Although we like to form a friendship too, it's essentially a sexual relationship, so sex is very much part of a successful meet to us.
Mrs |
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By *olliPineCouple
over a year ago
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"I've fucked people when I didn't even know their name "
Yep, it happens
Our meets tend to be in clubs where we can be social. If there's people the we like and the feelings mutual, then why not play?
ClubF has a lockable room but you can see out at who's watching. If we see someone we like out there while we play, we'll invite them to join us.
Sometimes a physical attraction is enough. We usually do get to names afterwards though
P.s. We don't do dates |
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