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TIMEWASTERS do one!!!
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Sorry I'm sure there has been many rants on here about the time wasters but I wanna scream !!
So annoying when you start talking to someone all is going well and you think you have found someone you want to meet and then they disappear or you find out they aren't who you think they are |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Sorry I'm sure there has been many rants on here about the time wasters but I wanna scream !!
So annoying when you start talking to someone all is going well and you think you have found someone you want to meet and then they disappear or you find out they aren't who you think they are "
Happens all the time, to me a meet isn't a meet until you open the door to them. Anything in between is all chatter and to be taken with a pinch of salt  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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i tend to use watsapp for instant picture messaging
i also do not engage in profile that do not send pics or demand mine first
it seems to work along with filters |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Ive just had one... had a chat and she wants to meet, then she hits me with it... it will cost me 30 quid ... i suppose she wouldn't be a timewaster if i paid her though  |
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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago
ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL |
"Ive just had one... had a chat and she wants to meet, then she hits me with it... it will cost me 30 quid ... i suppose she wouldn't be a timewaster if i paid her though "
she won't waste her time she'd take it and run lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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There seems to be a lot more timewasters on site nowadays. Shame fab don't make it compulsory to be photo verified. That might stop a few. Does seem to be plenty of single guys pretending to be a couple at moment |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I once arranged a date with a timewaster and I never showed up. That'll teach 'em."
Ok two questions,
A, How did you know they were a timewaster?
B, Given that they were/are according to you, how did you know they even turned up? You know, being a timewaster?
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Ive just had one... had a chat and she wants to meet, then she hits me with it... it will cost me 30 quid ... i suppose she wouldn't be a timewaster if i paid her though she won't waste her time she'd take it and run lol"
She would of had a head start as i would of had my pants around my ankles  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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its always couples i find whinging about timewasters
yet its verified couples -- only the guy can meet send abusive messages and so on
its on there way or no way
so i blocked couples messaging me as they are too much of chew |
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Ok, so you can't name and shame, however I've just fabbed a new picture that appeared in my local feed, then upon searching they are using someone else's photo cause I've just seen it on their profile.
I can't message this couple to inform them. Would somebody (admin) like to PM me and I will provide the details. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Ok, so you can't name and shame, however I've just fabbed a new picture that appeared in my local feed, then upon searching they are using someone else's photo cause I've just seen it on their profile.
I can't message this couple to inform them. Would somebody (admin) like to PM me and I will provide the details. "
you should just click report button and mention profile name
as admin are very busy making tea and coffee |
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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago
ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL |
"its always couples i find whinging about timewasters
yet its verified couples -- only the guy can meet send abusive messages and so on
its on there way or no way
so i blocked couples messaging me as they are too much of chew"
well said kitty x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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couples need to work out:
whether its both of then want real fun
or is the guy just pimping her fanny out so he can get fucks
if the want a considerate bull ( they need to look that up)
it might stop the guy pestering others for sex when they are a verified couple and only he can meet  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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all these wanting to do a timewasters
i might open a profile
arrange lots of fucks
do not turn up
then i will have had the fab experiences everyone raves about |
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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago
ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL |
"couples need to work out:
whether its both of then want real fun
or is the guy just pimping her fanny out so he can get fucks
if the want a considerate bull ( they need to look that up)
it might stop the guy pestering others for sex when they are a verified couple and only he can meet "
if only he can meet it needs to be reported to admin so they can change it to a single male profile |
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"Ok, so you can't name and shame, however I've just fabbed a new picture that appeared in my local feed, then upon searching they are using someone else's photo cause I've just seen it on their profile.
I can't message this couple to inform them. Would somebody (admin) like to PM me and I will provide the details. you should just click report button and mention profile name
as admin are very busy making tea and coffee"
Good shout, and have just done so. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"couples need to work out:
whether its both of then want real fun
or is the guy just pimping her fanny out so he can get fucks
if the want a considerate bull ( they need to look that up)
it might stop the guy pestering others for sex when they are a verified couple and only he can meet if only he can meet it needs to be reported to admin so they can change it to a single male profile"
before i blocked couples
it was around 2/3 a day sometimes more would message me and after a few exchanges the bombshell only he could meet
always with lame excuses
and nearly all from verified couples |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"all these wanting to do a timewasters
i might open a profile
arrange lots of fucks
do not turn up
then i will have had the fab experiences everyone raves about couples profile with me? "
beach babes again
we are both near beaches lol |
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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago
ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL |
"all these wanting to do a timewasters
i might open a profile
arrange lots of fucks
do not turn up
then i will have had the fab experiences everyone raves about couples profile with me?
beach babes again
we are both near beaches lol"
yay!!!! |
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"There seems to be a lot more timewasters on site nowadays. Shame fab don't make it compulsory to be photo verified. That might stop a few. Does seem to be plenty of single guys pretending to be a couple at moment "
so if a guy copied a couples photo off the internet and used that then got photo verified then they wouldn't be a timewaster? Interesting logic...
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Sorry I'm sure there has been many rants on here about the time wasters but I wanna scream !!
So annoying when you start talking to someone all is going well and you think you have found someone you want to meet and then they disappear or you find out they aren't who you think they are
Happens all the time, to me a meet isn't a meet until you open the door to them. Anything in between is all chatter and to be taken with a pinch of salt "
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"Ive just had one... had a chat and she wants to meet, then she hits me with it... it will cost me 30 quid ... i suppose she wouldn't be a timewaster if i paid her though "
She will want 30 quid through money transfer or something and you will never see her (if it's a woman). |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Strange thread
The OP are looking for a single lady if a single guy said the same about timewasters, girls going quiet, not who they say they are etc no one would dish out any sympathy, would they?
Well OP welcome to the club of chasing single girls be ready for mind changers, no shows, timewasters, chatting then silence etc etc. Single ladies just have too much to do on here and get easily distracted xx |
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I think time waster is used far too often here
Id class a time waster as someone who arranges to meet up,them doesnt show.Or continually cancel arrangements.
Maybe something happened in real life or they changed their mind etc.
Miss. |
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"Happens all the time, to me a meet isn't a meet until you open the door to them. Anything in between is all chatter and to be taken with a pinch of salt "
This.
I sometimes think people expect every conversation to result in a meet.
Fab is great if you just take things as they come and enjoy the meets that you do get.
Life's too short to stress about things that didn't happen or could have happen.
Nita |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"There seems to be a lot more timewasters on site nowadays. Shame fab don't make it compulsory to be photo verified. That might stop a few. Does seem to be plenty of single guys pretending to be a couple at moment "
There are ALOT of timewasters running about here tbh...its really bad. Then again, interestingly enough I am only photo verified though I have had a few meets here (seems like people dont verify unless u pester them a lot of the time).
I think the "mainstreaming" of swinging has been good and bad...whilst its nice to have an increased pool of people, you also get an influx of people who seem to be a little to selective about what they want.
In truth, I think the percentage of people who actually go out of their way to waste peoples time on here is miniscule...what you really tend to get are people who become highly indecisive because of the wealth of options that couples/single women have...said options tend to make you A LOT more selective about who you're willing to meet. Even if the things that you're selective for dont necessarily translate well into real life. Its the same on dating sites like Tinder...they have become so mainstream that they often end up seeing an influx of people who dont usually find in the internet dating world...people who are likely to be far less tolerant of people/experiences who stray to far away from those that they're already used to. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I think time waster is used far too often here
Id class a time waster as someone who arranges to meet up,them doesnt show.Or continually cancel arrangements.
Maybe something happened in real life or they changed their mind etc.
Miss."
Yep. This is my point. I can probably only count truly bonafide timewasting experiences on one hand...the vast majority of people seem to get cold feet/feel they see something when reviewing a forum post/profile that they dont like. Its a shame...but such is the nature of the digital age. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Strange thread
The OP are looking for a single lady if a single guy said the same about timewasters, girls going quiet, not who they say they are etc no one would dish out any sympathy, would they?
Well OP welcome to the club of chasing single girls be ready for mind changers, no shows, timewasters, chatting then silence etc etc. Single ladies just have too much to do on here and get easily distracted xx"
Also, some people, during conversation, say something that makes your brain go NO!! And then you have to terminate the conversation. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Strange thread
The OP are looking for a single lady if a single guy said the same about timewasters, girls going quiet, not who they say they are etc no one would dish out any sympathy, would they?
Well OP welcome to the club of chasing single girls be ready for mind changers, no shows, timewasters, chatting then silence etc etc. Single ladies just have too much to do on here and get easily distracted xx
Also, some people, during conversation, say something that makes your brain go NO!! And then you have to terminate the conversation."
And in many cases this "red flags" can be stupid and arbitrary...and in many cases are. Its what I find amusing about the general stupidity of people. Like when people assume some dodgy looking middle aged guy with poor social skills could be a pedo when, in most cases, pedophiles tend to be very good at eliciting trust from both children and adults. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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op cant you turn your filters up to sort some out, well it may stop you getting loads of mail ... But the mail you will get if you set the filters right will be real people who meet others from the site. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Strange thread
The OP are looking for a single lady if a single guy said the same about timewasters, girls going quiet, not who they say they are etc no one would dish out any sympathy, would they?
Well OP welcome to the club of chasing single girls be ready for mind changers, no shows, timewasters, chatting then silence etc etc. Single ladies just have too much to do on here and get easily distracted xx
Also, some people, during conversation, say something that makes your brain go NO!! And then you have to terminate the conversation.
And in many cases this "red flags" can be stupid and arbitrary...and in many cases are. Its what I find amusing about the general stupidity of people. Like when people assume some dodgy looking middle aged guy with poor social skills could be a pedo when, in most cases, pedophiles tend to be very good at eliciting trust from both children and adults."
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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some people new to swinging and these type of sites can be very nervous indeed
and may not meet even though they desperately want to
i would not label them timewasters as it would only add to their fear of meeting |
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