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By *itofamouthfull OP   Man  over a year ago

here and there

Come on chaps or ladies who doesn't love a submissive woman especially when she's over your lap ready for a spanking!;)

The feeling of having that person under your control, rewarding them when they're good and punishing them when they're bad! Such a turn on.

So subs make yourself known with a picture of a nicely spanked bottom so we can show our appreciation.

And yes this is also a ploy for me to find a submissive woman! Mwhahaha

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By *oodmessMan  over a year ago

yumsville

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


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I love to have my arse spanked

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By *sGivesWoodWoman  over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL

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By *oodmessMan  over a year ago

yumsville


"[Removed by poster at 03/08/17 10:33:55]

I love to have my arse spanked "

I was trying to phrase it better .

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

I'm more of a masochist than submissive, but yaaaaay to spankings

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

I used to like my arse slapped but then i met a fella who slapped my arse so hard i nearly got up and kicked him in the spuds. Never again.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

I'm not into the over the knee spanking; I find it too reminiscent of childhood spankings (not me, I was a good girl). I prefer a belt across my back and arse, or a bite. I did get a paddling from someone once, when I was tied to his bed, face down. I'd probably break someone's knees if I lay on them.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

I enjoy a good caning from time to time

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"I used to like my arse slapped but then i met a fella who slapped my arse so hard i nearly got up and kicked him in the spuds. Never again.

"

They have to hit the right part of my arse. Too high and they hit the sciatic nerve, and that's a killer.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

OP is that you in your profile pic?

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By *dwalu2Couple  over a year ago

Bristol

See our profile pic for details!

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

I love a good spanking from my top when I been a good girl

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By *airymagicWoman  over a year ago

goblin city

I just need someone with a big lap

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Mmmm that will be me then

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Lovely new pic on our profile of my caned backside

It was a quick, but very much needed spanking, already craving more...

Peach x

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Lovely new pic on our profile of my caned backside

It was a quick, but very much needed spanking, already craving more...

Peach x"

I'll give you a good hard one when I see you

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Lovely new pic on our profile of my caned backside

It was a quick, but very much needed spanking, already craving more...

Peach x

I'll give you a good hard one when I see you "

I believe we're up to three beatings now pp....you'll be exhausted

Peach x

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Some people are weird! Why would you want to be spanked???

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Some people are weird! Why would you want to be spanked??? "

Because it feels good,obviously Why do you like your cock sucked?

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Lovely new pic on our profile of my caned backside

It was a quick, but very much needed spanking, already craving more...

Peach x

I'll give you a good hard one when I see you

I believe we're up to three beatings now pp....you'll be exhausted

Peach x"

Think you can take it

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By *andsonjohnMan  over a year ago

in the eye of the storm


"I love a good spanking from my top when I been a good girl "

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By *inchyorksMan  over a year ago

huddersfield


"I enjoy a good caning from time to time "

'Pulls the draw out from under the bed containing, cane and riding crop'

Good morning xx

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By *airymagicWoman  over a year ago

goblin city

I have a cat of 9 which I love

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By *andsonjohnMan  over a year ago

in the eye of the storm


"Some people are weird! Why would you want to be spanked???

Because it feels good,obviously Why do you like your cock sucked?"

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

A good spanking gives a good sub focus on what's important x

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By *itofamouthfull OP   Man  over a year ago

here and there


"OP is that you in your profile pic?"

Lol no that was the last woman I gently spanked!

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Some people are weird! Why would you want to be spanked??? "

Yes I'm weird

Pain/pleasure is a thin line I love to walk, the anticipation and the throb in my pussy when the implement cracks across my ass is so addictive and the euphoria after a good session is out of this world...

Peach x

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Lovely new pic on our profile of my caned backside

It was a quick, but very much needed spanking, already craving more...

Peach x

I'll give you a good hard one when I see you

I believe we're up to three beatings now pp....you'll be exhausted

Peach x

Think you can take it "

I'll take whatever you want me to take pp

Peach x

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"OP is that you in your profile pic?

Lol no that was the last woman I gently spanked! "

I thought the hips looked a bit feminine.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Some people are weird! Why would you want to be spanked???

Because it feels good,obviously Why do you like your cock sucked?"

I like you answer

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By *an_WoodMan  over a year ago

Stafford

It would delightful to "punish" minor transgressions with a spanking

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By *andsonjohnMan  over a year ago

in the eye of the storm

I prefer the intimate touch of giving a harsh hand spanking to any other form of impact play .

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By *itofamouthfull OP   Man  over a year ago

here and there


"OP is that you in your profile pic?

Lol no that was the last woman I gently spanked!

I thought the hips looked a bit feminine."

Is that more clearer that it's me? Lol

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By *icentiousCouple  over a year ago

Up on them there hills

Cane only for special occasions, flogger, paddle and hand for every day.

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By *itofamouthfull OP   Man  over a year ago

here and there


"Cane only for special occasions, flogger, paddle and hand for every day. "

Agree, a nicely flogged pussy always sets the mood;)

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Come on chaps or ladies who doesn't love a submissive woman especially when she's over your lap ready for a spanking!;)

The feeling of having that person under your control, rewarding them when they're good and punishing them when they're bad! Such a turn on.

So subs make yourself known with a picture of a nicely spanked bottom so we can show our appreciation.

And yes this is also a ploy for me to find a submissive woman! Mwhahaha "

Why does it turn you on ?

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By *itofamouthfull OP   Man  over a year ago

here and there


"Come on chaps or ladies who doesn't love a submissive woman especially when she's over your lap ready for a spanking!;)

The feeling of having that person under your control, rewarding them when they're good and punishing them when they're bad! Such a turn on.

So subs make yourself known with a picture of a nicely spanked bottom so we can show our appreciation.

And yes this is also a ploy for me to find a submissive woman! Mwhahaha

Why does it turn you on ? "

Oh most definitely!;)

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Some people are weird! Why would you want to be spanked???

Because it feels good,obviously Why do you like your cock sucked?"

Exactly! It feels good to some to be spanked,punched,tortured... This is very weird!

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

I wouldn't say I'm sub because I have my feisty moments but there is definitely something I love about being punished.

There's a fine line though between pleasurable pain and it just being total agony and turning me off.

If it's going to bruise or bleed then that's not for me.

A hand print however...

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By *itofamouthfull OP   Man  over a year ago

here and there


"Some people are weird! Why would you want to be spanked???

Because it feels good,obviously Why do you like your cock sucked?

Exactly! It feels good to some to be spanked,punched,tortured... This is very weird! "

One persons weird is another persons normality, if it's not for you then just stay away from it, but don't go calling people weird because their into something your not. That's just rude.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Some people are weird! Why would you want to be spanked???

Because it feels good,obviously Why do you like your cock sucked?

Exactly! It feels good to some to be spanked,punched,tortured... This is very weird!

One persons weird is another persons normality, if it's not for you then just stay away from it, but don't go calling people weird because their into something your not. That's just rude. "

Firm but fair point

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By *rincess peachWoman  over a year ago

shits creek


"Some people are weird! Why would you want to be spanked???

Because it feels good,obviously Why do you like your cock sucked?

Exactly! It feels good to some to be spanked,punched,tortured... This is very weird! "

No, it's weird to you. Your attitude stinks dude. How disrespectful do ya want to be? Just because something is different to what YOU like doesn't make it weird. I'm gonna hazard a guess..... missionary is your fave thing, lights off, socks still on.

You are probably the person that calls people names who aren't wearing the "cool clothes"

A bit of a bully in school perhaps?

Something that will make you more appealing to other people is not being so bloody closed minded. For now you're just showing how narrow minded and intolerant you are, but thanks for showing us your true self

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

I'm not a pain lover, yet I love bruises of all kinds and colours. Even my last tattoo is in colour of a bruise. So palm, whip, cane...yes please

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Some people are weird! Why would you want to be spanked???

Because it feels good,obviously Why do you like your cock sucked?

Exactly! It feels good to some to be spanked,punched,tortured... This is very weird!

No, it's weird to you. Your attitude stinks dude. How disrespectful do ya want to be? Just because something is different to what YOU like doesn't make it weird. I'm gonna hazard a guess..... missionary is your fave thing, lights off, socks still on.

You are probably the person that calls people names who aren't wearing the "cool clothes"

A bit of a bully in school perhaps?

Something that will make you more appealing to other people is not being so bloody closed minded. For now you're just showing how narrow minded and intolerant you are, but thanks for showing us your true self "

yeah sister

Fancy whipping my ass?

Peach x

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By *otchillicoupleCouple  over a year ago

all over

So I've been bad, and need to be punished, so hubby has decided that A friend needs to be called round to suitable chastise me. I try desperately to escape my punishment by kissing hubby and kissing the friend and trying to distract hubby but he know me too well and know this is just me trying to get round him. He tells the friend to be firm with me. He sits down on the sofa and takes my hand drawing me to him, but I struggle and try and get away. He is too strong and before I know it, he has pulled me over his knee. He tells me to stop struggling or it will be worse for me. I try and cover my bum with my hands, but he moves them out if the way and pulls my knickers down to my knees. He strokes my bum and I start to relax before he brings the lam of his hand down hard and I squeal. He spanks each cheek at intervals, turning them red and burning. I keep asking him to stop but he won't until he has spanked those cheeks 12 times, my bum is on fire and he finds my pussy is soaking wet as he thrusts his fingers inside making me come almost immediately.

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By *itofamouthfull OP   Man  over a year ago

here and there


"So I've been bad, and need to be punished, so hubby has decided that A friend needs to be called round to suitable chastise me. I try desperately to escape my punishment by kissing hubby and kissing the friend and trying to distract hubby but he know me too well and know this is just me trying to get round him. He tells the friend to be firm with me. He sits down on the sofa and takes my hand drawing me to him, but I struggle and try and get away. He is too strong and before I know it, he has pulled me over his knee. He tells me to stop struggling or it will be worse for me. I try and cover my bum with my hands, but he moves them out if the way and pulls my knickers down to my knees. He strokes my bum and I start to relax before he brings the lam of his hand down hard and I squeal. He spanks each cheek at intervals, turning them red and burning. I keep asking him to stop but he won't until he has spanked those cheeks 12 times, my bum is on fire and he finds my pussy is soaking wet as he thrusts his fingers inside making me come almost immediately. "

Mmmm I think I need to become friends with your husband;)

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Some people are weird! Why would you want to be spanked???

Because it feels good,obviously Why do you like your cock sucked?

Exactly! It feels good to some to be spanked,punched,tortured... This is very weird!

One persons weird is another persons normality, if it's not for you then just stay away from it, but don't go calling people weird because their into something your not. That's just rude. "

You think it's rude to call people "weird", others are proud to be weird, different and unique.

It's not rude to express an opinion. If you don't like it, who cares.

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By *itofamouthfull OP   Man  over a year ago

here and there

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By *itofamouthfull OP   Man  over a year ago

here and there


"Some people are weird! Why would you want to be spanked???

Because it feels good,obviously Why do you like your cock sucked?

Exactly! It feels good to some to be spanked,punched,tortured... This is very weird!

One persons weird is another persons normality, if it's not for you then just stay away from it, but don't go calling people weird because their into something your not. That's just rude.

You think it's rude to call people "weird", others are proud to be weird, different and unique.

It's not rude to express an opinion. If you don't like it, who cares.

"

With respect it is rude to call people weird. The people that you refer too as being proud, are not proud for being "weird" they are proud for being different and unique, they don't call themselves weird it's people like yourself calling them weird.

Also It can be rude to express an opinion. When expressing an opinion which you are fully entitled too, you should always be polite and respective of other people feelings and views, calling people names because they have different views or referring to them in a derogatory way is rude! Your more than welcome to express your views - that you don't understand bdsm or that your not into it but just don't refer to the people that are as weird please.

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By *oodmessMan  over a year ago

yumsville


"Some people are weird! Why would you want to be spanked???

Because it feels good,obviously Why do you like your cock sucked?

Exactly! It feels good to some to be spanked,punched,tortured... This is very weird!

One persons weird is another persons normality, if it's not for you then just stay away from it, but don't go calling people weird because their into something your not. That's just rude.

You think it's rude to call people "weird", others are proud to be weird, different and unique.

It's not rude to express an opinion. If you don't like it, who cares.

With respect it is rude to call people weird. The people that you refer too as being proud, are not proud for being "weird" they are proud for being different and unique, they don't call themselves weird it's people like yourself calling them weird.

Also It can be rude to express an opinion. When expressing an opinion which you are fully entitled too, you should always be polite and respective of other people feelings and views, calling people names because they have different views or referring to them in a derogatory way is rude! Your more than welcome to express your views - that you don't understand bdsm or that your not into it but just don't refer to the people that are as weird please.

"

It may be etiquette but you don't have to be polite at all - stop talking bollocks. If something is werid - it's weird people get turned on by all kinds of weird shit.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Some people are weird! Why would you want to be spanked???

Because it feels good,obviously Why do you like your cock sucked?

Exactly! It feels good to some to be spanked,punched,tortured... This is very weird!

One persons weird is another persons normality, if it's not for you then just stay away from it, but don't go calling people weird because their into something your not. That's just rude.

You think it's rude to call people "weird", others are proud to be weird, different and unique.

It's not rude to express an opinion. If you don't like it, who cares.

With respect it is rude to call people weird. The people that you refer too as being proud, are not proud for being "weird" they are proud for being different and unique, they don't call themselves weird it's people like yourself calling them weird.

Also It can be rude to express an opinion. When expressing an opinion which you are fully entitled too, you should always be polite and respective of other people feelings and views, calling people names because they have different views or referring to them in a derogatory way is rude! Your more than welcome to express your views - that you don't understand bdsm or that your not into it but just don't refer to the people that are as weird please.

"

I get your point and appreciate that you are being polite even though you seem irritated and passionate about the issue.

I meant no offence to anyone. No name calling certainly.

People refer to themselves as weird, cokoo, filthy... you name it, not only on this site but out in real life.

This is the meaning I put in the word.

And becides, hard core masochists who endure hours of abuse and humiliation till their bodies and souls bleed, in my view, were surely able to swallow a word like " weird" even if taken in the extremely offensive meaning.

See how Peachfazz replied at my post, for example.

I trust you understand my point as you do sound intelligent.

BTW, for me, the whole swingers' lifestyle is a study. I take keen interest in the reasons people behave in this way or another. BDSM is still beyond comprehension for me. It's weird. Am I weird to find it weird or are those who enjoyed it weird? By asking questions whether ending with ? or simply making a statement that prompts reaction from others, I get to see it with different eyes.

Someone replied ' Because it feels good'. I got that, thanks. But how come actions that without consent would constitute criminal offence and being someone's worst nightmare can be pleasurable for others???

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Some people are weird! Why would you want to be spanked???

Yes I'm weird

Pain/pleasure is a thin line I love to walk, the anticipation and the throb in my pussy when the implement cracks across my ass is so addictive and the euphoria after a good session is out of this world...

Peach x"

This is the comment I mentioned. No offence meant, no offence taken. She's very cute the way she describes it.

I'd winch at seeing her actually doing it, but it gives her pleasure... Lovely girl!

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By *hoenixAdAstraWoman  over a year ago

Hiding in the shadows


"Some people are weird! Why would you want to be spanked???

Because it feels good,obviously Why do you like your cock sucked?"

I just spat my tea out laughing so much!

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By *lusive.UnicornWoman  over a year ago

Dungeonville

Damn who doesn't like a nice bruised bum.. mine's always got some bruise or other on it

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By *iSTARessWoman  over a year ago

London

Love a cute lady bum to squeeze, caress and slap across my lap.

Had a boy in the same position last night. Lightly slapping the sweet spot with a butt plug up there. Seemed to do the trick

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By *ornylittlesubWoman  over a year ago

Grangemouth

I LOVE getting spanked/punished!

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By *itofamouthfull OP   Man  over a year ago

here and there


"I LOVE getting spanked/punished! "

Mmmmm and what a lovely arse you have to spank as well;)

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By *he_virgin_maryWoman  over a year ago

Here, there and everywhere!


"

I love to have my arse spanked "

Don't we all!

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By *itofamouthfull OP   Man  over a year ago

here and there


"

I love to have my arse spanked

Don't we all!

"

I wish you all did!;)

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

I like to have someone's trust.. that they know I'm doing everything for my pleasure. That she loves every bit of it.. That we know I can go full throttle and it's time Jamie is in control.

If it's not like that.. then the sub dom thing goes a bit awry sometimes.. por mi

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By *iSubSlutWoman  over a year ago

Bedford

Hello, did someone say submissive...?

Sorry I'm late to the party...

(hmm I probably derserve a spanking for being late...anybody...?)

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Hello, did someone say submissive...?

Sorry I'm late to the party...

(hmm I probably derserve a spanking for being late...anybody...?) "

Would love to spank that ass. Drip hot wax onto it and keave a nice bite mark also!

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By *uzy444Woman  over a year ago

in the suffolk countryside


"Come on chaps or ladies who doesn't love a submissive woman especially when she's over your lap ready for a spanking!;)

The feeling of having that person under your control, rewarding them when they're good and punishing them when they're bad! Such a turn on.

So subs make yourself known with a picture of a nicely spanked bottom so we can show our appreciation.

And yes this is also a ploy for me to find a submissive woman! Mwhahaha "

good ploy, pity you so far away...

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By *itofamouthfull OP   Man  over a year ago

here and there


"Come on chaps or ladies who doesn't love a submissive woman especially when she's over your lap ready for a spanking!;)

The feeling of having that person under your control, rewarding them when they're good and punishing them when they're bad! Such a turn on.

So subs make yourself known with a picture of a nicely spanked bottom so we can show our appreciation.

And yes this is also a ploy for me to find a submissive woman! Mwhahaha good ploy, pity you so far away..."

Suffolk isn't to far away, especially to have you bent over my lap;)

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

I received a massive paddling yesterday so much so that it hurts to sit!

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Absolutely love pinning a girl against a walk or to the bed, pushing their legs back and a good hair pull while fucking

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By *dwalu2Couple  over a year ago

Bristol


"I received a massive paddling yesterday so much so that it hurts to sit! "

Pleasant memories for you, no doubt.

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By *cunnylassCouple  over a year ago

Exeter

Mandy loves a good spanking!

Mike

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"I received a massive paddling yesterday so much so that it hurts to sit!

Pleasant memories for you, no doubt. "

Very pleasant memories indeed

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"I received a massive paddling yesterday so much so that it hurts to sit!

I'm glad to hear that! A good punishment for blocking me!?!? Lol "

You're not blocked

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Tit grabbing, hair pulling, bum spanking, legs pushing.. Sex!

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

So mixed bag here.

MrsPS is pain adverse so only enjoys a light spanking which is a pity as she has a most spankable bum

I do enjoy it but MrsPS applies her own limits to it and doesn't do it very hard as she worries about hurting me.

We'll get a couple over here sometime that's more into it and see what results

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By *itofamouthfull OP   Man  over a year ago

here and there


"I received a massive paddling yesterday so much so that it hurts to sit!

I'm glad to hear that! A good punishment for blocking me!?!? Lol

You're not blocked "

Good Don't let it happen again or your feet will be caned!

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

I can be submissive but I don't like pain as I have a low pain threshold... for me it's the physiological feeling of trusting someone so much and being so safe and comfortable with them that I'm willing to pass my control to them.

Having my hair pulled and a hand gently squeezing my throat are both good fun though. As is a nice tingling spanking as that can make me incredibly sleepy and relaxed when done right

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By *axandbooCouple  over a year ago

Bristol

As i tell boo

Face down, ass up, your gonna get spanked for being a dirty slut

And yes her ass does take it rather well

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By *itofamouthfull OP   Man  over a year ago

here and there


"I can be submissive but I don't like pain as I have a low pain threshold... for me it's the physiological feeling of trusting someone so much and being so safe and comfortable with them that I'm willing to pass my control to them.

Having my hair pulled and a hand gently squeezing my throat are both good fun though. As is a nice tingling spanking as that can make me incredibly sleepy and relaxed when done right "

I agree, That's generally a misguided view that people have about Dom/sub though that it's all about pain and it's just not true.

Just simple things like making a sub crawl to you or tying them to a chair with senses deprivation can be as effective to controlling a sub as a spanking or caning.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"I can be submissive but I don't like pain as I have a low pain threshold... for me it's the physiological feeling of trusting someone so much and being so safe and comfortable with them that I'm willing to pass my control to them.

Having my hair pulled and a hand gently squeezing my throat are both good fun though. As is a nice tingling spanking as that can make me incredibly sleepy and relaxed when done right

I agree, That's generally a misguided view that people have about Dom/sub though that it's all about pain and it's just not true.

Just simple things like making a sub crawl to you or tying them to a chair with senses deprivation can be as effective to controlling a sub as a spanking or caning. "

Ah, but some of us neither crawl nor allow ourselves to be made to do anything

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By *istressZoeTV/TS  over a year ago

cheshire

I think it's wrong to think all submissive females like a OTK spanking

I have lots of experience of playing with people of a submissive nature and in my opinion the submission comes from the mind x

Own and stimulate the mind and the bodily desires will follow!

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By *itofamouthfull OP   Man  over a year ago

here and there


"I can be submissive but I don't like pain as I have a low pain threshold... for me it's the physiological feeling of trusting someone so much and being so safe and comfortable with them that I'm willing to pass my control to them.

Having my hair pulled and a hand gently squeezing my throat are both good fun though. As is a nice tingling spanking as that can make me incredibly sleepy and relaxed when done right

I agree, That's generally a misguided view that people have about Dom/sub though that it's all about pain and it's just not true.

Just simple things like making a sub crawl to you or tying them to a chair with senses deprivation can be as effective to controlling a sub as a spanking or caning.

Ah, but some of us neither crawl nor allow ourselves to be made to do anything "

Lol if you never allow yourself to be made/coerced to do something your def not a sub lol

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By *uzy444Woman  over a year ago

in the suffolk countryside


"Come on chaps or ladies who doesn't love a submissive woman especially when she's over your lap ready for a spanking!;)

The feeling of having that person under your control, rewarding them when they're good and punishing them when they're bad! Such a turn on.

So subs make yourself known with a picture of a nicely spanked bottom so we can show our appreciation.

And yes this is also a ploy for me to find a submissive woman! Mwhahaha good ploy, pity you so far away...

Suffolk isn't to far away, especially to have you bent over my lap;)"

depends what you want i need a full d/s dynamic, i cant play casually, cos otherwise i get awful sub drop x

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By *itofamouthfull OP   Man  over a year ago

here and there


"Come on chaps or ladies who doesn't love a submissive woman especially when she's over your lap ready for a spanking!;)

The feeling of having that person under your control, rewarding them when they're good and punishing them when they're bad! Such a turn on.

So subs make yourself known with a picture of a nicely spanked bottom so we can show our appreciation.

And yes this is also a ploy for me to find a submissive woman! Mwhahaha good ploy, pity you so far away...

Suffolk isn't to far away, especially to have you bent over my lap;)depends what you want i need a full d/s dynamic, i cant play casually, cos otherwise i get awful sub drop x"

Nobody likes a sulky sub!;) lol

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By *uzy444Woman  over a year ago

in the suffolk countryside


"Come on chaps or ladies who doesn't love a submissive woman especially when she's over your lap ready for a spanking!;)

The feeling of having that person under your control, rewarding them when they're good and punishing them when they're bad! Such a turn on.

So subs make yourself known with a picture of a nicely spanked bottom so we can show our appreciation.

And yes this is also a ploy for me to find a submissive woman! Mwhahaha good ploy, pity you so far away...

Suffolk isn't to far away, especially to have you bent over my lap;)depends what you want i need a full d/s dynamic, i cant play casually, cos otherwise i get awful sub drop x

Nobody likes a sulky sub!;) lol"

no one like a wannabe dom

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Come on chaps or ladies who doesn't love a submissive woman"

Going to make myself even more of an unpopular oddball here...

I DON'T

I like my women to be my equal in life and in the bedroom. I can come across as a bit Dom, but actually I am just a Leo so a bit bossy, if a woman wants her arse spanked I am happy to oblige but only if they ask as an equal.

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By *itofamouthfull OP   Man  over a year ago

here and there


"Come on chaps or ladies who doesn't love a submissive woman especially when she's over your lap ready for a spanking!;)

The feeling of having that person under your control, rewarding them when they're good and punishing them when they're bad! Such a turn on.

So subs make yourself known with a picture of a nicely spanked bottom so we can show our appreciation.

And yes this is also a ploy for me to find a submissive woman! Mwhahaha good ploy, pity you so far away...

Suffolk isn't to far away, especially to have you bent over my lap;)depends what you want i need a full d/s dynamic, i cant play casually, cos otherwise i get awful sub drop x

Nobody likes a sulky sub!;) lolno one like a wannabe dom "

Haha - well that comment would get you gagged, put on the naughty chair and your feet caned for starters! ;-b

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Come on chaps or ladies who doesn't love a submissive woman especially when she's over your lap ready for a spanking!;)

The feeling of having that person under your control, rewarding them when they're good and punishing them when they're bad! Such a turn on.

So subs make yourself known with a picture of a nicely spanked bottom so we can show our appreciation.

And yes this is also a ploy for me to find a submissive woman! Mwhahaha "

I do! But I prefer it if she's gone submissive (temporarily) because of how I make her feel.. rather than her default setting. And because I've teased her mercilessly.. repeatedly giving her almost what she wanted.. rather than demanding and controlling..

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Come on chaps or ladies who doesn't love a submissive woman

Going to make myself even more of an unpopular oddball here...

I DON'T

I like my women to be my equal in life and in the bedroom. I can come across as a bit Dom, but actually I am just a Leo so a bit bossy, if a woman wants her arse spanked I am happy to oblige but only if they ask as an equal."

Equal is good.

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By *itofamouthfull OP   Man  over a year ago

here and there

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By *itofamouthfull OP   Man  over a year ago

here and there

Is there any other submissive woman out there? Come on I'm ordering you to make yourselves known on here so we can admire you lol

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

i can be but its not how i am - im not dominant either really - more assertive - but willling to please - see what labels do to my brain

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By *hoenixAdAstraWoman  over a year ago

Hiding in the shadows

Hand up & spanked bottom pics on my profile

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By *ornylittlesubWoman  over a year ago

Grangemouth

Problem with being submissive, which I am(sexually I might add), is that I find most guys have no fekin idea what that means....no it DOESN'T mean servant/slave!

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

I miss having a good, long, well earned spanking, we can't since we moved, the neighbors can hear and complain, the first time they heard they apparently thought we were clapping so they asked me what was going on, that was an awkward conversation to say the least

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

With the greatest of respect, I think most females are slightly submissive, in varying degrees (just my own experience)

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

I love to spank while fucking doggy style, but the technique didn’t come to me straight away, for the first six months of spanking while fucking, o was using the ineffective "shut the draw" technique I was quite naive lol, then I found you get much more range of movement if you spank right hand to left cheek, and left hand to right cheek.

My god it's been a journey for me, I haven't always been a confidant dom, but it's nice to look back on my life, some of it is embarrassing and when I remember some of the things I didn't know, it's funny to me now

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By *itofamouthfull OP   Man  over a year ago

here and there


"Problem with being submissive, which I am(sexually I might add), is that I find most guys have no fekin idea what that means....no it DOESN'T mean servant/slave! "

Very True, nor does being dom mean that all you do is punish, (which most men seem to think it is) especially physically. it's the little things that keeps a sub happy, the way you hold them or speak to them or things like comforting them after they had to be punished, giving them a new toy to test or outfit to wear. And the big part that a lot of self proclaimed doms get wrong is that they think it's about sex (I admit I used to think this) but it's so much more than that! It's bloody hard work being a dom! lol

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Soft and sensual spanking I can get behind, not a fan of actual pain though. My pain threshold is super low

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Is there any other submissive woman out there? Come on I'm ordering you to make yourselves known on here so we can admire you lol"

Mrs J is slightly tempted.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Problem with being submissive, which I am(sexually I might add), is that I find most guys have no fekin idea what that means....no it DOESN'T mean servant/slave! "

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By *lkDomWhtSubBiCpleCouple  over a year ago

Somewhere / Everywhere /Kinksville

Sub here, but only to Sir. Amazing the guys that don't seem to understand the dynamic of this. Then again I'm talking about guys in clubs that we sometimes play with without conversation first. Being collared and chained I would have thought would have been an indicator, but several have spanked my arse while they're fucking me. They only do it once though

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"I'm more of a masochist than submissive, but yaaaaay to spankings "

Im same x

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Problem with being submissive, which I am(sexually I might add), is that I find most guys have no fekin idea what that means....no it DOESN'T mean servant/slave!

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman  over a year ago

evesham


"Problem with being submissive, which I am(sexually I might add), is that I find most guys have no fekin idea what that means....no it DOESN'T mean servant/slave! "

It also doesn't mean just anyone can spank me. As soon as any guy finds out you have a sub side they think it gives them free reign to spank you and demand you suck their cock.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Problem with being submissive, which I am(sexually I might add), is that I find most guys have no fekin idea what that means....no it DOESN'T mean servant/slave!

It also doesn't mean just anyone can spank me. As soon as any guy finds out you have a sub side they think it gives them free reign to spank you and demand you suck their cock. "

I suppose those people dont believe in respect and more a case of entitlement

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman  over a year ago

evesham


"Problem with being submissive, which I am(sexually I might add), is that I find most guys have no fekin idea what that means....no it DOESN'T mean servant/slave!

It also doesn't mean just anyone can spank me. As soon as any guy finds out you have a sub side they think it gives them free reign to spank you and demand you suck their cock.

I suppose those people dont believe in respect and more a case of entitlement "

They just don't understand how it works. They are also far more concerned with their own gratification often leaving me wanting a d not in a good way. I don't mind sexual torment and not being allowed to have gratification or being used for sex but to just expect me to suck your cock and then fuck off is not how it works lol

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Come on chaps or ladies who doesn't love a submissive woman

Going to make myself even more of an unpopular oddball here...

I DON'T

I like my women to be my equal in life and in the bedroom. I can come across as a bit Dom, but actually I am just a Leo so a bit bossy, if a woman wants her arse spanked I am happy to oblige but only if they ask as an equal."

Most men I've met think the same way as you do.......or at least they do with me as I'm not a sub...

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

And who's to say the rules state "oh you're a sub means I can smack your arse".

Granted there are different levels of sub/dom relationship but equally erotic is just the control aspect whilst in the bedroom by mutual respect.

Some people make assumptions wrongly

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

I do like to be spanked, but not in that porn star style. For me, it's like this: https://www.fabswingers.com/forum/stories/646033

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Problem with being submissive, which I am(sexually I might add), is that I find most guys have no fekin idea what that means....no it DOESN'T mean servant/slave!

It also doesn't mean just anyone can spank me. As soon as any guy finds out you have a sub side they think it gives them free reign to spank you and demand you suck their cock.

I suppose those people dont believe in respect and more a case of entitlement

They just don't understand how it works. They are also far more concerned with their own gratification often leaving me wanting a d not in a good way. I don't mind sexual torment and not being allowed to have gratification or being used for sex but to just expect me to suck your cock and then fuck off is not how it works lol "

Bastards lol

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Is there any other submissive woman out there? Come on I'm ordering you to make yourselves known on here so we can admire you lol"

Here

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Ive found most subs enjoy being spanked so this is a reward rather than a punishment,

I like the day to day dynamics of tasks and checking in, stimulation of the mind, finding out what they like about themselves and what they dont, helping them to feel more wanted and confident to explore new things

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Problem with being submissive, which I am(sexually I might add), is that I find most guys have no fekin idea what that means....no it DOESN'T mean servant/slave! "

This definitely so true

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By *olly sub4olderCouple  over a year ago

chester

im very submisive it turns me on big time x

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