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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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I love bareback as much as the next person
But when it comes to fab I'm
Worried about catching sti's ect.
Anyone else have this issue or caught anything before? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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most likely op you have fucked more people off fab bb than from fab
so most likely the chances are you would catch something off fab
and it only takes one |
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"Just as likely to catch an sti from someone who's not on fab...in fact probably more so as swingers tend to take their sexual health seriously."
Having seen some of the posts in the forums is seriously question that statement 
(OK, I know most do  ) |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Just as likely to catch an sti from someone who's not on fab...in fact probably more so as swingers tend to take their sexual health seriously.
Having seen some of the posts in the forums is seriously question that statement
(OK, I know most do ) "
your point is?  |
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"Just as likely to catch an sti from someone who's not on fab...in fact probably more so as swingers tend to take their sexual health seriously."
Depends what you are talking about. For stuff like HIV then yes because married men having affairs are shown to bareback more. For stuff like HPV or herpes then no because the risk is roughly proportional to the number of partners you have and swingers have more partners than their vanilla counterparts. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"If catching sti's worries you then the answer is pretty simple OP, don't do bareback!"
The answer is dont have sex at all. Even when practicing safer sex it's possible to transmit nasties.
So the solution.....do it in a full HAZMAT getup.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Just as likely to catch an sti from someone who's not on fab...in fact probably more so as swingers tend to take their sexual health seriously."
Hahahaha. As oppose to the non fabbers that all want aids  |
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Different diseases, different modes of infection, different catchabilities.
Viruses including HIV, Hep B, Hep C, HPV.
Bacteria good old traditional syphilis, gonorrhoea, chlamydia and just uti.
Do you still get crabs?
I'm surprised that we've managed to survive.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Different diseases, different modes of infection, different catchabilities.
Viruses including HIV, Hep B, Hep C, HPV.
Bacteria good old traditional syphilis, gonorrhoea, chlamydia and just uti.
Do you still get crabs?
I'm surprised that we've managed to survive.
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crabs are almost extinct due to most shaving  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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You can't beat the intimacy of flesh on flesh, that is true, but it's something I reserve for partners that I know well, trust, and I'm in a long term relationship with.
Unprotected sex is dangerous, end off |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Just as likely to catch an sti from someone who's not on fab...in fact probably more so as swingers tend to take their sexual health seriously."
Exactly this!
Went off to Vanilla land before Christmas, started seeing a woman exclusively, both agree to get tested so we can enjoy condom free sex.
I'm clean, and she actually had Chlamydia 
When pressed about her last test etc, she allegedly only slept with two people since been given an all clear test. When questioned about how could she have Chlamydia then, it turned out with the last guy she met the condom broke. Did she get checked? No, because she thought she would be ok |
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By *tranTV/TS
over a year ago
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There have been people on the forum and in chatroom talking about genital warts and the clap and coldsores they caught on here.
There have been people who have put their hiv status as positive on their profile and had up to 30 meets.
Having an std does not mean you will pass an std on.
Also people on here are higher risk than the general public. The risk goes up the more risk you take having sex. Swinging is obviously riskier than a normal person havine 2 sexual partners in a year. |
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It's like russian roulette....except you don't use a revolver.....or bullets.....or pass it round a table.....or have lots of people betting on you....or have errrr....actually it's nothing like russian roulette |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"It's like russian roulette....except you don't use a revolver.....or bullets.....or pass it round a table.....or have lots of people betting on you....or have errrr....actually it's nothing like russian roulette "
no
bareback is when you have your back waxed, resulting in bare ..bareback |
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"It's like russian roulette....except you don't use a revolver.....or bullets.....or pass it round a table.....or have lots of people betting on you....or have errrr....actually it's nothing like russian roulette
no
bareback is when you have your back waxed, resulting in bare ..bareback"
Or maybe you don't have it waxed, maybe you grow it out to a point where you look somewhat ursine from behind ....bearback  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I look at it this way.....
For me the whole purpose of being on the casual scene is to have an uncomplicated unemotional sex life with a minimum risk ....
I'm all my years on the swinging scene I've never encountered anyone who was so special that I might feel desperate enough to risk my heath and wellbeing just to have bareback sex with them ....
I'm not desperate for sex and there is no-way I will ever compromise my safer sex policy just to get a meet ,,,,
That's me .... that's all I've got
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By *orum TrollWoman
over a year ago
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nobody will admit to ever having had an STI, it'd be stupid of them to.
honestly. have bareback, use condoms, be honest before you meet about what you wanna do. and make sure to get tested so if you do catch something ti can at least be sorted out. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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When a man who has messaged me sounds paranoid about stis I know the sex is going to be awful. If he can't relax, because he thinks he's going to catch something every time he has sex with someone on here, he won't be the kind of sexual partner I need.
Then there's the ones who know your last test was clear and think it's ok to skip protection. Because we're both clean, yea? |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"When a man who has messaged me sounds paranoid about stis I know the sex is going to be awful. If he can't relax, because he thinks he's going to catch something every time he has sex with someone on here, he won't be the kind of sexual partner I need.
Then there's the ones who know your last test was clear and think it's ok to skip protection. Because we're both clean, yea? "
it might get the love bug from you, them pics are hot as |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"When a man who has messaged me sounds paranoid about stis I know the sex is going to be awful. If he can't relax, because he thinks he's going to catch something every time he has sex with someone on here, he won't be the kind of sexual partner I need.
Then there's the ones who know your last test was clear and think it's ok to skip protection. Because we're both clean, yea?
it might get the love bug from you, them pics are hot as "
You like my wallpaper  |
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