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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Ok a lady here who's just started anal. Love fingers love tongue but cock is so painful. I've done lube can get the cock in slowly but can't fuck yet ... advise please. Think this is one where female advise is needed  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Keep at it its a lengthy process I would advise getting a few small toys to help vibrating ones can help stimulate you and help you relax more and make it easier listen to each other and trust each other it does feel like you are trying to have a poo when its in but waiting a bit more and playing with other parts makes it easier also try different positions hope this has helped some   |
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By *andsonjohnMan
over a year ago
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I heard this line in top of the lake last night
I'm not dating a teenage boy there so strung out on internet porn they only want to fuck you in the arse most of my girlfriends with boyfriends are still virgins because there've never had there pussy fucked .
Don't know why I posted that but its the first thing that came into my mind on reading your post  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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What Minxy said plus:
Douche. You'll be more relaxed if you are confident there won't be mess.
Make sure you are REALLY turned on - helps with relaxation and there's been lots of lubey play beforehand. Touching, rubbing etc.
Remember it's a different type of muscle, so it needs time to stretch and then stays stretched for a bit. Just continuing to shove won't work - bit at a time.
Push back a bit like you are doing a poo as he slowly enters. It helps you open up.
Toys are harder than penises - so small toys may feel a lot more uncomfortable than a penis.
Patience, lube, relaxation, the right partner and practice are key.
When done right can be amazing. Enjoy! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I find that silk lube helps and patience it used to hurt me with just a small dildo but now I can take a lengthy girth plus poppers every now and again doesn't hurt just not all the time haha x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Maybe OP it's not for you though.
You shouldn't push yourself if your mind and body says no its for a reason.
But its your choice if you want a cock up your ring or not so good luck whatever you decide to do. |
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Ive always used jay-lube it comes in powder form and you mix it to what you think is best
Try havibg a clean out you will be more confident knowing there wont be A mess to clean and lots of foreplay and try toys used a buttplug or a toy you prefer  good luck and take it slow |
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The best advice I can give you is you stay in control. Get your partner to line everything up but he doesn't insert his penis. You push back onto him at your pace. Go slowly and get used to a little bit before you push back further. Keep going until he is fully inside you and just stay that way for a while. Your body will adjust to him and relax. When you feel ready try moving a little, again don't let him move, you set the pace.
If it doesn't work out have another go some other time but don't allow your partner to try and pressure you into it. You will never relax properly if this happens.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Maybe OP it's not for you though.
You shouldn't push yourself if your mind and body says no its for a reason.
But its your choice if you want a cock up your ring or not so good luck whatever you decide to do. "
you're funny |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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With someone you trust and build up to it, it's good with lots of lube. But do try some small toys to get used the sensation of it. Being very turned on will help you relax and trusting your partner to know if you say that's enough he will stop.
But once you're used to it , it can be very nice x |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Maybe OP it's not for you though.
You shouldn't push yourself if your mind and body says no its for a reason.
But its your choice if you want a cock up your ring or not so good luck whatever you decide to do. you're funny "
But right.No one should feel pressurised into anything. |
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