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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Ok...I'll set the scene. ..single woman here with grown up children(oldest 27)...anyway basically I saw a guy online (fb)advertising gardening services so messaged him and arranged for him to come over and tidy up the garden...daughter was home and when I got home from work he was still there. ..great job , paid and off he went happy happy! !..anywayyy this morning he messages me via fb asking if everything was ok with the garden and where in my town was good for a drink (he lives 10 miles away )..then he asks me out for a drink! !!...after a few more flirty messages between ourselves I point out he's in a relationship. ..he says she wouldn't know and doesn't live with her so could pop over anytime! !.. He's 28 fit as fuck and good looking ...I did say that he was attached and I was flattered and the reply back was the offers still there ...was I a good girl or should I have just gone for it? ...   |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Well the fact I'm thinking about it makes me feel naughty! !...I mean he's 28 and I'm old enough to be his mum. ..I wasn't like thinking omg no youre attached! !!...  |
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I guess you ask yourself how would you feel if you had a partner and he was cheating on you ?
Rest assured you won't be the only person he's trying it on with.
Feel sorry for his partner really, he should get her into swinging or let her find a honest guy |
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By *anky_PankyWoman
over a year ago
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If you want to do it OP then go for it - the relationship stuff is his choice at the end of the day.
If your doubts are too many then don't as you could regret it.
However you only live once!
Good luck eitherway xx |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"How would you feel after having a drink with an attached guy? Your instinct was to say no after all"
Yeah. ..my instinct was to say no. .I think he just wants the posh older bird thing! ! |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I guess you ask yourself how would you feel if you had a partner and he was cheating on you ?
Rest assured you won't be the only person he's trying it on with.
Feel sorry for his partner really, he should get her into swinging or let her find a honest guy"
Sam that's what I thought! ...and I would be devastated to be cheated on. .  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"If you want to do it OP then go for it - the relationship stuff is his choice at the end of the day.
If your doubts are too many then don't as you could regret it.
However you only live once!
Good luck eitherway xx"
Yeah you only live once!!..it's him that's in a relationship and it's not everyday a 28 year old wants a fuck with me lol |
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Id say be careful if his girl finds his phone and starts texting you about why your flirting with her man then you could find yourself in middle of something really bad all for the sake of a bit of fun. Poor girl really. |
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"Id say be careful if his girl finds his phone and starts texting you about why your flirting with her man then you could find yourself in middle of something really bad all for the sake of a bit of fun. Poor girl really."
But if your cool with it then do it as you say not every day a young buck wants a fuck from you xx |
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By *c-ukMan
over a year ago
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Just explain to him that you are uncomfortable that he is in a relationship so this is just a one time offer for some dirty, gratuitous, hard core, filthy, leave your clothes at the door sex
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"If you want to do it OP then go for it - the relationship stuff is his choice at the end of the day.
If your doubts are too many then don't as you could regret it.
However you only live once!
Good luck eitherway xx
Yeah you only live once!!..it's him that's in a relationship and it's not everyday a 28 year old wants a fuck with me lol"
If you lowered your age filters i'm sure lots of younger men would come knocking  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Just explain to him that you are uncomfortable that he is in a relationship so this is just a one time offer for some dirty, gratuitous, hard core, filthy, leave your clothes at the door sex
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I did say I wasn't happy with him being attached and if things changed I would. .lol x |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"If you want to do it OP then go for it - the relationship stuff is his choice at the end of the day.
If your doubts are too many then don't as you could regret it.
However you only live once!
Good luck eitherway xx
Yeah you only live once!!..it's him that's in a relationship and it's not everyday a 28 year old wants a fuck with me lol
If you lowered your age filters i'm sure lots of younger men would come knocking "
My filters are always changing. ..it's also the fact I've got a son that age! !... |
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"I guess you ask yourself how would you feel if you had a partner and he was cheating on you ?
Rest assured you won't be the only person he's trying it on with.
Feel sorry for his partner really, he should get her into swinging or let her find a honest guy"
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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First rule of any business don't mix it with pleasure!
He's being a dick approaching his customers in this manner, which means he'll probably be sloppy covering the cheating trail resulting in him getting caught out.
I'd say thanks but no thanks.... |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"First rule of any business don't mix it with pleasure!
He's being a dick approaching his customers in this manner, which means he'll probably be sloppy covering the cheating trail resulting in him getting caught out.
I'd say thanks but no thanks.... "
Yeah... bit stupid really ...guess I was flattered by the offer x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"First rule of any business don't mix it with pleasure!
He's being a dick approaching his customers in this manner, which means he'll probably be sloppy covering the cheating trail resulting in him getting caught out.
I'd say thanks but no thanks.... "
This would be my stance too. And I wouldn't have him back to do the garden either. |
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"First rule of any business don't mix it with pleasure!
He's being a dick approaching his customers in this manner, which means he'll probably be sloppy covering the cheating trail resulting in him getting caught out.
I'd say thanks but no thanks....
Yeah... bit stupid really ...guess I was flattered by the offer x"
I'd just say go with your gut.
Best of luck. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"First rule of any business don't mix it with pleasure!
He's being a dick approaching his customers in this manner, which means he'll probably be sloppy covering the cheating trail resulting in him getting caught out.
I'd say thanks but no thanks....
This would be my stance too. And I wouldn't have him back to do the garden either. "
He did a really good job! !!,lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"First rule of any business don't mix it with pleasure!
He's being a dick approaching his customers in this manner, which means he'll probably be sloppy covering the cheating trail resulting in him getting caught out.
I'd say thanks but no thanks....
This would be my stance too. And I wouldn't have him back to do the garden either.
He did a really good job! !!,lol "
Shame he's not very bright when it comes to business sense then. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"First rule of any business don't mix it with pleasure!
He's being a dick approaching his customers in this manner, which means he'll probably be sloppy covering the cheating trail resulting in him getting caught out.
I'd say thanks but no thanks....
This would be my stance too. And I wouldn't have him back to do the garden either.
He did a really good job! !!,lol
Shame he's not very bright when it comes to business sense then. "
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By *oodmessMan
over a year ago
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He will no doubt get found out either on fb, his phone or by one of his or her friends telling her. He'll get followed to your address and you'll get your pampas grass torn up.
People who are that forward with their customers aren't usually the brightest sparks when it comes to discretion - unless you like it like that. |
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"Do what you want to do. He's probably a fan of D.H. Lawrence.
Haha ...well I am too x"
In truth it wouldn't be for me. I would assume that he's a player with scant respect for women. I don't want people like that in my life. I'd imagine him bragging to his mates and feel a bit sort of grubby.
I might be way off the mark of course but only you can know that. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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You're obviously promiscuous as your membership and verifications on this site proves, so you've missed out.
You're looking for no strings sex and it basically turned up on your doorstep gift wrapped and looking delicious.
Oh well, suppose you've always got the 94% of dross to wade through on here to possibly find a guy that's just like him
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Do what you want to do. He's probably a fan of D.H. Lawrence.
Haha ...well I am too x
In truth it wouldn't be for me. I would assume that he's a player with scant respect for women. I don't want people like that in my life. I'd imagine him bragging to his mates and feel a bit sort of grubby.
I might be way off the mark of course but only you can know that."
Totally how I see it! ! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I can understand why you are interested, I can even say if it was me I would be too!
However, when a similar chance arose and it came to it, I backed out because of the whole secrecy thing and what would happen if it all blew out of proportion etc etc. |
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but thats me and it's your decision.
I would have had him but not let any emotion get involved. 
