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I used to prefer giving, I wasn't all that fussed about blow jobs but love making a woman squirm with delight.
However, I've started to enjoy them now, I never used to be able to cum from a bj but I can now.
So I guess I like them both equally. Anyone fancy a 69 while I'm balancing on this fence. |
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over a year ago
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"Is it just me that thinks this is a pointless question? "
Thats why i put in about a nice long slow BJ to unwind after a hard shift.
Never know if somone will offer :p 
Knowing my luck though it will be Clem  |
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give deff , lie him back nice long slow deep suck plenty of teasing with the tongue nibbles and licks , keeping eye contact mmmm i love it fill my mouth mmmmm could suck all night me haha my veris prove i good |
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"Giving. I'm not the greatest fan of recieving oral... Unless they are very good at it.
Im exactly the same."
If they are not good, it just gets really awkward haha. And I'm praying they will stop and get the fuck off  |
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"Giving. I'm not the greatest fan of recieving oral... Unless they are very good at it.
Im exactly the same.
If they are not good, it just gets really awkward haha. And I'm praying they will stop and get the fuck off "
Haha.. im glad im not the only woman who feels this way. I sometimes let my mind go off and it begins thinking about doing the washing, or what im going to wear to work tomorrow. Some men do not notice we are not responding, its like they are in their own little world  |
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"Giving. I'm not the greatest fan of recieving oral... Unless they are very good at it.
Im exactly the same.
If they are not good, it just gets really awkward haha. And I'm praying they will stop and get the fuck off
Haha.. im glad im not the only woman who feels this way. I sometimes let my mind go off and it begins thinking about doing the washing, or what im going to wear to work tomorrow. Some men do not notice we are not responding, its like they are in their own little world "
Me too! Haha. It gets to the point where I'm physically pulling their head up. I've even had to admit that it's just not doing it for me. Some try even harder then, which only makes it worse. |
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"Giving. I'm not the greatest fan of recieving oral... Unless they are very good at it.
Im exactly the same.
If they are not good, it just gets really awkward haha. And I'm praying they will stop and get the fuck off
Haha.. im glad im not the only woman who feels this way. I sometimes let my mind go off and it begins thinking about doing the washing, or what im going to wear to work tomorrow. Some men do not notice we are not responding, its like they are in their own little world
Me too! Haha. It gets to the point where I'm physically pulling their head up. I've even had to admit that it's just not doing it for me. Some try even harder then, which only makes it worse. "
Haha.. i feel relieved its not just me that feels this way.
So funny - bless em |
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"Giving. I'm not the greatest fan of recieving oral... Unless they are very good at it.
Im exactly the same.
If they are not good, it just gets really awkward haha. And I'm praying they will stop and get the fuck off
Haha.. im glad im not the only woman who feels this way. I sometimes let my mind go off and it begins thinking about doing the washing, or what im going to wear to work tomorrow. Some men do not notice we are not responding, its like they are in their own little world
Me too! Haha. It gets to the point where I'm physically pulling their head up. I've even had to admit that it's just not doing it for me. Some try even harder then, which only makes it worse.
Haha.. i feel relieved its not just me that feels this way.
So funny - bless em "
Weren't you 2 ever told it's the thought that counts.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Giving. I'm not the greatest fan of recieving oral... Unless they are very good at it.
Im exactly the same.
If they are not good, it just gets really awkward haha. And I'm praying they will stop and get the fuck off
Haha.. im glad im not the only woman who feels this way. I sometimes let my mind go off and it begins thinking about doing the washing, or what im going to wear to work tomorrow. Some men do not notice we are not responding, its like they are in their own little world
Me too! Haha. It gets to the point where I'm physically pulling their head up. I've even had to admit that it's just not doing it for me. Some try even harder then, which only makes it worse. "
Out of morbid curiosity here why not just say something?
Or tell them where/what you want them to do.
This seems pike a guy getting a teeth scraping BJ and just waiting till shes done rather than speaking up |
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Weren't you 2 ever told it's the thought that counts. "
Everyone has there own preferences, some give to receive, some just want to give and some just want to receive.
I love to give and receive and I'm very lucky that I'm in a place where my OH also enjoys both. From my perspective if a partner wasn't into receiving I would be interested to find out why?? Although I know that it would be a tricky subject to approach.
Is it a problem with what I am doing?? Is it just the whole scenario that they are uncomfortable with?? I'd be willing to take instruction to improve my skills!! I totally understand that out of all the things that happen during sexy time this is the most intimate time you have with your partner during which all of our vulnerabilities are most exposed.
But that's just my thoughts  |
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"Giving. I'm not the greatest fan of recieving oral... Unless they are very good at it.
Im exactly the same.
If they are not good, it just gets really awkward haha. And I'm praying they will stop and get the fuck off
Haha.. im glad im not the only woman who feels this way. I sometimes let my mind go off and it begins thinking about doing the washing, or what im going to wear to work tomorrow. Some men do not notice we are not responding, its like they are in their own little world
Me too! Haha. It gets to the point where I'm physically pulling their head up. I've even had to admit that it's just not doing it for me. Some try even harder then, which only makes it worse.
Out of morbid curiosity here why not just say something?
Or tell them where/what you want them to do.
This seems pike a guy getting a teeth scraping BJ and just waiting till shes done rather than speaking up"
I've tried in the past. Some don't take instruction well. Some get defensive and say that other women loved it, so the problem must be me ( they could be right, given the intimacy issues I have). In a loving relationship I am very forthcoming about what I like  |
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"Giving. I'm not the greatest fan of recieving oral... Unless they are very good at it.
Im exactly the same.
If they are not good, it just gets really awkward haha. And I'm praying they will stop and get the fuck off
Obviously not been doing it right give me a try xx
Haha.. im glad im not the only woman who feels this way. I sometimes let my mind go off and it begins thinking about doing the washing, or what im going to wear to work tomorrow. Some men do not notice we are not responding, its like they are in their own little world "
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I love receiving a very wet saliva bj with lots of ball sucking, then change positions, lay on the bed & let the lady ride my tongue as we finish round one off in a 69.
Heaven is having both your balls sucked by 2 ladies at the same time, then having 2 mouths on your cock.
That would be a strong contender for my perfect groundhog day |
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"Actually much prefer to give oral.
Takes a very talented mouth for me to enjoy receiving oral as much as I enjoy giving. "
This for me too.
You hear ladies complain that not many men are good at giving head,and i'm afraid it can be the same for us too... |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Actually much prefer to give oral.
Takes a very talented mouth for me to enjoy receiving oral as much as I enjoy giving.
You haven't met me "
Is that an offer? 
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"Give. Never got anything out of a blowjob. They're rubbish. see this is how I feel "
Its understandable, were all different and its the same with women. Some love oral some would prefer cake.
Have you just never been given an amazing blow job .. or it just does nothing for you? what if the woman was sucking you off and fingering your ass at the same time .. or how about a 69? Do you like that? |
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