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By *ink Panther. OP   Woman  over a year ago

Preston

I'm confused by the whole attention seeking, I would say if you're on this site to a certain degree you're attention seeking. I enjoy interacting with ppl on the forum and getting to know them a bit. I like ppl and some on here I've got to know quite well and I enjoy their company a lot. It makes interacting with them on the forum more fun. As for unsolicited messages (attention) that was becoming too much so I've hidden my profile, problem solved. So I'm only forum "attention seeking" which is perfect I like interacting.

Now here's what I don't understand, I see others posting they are just here for the forum. They complain about getting too much attention yet post prolifically, don't hide their profile and display public pics.

So why complain? Surely they are attracting the attention to their profile? They're attention seeking aren't they? There are ways to decrease the level of attention so why not do it?

Not so easy if you're actually looking to meet, it helps if ppl can see your profile . In this instance, can you manipulate the messages to a certain degree by the way you present your profile?

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

I tried fabbing your pics op.

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By *rincess peachWoman  over a year ago

shits creek

I agree to a degree. I enjoy the attention I want (forum stuff) and the messages I get from other forumites but I can't say I enjoy 859 "hi"

(and the other bollocks) messages sat in my box. So I ignore them as I can't be arsed to deal with them. Can't have it all.

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By *ink Panther. OP   Woman  over a year ago

Preston


"I tried fabbing your pics op. "

FAF instead?

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By *icassolifelikeMan  over a year ago

Luton


"I agree to a degree. I enjoy the attention I want (forum stuff) and the messages I get from other forumites but I can't say I enjoy 859 "hi"

(and the other bollocks) messages sat in my box. So I ignore them as I can't be arsed to deal with them. Can't have it all. "

860

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By *ink Panther. OP   Woman  over a year ago

Preston


"I agree to a degree. I enjoy the attention I want (forum stuff) and the messages I get from other forumites but I can't say I enjoy 859 "hi"

(and the other bollocks) messages sat in my box. So I ignore them as I can't be arsed to deal with them. Can't have it all. "

I love your philosophy, take the rough with the smooth

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By *ink Panther. OP   Woman  over a year ago

Preston


"I agree to a degree. I enjoy the attention I want (forum stuff) and the messages I get from other forumites but I can't say I enjoy 859 "hi"

(and the other bollocks) messages sat in my box. So I ignore them as I can't be arsed to deal with them. Can't have it all.

860 "

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"I agree to a degree. I enjoy the attention I want (forum stuff) and the messages I get from other forumites but I can't say I enjoy 859 "hi"

(and the other bollocks) messages sat in my box. So I ignore them as I can't be arsed to deal with them. Can't have it all. "

861

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By *ink Panther. OP   Woman  over a year ago

Preston


"I agree to a degree. I enjoy the attention I want (forum stuff) and the messages I get from other forumites but I can't say I enjoy 859 "hi"

(and the other bollocks) messages sat in my box. So I ignore them as I can't be arsed to deal with them. Can't have it all.

861 "

Stop it she's going to be mad with me

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

I suppose we all do to a degree. Though being a couple we don't get the same degree of attention due to filters. X

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By *rincess peachWoman  over a year ago

shits creek


"I agree to a degree. I enjoy the attention I want (forum stuff) and the messages I get from other forumites but I can't say I enjoy 859 "hi"

(and the other bollocks) messages sat in my box. So I ignore them as I can't be arsed to deal with them. Can't have it all.

861

Stop it she's going to be mad with me "

All is forgiven.

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By *yrdwomanWoman  over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum


"So why complain? Surely they are attracting the attention to their profile? They're attention seeking aren't they? There are ways to decrease the level of attention so why not do it?"

They protest too much, methinks.

They're not complaining, per se. reverse psychology enables them to get more views by complaining about the views they get. They're hoping people will think 'wow, they get so many messages they're complaining. They must be awesome people, so I will message them.'.

If people really don't want to be messaged, they do like you and I do, OP. They put their filters on and hide their profile. If they haven't, they want the messages.

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By *ink Panther. OP   Woman  over a year ago

Preston


"I suppose we all do to a degree. Though being a couple we don't get the same degree of attention due to filters. X "

There you go you use filters to stop unwanted attention

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By *ink Panther. OP   Woman  over a year ago

Preston


"I agree to a degree. I enjoy the attention I want (forum stuff) and the messages I get from other forumites but I can't say I enjoy 859 "hi"

(and the other bollocks) messages sat in my box. So I ignore them as I can't be arsed to deal with them. Can't have it all.

861

Stop it she's going to be mad with me

All is forgiven. "

Phew I was nearly off to find Lisa

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By *ink Panther. OP   Woman  over a year ago

Preston


"So why complain? Surely they are attracting the attention to their profile? They're attention seeking aren't they? There are ways to decrease the level of attention so why not do it?

They protest too much, methinks.

They're not complaining, per se. reverse psychology enables them to get more views by complaining about the views they get. They're hoping people will think 'wow, they get so many messages they're complaining. They must be awesome people, so I will message them.'.

If people really don't want to be messaged, they do like you and I do, OP. They put their filters on and hide their profile. If they haven't, they want the messages."

I can't really add anything to that

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By *abs..Woman  over a year ago

..

I don't generally seek out attention. I have pics and people look, so in that respect I do. Other than that I slip by unnoticed mostly.

If I don't want people looking then I hide. It works for me

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By *ink Panther. OP   Woman  over a year ago

Preston


"I don't generally seek out attention. I have pics and people look, so in that respect I do. Other than that I slip by unnoticed mostly.

If I don't want people looking then I hide. It works for me "

Hide rather than start a thread about it, seems sensible to me

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Sorry - i'm leaving in a few days but not really as i'm just trying to attention seek and maybe get a simpathy vote!

Must say I really hate this when it turns up in the latest status

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"I agree to a degree. I enjoy the attention I want (forum stuff) and the messages I get from other forumites but I can't say I enjoy 859 "hi"

(and the other bollocks) messages sat in my box. So I ignore them as I can't be arsed to deal with them. Can't have it all. "

Like movie stars. Some of the good stuff along with the bad stuff. Do you feel like a movie star on FAB?

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By *yrdwomanWoman  over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum


"Sorry - i'm leaving in a few days but not really as i'm just trying to attention seek and maybe get a simpathy vote!"

Ah yes, the zenith of attention seeking.

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By *ink Panther. OP   Woman  over a year ago

Preston


"Sorry - i'm leaving in a few days but not really as i'm just trying to attention seek and maybe get a simpathy vote!

Must say I really hate this when it turns up in the latest status"

I don't mind that, I do get that ppl get frustrated sometimes and it's just their way of expressing it

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By *ink Panther. OP   Woman  over a year ago

Preston


"I agree to a degree. I enjoy the attention I want (forum stuff) and the messages I get from other forumites but I can't say I enjoy 859 "hi"

(and the other bollocks) messages sat in my box. So I ignore them as I can't be arsed to deal with them. Can't have it all.

Like movie stars. Some of the good stuff along with the bad stuff. Do you feel like a movie star on FAB? "

She should be, omg I'd pay to see her on the big screen

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By *rincess peachWoman  over a year ago

shits creek


"I agree to a degree. I enjoy the attention I want (forum stuff) and the messages I get from other forumites but I can't say I enjoy 859 "hi"

(and the other bollocks) messages sat in my box. So I ignore them as I can't be arsed to deal with them. Can't have it all.

Like movie stars. Some of the good stuff along with the bad stuff. Do you feel like a movie star on FAB? "

Ha! Not quite. Possibly a soap opera extra at best

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Sorry - i'm leaving in a few days but not really as i'm just trying to attention seek and maybe get a simpathy vote!

Must say I really hate this when it turns up in the latest status

I don't mind that, I do get that ppl get frustrated sometimes and it's just their way of expressing it "

Going to be honest and open myself up to some abuse but .....

I must say I have sort of kept a count down before and when it runs out just message and say "we'll go on - it's d day, you said you were going"

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By *ink Panther. OP   Woman  over a year ago

Preston


"I agree to a degree. I enjoy the attention I want (forum stuff) and the messages I get from other forumites but I can't say I enjoy 859 "hi"

(and the other bollocks) messages sat in my box. So I ignore them as I can't be arsed to deal with them. Can't have it all.

Like movie stars. Some of the good stuff along with the bad stuff. Do you feel like a movie star on FAB?

Ha! Not quite. Possibly a soap opera extra at best "

I could see you in a soap opera

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By *rincess peachWoman  over a year ago

shits creek


"I agree to a degree. I enjoy the attention I want (forum stuff) and the messages I get from other forumites but I can't say I enjoy 859 "hi"

(and the other bollocks) messages sat in my box. So I ignore them as I can't be arsed to deal with them. Can't have it all.

Like movie stars. Some of the good stuff along with the bad stuff. Do you feel like a movie star on FAB?

She should be, omg I'd pay to see her on the big screen "

Porn or fly on the wall documentary into my life?

Oh... that's pretty much porn too.

I ain't that bad really!

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By *ink Panther. OP   Woman  over a year ago

Preston


"Sorry - i'm leaving in a few days but not really as i'm just trying to attention seek and maybe get a simpathy vote!

Must say I really hate this when it turns up in the latest status

I don't mind that, I do get that ppl get frustrated sometimes and it's just their way of expressing it

Going to be honest and open myself up to some abuse but .....

I must say I have sort of kept a count down before and when it runs out just message and say "we'll go on - it's d day, you said you were going" "

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By *rincess peachWoman  over a year ago

shits creek


"I agree to a degree. I enjoy the attention I want (forum stuff) and the messages I get from other forumites but I can't say I enjoy 859 "hi"

(and the other bollocks) messages sat in my box. So I ignore them as I can't be arsed to deal with them. Can't have it all.

Like movie stars. Some of the good stuff along with the bad stuff. Do you feel like a movie star on FAB?

Ha! Not quite. Possibly a soap opera extra at best

I could see you in a soap opera "

"Get outta my pub"

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"I agree to a degree. I enjoy the attention I want (forum stuff) and the messages I get from other forumites but I can't say I enjoy 859 "hi"

(and the other bollocks) messages sat in my box. So I ignore them as I can't be arsed to deal with them. Can't have it all.

Like movie stars. Some of the good stuff along with the bad stuff. Do you feel like a movie star on FAB?

Ha! Not quite. Possibly a soap opera extra at best "

I need a supporting actress for a film I want to make.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Foo many men too little women...

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

People that complain about attention are often trying to increase the attention that comes there way because what they have is never enough.

That and they want to draw attention to the face that they, or a particular picture, is popular

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Most of my messages come from the forums or people from my friends list, I don't get many unsolicited mail.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

I'll bring refreshments

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


" I'll bring refreshments "

Which made no sense as I forgot to quote

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By *rincess peachWoman  over a year ago

shits creek


"I agree to a degree. I enjoy the attention I want (forum stuff) and the messages I get from other forumites but I can't say I enjoy 859 "hi"

(and the other bollocks) messages sat in my box. So I ignore them as I can't be arsed to deal with them. Can't have it all.

Like movie stars. Some of the good stuff along with the bad stuff. Do you feel like a movie star on FAB?

Ha! Not quite. Possibly a soap opera extra at best

I need a supporting actress for a film I want to make. "

What's the pay like? I don't come cheap ya know. Jaffa cakes and a glass of Bailey's is my absolute lowest.

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By *ink Panther. OP   Woman  over a year ago

Preston


" I'll bring refreshments

Which made no sense as I forgot to quote "

Try again

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

I like attention from the people I like. I enjoy hanging around the forums and posting topics and commenting on things because I genuinely love the interactions here. So yeah I actively seek attention here.

With regards to profiles I see mine more as my shop window for people I dont encounter here. The amount of attention I want in that regard varies so my profile varies.

Everyone like to feel special likes and we all came here looking for something and I dont think it was to hide away and not be seen in any way.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"I agree to a degree. I enjoy the attention I want (forum stuff) and the messages I get from other forumites but I can't say I enjoy 859 "hi"

(and the other bollocks) messages sat in my box. So I ignore them as I can't be arsed to deal with them. Can't have it all.

Like movie stars. Some of the good stuff along with the bad stuff. Do you feel like a movie star on FAB?

Ha! Not quite. Possibly a soap opera extra at best

I need a supporting actress for a film I want to make.

What's the pay like? I don't come cheap ya know. Jaffa cakes and a glass of Bailey's is my absolute lowest."

We'll discuss your rates on my sofa, ignore the teeth marks on the arms. And you might want to turn the cushions over.

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By *ady LickWoman  over a year ago

Northampton Somewhere

I'm not going to lie I like the attention I get from here!! I update my status and add pics regularly so I come up on people's updates. I'm mainly interested in my local feed because I'm looking for local playmates.

I don't interact on the forums as much as I used to because most people are miles away and I get ignored most of the time anyway

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"I'm not going to lie I like the attention I get from here!! I update my status and add pics regularly so I come up on people's updates. I'm mainly interested in my local feed because I'm looking for local playmates.

I don't interact on the forums as much as I used to because most people are miles away and I get ignored most of the time anyway "

10 miles away

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By *rincess peachWoman  over a year ago

shits creek


"I agree to a degree. I enjoy the attention I want (forum stuff) and the messages I get from other forumites but I can't say I enjoy 859 "hi"

(and the other bollocks) messages sat in my box. So I ignore them as I can't be arsed to deal with them. Can't have it all.

Like movie stars. Some of the good stuff along with the bad stuff. Do you feel like a movie star on FAB?

Ha! Not quite. Possibly a soap opera extra at best

I need a supporting actress for a film I want to make.

What's the pay like? I don't come cheap ya know. Jaffa cakes and a glass of Bailey's is my absolute lowest.

We'll discuss your rates on my sofa, ignore the teeth marks on the arms. And you might want to turn the cushions over. "

Hmmmm sounds a little too posh for me

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

If I wanted bloody attention I'd put my face picture up.....oh shit I have

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


".

Now here's what I don't understand, I see others posting they are just here for the forum. They complain about getting too much attention yet post prolifically, don't hide their profile and display public pics.

"

Who?

Without knowing who to go and check thier "attention seeking" and "complaining" its going to be impossible to amswer.

Tbh ive not seen anyone complaining about attention

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"I agree to a degree. I enjoy the attention I want (forum stuff) and the messages I get from other forumites but I can't say I enjoy 859 "hi"

(and the other bollocks) messages sat in my box. So I ignore them as I can't be arsed to deal with them. Can't have it all.

Like movie stars. Some of the good stuff along with the bad stuff. Do you feel like a movie star on FAB?

Ha! Not quite. Possibly a soap opera extra at best

I need a supporting actress for a film I want to make.

What's the pay like? I don't come cheap ya know. Jaffa cakes and a glass of Bailey's is my absolute lowest.

We'll discuss your rates on my sofa, ignore the teeth marks on the arms. And you might want to turn the cushions over.

Hmmmm sounds a little too posh for me "

I'm convinced. You've got the part. .

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By *rincess peachWoman  over a year ago

shits creek


"I agree to a degree. I enjoy the attention I want (forum stuff) and the messages I get from other forumites but I can't say I enjoy 859 "hi"

(and the other bollocks) messages sat in my box. So I ignore them as I can't be arsed to deal with them. Can't have it all.

Like movie stars. Some of the good stuff along with the bad stuff. Do you feel like a movie star on FAB?

Ha! Not quite. Possibly a soap opera extra at best

I need a supporting actress for a film I want to make.

What's the pay like? I don't come cheap ya know. Jaffa cakes and a glass of Bailey's is my absolute lowest.

We'll discuss your rates on my sofa, ignore the teeth marks on the arms. And you might want to turn the cushions over.

Hmmmm sounds a little too posh for me

I'm convinced. You've got the part. . "

Oooo I'll be a Hollywood star in no time

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By *ink Panther. OP   Woman  over a year ago

Preston


"I like attention from the people I like. I enjoy hanging around the forums and posting topics and commenting on things because I genuinely love the interactions here. So yeah I actively seek attention here.

With regards to profiles I see mine more as my shop window for people I dont encounter here. The amount of attention I want in that regard varies so my profile varies.

Everyone like to feel special likes and we all came here looking for something and I dont think it was to hide away and not be seen in any way. "

Actively seeking attention

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By *ink Panther. OP   Woman  over a year ago

Preston


"I'm not going to lie I like the attention I get from here!! I update my status and add pics regularly so I come up on people's updates. I'm mainly interested in my local feed because I'm looking for local playmates.

I don't interact on the forums as much as I used to because most people are miles away and I get ignored most of the time anyway "

Come for a chat on the chat thread

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By *ink Panther. OP   Woman  over a year ago

Preston


"If I wanted bloody attention I'd put my face picture up.....oh shit I have "

There's always one

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By *ink Panther. OP   Woman  over a year ago

Preston


".

Now here's what I don't understand, I see others posting they are just here for the forum. They complain about getting too much attention yet post prolifically, don't hide their profile and display public pics.

Who?

Without knowing who to go and check thier "attention seeking" and "complaining" its going to be impossible to amswer.

Tbh ive not seen anyone complaining about attention "

I'll message you when I have an example

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By *rightonsteveMan  over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

Me and my new toilet photo

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Everybody who's on the Forum is an attention seeker, to varying degrees and for varying reasons, and there's nothing wrong with that.

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By *ink Panther. OP   Woman  over a year ago

Preston


"Me and my new toilet photo "

I've even fab'd it for your blatant attention seeking

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By *ink Panther. OP   Woman  over a year ago

Preston


"Everybody who's on the Forum is an attention seeker, to varying degrees and for varying reasons, and there's nothing wrong with that. "

Correct, embrace it

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By *ady LickWoman  over a year ago

Northampton Somewhere


"I'm not going to lie I like the attention I get from here!! I update my status and add pics regularly so I come up on people's updates. I'm mainly interested in my local feed because I'm looking for local playmates.

I don't interact on the forums as much as I used to because most people are miles away and I get ignored most of the time anyway

Come for a chat on the chat thread "

I think I did @@@@@@@@@@@@

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Everybody who's on the Forum is an attention seeker, to varying degrees and for varying reasons, and there's nothing wrong with that.

Correct, embrace it "

But you women get 98% attention and us guys barely get 2% lol. lol

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

I never attention seek

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By *ink Panther. OP   Woman  over a year ago

Preston


"I'm not going to lie I like the attention I get from here!! I update my status and add pics regularly so I come up on people's updates. I'm mainly interested in my local feed because I'm looking for local playmates.

I don't interact on the forums as much as I used to because most people are miles away and I get ignored most of the time anyway

Come for a chat on the chat thread

I think I did @@@@@@@@@@@@"

You do realise we're now on part 7

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By *ink Panther. OP   Woman  over a year ago

Preston


"I never attention seek "

A white knight would never do such a thing

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

I think we are all attention seekers to a certain degree. Some more than others, I will admit. I enjoy the camaraderie on the forums and have got to chat to some lovely people ( men, women and couples) I would not normally come across in my locality. I enjoy the diversity of the forums. There are subjects for everyone. As for my profile, I state that I will do the searching. It keeps the amount of messages to a manageable amount. It also means I can ignore some messages and they can't get arsey about it

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Everybody who's on the Forum is an attention seeker, to varying degrees and for varying reasons, and there's nothing wrong with that.

Correct, embrace it "

Given half a chance!

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

I can't see the problem people have with others making threads. They scream "Attention seeker" when anyone asks a question or makes a point. It's pointless.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"If I wanted bloody attention I'd put my face picture up.....oh shit I have

There's always one "

Or two

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By *rightonsteveMan  over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!


"Me and my new toilet photo

I've even fab'd it for your blatant attention seeking "

So you did!

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By *loswingersCouple  over a year ago

Gloucester


"Everybody who's on the Forum is an attention seeker, to varying degrees and for varying reasons, and there's nothing wrong with that. "

Spot on

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"I can't see the problem people have with others making threads. They scream "Attention seeker" when anyone asks a question or makes a point. It's pointless. "

I make the odd thread for the simple fact nothing interests me enough to talk about on here. Fuck/avoid. Fab a pic. What music are you listening to? Same shore different day?

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By *ink Panther. OP   Woman  over a year ago

Preston


"I think we are all attention seekers to a certain degree. Some more than others, I will admit. I enjoy the camaraderie on the forums and have got to chat to some lovely people ( men, women and couples) I would not normally come across in my locality. I enjoy the diversity of the forums. There are subjects for everyone. As for my profile, I state that I will do the searching. It keeps the amount of messages to a manageable amount. It also means I can ignore some messages and they can't get arsey about it "

Using your profile to let others know you'll do the seeking perfect

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"I can't see the problem people have with others making threads. They scream "Attention seeker" when anyone asks a question or makes a point. It's pointless.

I make the odd thread for the simple fact nothing interests me enough to talk about on here. Fuck/avoid. Fab a pic. What music are you listening to? Same shore different day? "

I just like to see what others think. I'm actually quite interested in other people and their thoughts.

That's why I'm following the career I am

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"I agree to a degree. I enjoy the attention I want (forum stuff) and the messages I get from other forumites but I can't say I enjoy 859 "hi"

(and the other bollocks) messages sat in my box. So I ignore them as I can't be arsed to deal with them. Can't have it all.

Like movie stars. Some of the good stuff along with the bad stuff. Do you feel like a movie star on FAB?

Ha! Not quite. Possibly a soap opera extra at best

I need a supporting actress for a film I want to make.

What's the pay like? I don't come cheap ya know. Jaffa cakes and a glass of Bailey's is my absolute lowest."

You've upped your game, the other day it was just a KFC!

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

If we weren't all looking for some form of attention we wouldn't be here. Having accepted that for me it's highly unlikely to be sexual I just stick around for the weirdness

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By *rincess peachWoman  over a year ago

shits creek


"I agree to a degree. I enjoy the attention I want (forum stuff) and the messages I get from other forumites but I can't say I enjoy 859 "hi"

(and the other bollocks) messages sat in my box. So I ignore them as I can't be arsed to deal with them. Can't have it all.

Like movie stars. Some of the good stuff along with the bad stuff. Do you feel like a movie star on FAB?

Ha! Not quite. Possibly a soap opera extra at best

I need a supporting actress for a film I want to make.

What's the pay like? I don't come cheap ya know. Jaffa cakes and a glass of Bailey's is my absolute lowest.

You've upped your game, the other day it was just a KFC!"

I'm a Hollywood star now.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"I agree to a degree. I enjoy the attention I want (forum stuff) and the messages I get from other forumites but I can't say I enjoy 859 "hi"

(and the other bollocks) messages sat in my box. So I ignore them as I can't be arsed to deal with them. Can't have it all.

Like movie stars. Some of the good stuff along with the bad stuff. Do you feel like a movie star on FAB?

Ha! Not quite. Possibly a soap opera extra at best

I need a supporting actress for a film I want to make.

What's the pay like? I don't come cheap ya know. Jaffa cakes and a glass of Bailey's is my absolute lowest.

You've upped your game, the other day it was just a KFC!

I'm a Hollywood star now. "

Diva...

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

I'm not here for the attention, but hey while you're here, why not Fab some of my pics?

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By *ink Panther. OP   Woman  over a year ago

Preston


"I'm not here for the attention, but hey while you're here, why not Fab some of my pics? "

I'll squeeze your bum does that count?

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Wait. People get attention from posting on the forum?

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Wait. People get attention from posting on the forum? "

Some do. Wait, is this an attention seeking post?

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Wait. People get attention from posting on the forum?

Some do. Wait, is this an attention seeking post? "

Ha ha. ..no. I know better than to attempt to gain attention from the forum

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By *iss.HoneyWoman  over a year ago

...

I don't want attention.

Do not look at me.

Please don't

Stop it.....

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By *ink Panther. OP   Woman  over a year ago

Preston


"I don't want attention.

Do not look at me.

Please don't

Stop it.....

"

I have my eyes shut honest

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Come out of the man cave looked around...

So many people...

Don't look...

Creeps back into man cave

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By *ophieslutTV/TS  over a year ago

Central

Humans need social interaction, which may include some forms of attention seeking and desire for recognition from others.

In part we create ourselves by how we relate with others and what is seen from our relationships with people.

Obviously we have different needs to each other and over time but we're always making loud statements upon our needs and identity, whenever we interact - even as a solo act.

Make the site work for you and your needs and assume others will do the same

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Wait. People get attention from posting on the forum?

Some do. Wait, is this an attention seeking post?

Ha ha. ..no. I know better than to attempt to gain attention from the forum "

I meant mine..

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"I agree to a degree. I enjoy the attention I want (forum stuff) and the messages I get from other forumites but I can't say I enjoy 859 "hi"

(and the other bollocks) messages sat in my box. So I ignore them as I can't be arsed to deal with them. Can't have it all.

Like movie stars. Some of the good stuff along with the bad stuff. Do you feel like a movie star on FAB?

Ha! Not quite. Possibly a soap opera extra at best

I need a supporting actress for a film I want to make.

What's the pay like? I don't come cheap ya know. Jaffa cakes and a glass of Bailey's is my absolute lowest.

You've upped your game, the other day it was just a KFC!

I'm a Hollywood star now. "

I may have mislead you at the production value of what I want to film.

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By *ink Panther. OP   Woman  over a year ago

Preston


"Humans need social interaction, which may include some forms of attention seeking and desire for recognition from others.

In part we create ourselves by how we relate with others and what is seen from our relationships with people.

Obviously we have different needs to each other and over time but we're always making loud statements upon our needs and identity, whenever we interact - even as a solo act.

Make the site work for you and your needs and assume others will do the same"

I give most things in life I do careful consideration and I've done the same with Fab. I'm enjoying the site despite the fact I wasn't even sure what my needs were when I joined. So I guess that must mean I'm making it work for me and my needs, just the occasional adjustment here and there.

Now when it comes to others I would never assume

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By *ink Panther. OP   Woman  over a year ago

Preston


"I agree to a degree. I enjoy the attention I want (forum stuff) and the messages I get from other forumites but I can't say I enjoy 859 "hi"

(and the other bollocks) messages sat in my box. So I ignore them as I can't be arsed to deal with them. Can't have it all.

Like movie stars. Some of the good stuff along with the bad stuff. Do you feel like a movie star on FAB?

Ha! Not quite. Possibly a soap opera extra at best

I need a supporting actress for a film I want to make.

What's the pay like? I don't come cheap ya know. Jaffa cakes and a glass of Bailey's is my absolute lowest.

You've upped your game, the other day it was just a KFC!

I'm a Hollywood star now.

I may have mislead you at the production value of what I want to film. "

No there is a concept you're familiar with being misled

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"...

In this instance, can you manipulate the messages to a certain degree by the way you present your profile?"

Very much so. Some read some don't. Some go back and read when I ask them to and they cry wank in shock.

It's easy to stop mail. People that whine about too much mail aren't using the tools properly and I have no sympathy- it's self inflicted.

Geniuses

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By *ink Panther. OP   Woman  over a year ago

Preston


"...

In this instance, can you manipulate the messages to a certain degree by the way you present your profile?

Very much so. Some read some don't. Some go back and read when I ask them to and they cry wank in shock.

It's easy to stop mail. People that whine about too much mail aren't using the tools properly and I have no sympathy- it's self inflicted.

Geniuses "

My sentiments entirely

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"...

In this instance, can you manipulate the messages to a certain degree by the way you present your profile?

Very much so. Some read some don't. Some go back and read when I ask them to and they cry wank in shock.

It's easy to stop mail. People that whine about too much mail aren't using the tools properly and I have no sympathy- it's self inflicted.

Geniuses

My sentiments entirely "

Get yer coat you've pulled

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By *ink Panther. OP   Woman  over a year ago

Preston


"...

In this instance, can you manipulate the messages to a certain degree by the way you present your profile?

Very much so. Some read some don't. Some go back and read when I ask them to and they cry wank in shock.

It's easy to stop mail. People that whine about too much mail aren't using the tools properly and I have no sympathy- it's self inflicted.

Geniuses

My sentiments entirely

Get yer coat you've pulled "

I'm not Fab straight typical

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"...

In this instance, can you manipulate the messages to a certain degree by the way you present your profile?

Very much so. Some read some don't. Some go back and read when I ask them to and they cry wank in shock.

It's easy to stop mail. People that whine about too much mail aren't using the tools properly and I have no sympathy- it's self inflicted.

Geniuses

My sentiments entirely

Get yer coat you've pulled

I'm not Fab straight typical "

I was only getting you a coffee.

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By *ink Panther. OP   Woman  over a year ago

Preston


"...

In this instance, can you manipulate the messages to a certain degree by the way you present your profile?

Very much so. Some read some don't. Some go back and read when I ask them to and they cry wank in shock.

It's easy to stop mail. People that whine about too much mail aren't using the tools properly and I have no sympathy- it's self inflicted.

Geniuses

My sentiments entirely

Get yer coat you've pulled

I'm not Fab straight typical

I was only getting you a coffee.

"

Starbucks signature hot chocolate and it's a deal

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By *rincess peachWoman  over a year ago

shits creek


"I agree to a degree. I enjoy the attention I want (forum stuff) and the messages I get from other forumites but I can't say I enjoy 859 "hi"

(and the other bollocks) messages sat in my box. So I ignore them as I can't be arsed to deal with them. Can't have it all.

Like movie stars. Some of the good stuff along with the bad stuff. Do you feel like a movie star on FAB?

Ha! Not quite. Possibly a soap opera extra at best

I need a supporting actress for a film I want to make.

What's the pay like? I don't come cheap ya know. Jaffa cakes and a glass of Bailey's is my absolute lowest.

You've upped your game, the other day it was just a KFC!

I'm a Hollywood star now.

I may have mislead you at the production value of what I want to film. "

Will I have hair n make up done? Regardless of the content, I must look presentable in my role.

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