 |
By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
|
I was out last night and got roped into going to some terrible dance club/bar. So i'm chatting with a friend and these two very attractive ladies walk in, and i kindly offer them our spare seats. To which the first thing she said to me was, "Buy me a drink!". If you think that is an acceptable way to talk to someone tell me why? |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
"I was out last night and got roped into going to some terrible dance club/bar. So i'm chatting with a friend and these two very attractive ladies walk in, and i kindly offer them our spare seats. To which the first thing she said to me was, "Buy me a drink!". If you think that is an acceptable way to talk to someone tell me why?"
Not at all...but mines a pint of Stella if you're buying  |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
Was she being cheeky... like with a wink and a smile?
I mean.. I wouldn't approach that way... or at all.. bit traditional that way... but some women these days are a lot more brash...
Maybe she thought you were appealing and was trying it on? |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
"I was out last night and got roped into going to some terrible dance club/bar. So i'm chatting with a friend and these two very attractive ladies walk in, and i kindly offer them our spare seats. To which the first thing she said to me was, "Buy me a drink!". If you think that is an acceptable way to talk to someone tell me why?"
Should've asked for milk at the bar and gave her that. |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
"I was out last night and got roped into going to some terrible dance club/bar. So i'm chatting with a friend and these two very attractive ladies walk in, and i kindly offer them our spare seats. To which the first thing she said to me was, "Buy me a drink!". If you think that is an acceptable way to talk to someone tell me why?
Should've asked for milk at the bar and gave her that. "
A soda water is cheaper. |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
"I was out last night and got roped into going to some terrible dance club/bar. So i'm chatting with a friend and these two very attractive ladies walk in, and i kindly offer them our spare seats. To which the first thing she said to me was, "Buy me a drink!". If you think that is an acceptable way to talk to someone tell me why?
Should've asked for milk at the bar and gave her that.
A soda water is cheaper."
Touché |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
It's all in the context isn't it? It could, on one hand, be a cheeky bit of opportunism to get a free drink off of a sucker, on the other it could be an ice breaker and the start of a wonderful relationship ending in marriage and kids! 
Without being there and knowing in what spirit it was asked it's difficult to answer your question.
Out of interest how did you respond? |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
It all depends on the content,it may be her way of flirting in a cheeky way,or she might be used to guy's wanting to buy her a drink if she's attractive.
Dunno it's up to you to decide which it was we weren't there. |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
Don't think it's rude just as it's not rude to politely decline buying said drink.
I (male) half got chatting to a girl at a bar i said something in conversation to which she replied "What ever you're having" not sure if she was trying it on or genuinely misheard. Anyway bought the drinks and she was really fascinated by my open relationship status and adopted me a few hours.
The post script was she ended up too d*unk to pursue so i made sure she got home with a friend of hers and went about looking for my own pals.
That my friends, is called a tangent. |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
» Add a new message to this topic
