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By *kultra OP Couple
over a year ago
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We are a mf couple and we only play together which I believe we have clearly stated on our profile yet we still get people (single males usually) asking if they can meet me alone. I think it's a bit offensive to my husband actually and I immediately dislike the person for even asking. If we met alone we would say but we don't....arrrgghhhh!  |
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over a year ago
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"We are a mf couple and we only play together which I believe we have clearly stated on our profile yet we still get people (single males usually) asking if they can meet me alone. I think it's a bit offensive to my husband actually and I immediately dislike the person for even asking. If we met alone we would say but we don't....arrrgghhhh! "
Yes, that's why we set the filters to block single men. X |
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No, it doesn't happen to us. However people probably work on a "don't ask you don't get" basis.
What immediately puts me (f) off is when a couple message us asking to play with us both and there are no photos of the guy. |
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By *kultra OP Couple
over a year ago
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"No, it doesn't happen to us. However people probably work on a "don't ask you don't get" basis.
What immediately puts me (f) off is when a couple message us asking to play with us both and there are no photos of the guy. "
I suppose they might be trying their luck but I know what you mean about the couples with no photos of the guy that's why I made sure we had photos of the both of us x |
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By *kultra OP Couple
over a year ago
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"We are a mf couple and we only play together which I believe we have clearly stated on our profile yet we still get people (single males usually) asking if they can meet me alone. I think it's a bit offensive to my husband actually and I immediately dislike the person for even asking. If we met alone we would say but we don't....arrrgghhhh!
Yes, that's why we set the filters to block single men. X "
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"No, it doesn't happen to us. However people probably work on a "don't ask you don't get" basis.
What immediately puts me (f) off is when a couple message us asking to play with us both and there are no photos of the guy.
I suppose they might be trying their luck but I know what you mean about the couples with no photos of the guy that's why I made sure we had photos of the both of us x"
Well I think everyone must run their profile as they please...just don't expect me to go on a blind date  |
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"No, it doesn't happen to us. However people probably work on a "don't ask you don't get" basis.
What immediately puts me (f) off is when a couple message us asking to play with us both and there are no photos of the guy. "
This used to annoy me when I had a couples profile. The ex would be like oh she looks nice let's reply and I'm thinking but her fella could be a right munter so no ta |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Why don't you say in your profile "we don't meet alone"?"
We used to have that on ours and it never had any effect.
I think it's just one of those things that happens with couples profiles. *shrugs* |
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"No, it doesn't happen to us. However people probably work on a "don't ask you don't get" basis.
What immediately puts me (f) off is when a couple message us asking to play with us both and there are no photos of the guy.
I suppose they might be trying their luck but I know what you mean about the couples with no photos of the guy that's why I made sure we had photos of the both of us x
Well I think everyone must run their profile as they please...just don't expect me to go on a blind date "
Exactly each to their own ..and ours are on friends and private to be sent if asked .Storm x |
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"We are a mf couple and we only play together which I believe we have clearly stated on our profile yet we still get people (single males usually) asking if they can meet me alone. I think it's a bit offensive to my husband actually and I immediately dislike the person for even asking. If we met alone we would say but we don't....arrrgghhhh! "
We agree with Steel Heels. Your profile is great but maybe if you amend it and put in capitals at the beginning that WE DON"T MEET SEPARATELY it may get the post across more clearly...
No matter what you'll always get the chancers who will try anything! |
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"Why don't you say in your profile "we don't meet alone"?
We used to have that on ours and it never had any effect.
I think it's just one of those things that happens with couples profiles. *shrugs*"
I think you're right. I think most people don't read profiles, they just spam everyone online in their area. So it will stop some mailing but not all.  |
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By *kultra OP Couple
over a year ago
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"We are a mf couple and we only play together which I believe we have clearly stated on our profile yet we still get people (single males usually) asking if they can meet me alone. I think it's a bit offensive to my husband actually and I immediately dislike the person for even asking. If we met alone we would say but we don't....arrrgghhhh!
We agree with Steel Heels. Your profile is great but maybe if you amend it and put in capitals at the beginning that WE DON"T MEET SEPARATELY it may get the post across more clearly...
No matter what you'll always get the chancers who will try anything!"
Aww thank you very much. Good to know we've done a good job with our profile. I have followed your advice and amended it so fingers crossed x |
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"We are a mf couple and we only play together which I believe we have clearly stated on our profile yet we still get people (single males usually) asking if they can meet me alone. I think it's a bit offensive to my husband actually and I immediately dislike the person for even asking. If we met alone we would say but we don't....arrrgghhhh! "
They're under your mind control |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"We are a mf couple and we only play together which I believe we have clearly stated on our profile yet we still get people (single males usually) asking if they can meet me alone. I think it's a bit offensive to my husband actually and I immediately dislike the person for even asking. If we met alone we would say but we don't....arrrgghhhh!
We agree with Steel Heels. Your profile is great but maybe if you amend it and put in capitals at the beginning that WE DON"T MEET SEPARATELY it may get the post across more clearly...
No matter what you'll always get the chancers who will try anything!
Aww thank you very much. Good to know we've done a good job with our profile. I have followed your advice and amended it so fingers crossed x"
Good luck. 
Don't be surprised when people still ask but just use it as a filter- they are clearly stupid. |
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By *kultra OP Couple
over a year ago
chesterfield |
"We are a mf couple and we only play together which I believe we have clearly stated on our profile yet we still get people (single males usually) asking if they can meet me alone. I think it's a bit offensive to my husband actually and I immediately dislike the person for even asking. If we met alone we would say but we don't....arrrgghhhh!
They're under your mind control"
I didn't realise I had that much influence  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"We are a mf couple and we only play together which I believe we have clearly stated on our profile yet we still get people (single males usually) asking if they can meet me alone. I think it's a bit offensive to my husband actually and I immediately dislike the person for even asking. If we met alone we would say but we don't....arrrgghhhh! "
Nope it happens.. and like you I find ir offensive but have also had women message lee and invite him to go to things in the past which i took great offence to. |
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