"I love them
What is it that you love about them Princess?  "
I love how they feel around my neck (must be soft lined)
I love the security of them.
I would like to have someone who a collar meant the world to. |
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"I love them
What is it that you love about them Princess?
I love how they feel around my neck (must be soft lined)
I love the security of them.
I would like to have someone who a collar meant the world to."
Soft lined that's a good tip, comfort would be paramount. You'd like someone to wear one for you? |
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"I love them
What is it that you love about them Princess?
I love how they feel around my neck (must be soft lined)
I love the security of them.
I would like to have someone who a collar meant the world to.
Soft lined that's a good tip, comfort would be paramount. You'd like someone to wear one for you?"
No, I want someone who wants me to wear one for them. Be theirs completely. Not in a "I'm a dom and you're my plaything" way (by someone who thinks they're the bollocks but actually is simply a bully)
In a "we're completely joined and I'm always with you" way -
regardless of the sex dynamic. |
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"I love them
What is it that you love about them Princess?
I love how they feel around my neck (must be soft lined)
I love the security of them.
I would like to have someone who a collar meant the world to.
Soft lined that's a good tip, comfort would be paramount. You'd like someone to wear one for you?
No, I want someone who wants me to wear one for them. Be theirs completely. Not in a "I'm a dom and you're my plaything" way (by someone who thinks they're the bollocks but actually is simply a bully)
In a "we're completely joined and I'm always with you" way -
regardless of the sex dynamic."
This completely. Had the 'Dom' version. Disaster  |
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"I love them
What is it that you love about them Princess?
I love how they feel around my neck (must be soft lined)
I love the security of them.
I would like to have someone who a collar meant the world to.
Soft lined that's a good tip, comfort would be paramount. You'd like someone to wear one for you?
No, I want someone who wants me to wear one for them. Be theirs completely. Not in a "I'm a dom and you're my plaything" way (by someone who thinks they're the bollocks but actually is simply a bully)
In a "we're completely joined and I'm always with you" way -
regardless of the sex dynamic.
This completely. Had the 'Dom' version. Disaster "
Yep, the one I had tried to pimp me out. |
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By *alcon43Woman
over a year ago
Paisley |
I want a collared sub but my Dom did buy me a lovely leather collar as I love the smell of leather.
Wearing a collar for play gives you a different head space especially if you enjoy sensory play.
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"So who wears them and who like to be on the other end of the lead? I'm thinking of getting g one for a special lady and want opinions on them, thank you please  "
Love them for the right man. |
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"Could anyone recommend a place to purchase one?
Coco de mer if you want luxury and elegance.
Or pets at home if you're on a budget  "
You laugh but I got one from poundland for play parties a few years ago that fit perfectly |
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"I've been collared as my husband's slave for 4 and a half years. No lead involved, it's a symbol of our relationship dynamic.
This is beautiful  "
Thanks
Mine is stainless steel and locked. More comfortable than it sounds |
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"Could anyone recommend a place to purchase one?
Coco de mer if you want luxury and elegance. "
Nah, Coco is crazily over priced. Get yourself to a fetish market or fair where people make them with a touch of love as they're usually into BDSM themselves.
Collars are very symbolic, careful who you dish them out to |
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A collar means so much more than just the physical act of being worn. It's the connection and protection you give her when she wears it.
I am a huge fan of
https://www.fleetilya.com/collections/restraint-cuffs-collars
I hope you find the perfect one.
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By *dwalu2Couple
over a year ago
Bristol |
"Could anyone recommend a place to purchase one?
Coco de mer if you want luxury and elegance.
Nah, Coco is crazily over priced. Get yourself to a fetish market or fair where people make them with a touch of love as they're usually into BDSM themselves.
Collars are very symbolic, careful who you dish them out to"
No, they are as symbolic as they are intended to be by the people who use them.
Wear one your whole life, or give them away like confetti - it's down to the individuals involved. Heavy symbolism, or none at all - there is no right or wrong if it suits those concerned. |
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By *dwalu2Couple
over a year ago
Bristol |
"A collar means so much more than just the physical act of being worn. It's the connection and protection you give her when she wears it.
I am a huge fan of
https://www.fleetilya.com/collections/restraint-cuffs-collars
I hope you find the perfect one.
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That's a great recommendation, thanks! |
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over a year ago
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"I love them
What is it that you love about them Princess?
I love how they feel around my neck (must be soft lined)
I love the security of them.
I would like to have someone who a collar meant the world to.
Soft lined that's a good tip, comfort would be paramount. You'd like someone to wear one for you?
No, I want someone who wants me to wear one for them. Be theirs completely. Not in a "I'm a dom and you're my plaything" way (by someone who thinks they're the bollocks but actually is simply a bully)
In a "we're completely joined and I'm always with you" way -
regardless of the sex dynamic."
Hi Peaches.
I'm not Vanilla.
Unfortunately I'm outside the age range to direct message you. Really fascinated by the way in which you speak about the collar. We've literally just bought our first and would love to talk to you about your experiences. Take a look at our profile and let us know if you have any questions or would like face pics we're happy to provide. X |
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Was given my Collar over a year ago and have not taken it of since (except to go through Customs )its a beautiful locked Stainless Steel one with a removable ring and it feels amazing and more so when used ... and no I do not told the key .. |
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The collar to me has more meaning than an engagement ring.
I would love to have someone wear my collar one day, for me it's not about putting a claim on someone, it's like me saying "this is my collar, and the person who is wearing it, is the one I belong to,"
I've always had a little fantasy, that along with the collar, I would buy her a necklace that would serve as the collar outside of our time, silly I know |
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I've always had a little fantasy, that along with the collar, I would buy her a necklace that would serve as the collar outside of our time, silly I know "
Well that makes us pretty stupid as well then because she wears her "collar" 24/7 but it is a subtle necklace to those that do not know otherwise. The significance is what the object means to the giver and recipient not inherent to the object.
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Very true .. wear mine 24/7 it's what it means to us,mine looks like a piece of Jewelry and has only been remarked on as "a nice collar " by people that know what it is ... lol have had a lot of interest by others and especially if we have been in public with my lead on .. but that is only in certain places and times... ... and have been asked "does it come off "to which we answer No !! With a smile .. which raises a few eyebrows .. |
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Clyde puts on my collar whenever we meet any other swingers be it social,party,event or play. It isn't a sub/Dom thing for us, it's a symbol that whatever happens with anyone else I belong to Clyde |
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By *icentiousCouple
over a year ago
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"The collar to me has more meaning than an engagement ring.
I would love to have someone wear my collar one day, for me it's not about putting a claim on someone, it's like me saying "this is my collar, and the person who is wearing it, is the one I belong to,"
I've always had a little fantasy, that along with the collar, I would buy her a necklace that would serve as the collar outside of our time, silly I know "
You are one of a few people, on here, would like to have a glass of beer with. |
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"The collar to me has more meaning than an engagement ring.
I would love to have someone wear my collar one day, for me it's not about putting a claim on someone, it's like me saying "this is my collar, and the person who is wearing it, is the one I belong to,"
I've always had a little fantasy, that along with the collar, I would buy her a necklace that would serve as the collar outside of our time, silly I know "
It's sweet, not silly.
If i was collared, I'd like something on the same lines but as i cannot wear necklaces to work, it'd have to be something else. |
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"The collar to me has more meaning than an engagement ring.
I would love to have someone wear my collar one day, for me it's not about putting a claim on someone, it's like me saying "this is my collar, and the person who is wearing it, is the one I belong to,"
I've always had a little fantasy, that along with the collar, I would buy her a necklace that would serve as the collar outside of our time, silly I know
You are one of a few people, on here, would like to have a glass of beer with."
I don't drink, but I'd love a with ice and a slice |
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Adding to what I said before, I do wear my collar 24/7 and have done since I was collared four and a half years ago, with the exception of a brief period of about two weeks for medical reasons. I love the collar and often find myself playing with it, but it's the symbol of our commitment not the commitment itself.
I'll agree with whoever said collars are as symbolic as you wish them to be. Wear them for whatever reason you wish and to symbolise whatever you wish, your body so do what you want. It's not going to change the meaning of the one I wear in my relationship |
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"Sitting in the car with the one to be collared reading out your posts and she's grinning like a Cheshire cat. Some great responses
This is wonderful "
Isn't it we think we may need 2. One for home and one for out and about |
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"Sitting in the car with the one to be collared reading out your posts and she's grinning like a Cheshire cat. Some great responses
This is wonderful
Isn't it we think we may need 2. One for home and one for out and about "
Yay |
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"Could anyone recommend a place to purchase one?
Coco de mer if you want luxury and elegance.
Nah, Coco is crazily over priced. Get yourself to a fetish market or fair where people make them with a touch of love as they're usually into BDSM themselves.
Collars are very symbolic, careful who you dish them out to
No, they are as symbolic as they are intended to be by the people who use them.
Wear one your whole life, or give them away like confetti - it's down to the individuals involved. Heavy symbolism, or none at all - there is no right or wrong if it suits those concerned."
I disagree. Within the context of BDSM, they are incredibly powerful and demonstrate ownership, belonging, security. Wearing a collar in a temporary play scenario is incredibly different to the transference of power and trust that comes with collaring. I play with a lot of people, I only collar a few.
But that's merely my take on it |
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By *dwalu2Couple
over a year ago
Bristol |
"Could anyone recommend a place to purchase one?
Coco de mer if you want luxury and elegance.
Nah, Coco is crazily over priced. Get yourself to a fetish market or fair where people make them with a touch of love as they're usually into BDSM themselves.
Collars are very symbolic, careful who you dish them out to
No, they are as symbolic as they are intended to be by the people who use them.
Wear one your whole life, or give them away like confetti - it's down to the individuals involved. Heavy symbolism, or none at all - there is no right or wrong if it suits those concerned.
I disagree. Within the context of BDSM, they are incredibly powerful and demonstrate ownership, belonging, security. Wearing a collar in a temporary play scenario is incredibly different to the transference of power and trust that comes with collaring. I play with a lot of people, I only collar a few.
But that's merely my take on it "
Sure it is. But what you are saying is 'here's my take on it, and that's what it means for everyone within the context of BDSM'.
Which means you are essentially saying your way of BDSM is right, and others' way of BDSM is wrong. Which is symptomatic of many in the 'scene', the desire to be proscriptive of the way others play.
Once again, if it's consensual and safe, any way of doing things is the right one, for the people concerned. |
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"Could anyone recommend a place to purchase one?
Coco de mer if you want luxury and elegance.
Nah, Coco is crazily over priced. Get yourself to a fetish market or fair where people make them with a touch of love as they're usually into BDSM themselves.
Collars are very symbolic, careful who you dish them out to
No, they are as symbolic as they are intended to be by the people who use them.
Wear one your whole life, or give them away like confetti - it's down to the individuals involved. Heavy symbolism, or none at all - there is no right or wrong if it suits those concerned.
I disagree. Within the context of BDSM, they are incredibly powerful and demonstrate ownership, belonging, security. Wearing a collar in a temporary play scenario is incredibly different to the transference of power and trust that comes with collaring. I play with a lot of people, I only collar a few.
But that's merely my take on it
Sure it is. But what you are saying is 'here's my take on it, and that's what it means for everyone within the context of BDSM'.
Which means you are essentially saying your way of BDSM is right, and others' way of BDSM is wrong. Which is symptomatic of many in the 'scene', the desire to be proscriptive of the way others play.
Once again, if it's consensual and safe, any way of doing things is the right one, for the people concerned. "
There is no right or wrong way to do anything, don't be daft. Perhaps I should have prefaced with 'well in my opinion'.
After 17 years in this game, I've my way of doing things and wouldn't pass out collars like doughnuts. But yep, to each their own |
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"Could anyone recommend a place to purchase one?
Coco de mer if you want luxury and elegance.
Nah, Coco is crazily over priced. Get yourself to a fetish market or fair where people make them with a touch of love as they're usually into BDSM themselves.
Collars are very symbolic, careful who you dish them out to
No, they are as symbolic as they are intended to be by the people who use them.
Wear one your whole life, or give them away like confetti - it's down to the individuals involved. Heavy symbolism, or none at all - there is no right or wrong if it suits those concerned.
I disagree. Within the context of BDSM, they are incredibly powerful and demonstrate ownership, belonging, security. Wearing a collar in a temporary play scenario is incredibly different to the transference of power and trust that comes with collaring. I play with a lot of people, I only collar a few.
But that's merely my take on it
Sure it is. But what you are saying is 'here's my take on it, and that's what it means for everyone within the context of BDSM'.
Which means you are essentially saying your way of BDSM is right, and others' way of BDSM is wrong. Which is symptomatic of many in the 'scene', the desire to be proscriptive of the way others play.
Once again, if it's consensual and safe, any way of doing things is the right one, for the people concerned.
There is no right or wrong way to do anything, don't be daft. Perhaps I should have prefaced with 'well in my opinion'.
After 17 years in this game, I've my way of doing things and wouldn't pass out collars like doughnuts. But yep, to each their own "
You can count the amount of collars I've given in 25 years on one hand. Each one made by me,a personal gift from me to them. However I do use regular collars during play.
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Wow it got a little heated there, everyone's perception will be different just as it is for anything else in life. If we all thought/like/do the same things it would be a very dull life, variety is the spice and all the |
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"Sitting in the car with the one to be collared reading out your posts and she's grinning like a Cheshire cat. Some great responses
This is wonderful
Isn't it we think we may need 2. One for home and one for out and about "
It really is. You can get some beautiful day collars which are a little more discreet and just look like ' a beautiful necklace' rather than a heavy duty or big thick collar.
It's quite something to water a collar and people comment on a 'pretty necklace' the rush you get from it...is quite something else...and the other person not knowing the true meaning behind it.
Enjoy |
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"Sitting in the car with the one to be collared reading out your posts and she's grinning like a Cheshire cat. Some great responses
This is wonderful
Isn't it we think we may need 2. One for home and one for out and about
It really is. You can get some beautiful day collars which are a little more discreet and just look like ' a beautiful necklace' rather than a heavy duty or big thick collar.
It's quite something to water a collar and people comment on a 'pretty necklace' the rush you get from it...is quite something else...and the other person not knowing the true meaning behind it.
Enjoy "
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