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I just don't get fisting
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Surely it's uncomfortable and possibly painful. I've got quite big hands and have been asked on numerous occasions to do it. I know it's not for my pleasure but I can't see the appeal |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Never ever had it done, apart from when I was giving birth and I saw a bucket of blood and the doctors gloved and bloodied hand pulling my baby out of me, but I'd had a spinal and couldn't feel anything from my chest down! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Its one of the most intense, personal and erotic experiences for a lady when done correctly in a relaxed and unrushed atmosphere with a trusted play partner. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Its one of the most intense, personal and erotic experiences for a lady when done correctly in a relaxed and unrushed atmosphere with someone worthy of such intimacy. "
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I can only take ladies with tiny hands. I wouldn't say I see it as a challenge, but I do love the feeling of being full, and there's a huge connection between us at that point. The fact that I have relaxed enough is a massive thing (and I don't mean my hole ffs)
It's not something I do or can do regularly, 3 times in fact. I find the fact that I've relaxed that much a complete turn on. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I only do it with mr, the fact that I trust him completely and I'm that turned on and relaxed is a big thing for me. I do like the feeling of being that full and the orgasm is very intense x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Its one of the most intense, personal and erotic experiences for a lady when done correctly in a relaxed and unrushed atmosphere with a trusted play partner. "
Yes! This! Some of my most memorable and erotic encounters have involved this! |
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By *yldstyleWoman
over a year ago
A world of my own |
With one person yes. There's lots of trust, lots of respect, and I'm always so turned on when we do it that it certainly doesn't hurt.
Its actually a really erotic and special thing that we share. Its not something we do often but when we do its mind blowing for both of us.
I'd never do it with anyone else though |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I,'ve done it about 3 times with my FWB and once previously with someone else. I wouldn't do it with anyone else. It's quite painful but I enjoy the full feeling and come a lot afterwards. My FWB isn't keen to do it often as he worries about vagina getting too stretched. It's not really his thing. There is a level of trust in the person fisting you needed. I can only take a few minutes of it xxx |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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It left me with terrible bruising and pain from belly button to mid thigh even though i knew the guy well and he took his time and was gentle. It didn't do anything for me and i needed medical treatment the following day ! My doc told me to never let anyone do it again. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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It's one of those things I just don't like, I can only imagine it's like trying to stuff your cock into a wedding ring.
Just for those guys who repeatedly ask women for it |
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"Never ever had it done, apart from when I was giving birth and I saw a bucket of blood and the doctors gloved and bloodied hand pulling my baby out of me, but I'd had a spinal and couldn't feel anything from my chest down! "
Fisting terrifies me for reasons similar. It's sooooo not appealing! |
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I have experienced it once and I really enjoyed it at the time.
Afterwards I was in a lot of pain for over a week and contracted a urinary tract infection which required antibiotics.
As much as I enjoyed it i definitely won't be doing it again. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Its one of the most intense, personal and erotic experiences for a lady when done correctly in a relaxed and unrushed atmosphere with a trusted play partner. "
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I dont have big hands...however I'am good at fingering and fisting when required..
remember a cock can be painful I imagine..it doesnt stop many from wanting that does it? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We tried it once and even though we took it very slow he had to stop once he got 4 fingers in, there was no way it going to fit and left me feeling very bruised and in lots of pain.
I get the idea that feeling full is very enjoyable but fisting isn't for me |
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By *van ArdenMan
over a year ago
Coleford, Forest of Dean, Gloucestershire. |
I have to admit that I have never been asked to 'fist' a woman and I'm not sure if I'd want to. I have seen women take huge dildos but I don't get this having a fist pushed inside you.
A gynaecologist using his fingers for examination is fair enough but not sure about fisting.
I prefer a nice tight pussy to grip my manhood rather than a slack fanny.
Each to his own I suppose ? |
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By *inkySeeKinkyDoWoman
over a year ago
'tween PontyCarlo & CasVegas in West Yorks |
Done slowly with the utmost care it's the most sensual erotic experience...being completely filled and stretched beyond limit by that person whilst they look you in the eye and tease you...they could hurt you if they wished by they don't...you trust them completely...you're so vulnerable at that moment...literally their puppet! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I have to admit that I have never been asked to 'fist' a woman and I'm not sure if I'd want to. I have seen women take huge dildos but I don't get this having a fist pushed inside you.
A gynaecologist using his fingers for examination is fair enough but not sure about fisting.
I prefer a nice tight pussy to grip my manhood rather than a slack fanny.
Each to his own I suppose ?"
Babies are bigger and vaginas return to normal. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I used to do this with long term playpartner. It requires trust and comfort.
The first time we did it, I got my hand in to the wrist; with my fingers is was able to massage her cervix. I thought she was going to go insane having several powerful orgasms in succession. As soon as I pulled my hand out I slid my cock in and she was as tight as ever, dripping wet.
Incredible experience.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Its one of the most intense, personal and erotic experiences for a lady when done correctly in a relaxed and unrushed atmosphere with someone worthy of such intimacy.
FTFY "
Someones angling for me to get out my spanking hand....  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I used to do this with long term playpartner. It requires trust and comfort.
The first time we did it, I got my hand in to the wrist; with my fingers is was able to massage her cervix. I thought she was going to go insane having several powerful orgasms in succession. As soon as I pulled my hand out I slid my cock in and she was as tight as ever, dripping wet.
Incredible experience. "
The thought of someone massaging my cervix has made my stomach somersault & my legs clamp firmly shut....  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Surely it's uncomfortable and possibly painful. I've got quite big hands and have been asked on numerous occasions to do it. I know it's not for my pleasure but I can't see the appeal"
I absolutely fucking love it x |
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By *oodmessMan
over a year ago
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It's a bit like squirting, finger, fucking, licking or whatever you can to think of .. there's several ways to do it.. and gets you off in similarly different ways. Whether you get it or not OP ... it's a thing. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Surely it's uncomfortable and possibly painful. I've got quite big hands and have been asked on numerous occasions to do it. I know it's not for my pleasure but I can't see the appeal
I absolutely fucking love it x"
As do I. But it's finding someone to build up that trust with.
One does not get wrist deep with random strangers! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Its one of the most intense, personal and erotic experiences for a lady when done correctly in a relaxed and unrushed atmosphere with someone worthy of such intimacy.
FTFY
Someones angling for me to get out my spanking hand.... "
Tempting |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Surely it's uncomfortable and possibly painful. I've got quite big hands and have been asked on numerous occasions to do it. I know it's not for my pleasure but I can't see the appeal
I absolutely fucking love it x
As do I. But it's finding someone to build up that trust with.
One does not get wrist deep with random strangers!"
James Herriot springs to mind.
(Showing my age with that analogy!) |
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"Its one of the most intense, personal and erotic experiences for a lady when done correctly in a relaxed and unrushed atmosphere with a trusted play partner. "
No it isn't. It MAY have been for the 'lady' you fisted. |
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"Its one of the most intense, personal and erotic experiences for a lady when done correctly in a relaxed and unrushed atmosphere with someone worthy of such intimacy.
FTFY "
Fuck That Fuck You ? Fist the Fuck Yourself ? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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The intensity of the sensation makes my body feel electric. So many nerve endings get stimulated at once. There's a definite pain/pleasure element to it. I love being fisted but absolutely has to be with someone i 100% trust |
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"I used to do this with long term playpartner. It requires trust and comfort.
The first time we did it, I got my hand in to the wrist; with my fingers is was able to massage her cervix. I thought she was going to go insane having several powerful orgasms in succession. As soon as I pulled my hand out I slid my cock in and she was as tight as ever, dripping wet.
Incredible experience.
The thought of someone massaging my cervix has made my stomach somersault & my legs clamp firmly shut.... "
Me too , considering the cervix isn't a sexual organ but just part of the birth canal.
Funny to read what men say at times. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Its one of the most intense, personal and erotic experiences for a lady when done correctly in a relaxed and unrushed atmosphere with a trusted play partner.
No it isn't. It MAY have been for the 'lady' you fisted. "
And that's the key here isn't it. That I'm speaking from my own experiences. Plus, there's also that it's done in safe, sane and consensual way - something that at the core of all my play sessions.
But you have to feel the need to draw out some dark undertone to my post that is simply neither stated or implied.
A bit sad really, isn't it?
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I don't really get the whole, stretching to capacity thing..I find it quite uncomfortable more than anything...my pussy is a gripper so I prefer a lil room to manoeuver anyway  |
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"I don't really get the whole, stretching to capacity thing..I find it quite uncomfortable more than anything...my pussy is a gripper so I prefer a lil room to manoeuver anyway "
Mines a gripper too, I think that's why I found it an amazing experience, because I had never relaxed as much as I did with her. I knew she wouldn't hurt me, I knew my comfort and safety were paramount to her. She was so unbelievably gentle. And as I said, her tiny hands helped |
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"Its one of the most intense, personal and erotic experiences for a lady when done correctly in a relaxed and unrushed atmosphere with a trusted play partner.
No it isn't. It MAY have been for the 'lady' you fisted.
And that's the key here isn't it. That I'm speaking from my own experiences. Plus, there's also that it's done in safe, sane and consensual way - something that at the core of all my play sessions.
But you have to feel the need to draw out some dark undertone to my post that is simply neither stated or implied.
A bit sad really, isn't it?
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Well if you would like to tell me what the 'dark undertone that I am trying to draw out of your post that you neither stated nor implied' I'll let you know if your assumption is any where near correct.
I hope you cheer up soon. xx |
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By *kultraCouple
over a year ago
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"Fists won't fit...thanks! "
Absolutely this
How the bloody hell do you get a fist to fit? My hubby has tried this with me and I'm sorry but my pubic bone is not wide enough for his hand and stops him from getting any further in and believe me I'm turned on and so relaxed. It just isn't happening...full stop! Hurts way to much!!! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Its one of the most intense, personal and erotic experiences for a lady when done correctly in a relaxed and unrushed atmosphere with a trusted play partner.
No it isn't. It MAY have been for the 'lady' you fisted.
And that's the key here isn't it. That I'm speaking from my own experiences. Plus, there's also that it's done in safe, sane and consensual way - something that at the core of all my play sessions.
But you have to feel the need to draw out some dark undertone to my post that is simply neither stated or implied.
A bit sad really, isn't it?
Well if you would like to tell me what the 'dark undertone that I am trying to draw out of your post that you neither stated nor implied' I'll let you know if your assumption is any where near correct.
I hope you cheer up soon. xx "
No thanks. I have no wish to debate or discuss this issue with you.
You have a great day .
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I used to do this with long term playpartner. It requires trust and comfort.
The first time we did it, I got my hand in to the wrist; with my fingers is was able to massage her cervix. I thought she was going to go insane having several powerful orgasms in succession. As soon as I pulled my hand out I slid my cock in and she was as tight as ever, dripping wet.
Incredible experience.
The thought of someone massaging my cervix has made my stomach somersault & my legs clamp firmly shut.... "
It's not for everyone and it was something she requested. We are all different. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Surely it's uncomfortable and possibly painful. I've got quite big hands and have been asked on numerous occasions to do it. I know it's not for my pleasure but I can't see the appeal
I absolutely fucking love it x
As do I. But it's finding someone to build up that trust with.
One does not get wrist deep with random strangers!"
Although it has been known |
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