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"Decent people = decent meets. Noone is superior" That's great but how do you define decent, do our minds tell us within a few seconds of looking at a person profile !? How do you assimilate that!? | |||
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"I can understand that white People are far more superior than any other race." | |||
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"Decent people = decent meets. Noone is superior That's great but how do you define decent, do our minds tell us within a few seconds of looking at a person profile !? How do you assimilate that!? " by swapping messages | |||
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"Decent people = decent meets. Noone is superior That's great but how do you define decent, do our minds tell us within a few seconds of looking at a person profile !? How do you assimilate that!? " Sometimes one line of a profile can put people off. It's not about anyone being superior, sometimes it's just about not feeling people are suitable. | |||
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"My thoughts? That those who bring race into the equation are the ones who have an issue with race! Those of us who don't have issues with race, well, we don't think about it until someone else brings up the subject. Go figure." | |||
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"My thoughts? That those who bring race into the equation are the ones who have an issue with race! Those of us who don't have issues with race, well, we don't think about it until someone else brings up the subject. Go figure." We couldn't agree more | |||
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"My thoughts? That those who bring race into the equation are the ones who have an issue with race! Those of us who don't have issues with race, well, we don't think about it until someone else brings up the subject. Go figure." Sadly i agree | |||
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"My thoughts? That those who bring race into the equation are the ones who have an issue with race! Those of us who don't have issues with race, well, we don't think about it until someone else brings up the subject. Go figure." Perfectly said | |||
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"My thoughts? That those who bring race into the equation are the ones who have an issue with race! Those of us who don't have issues with race, well, we don't think about it until someone else brings up the subject. Go figure." Well said | |||
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"I can understand that white People are far more superior than any other race. " Love the nonchalance of that response, cracked me up | |||
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"I think your talking nonsense but please don't take that to heart" I bet you wouldn't say that if he were white | |||
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"I'm white. I get ignored all the time OP. I think your talking nonsense but please don't take that to heart" And your talking nonsense too. | |||
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"I've done my bit for Help The Asians.." May I tempt you as well? | |||
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"My thoughts? That those who bring race into the equation are the ones who have an issue with race! Those of us who don't have issues with race, well, we don't think about it until someone else brings up the subject. Go figure." | |||
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"My thoughts? That those who bring race into the equation are the ones who have an issue with race! Those of us who don't have issues with race, well, we don't think about it until someone else brings up the subject. Go figure." True words spoken well Fuzz | |||
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"I've noticed on the site, unless your white or even black, you have no chance of a meet, let alone a respond to a message !? I can understand that white People are far more superior than any other race. It's a hard one to grasp but from experience, if you are white you are more prone to interaction and with being Asian, one needs to put extra work into it!? What are your thoughts!? I apologise in advance but I enjoy a serious provocative topic than who picked there nose... " absolute rubbish and the mother of all kop outs.... its way too easy to blame everyone for your own lack of skills.... and easy to hit upon the reason people don't want to meet you being the one thing you cant control.... "but i am blameless... its all those other nasty peoples fault!" easy to point the finger.... not so easy to look yourself in the mirror and ask yourself "what can I do to make myself better, or more attractive!" the site is proactive... it gives you loads of different avenues to go down... take advantage of all of them, of some of them, or none of them..... but at the end of the day it is on you! | |||
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"My thoughts? That those who bring race into the equation are the ones who have an issue with race! Those of us who don't have issues with race, well, we don't think about it until someone else brings up the subject. Go figure." Exactly this. | |||
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"My thoughts? That those who bring race into the equation are the ones who have an issue with race! Those of us who don't have issues with race, well, we don't think about it until someone else brings up the subject. Go figure." Had to actually think about this! Whether you're white, black, pink, green I couldn't give a hoot. If I like what you write and you get my odd jokes then your skin tone, whatever it is, is irrelevant. For me it's just a way of segregation and that's so far removed from how I conduct my friendships | |||
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"My thoughts? That those who bring race into the equation are the ones who have an issue with race! Those of us who don't have issues with race, well, we don't think about it until someone else brings up the subject. Go figure. Well said " Agree with the above. On That, by far the most common statement about race on female profiles in my area is 'no Asians' sure physical attraction is a must and people choose who they reply to. If I were the OP and saw that time and time again I would question it. | |||
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"This olde chesnut " he ain't chestnut hes light brown. PTU xxx | |||
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"My thoughts? That those who bring race into the equation are the ones who have an issue with race! Those of us who don't have issues with race, well, we don't think about it until someone else brings up the subject. Go figure." | |||
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"I'm happy to bring race into it because I experience the not white thing. When people say that those bringing race into are the ones with the problem, they're right. Just not the problem they think. The Is Love Racist programme should have been called Is Love Prejudiced. People really don't see that the argument that it's preference comes from an internal bias born from the fact that white is the accepted de facto standard of attractive... for the majority in this country of all races. I'm not asking any of you to fuck me or anyone you don't fancy but lets stop pretending that Asians are seen as the no-go/rare choice with black next and white is the premium choice. When you get uninvited to a swingers party because a couple attending state that they won't attend because a Paki had been invited or get the message from people with "Won't meet Black or Asians" on their profile saying they'd make an exception because they'd like to try an Indian ho and other such delights you might see race in a different light. The OP was clear he was being provocative, I think only one post responded with the tongue in cheek required." Oops I didn't see the tongue in cheek. I'll climb off my high horse. Ffs. I really need to read things properly before i post. Classic mistake of mine I do time and time again | |||
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"My thoughts? That those who bring race into the equation are the ones who have an issue with race! Those of us who don't have issues with race, well, we don't think about it until someone else brings up the subject. Go figure." No issue with race just a provocative thought! Curious to see the consensus! | |||
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"A significant minority do have problems with race, but that can be overcome. Other factors are also crucial Me, for example. Single Male, Asian, bearded but have had lots of fun already. Good luck." Lol | |||
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"My thoughts? That those who bring race into the equation are the ones who have an issue with race! Those of us who don't have issues with race, well, we don't think about it until someone else brings up the subject. Go figure. No issue with race just a provocative thought! Curious to see the consensus!" Well there was my answer. Like seriously, I'm more likely to think about picking my nose than skin colour or race. You must enjoy a good crusty bogey pull, you know, the ones that tickle your brain and make you shudder | |||
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"I'm happy to bring race into it because I experience the not white thing. When people say that those bringing race into are the ones with the problem, they're right. Just not the problem they think. The Is Love Racist programme should have been called Is Love Prejudiced. People really don't see that the argument that it's preference comes from an internal bias born from the fact that white is the accepted de facto standard of attractive... for the majority in this country of all races. I'm not asking any of you to fuck me or anyone you don't fancy but lets stop pretending that Asians are seen as the no-go/rare choice with black next and white is the premium choice. When you get uninvited to a swingers party because a couple attending state that they won't attend because a Paki had been invited or get the message from people with "Won't meet Black or Asians" on their profile saying they'd make an exception because they'd like to try an Indian ho and other such delights you might see race in a different light. The OP was clear he was being provocative, I think only one post responded with the tongue in cheek required." Get it girl ! Preach !! Love the comment best one so far ! | |||
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"I've noticed on the site, unless your white or even black, you have no chance of a meet, let alone a respond to a message !? I can understand that white People are far more superior than any other race. It's a hard one to grasp but from experience, if you are white you are more prone to interaction and with being Asian, one needs to put extra work into it!? What are your thoughts!? I apologise in advance but I enjoy a serious provocative topic than who picked there nose... " Hit the nail on the head. Emz. | |||
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"My thoughts? That those who bring race into the equation are the ones who have an issue with race! Those of us who don't have issues with race, well, we don't think about it until someone else brings up the subject. Go figure. No issue with race just a provocative thought! Curious to see the consensus! Well there was my answer. Like seriously, I'm more likely to think about picking my nose than skin colour or race. You must enjoy a good crusty bogey pull, you know, the ones that tickle your brain and make you shudder " Looool Hahahah | |||
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"I think black guys, proportionally do better than white guys, there is far more white guys going without any meets than black guys. But thats because there are so many white people on here. It is uk afterall. I don't know about asian men, but asian women are very well liked on here by the men. I think people don't realise that the vast majority of white men on here struggle to get even a single meet. But because there is so many, a lot of white men do really well too." Does the colour of skin play a major factor !? | |||
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"I could point you to an Asian man who has done very well on here. He has found some won't meet him when they find out he's Asian, but many have. " Does that make him exceptional due to his race !? | |||
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"I could point you to an Asian man who has done very well on here. He has found some won't meet him when they find out he's Asian, but many have. Does that make him exceptional due to his race !?" No one is exceptional because of race. There are men of all races I find exceptional. | |||
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"OP what makes you say that when you live in one the most if not most accepting countries in the world.? Your statement i find racist and unacceptable in 2017. " Classic reverse psychology, it's a room for thought, what the general consensus regard the OP. Not my views. I'm not one to be poolitialy correct, let's leave that to the politicians I'm not afraid to ask question whether it's daft or not, the debate is a debate, opinions make it interesting. As I said I apologised in advance should this cause offence. | |||
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"Is yours a general question or are you discussing your own lack of success? " Read the OP | |||
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"Is yours a general question or are you discussing your own lack of success? Read the OP" I have, my question stands. | |||
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"A study from Harvard: https://scholar.harvard.edu/files/fryer/files/an_empirical_analysis_of_acting_white.pdf Here's something else thrown in to the debate, generally acting white makes you more successful and prevail in society !? Again apologies for any offence caused! " Its true tho! | |||
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"Is yours a general question or are you discussing your own lack of success? Read the OP I have, my question stands." I've been very successful if you refer to the numbers game. But beyond that, it's a dangerous figure lol | |||
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"Honest answer, Asians, pakastanis, Indians all tend to have a certain look that I just don't find attractive so why would I waste time chatting to them. I also wouldn't chat to a guy that was short or had a small penis, it's just what I'm attracted to, it's not racist, it's not prejudice, it's not like I'm not giving somebody a job because they are these things, it's purely down to attraction and what goes inside me. My cunt, my choice who I fuck. " | |||
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"Just in case you come back OP I don't think your problem is race " Sorry was in the shower lol it's a shame this doesn't prompt you with updates but manually have to go in and check! I love the responses, it's great to see differing views. Nothing about my experience lol | |||
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"I could point you to an Asian man who has done very well on here. He has found some won't meet him when they find out he's Asian, but many have. Does that make him exceptional due to his race !?" No, that makes him a nice bloke. Women tend to be attracted to nice blokes | |||
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"Just in case you come back OP I don't think your problem is race " I don't believe in problems online. If I did then there would be a lot of issues surrounding me lol | |||
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"I've noticed on the site, unless your white or even black, you have no chance of a meet, let alone a respond to a message !? I can understand that white People are far more superior than any other race. It's a hard one to grasp but from experience, if you are white you are more prone to interaction and with being Asian, one needs to put extra work into it!? What are your thoughts!? I apologise in advance but I enjoy a serious provocative topic than who picked there nose... " what a load of ..... no one race is superior to another race white or black or in between. If you are a nice person and clique with someone you get a meet, not everyone fancies everyone just be patient | |||
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"I've noticed on the site, unless your white or even black, you have no chance of a meet, let alone a respond to a message !? I can understand that white People are far more superior than any other race. It's a hard one to grasp but from experience, if you are white you are more prone to interaction and with being Asian, one needs to put extra work into it!? What are your thoughts!? I apologise in advance but I enjoy a serious provocative topic than who picked there nose... " The issue I have with your post OP is, as you say, it's provocative and inciteful (not insightful) in the wrong ways. There's enough provocation in the world without bringing it into to the swinging community. Liberated,free thinking swingers? are, for us at least, about fun, acceptance, understanding, experience, pleasure (and a whole load of other positive words). You say white and black peeps are more successful than Asians or any other race (with white being 'superior' over all other races). This may be true but what is not true is saying if your your not white you have to work harder and if you are white messaging and having meets requires less effort. I believe this to be wrong as swinging is about connections and you get out what you put in (reap what you sow and all). You'd also have to look at the ratios. Not that I know, but guessing there are more white Europeans in the country as well as on Fabs. And seeing as, as a spieces, we're still (though not as much these days) programmed to be attracted to our own race, any black, Asian etc will find it hard work to find that connection with the right 'white'. Just because a profile has 'no blacks or asians' doesn't make them racist (as most, if not all,say 'just no our/my thing) just not attracted to them/you. I truly believe for us to evolve as a spieces we all need to get beyond race, religion, money etc and that starts with tackling greed and ignorance. Fuzz | |||
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"And seeing as, as a spieces, we're still (though not as much these days) programmed to be attracted to our own race, any black, Asian etc will find it hard work to find that connection with the right 'white'. " I always wonder when I see this sort of thing if that's the case. Are we actually programmed to? Or is it more of a case of upbringing and a learned behaviour? | |||
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"I've noticed on the site, unless your white or even black, you have no chance of a meet, let alone a respond to a message !? I can understand that white People are far more superior than any other race. It's a hard one to grasp but from experience, if you are white you are more prone to interaction and with being Asian, one needs to put extra work into it!? What are your thoughts!? I apologise in advance but I enjoy a serious provocative topic than who picked there nose... " You seem a well balanced individual to me, a chip on both shoulders | |||
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"My thoughts? That those who bring race into the equation are the ones who have an issue with race! Those of us who don't have issues with race, well, we don't think about it until someone else brings up the subject. Go figure." perfectly put | |||
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"And seeing as, as a spieces, we're still (though not as much these days) programmed to be attracted to our own race, any black, Asian etc will find it hard work to find that connection with the right 'white'. I always wonder when I see this sort of thing if that's the case. Are we actually programmed to? Or is it more of a case of upbringing and a learned behaviour? " Surely upbringing and learned behaviour is programming. It's when our beliefs are (respectfully) challenged, and we change our minds and outlook on the world around us, thus reprogramming/evolving??? Fuzz | |||
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"Does the colour of skin play a major factor !? " Not a major factor, but lets face it, there are more women/couples on here with "BBC ONLY" on their profile than "white only". This makes black guys seek these women out, and they have sex based only on the colour of their skin. So maybe when white people are racist and have sex only based on skin colour it benefits non whites more? If a girl does not care about skin colour then obviously she will have sex with more white men, as they are 90% of the guys on here. If you find a white couple or someone who does not like your race, then do not fret, white guys find couples and women who rule them out for being white all the time and know how you feel. | |||
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"And seeing as, as a spieces, we're still (though not as much these days) programmed to be attracted to our own race, any black, Asian etc will find it hard work to find that connection with the right 'white'. I always wonder when I see this sort of thing if that's the case. Are we actually programmed to? Or is it more of a case of upbringing and a learned behaviour? Surely upbringing and learned behaviour is programming. It's when our beliefs are (respectfully) challenged, and we change our minds and outlook on the world around us, thus reprogramming/evolving??? Fuzz" Ah, I thought you were referring to more of a 'genetic programming' - a hardwired thing. I still don't believe in it as such but that's probably down to mixed heritage. | |||
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"Honest answer, Asians, pakastanis, Indians all tend to have a certain look that I just don't find attractive so why would I waste time chatting to them. I also wouldn't chat to a guy that was short or had a small penis, it's just what I'm attracted to, it's not racist, it's not prejudice, it's not like I'm not giving somebody a job because they are these things, it's purely down to attraction and what goes inside me. My cunt, my choice who I fuck. " this | |||
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"My thoughts? That those who bring race into the equation are the ones who have an issue with race! Those of us who don't have issues with race, well, we don't think about it until someone else brings up the subject. Go figure." My thoughts also. | |||
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"I LOVE all skins .. peace and love to all and I like them all." I feel your love.... | |||
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"I've noticed on the site, unless your white or even black, you have no chance of a meet, let alone a respond to a message !? I can understand that white People are far more superior than any other race. It's a hard one to grasp but from experience, if you are white you are more prone to interaction and with being Asian, one needs to put extra work into it!? What are your thoughts!? I apologise in advance but I enjoy a serious provocative topic than who picked there nose... " I've noticed that there are some men who, whether white, black, Caucasian or whatever colour or mix, are giving some gay men no chance of a meet with them, not even a positive response to a message about how their orifices etc could deliver satisfying sensations to the person of these races. Apparently even men who are self-reporting as not getting their share of sex with other races aren't either shagging these tunnels of love or aren't publishing verifications from these other men. Surely this is the sign that there's something dodgey going on? | |||
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"People who don't get their own way are always whinging..." In a nutshell! | |||
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"And seeing as, as a spieces, we're still (though not as much these days) programmed to be attracted to our own race, any black, Asian etc will find it hard work to find that connection with the right 'white'. I always wonder when I see this sort of thing if that's the case. Are we actually programmed to? Or is it more of a case of upbringing and a learned behaviour? Surely upbringing and learned behaviour is programming. It's when our beliefs are (respectfully) challenged, and we change our minds and outlook on the world around us, thus reprogramming/evolving??? Fuzz Ah, I thought you were referring to more of a 'genetic programming' - a hardwired thing. I still don't believe in it as such but that's probably down to mixed heritage. " Surely genetics would want diversity and not your own race. The sticking to your tribe would be more of a social thing I think | |||
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"op your post is highly racist and you have also tarred everyone of one group with the same brush did you start this thread due to the lack of fucks you get from fab? or something more sinister?" I got banned for a reply like that. Its true tho | |||
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"And seeing as, as a spieces, we're still (though not as much these days) programmed to be attracted to our own race, any black, Asian etc will find it hard work to find that connection with the right 'white'. I always wonder when I see this sort of thing if that's the case. Are we actually programmed to? Or is it more of a case of upbringing and a learned behaviour? Surely upbringing and learned behaviour is programming. It's when our beliefs are (respectfully) challenged, and we change our minds and outlook on the world around us, thus reprogramming/evolving??? Fuzz Ah, I thought you were referring to more of a 'genetic programming' - a hardwired thing. I still don't believe in it as such but that's probably down to mixed heritage. Surely genetics would want diversity and not your own race. The sticking to your tribe would be more of a social thing I think" if it's down to genetics then seeing as we're all descended from africa i don't think genes would make any difference whatsoever? i think not anyway. there's all kinds of theories about we choose a partner different to us biologically to get the best chance of our genes surviving but in reality people have always partnered up with people who are convenient, local, and who they see most often because that familiarity makes them more attractive. | |||
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"And seeing as, as a spieces, we're still (though not as much these days) programmed to be attracted to our own race, any black, Asian etc will find it hard work to find that connection with the right 'white'. I always wonder when I see this sort of thing if that's the case. Are we actually programmed to? Or is it more of a case of upbringing and a learned behaviour? Surely upbringing and learned behaviour is programming. It's when our beliefs are (respectfully) challenged, and we change our minds and outlook on the world around us, thus reprogramming/evolving??? Fuzz Ah, I thought you were referring to more of a 'genetic programming' - a hardwired thing. I still don't believe in it as such but that's probably down to mixed heritage. Surely genetics would want diversity and not your own race. The sticking to your tribe would be more of a social thing I think if it's down to genetics then seeing as we're all descended from africa i don't think genes would make any difference whatsoever? i think not anyway. there's all kinds of theories about we choose a partner different to us biologically to get the best chance of our genes surviving but in reality people have always partnered up with people who are convenient, local, and who they see most often because that familiarity makes them more attractive. " Europeans aren't strictly just from africa. After leaving africa early humans here bred with the native Neanderthals forming the hybrids that cover most of the world today. Africans as they are today are closer to "purebred" humans than we are. | |||
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"And seeing as, as a spieces, we're still (though not as much these days) programmed to be attracted to our own race, any black, Asian etc will find it hard work to find that connection with the right 'white'. I always wonder when I see this sort of thing if that's the case. Are we actually programmed to? Or is it more of a case of upbringing and a learned behaviour? Surely upbringing and learned behaviour is programming. It's when our beliefs are (respectfully) challenged, and we change our minds and outlook on the world around us, thus reprogramming/evolving??? Fuzz Ah, I thought you were referring to more of a 'genetic programming' - a hardwired thing. I still don't believe in it as such but that's probably down to mixed heritage. Surely genetics would want diversity and not your own race. The sticking to your tribe would be more of a social thing I think if it's down to genetics then seeing as we're all descended from africa i don't think genes would make any difference whatsoever? i think not anyway. there's all kinds of theories about we choose a partner different to us biologically to get the best chance of our genes surviving but in reality people have always partnered up with people who are convenient, local, and who they see most often because that familiarity makes them more attractive. Europeans aren't strictly just from africa. After leaving africa early humans here bred with the native Neanderthals forming the hybrids that cover most of the world today. Africans as they are today are closer to "purebred" humans than we are." i forgot about the neaderthal thing. | |||
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"And seeing as, as a spieces, we're still (though not as much these days) programmed to be attracted to our own race, any black, Asian etc will find it hard work to find that connection with the right 'white'. I always wonder when I see this sort of thing if that's the case. Are we actually programmed to? Or is it more of a case of upbringing and a learned behaviour? Surely upbringing and learned behaviour is programming. It's when our beliefs are (respectfully) challenged, and we change our minds and outlook on the world around us, thus reprogramming/evolving??? Fuzz Ah, I thought you were referring to more of a 'genetic programming' - a hardwired thing. I still don't believe in it as such but that's probably down to mixed heritage. Surely genetics would want diversity and not your own race. The sticking to your tribe would be more of a social thing I think if it's down to genetics then seeing as we're all descended from africa i don't think genes would make any difference whatsoever? i think not anyway. there's all kinds of theories about we choose a partner different to us biologically to get the best chance of our genes surviving but in reality people have always partnered up with people who are convenient, local, and who they see most often because that familiarity makes them more attractive. Europeans aren't strictly just from africa. After leaving africa early humans here bred with the native Neanderthals forming the hybrids that cover most of the world today. Africans as they are today are closer to "purebred" humans than we are. i forgot about the neaderthal thing." There's an interesting own for you, might have to do some Google digging as its been a long time since I saw it. But there is a tribe on an island somewhere who have an incredibly Neanderthal look (brow ridge etc) and I think it was first a big excitement that they would be very closely related to them so provide insight Turns out they have 0 Neanderthal in them Bit of convergent evolution like koala bears having fingerprints indistinguishable from humans | |||
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"I've noticed on the site, unless your white or even black, you have no chance of a meet, let alone a respond to a message !? I can understand that white People are far more superior than any other race. It's a hard one to grasp but from experience, if you are white you are more prone to interaction and with being Asian, one needs to put extra work into it!? What are your thoughts!? I apologise in advance but I enjoy a serious provocative topic than who picked there nose... " This post is quite shocking. I can state as a fact that 'Who picked their nose?' is a highly provocative topic. | |||
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"Honest answer, Asians, pakastanis, Indians all tend to have a certain look that I just don't find attractive so why would I waste time chatting to them. I also wouldn't chat to a guy that was short or had a small penis, it's just what I'm attracted to, it's not racist, it's not prejudice, it's not like I'm not giving somebody a job because they are these things, it's purely down to attraction and what goes inside me. My cunt, my choice who I fuck. " this response has proper tickeled me | |||
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"Honest answer, Asians, pakastanis, Indians all tend to have a certain look that I just don't find attractive so why would I waste time chatting to them. I also wouldn't chat to a guy that was short or had a small penis, it's just what I'm attracted to, it's not racist, it's not prejudice, it's not like I'm not giving somebody a job because they are these things, it's purely down to attraction and what goes inside me. My cunt, my choice who I fuck. this response has proper tickeled me " That's not true. Your "preference" towards the causus race also affects who you employ. | |||
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"I've noticed on the site, unless your white or even black, you have no chance of a meet, let alone a respond to a message !? I can understand that white People are far more superior than any other race. It's a hard one to grasp but from experience, if you are white you are more prone to interaction and with being Asian, one needs to put extra work into it!? What are your thoughts!? I apologise in advance but I enjoy a serious provocative topic than who picked there nose... " your not the only one who finding it hard this site i am in the same boat after being here six months | |||
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"And seeing as, as a spieces, we're still (though not as much these days) programmed to be attracted to our own race, any black, Asian etc will find it hard work to find that connection with the right 'white'. I always wonder when I see this sort of thing if that's the case. Are we actually programmed to? Or is it more of a case of upbringing and a learned behaviour? Surely upbringing and learned behaviour is programming. It's when our beliefs are (respectfully) challenged, and we change our minds and outlook on the world around us, thus reprogramming/evolving??? Fuzz Ah, I thought you were referring to more of a 'genetic programming' - a hardwired thing. I still don't believe in it as such but that's probably down to mixed heritage. Surely genetics would want diversity and not your own race. The sticking to your tribe would be more of a social thing I think if it's down to genetics then seeing as we're all descended from africa i don't think genes would make any difference whatsoever? i think not anyway. there's all kinds of theories about we choose a partner different to us biologically to get the best chance of our genes surviving but in reality people have always partnered up with people who are convenient, local, and who they see most often because that familiarity makes them more attractive. Europeans aren't strictly just from africa. After leaving africa early humans here bred with the native Neanderthals forming the hybrids that cover most of the world today. Africans as they are today are closer to "purebred" humans than we are. i forgot about the neaderthal thing. There's an interesting own for you, might have to do some Google digging as its been a long time since I saw it. But there is a tribe on an island somewhere who have an incredibly Neanderthal look (brow ridge etc) and I think it was first a big excitement that they would be very closely related to them so provide insight Turns out they have 0 Neanderthal in them Bit of convergent evolution like koala bears having fingerprints indistinguishable from humans" i've only done microbes so far, when it comes to genes and diversity, so it will be interesting to find out about the human genome ancestry and maybe understand that. | |||
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" i've only done microbes so far, when it comes to genes and diversity, so it will be interesting to find out about the human genome ancestry and maybe understand that." You should shag a human some time, seriously. | |||
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"I've noticed on the site, unless your white or even black, you have no chance of a meet, let alone a respond to a message !? I can understand that white People are far more superior than any other race. It's a hard one to grasp but from experience, if you are white you are more prone to interaction and with being Asian, one needs to put extra work into it!? What are your thoughts!? I apologise in advance but I enjoy a serious provocative topic than who picked there nose... your not the only one who finding it hard this site i am in the same boat after being here six months so do not say White People Are Superior which is rude and uncalled for on here " | |||
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"Watch the Channel 4 programme 'Is Love Racist'. That should answer many of your questions, including the statement that "race is only an issue when race is brought up by people" which the programme clearly shows is not true and that we all do it subconsciously. Anyway, it's time to realise we've been Sapien Sapiens for a very long time and we're not separate species, even though some morons think so. " i watched that, i think it's true that white people have been held as the epitome of beauty and something to aspire to. even the adverts in between the programme mostly showed attractive white people. some countries, korea for example, the people even have surgery or use make up to look more westernised and there's not even a white majority of people there. i think dating is different to a fuck site though, like here anyone can be fetishised for anything. with dating there has to be some attraction but people are looking for something deeper than an object, well i hope they are. | |||
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"I believe in equality. I will fuck all races and especially love big booty black women, sexy Indian girls, Latina and Spanish women too! I could fall in love with a Brazilian lady! Also like Swedish, Russian and Australian ladies too! Fuck the whole world I say! There's only two things I despise. People who are intolerant of other cultures and the French. " Soft sod | |||
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"I believe in equality. I will fuck all races and especially love big booty black women, sexy Indian girls, Latina and Spanish women too! I could fall in love with a Brazilian lady! Also like Swedish, Russian and Australian ladies too! Fuck the whole world I say! There's only two things I despise. People who are intolerant of other cultures and the French. " Allez la beouf! | |||
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"Wow so many responses . A healthy debate . Just to point out this has nothing to do with the outset of my experiences, this is only a prospective into the ideology of superiority amongst races, be it in a social capacity, status etc Although some have clearly misread the thread ! Apologies for the late response as I was very busy with a date, my god an afternoon tea did wonders with the proseco " "ive noticed on this site" was your first sentence | |||
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"My thoughts? That those who bring race into the equation are the ones who have an issue with race! Those of us who don't have issues with race, well, we don't think about it until someone else brings up the subject. Go figure." Exactly this | |||
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"My thoughts? That those who bring race into the equation are the ones who have an issue with race! Those of us who don't have issues with race, well, we don't think about it until someone else brings up the subject. Go figure. Exactly this " Seconded | |||
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"Wow so many responses . A healthy debate . Just to point out this has nothing to do with the outset of my experiences, this is only a prospective into the ideology of superiority amongst races, be it in a social capacity, status etc Although some have clearly misread the thread ! Apologies for the late response as I was very busy with a date, my god an afternoon tea did wonders with the proseco " Explain what "I've noticed" means ?? I'm not sure we've misread, I think maybe your back tracking.......... hmmmmmm | |||
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"Wow so many responses . A healthy debate . Just to point out this has nothing to do with the outset of my experiences, this is only a prospective into the ideology of superiority amongst races, be it in a social capacity, status etc Although some have clearly misread the thread ! Apologies for the late response as I was very busy with a date, my god an afternoon tea did wonders with the proseco " Yeah mate you can't say "it has nothing to do with my experiences after saying "I've noticed on the site.... It's a hard one to grasp but from experience...." Your whole position is based on personal experience | |||
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" I've noticed that there are some men who, whether Asian, black, Caucasian or whatever colour or mix, are giving some gay men no chance of a meet with them, not even a positive response to a message about how their orifices etc could deliver satisfying sensations to the person of these races. They must think that they are superior to gay rainbow colors! Apparently even men who are self-reporting as not getting their share of sex with other races aren't either shagging these tunnels of love or aren't publishing verifications from these other men. Surely this is the sign that there's something dodgey going on? " | |||
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" Shame on you if you truly believe people are inferior because of their ethnicity or race.... No-one can make you feel inferior without your permission. This well said " | |||
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"Me personally I stick to who I'm sexually attracted too.Its not about colour it's just about who I find sexual attractive and there personally is a must aswell. My type as in looks is tall,toned,Pale skin,fair hair and green or blue eyes. So that rules out all black and Asian people.Thats not a insult to them it's just that that sexually they are not what turns me on looks wise. You can like someone as a person and think there lovely but not find them sexually your type at all. There's good and bad in all races and each race has there amazing people and there idiots so I see people as equal but sexually I will never sleep with anyone that I don't find appealing to my personal sexual taistes. It's that simple x " Haha! You seriously think these are your own preferences and not ones drilled into you subconsciously by tv ads, films, magazines, your parents, newspapers and general society? So you think your preference was formed in the womb? | |||
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"I believe in equality. I will fuck all races and especially love big booty black women, sexy Indian girls, Latina and Spanish women too! I could fall in love with a Brazilian lady! Also like Swedish, Russian and Australian ladies too! Fuck the whole world I say! I c what u did there!! Ver ver funny There's only two things I despise. People who are intolerant of other cultures and the French. " | |||
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"I just did not very scientific experiment and looked at the first 10 profiles that came up in my local search, women and couples. 50% of them, specified on their profile, either white only, or no Asians. I think that's quite a high percentage. " The reason for that is that all Asians look, smell and behave the same. Everyone knows that. All 1.5 billion of them (not including Chinese and 'orientals' who also all look the same). So we can disregard them cos we know them all and it's a 'personal' preference my parents/tv/media etc gave me. | |||
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"Watch the Channel 4 programme 'Is Love Racist'. That should answer many of your questions, including the statement that "race is only an issue when race is brought up by people" which the programme clearly shows is not true and that we all do it subconsciously. Anyway, it's time to realise we've been Sapien Sapiens for a very long time and we're not separate species, even though some morons think so. i watched that, i think it's true that white people have been held as the epitome of beauty and something to aspire to. even the adverts in between the programme mostly showed attractive white people. some countries, korea for example, the people even have surgery or use make up to look more westernised and there's not even a white majority of people there. i think dating is different to a fuck site though, like here anyone can be fetishised for anything. with dating there has to be some attraction but people are looking for something deeper than an object, well i hope they are." I couldn't agree more. I differ with the the fact most are looking for something deeper than an object though. Most (not sorry to say this!) women on here are so open minded they just want a ten inch dick to stick in and out. Fair enough. They choice. They'll never know the truth. | |||
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"I've seen some offensive threads but this has to take top spot " You're white, why are you offended? I dont take offense at all the single guys are amazing threads.... | |||
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"Watch the Channel 4 programme 'Is Love Racist'. That should answer many of your questions, including the statement that "race is only an issue when race is brought up by people" which the programme clearly shows is not true and that we all do it subconsciously. Anyway, it's time to realise we've been Sapien Sapiens for a very long time and we're not separate species, even though some morons think so. i watched that, i think it's true that white people have been held as the epitome of beauty and something to aspire to. even the adverts in between the programme mostly showed attractive white people. some countries, korea for example, the people even have surgery or use make up to look more westernised and there's not even a white majority of people there. i think dating is different to a fuck site though, like here anyone can be fetishised for anything. with dating there has to be some attraction but people are looking for something deeper than an object, well i hope they are. I couldn't agree more. I differ with the the fact most are looking for something deeper than an object though. Most (not sorry to say this!) women on here are so open minded they just want a ten inch dick to stick in and out. Fair enough. They choice. They'll never know the truth. " Guess who drank the bitrex | |||
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"I'm happy to bring race into it because I experience the not white thing. When people say that those bringing race into are the ones with the problem, they're right. Just not the problem they think. The Is Love Racist programme should have been called Is Love Prejudiced. People really don't see that the argument that it's preference comes from an internal bias born from the fact that white is the accepted de facto standard of attractive... for the majority in this country of all races. I'm not asking any of you to fuck me or anyone you don't fancy but lets stop pretending that Asians are seen as the no-go/rare choice with black next and white is the premium choice. When you get uninvited to a swingers party because a couple attending state that they won't attend because a Paki had been invited or get the message from people with "Won't meet Black or Asians" on their profile saying they'd make an exception because they'd like to try an Indian ho and other such delights you might see race in a different light. The OP was clear he was being provocative, I think only one post responded with the tongue in cheek required." what on earth are you on about? | |||
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"Honest answer, Asians, pakastanis, Indians all tend to have a certain look that I just don't find attractive so why would I waste time chatting to them. I also wouldn't chat to a guy that was short or had a small penis, it's just what I'm attracted to, it's not racist, it's not prejudice, it's not like I'm not giving somebody a job because they are these things, it's purely down to attraction and what goes inside me. My cunt, my choice who I fuck. " | |||
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"Honest answer, Asians, pakastanis, Indians all tend to have a certain look that I just don't find attractive so why would I waste time chatting to them. I also wouldn't chat to a guy that was short or had a small penis, it's just what I'm attracted to, it's not racist, it's not prejudice, it's not like I'm not giving somebody a job because they are these things, it's purely down to attraction and what goes inside me. My cunt, my choice who I fuck. " Your body, but not your choice. (Actually your body for a short time then back into the earth who it really belongs to). Why does everyone seem to think they make their own choices? Our decisions are influenced by many things that have been drilled into us since childhood, starting with school. You think you're choosing but you're not. | |||
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"My thoughts? That those who bring race into the equation are the ones who have an issue with race! Those of us who don't have issues with race, well, we don't think about it until someone else brings up the subject. Go figure." Agree with this. | |||
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"This is what I wrote on another thread about the subject: The rejection of people based on appearance has been happening for a long time, and whether you state it as preference, it still looks incredibly bigoted and small-minded - in my opinion." Fixed that for you. Do you agree with it now? | |||
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"This is what I wrote on another thread about the subject: The rejection of people based on appearance has been happening for a long time, and whether you state it as preference, it still looks incredibly bigoted and small-minded - in my opinion. Fixed that for you. Do you agree with it now?" Nah, I'll stick with my original opinion thanks. | |||
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"Honest answer, Asians, pakastanis, Indians all tend to have a certain look that I just don't find attractive so why would I waste time chatting to them. I also wouldn't chat to a guy that was short or had a small penis, it's just what I'm attracted to, it's not racist, it's not prejudice, it's not like I'm not giving somebody a job because they are these things, it's purely down to attraction and what goes inside me. My cunt, my choice who I fuck. Your body, but not your choice. (Actually your body for a short time then back into the earth who it really belongs to). Why does everyone seem to think they make their own choices? Our decisions are influenced by many things that have been drilled into us since childhood, starting with school. You think you're choosing but you're not. " That's heavy man. | |||
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"This is what I wrote on another thread about the subject: The rejection of people based on appearance has been happening for a long time, and whether you state it as preference, it still looks incredibly bigoted and small-minded - in my opinion. Fixed that for you. Do you agree with it now? Nah, I'll stick with my original opinion thanks." So you think its perfectly ok to choose your sexual partners based on thier apperance. But think its small minded and bigoted if people choose based on the single biggest factor in apperance? | |||
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"This is what I wrote on another thread about the subject: The rejection of people based on ethnicity has been happening for a long time, and whether you state it as preference, it still looks incredibly bigoted and small-minded - in my opinion." people choose on looks, fat thin are they bigoted too?? | |||
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"This is what I wrote on another thread about the subject: The rejection of people based on appearance has been happening for a long time, and whether you state it as preference, it still looks incredibly bigoted and small-minded - in my opinion. Fixed that for you. Do you agree with it now? Nah, I'll stick with my original opinion thanks. So you think its perfectly ok to choose your sexual partners based on thier apperance. But think its small minded and bigoted if people choose based on the single biggest factor in apperance?" I think it's incredibly bigoted and small-minded to rule out a whole race of people, yes. I choose my sexual partners based on a number of factors, which aren't exlusive. | |||
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"Ive seen many a females profile saying ,black men only,doubt the white gentleman of the site get in a paddy about it.White people are not rascist ,black people say we are.I was with a black guy for 22 years so im not." a lot say athletic only they must be fattists lol the thread is just stpid | |||
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"This is what I wrote on another thread about the subject: The rejection of people based on ethnicity has been happening for a long time, and whether you state it as preference, it still looks incredibly bigoted and small-minded - in my opinion. people choose on looks, fat thin are they bigoted too??" I think anyone who rules out a group of people are small-minded, yes. However, when it comes to race, it's much more complicated. | |||
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"Ive seen many a females profile saying ,black men only,doubt the white gentleman of the site get in a paddy about it.White people are not rascist ,black people say we are.I was with a black guy for 22 years so im not." To be honest I don't like this sort of discussion. I have met a white lady on here and she showed me all the racist comments which were sent by whites guys . Someone called her matte spunk lover. She don't reply them buy block them all. So sad. | |||
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