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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago
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Yes, but not necessarily in a physical way, for me.
I have to have my mind turned on, which is why I'm a timewaster to many. They might be pretty to look at but I just can't connect when messaging. I've had sex with Tories because they have interested me and that provides the sexual stimulation.
That said, in a club, when I'm in the right mood, you just have to smell right... and not talk too much.
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"Yes, but not necessarily in a physical way, for me.
I have to have my mind turned on, which is why I'm a timewaster to many. They might be pretty to look at but I just can't connect when messaging. I've had sex with Tories because they have interested me and that provides the sexual stimulation.
That said, in a club, when I'm in the right mood, you just have to smell right... and not talk too much.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Not going to get my knickers off (or pushed to the side) for someone I don't fancy  "
Couldn't agree more... definitely has to be a physical attraction. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I'm not fucking someone who doesn't fancy me!! 
Good for you! "
You know what I mean if someone is just going through the motions - what's the point in that? |
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I have had a few blindfold meets where the lady doesn't see me until the end.
I agree that she has to fancy me (my profile), but at the meet...well I could be anyone.
So far they have fancied me afterwards as well...but you never know.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Yes absolutely, although it's usually about mind and personality rather than looks. I was recently informed by a guy, looking me straight in the eye, that this is not the same for men tho. Made me feel a million dollars. He subsequently seemed surprised that we didn't have sex again. |
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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago
Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound |
"I have had a few blindfold meets where the lady doesn't see me until the end.
I agree that she has to fancy me (my profile), but at the meet...well I could be anyone.
So far they have fancied me afterwards as well...but you never know.
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You're an attractive man, in a mainstream way, so should appeal to people.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Ladies do you have to fancy someone to fuck them? 
please say no, please say no, please say no 
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You would be more than welcome to sleep with me without fancying me. But while we're at it, will you just pat me on the head and tell me I'm pretty every now and again please. Shouldn't be as awkward then.
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"So am a little unsure about the concensus of the forum there... are you mostly saying there needs to be a smidgen of attraction before you get naked?  "
The 'if it moves' jump on it, is largely absent, requiring a little more than a fragmentary element of attraction. |
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"I have had a few blindfold meets where the lady doesn't see me until the end.
I agree that she has to fancy me (my profile), but at the meet...well I could be anyone.
So far they have fancied me afterwards as well...but you never know.
You're an attractive man, in a mainstream way, so should appeal to people.
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Ouch!! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Yes, but not necessarily in a physical way, for me.
I have to have my mind turned on, which is why I'm a timewaster to many. They might be pretty to look at but I just can't connect when messaging. I've had sex with Tories because they have interested me and that provides the sexual stimulation.
That said, in a club, when I'm in the right mood, you just have to smell right... and not talk too much.
This "
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Yes, but not necessarily in a physical way, for me.
I have to have my mind turned on, which is why I'm a timewaster to many. They might be pretty to look at but I just can't connect when messaging. I've had sex with Tories because they have interested me and that provides the sexual stimulation.
That said, in a club, when I'm in the right mood, you just have to smell right... and not talk too much.
This
*checks aftershave cellar.
Joop!Thrill
Boss Hugo Boss
Armani Code
Joop!Go
CK Crave
Old Spice
Essence of Haribo
One of those should cover it "
60% of the time, it will work everytime  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Yes, but not necessarily in a physical way, for me.
I have to have my mind turned on, which is why I'm a timewaster to many. They might be pretty to look at but I just can't connect when messaging. I've had sex with Tories because they have interested me and that provides the sexual stimulation.
That said, in a club, when I'm in the right mood, you just have to smell right... and not talk too much.
This
*checks aftershave cellar.
Joop!Thrill
Boss Hugo Boss
Armani Code
Joop!Go
CK Crave
Old Spice
Essence of Haribo
One of those should cover it
60% of the time, it will work everytime "
I only need it to work once |
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For an arranged meet with just the one guy , yes there has to be an attraction . We have walked away many times when we haven't clicked with the guy .
However , in a group situation there is less of a need to be attracted in such a way . There still has to be something , and he has to be clean and respectful , but the pre fuck connection is less of an issue . |
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"I have had a few blindfold meets where the lady doesn't see me until the end.
I agree that she has to fancy me (my profile), but at the meet...well I could be anyone.
So far they have fancied me afterwards as well...but you never know.
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If it transpired, after the meet, that you just were anyone, you would likely not be here now.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Absolutely. I'd be a wet fish in bed if I didn't feel attracted to the man I was with. Might as well us a dildo.
I think 'wet fish' might be fine for some. "
I don't smell like a wet fish. Just putting that out there. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Yes, but necessarily in looks alone. Personality and sense of humour plays a big part. And being compatible. But that's in a couples scenario.
If I was looking for a single man then yes I would have to fancy him completely x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Hang on... is the OP implying that he can shag someone that he doesn't find attractive?... Because I can't do that.
I mean physically cannot make myself get aroused for someone that I am not attracted to. That last sentence pretty much explains it all really. How does a man make himself have sex with anyone that does not hold some allure for them? |
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"I have had a few blindfold meets where the lady doesn't see me until the end.
I agree that she has to fancy me (my profile), but at the meet...well I could be anyone.
So far they have fancied me afterwards as well...but you never know.
If it transpired, after the meet, that you just were anyone, you would likely not be here now. "
That is true I suppose. Sage words indeed |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Hang on... is the OP implying that he can shag someone that he doesn't find attractive?... Because I can't do that.
I mean physically cannot make myself get aroused for someone that I am not attracted to. That last sentence pretty much explains it all really. How does a man make himself have sex with anyone that does not hold some allure for them? "
Alcohol, lots and lots of alcohol  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Hang on... is the OP implying that he can shag someone that he doesn't find attractive?... Because I can't do that.
I mean physically cannot make myself get aroused for someone that I am not attracted to. That last sentence pretty much explains it all really. How does a man make himself have sex with anyone that does not hold some allure for them?
Alcohol, lots and lots of alcohol "
Ah, beer shpectacles. Never tried them myself |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"No. Any dick will do
I remember Jason Donavon singing that on top of the pops "
All I can think of is those words to the song and I can't remember the real ones |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"No. Any dick will do
I remember Jason Donavon singing that on top of the pops
All I can think of is those words to the song and I can't remember the real ones "
She closed her eyes....i wiped it on the curtains!.... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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No. I'm a picky picky so and so. Not only do they have to have aroused me intellectually, I need to look at them and think phhwooaaar!
That's possibly why I have zero meets |
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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago
Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound |
"I have had a few blindfold meets where the lady doesn't see me until the end.
I agree that she has to fancy me (my profile), but at the meet...well I could be anyone.
So far they have fancied me afterwards as well...but you never know.
You're an attractive man, in a mainstream way, so should appeal to people.
Ouch!! "
How's that an ouch!? You are attractive.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"No. Any dick will do
I remember Jason Donavon singing that on top of the pops
All I can think of is those words to the song and I can't remember the real ones
She closed her eyes....i wiped it on the curtains!.... "
Stop it now |
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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago
Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound |
"Yes, but not necessarily in a physical way, for me.
I have to have my mind turned on, which is why I'm a timewaster to many. They might be pretty to look at but I just can't connect when messaging. I've had sex with Tories because they have interested me and that provides the sexual stimulation.
That said, in a club, when I'm in the right mood, you just have to smell right... and not talk too much.
This
*checks aftershave cellar.
Joop!Thrill
Boss Hugo Boss
Armani Code
Joop!Go
CK Crave
Old Spice
Essence of Haribo
One of those should cover it "
Try not to mix them all together. No Polo, I notice.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"It's the same for blokes, or at least me. If I don't fancy you I'm not fucking you.
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yeah im likewise mate if i don't fancy them the dick isn't rising simply as that |
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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago
Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound |
"Hang on... is the OP implying that he can shag someone that he doesn't find attractive?... Because I can't do that.
I mean physically cannot make myself get aroused for someone that I am not attracted to. That last sentence pretty much explains it all really. How does a man make himself have sex with anyone that does not hold some allure for them? "
I don't understand this either. I have had men walk out because they just didn't fancy me when they saw me in the flesh or naked.
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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago
Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound |
"No. Any dick will do
I remember Jason Donavon singing that on top of the pops
All I can think of is those words to the song and I can't remember the real ones
She closed her eyes....i wiped it on the curtains!.... "
Ah, you got there first.
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By *iss SJWoman
over a year ago
Hull |
"Hang on... is the OP implying that he can shag someone that he doesn't find attractive?... Because I can't do that.
I mean physically cannot make myself get aroused for someone that I am not attracted to. That last sentence pretty much explains it all really. How does a man make himself have sex with anyone that does not hold some allure for them? "
I sincerely hope that the guys I meet share the same sentiment! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Hang on... is the OP implying that he can shag someone that he doesn't find attractive?... Because I can't do that.
I mean physically cannot make myself get aroused for someone that I am not attracted to. That last sentence pretty much explains it all really. How does a man make himself have sex with anyone that does not hold some allure for them?
I sincerely hope that the guys I meet share the same sentiment! "
Yea because I'm sure you will get that issue |
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By *arry247Couple
over a year ago
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"Ladies do you have to fancy someone to fuck them? "
No of course not.
But that is completely different from fucking someone who repluses you.
Millions of men and women around the world are fucking someone this minute who the do not fancy, some are even married to each other |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Yes, but not necessarily in a physical way, for me.
I have to have my mind turned on, which is why I'm a timewaster to many. They might be pretty to look at but I just can't connect when messaging. I've had sex with Tories because they have interested me and that provides the sexual stimulation.
That said, in a club, when I'm in the right mood, you just have to smell right... and not talk too much.
This
*checks aftershave cellar.
Joop!Thrill
Boss Hugo Boss
Armani Code
Joop!Go
CK Crave
Old Spice
Essence of Haribo
One of those should cover it
Try not to mix them all together. No Polo, I notice.
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Duly noted
*adds Polo and Polo's to the shopping list just in case |
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By *iss SJWoman
over a year ago
Hull |
"Hang on... is the OP implying that he can shag someone that he doesn't find attractive?... Because I can't do that.
I mean physically cannot make myself get aroused for someone that I am not attracted to. That last sentence pretty much explains it all really. How does a man make himself have sex with anyone that does not hold some allure for them?
I sincerely hope that the guys I meet share the same sentiment!
Yea because I'm sure you will get that issue "
Of course I do. Men complain they don't get meets and messages so I don't know they aren't just seeing me because I was the only one to say yes. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Hang on... is the OP implying that he can shag someone that he doesn't find attractive?... Because I can't do that.
I mean physically cannot make myself get aroused for someone that I am not attracted to. That last sentence pretty much explains it all really. How does a man make himself have sex with anyone that does not hold some allure for them?
I sincerely hope that the guys I meet share the same sentiment!
Yea because I'm sure you will get that issue
Of course I do. Men complain they don't get meets and messages so I don't know they aren't just seeing me because I was the only one to say yes."
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By *ENDAROOSCouple
over a year ago
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"Ladies do you have to fancy someone to fuck them? "
There are different levels of attraction.
I don't need to find someone drop dead gorgeous.
However, there has to be something that I find sexy/attractive about them. I also have to like/want to be in their company. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Ladies do you have to fancy someone to fuck them?
Yes. What a peculiar question. "
This. Couldn't think of anything less sexy than sex with someone I didn't have the hots for. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Ladies do you have to fancy someone to fuck them?
Yes. What a peculiar question.
This. Couldn't think of anything less sexy than sex with someone I didn't have the hots for."
I can. I can think of lots of things less sexy than that. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Ladies do you have to fancy someone to fuck them?
Yes. What a peculiar question.
This. Couldn't think of anything less sexy than sex with someone I didn't have the hots for.
I can. I can think of lots of things less sexy than that. "
Haha. Ok. Smart arse. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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For nsa sex in fab world i need to be pysically attracted but full on fancying them no...
If they were the full package of looks, personality and good sex I'd fancy them so much I'd probably want more than just nsa. |
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