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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago

Opening first messages.

I can't stand them, Those ones get an automatic delete from me. Makes me wonder if it's the same people who then write in the forums about their lack of success on here or the ones who think threatening to close their accounts in the forums will drum up interest.

Really how hard can it be to remember people male and female opening the message are actual humans beings....... Thursday rant over. ??

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

FaF?

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

You know who has the worst opening messages for me? Women and couples.

Unless they're from the lounge forum and I know them. If I get strangers messaging, it is one line and not even a hello/hi. I feel replying is a real effort from me to initiate a conversation. It should have been easier for me surely.

Guys who send messages are actually quite polite (apart from 'can I suck you off').

That above is my honest experience from opening messages I get.

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By *ophieslutTV/TS  over a year ago

Central

People who post stories of failure never copy and paste some of their sent messages - it should be obligatory.

Usually too the cruder messages expect immediately to meet and shag your brains out - I guess it works for some

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"FaF? "

Enlighten the thick? I have no idea what that means

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"FaF?

Enlighten the thick? I have no idea what that means "

Fancy a Fuck? It's my staple opening message to any lady when I'm off a-courting

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"FaF?

Enlighten the thick? I have no idea what that means

Fancy a Fuck? It's my staple opening message to any lady when I'm off a-courting "

Pmsl. Thanks for letting me know. Wow lucky ladies

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"FaF?

Enlighten the thick? I have no idea what that means

Fancy a Fuck? It's my staple opening message to any lady when I'm off a-courting "

I thought it meant Fuck Aold Fart xxx

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"FaF?

Enlighten the thick? I have no idea what that means

Fancy a Fuck? It's my staple opening message to any lady when I'm off a-courting

I thought it meant Fuck Aold Fart xxx"

I always thought that meant Fit As F*ck x

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

I only ever had one...and it was absolutely disgusting ...the sender must have been one sick puppy

it was so bad I reported it to admin and I'm not that easily shockable usually...

admin obviously agreed with me as they removed the profile

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

The worse one is 'how you finding fab'. It's not rude or crude but damn right annoying

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"The worse one is 'how you finding fab'. It's not rude or crude but damn right annoying "

Get them all the time. X

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"The worse one is 'how you finding fab'. It's not rude or crude but damn right annoying "

How are you finding fab?

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"The worse one is 'how you finding fab'. It's not rude or crude but damn right annoying

Get them all the time. X "

And you have been here 10 months! So there isn't a cut off point then? Where they think that actually as you have been here a while you might be finding fab ok.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"The worse one is 'how you finding fab'. It's not rude or crude but damn right annoying

How are you finding fab? "

Fabulous

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"The worse one is 'how you finding fab'. It's not rude or crude but damn right annoying "

How about..

can I ask you a question?

Ahh that one does my piss in!

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"The worse one is 'how you finding fab'. It's not rude or crude but damn right annoying "

And this

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

I've never done 'rude and crude' but it's no surprise it doesn't work. I'm always polite and respectful, having said that i haven't had much joy with that either. Seems you just can't win.

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By *rincess peachWoman  over a year ago

shits creek


"The worse one is 'how you finding fab'. It's not rude or crude but damn right annoying "

Urgh..

If I respond to that one it standard is....

The forums are great, unfortunately I can't say the same for the messages I receive

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"The worse one is 'how you finding fab'. It's not rude or crude but damn right annoying

How are you finding fab?

Fabulous "

Awesome!

*checks the t'interweb for other topics of conversation to include in first message*

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By *ust PeachyWoman  over a year ago

Prestonish


"The worse one is 'how you finding fab'. It's not rude or crude but damn right annoying

How about..

can I ask you a question?

Ahh that one does my piss in!"

If I can be arsed to reply - it's always with 'NO!'

How's your day? Or simply 'hi!' Get on my nerves too!

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"The worse one is 'how you finding fab'. It's not rude or crude but damn right annoying

Urgh..

If I respond to that one it standard is....

The forums are great, unfortunately I can't say the same for the messages I receive "

Yea man

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

The issue is, if you send a woman a thought out message tailored to them, you often get accused of copy and pasting anyway. It's not a wonder why some men just don't bother anymore

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By *andsonjohnMan  over a year ago

in the eye of the storm


"Opening first messages.

I can't stand them, Those ones get an automatic delete from me. Makes me wonder if it's the same people who then write in the forums about their lack of success on here or the ones who think threatening to close their accounts in the forums will drum up interest.

Really how hard can it be to remember people male and female opening the message are actual humans beings....... Thursday rant over. ??"

You mean to tell me your not a object on here looking to be used tink well i never

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"Opening first messages.

I can't stand them, Those ones get an automatic delete from me. Makes me wonder if it's the same people who then write in the forums about their lack of success on here or the ones who think threatening to close their accounts in the forums will drum up interest.

Really how hard can it be to remember people male and female opening the message are actual humans beings....... Thursday rant over. ??

You mean to tell me your not a object on here looking to be used tink well i never "

Omg where you been hiding chip? I looked you up the other day but couldn't find you. Chip been on a brake?

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By *rincess peachWoman  over a year ago

shits creek


"The worse one is 'how you finding fab'. It's not rude or crude but damn right annoying

Urgh..

If I respond to that one it standard is....

The forums are great, unfortunately I can't say the same for the messages I receive

Yea man "

Yea man

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By *he Queen of TartsWoman  over a year ago
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My Own Little World


"The worse one is 'how you finding fab'. It's not rude or crude but damn right annoying "

I usually reply with

'It's in my bookmark bar, I just click it and it brings me straight here'.

They normally go silent after that

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

i dont mind rude messages from the right profile

the right profile that is

dirtier the better, maybe i am just filthy

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"The issue is, if you send a woman a thought out message tailored to them, you often get accused of copy and pasting anyway. It's not a wonder why some men just don't bother anymore"

This post is a copy and paste im sure of it

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"The worse one is 'how you finding fab'. It's not rude or crude but damn right annoying

I usually reply with

'It's in my bookmark bar, I just click it and it brings me straight here'.

They normally go silent after that "

I'm stealing this one

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By *andsonjohnMan  over a year ago

in the eye of the storm


"Opening first messages.

I can't stand them, Those ones get an automatic delete from me. Makes me wonder if it's the same people who then write in the forums about their lack of success on here or the ones who think threatening to close their accounts in the forums will drum up interest.

Really how hard can it be to remember people male and female opening the message are actual humans beings....... Thursday rant over. ??

You mean to tell me your not a object on here looking to be used tink well i never

Omg where you been hiding chip? I looked you up the other day but couldn't find you. Chip been on a brake? "

Could say that diaries full

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"The issue is, if you send a woman a thought out message tailored to them, you often get accused of copy and pasting anyway. It's not a wonder why some men just don't bother anymore

This post is a copy and paste im sure of it "

You're heading in the right direction for a slapped arse!

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By *eesideMan  over a year ago

margate sumwear by the sea

Easy arnsar op.

Don't reed opening messages you get and just send your own opening message out to people you want to meet

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By *lem-H-FandangoMan  over a year ago

salisbury


"Opening first messages.

I can't stand them, Those ones get an automatic delete from me. Makes me wonder if it's the same people who then write in the forums about their lack of success on here or the ones who think threatening to close their accounts in the forums will drum up interest.

Really how hard can it be to remember people male and female opening the message are actual humans beings....... Thursday rant over. ??"

Cunts aren't they?

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"Opening first messages.

I can't stand them, Those ones get an automatic delete from me. Makes me wonder if it's the same people who then write in the forums about their lack of success on here or the ones who think threatening to close their accounts in the forums will drum up interest.

Really how hard can it be to remember people male and female opening the message are actual humans beings....... Thursday rant over. ??

Cunts aren't they? "

Pmsl.

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By *orum TrollWoman  over a year ago

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most of my opening messages are just compliments, i just ignore them.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"most of my opening messages are just compliments, i just ignore them."

What kind of message would you rather receive?

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By *orum TrollWoman  over a year ago

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"most of my opening messages are just compliments, i just ignore them.

What kind of message would you rather receive?"

most of these people have no pics so i can't even decide if they're mutually attractive anyway. i just wonder why they think i'm even compatible?

not really arsed about messages any more. if i get on with someone then i will and no effort needs to made to chat coz we're both enjoying chatting and can continue chats at any time with intervals in between.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

One guy sent me a pic of his poo splattered dildo asking if id rim him and he'll return the favour.

Another asked if I was interested in having a threesome with himself and his dog. He added his dog was a "big boy " .

Yeah like that's going to make me go running to him! .

Some very wrong people on this site.

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By *ild_oatsMan  over a year ago

the land of saints & sinners


"FaF? "

And the Welsh version is...

Ffansi f**k

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By *utterflyandArtificeCouple  over a year ago

Trowbridge

We get really turned on and unlatch the front door whe we get

"I will be passing yours later, want me to pop in"

Salivating at the thought.....not!

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"most of my opening messages are just compliments, i just ignore them.

What kind of message would you rather receive?

most of these people have no pics so i can't even decide if they're mutually attractive anyway. i just wonder why they think i'm even compatible?

not really arsed about messages any more. if i get on with someone then i will and no effort needs to made to chat coz we're both enjoying chatting and can continue chats at any time with intervals in between.

"

I get that. There's a few women on here i keep in touch with, usually a flurry of messages once in a while. It's good as there's no expectation and no pressure, just occasionally checking in with each other. The problem i find is getting the ball rolling in the first place.

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By *orum TrollWoman  over a year ago

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"most of my opening messages are just compliments, i just ignore them.

What kind of message would you rather receive?

most of these people have no pics so i can't even decide if they're mutually attractive anyway. i just wonder why they think i'm even compatible?

not really arsed about messages any more. if i get on with someone then i will and no effort needs to made to chat coz we're both enjoying chatting and can continue chats at any time with intervals in between.

I get that. There's a few women on here i keep in touch with, usually a flurry of messages once in a while. It's good as there's no expectation and no pressure, just occasionally checking in with each other. The problem i find is getting the ball rolling in the first place."

been here a few years, used to be open to chatting to anyone but now yeah i don't wanna chat to anyone and struggle with who i actually reply to coz i found chat tends to go this way on here:

message politely (message could be anything so long as it's not shit or selfish), i'm interested so chat, chat can go on a while or not long but the chat is good, meet for sex, never hear from again until they want more sex.

so i'm loathe to reply to anyone, and the compliments mean nothing to someone like me coz it's someone elses opinion of me who just wants to stick their dick in me. i don't value that kind of opinion.

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By *ild_oatsMan  over a year ago

the land of saints & sinners


"most of my opening messages are just compliments, i just ignore them.

What kind of message would you rather receive?

most of these people have no pics so i can't even decide if they're mutually attractive anyway. i just wonder why they think i'm even compatible?

not really arsed about messages any more. if i get on with someone then i will and no effort needs to made to chat coz we're both enjoying chatting and can continue chats at any time with intervals in between.

I get that. There's a few women on here i keep in touch with, usually a flurry of messages once in a while. It's good as there's no expectation and no pressure, just occasionally checking in with each other. The problem i find is getting the ball rolling in the first place.

been here a few years, used to be open to chatting to anyone but now yeah i don't wanna chat to anyone and struggle with who i actually reply to coz i found chat tends to go this way on here:

message politely (message could be anything so long as it's not shit or selfish), i'm interested so chat, chat can go on a while or not long but the chat is good, meet for sex, never hear from again until they want more sex.

so i'm loathe to reply to anyone, and the compliments mean nothing to someone like me coz it's someone elses opinion of me who just wants to stick their dick in me. i don't value that kind of opinion."

Maybe its me but I like to chat before and after sex...

Even been known to speak during sex....

As a man there is obviously something not quiet right here...

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"most of my opening messages are just compliments, i just ignore them.

What kind of message would you rather receive?

most of these people have no pics so i can't even decide if they're mutually attractive anyway. i just wonder why they think i'm even compatible?

not really arsed about messages any more. if i get on with someone then i will and no effort needs to made to chat coz we're both enjoying chatting and can continue chats at any time with intervals in between.

I get that. There's a few women on here i keep in touch with, usually a flurry of messages once in a while. It's good as there's no expectation and no pressure, just occasionally checking in with each other. The problem i find is getting the ball rolling in the first place.

been here a few years, used to be open to chatting to anyone but now yeah i don't wanna chat to anyone and struggle with who i actually reply to coz i found chat tends to go this way on here:

message politely (message could be anything so long as it's not shit or selfish), i'm interested so chat, chat can go on a while or not long but the chat is good, meet for sex, never hear from again until they want more sex.

so i'm loathe to reply to anyone, and the compliments mean nothing to someone like me coz it's someone elses opinion of me who just wants to stick their dick in me. i don't value that kind of opinion."

I can't comment on your experiences suffice it to say you sound a little jaded. If something moves me to send a compliment then i'll do so, and not because i want to 'stick my dick' in them, they're often too far away anyway.

I think it's always nice to receive compliments, that might just be that person's opinion but as far as they're concerned it's a fact and that's good enough for me.

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By *orum TrollWoman  over a year ago

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"most of my opening messages are just compliments, i just ignore them.

What kind of message would you rather receive?

most of these people have no pics so i can't even decide if they're mutually attractive anyway. i just wonder why they think i'm even compatible?

not really arsed about messages any more. if i get on with someone then i will and no effort needs to made to chat coz we're both enjoying chatting and can continue chats at any time with intervals in between.

I get that. There's a few women on here i keep in touch with, usually a flurry of messages once in a while. It's good as there's no expectation and no pressure, just occasionally checking in with each other. The problem i find is getting the ball rolling in the first place.

been here a few years, used to be open to chatting to anyone but now yeah i don't wanna chat to anyone and struggle with who i actually reply to coz i found chat tends to go this way on here:

message politely (message could be anything so long as it's not shit or selfish), i'm interested so chat, chat can go on a while or not long but the chat is good, meet for sex, never hear from again until they want more sex.

so i'm loathe to reply to anyone, and the compliments mean nothing to someone like me coz it's someone elses opinion of me who just wants to stick their dick in me. i don't value that kind of opinion.

Maybe its me but I like to chat before and after sex...

Even been known to speak during sex....

As a man there is obviously something not quiet right here...

"

i just find the inconsistency annoying and somewhat creepy as well.

i know it's a type of manipulation where guys pretend to be what women want and once they got what they want they think they don't have to bother any more so only ever breadcrumb a few days before they want to meet again. i just ignore these men and wonder why they think they can hold my interest by changing tactics from what got me interested in the first place?

and, to add, it does ruin it for other men coz i don't wanna chat now, don't think most people are worth my time or slight bit of effort either.

i just wanna get off this site now, which i'm staying for a very few friends and used to be slightly hopefully i'd find real fuck buddies and not shit users, but i'm well aware there aren't any on sex friends on here, so now all i want is dating, which won't suit me either but at least i'll know where i stand with people before i fuck them...and i ain't fucking any guy until i've met his parents.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"most of my opening messages are just compliments, i just ignore them.

What kind of message would you rather receive?

most of these people have no pics so i can't even decide if they're mutually attractive anyway. i just wonder why they think i'm even compatible?

not really arsed about messages any more. if i get on with someone then i will and no effort needs to made to chat coz we're both enjoying chatting and can continue chats at any time with intervals in between.

I get that. There's a few women on here i keep in touch with, usually a flurry of messages once in a while. It's good as there's no expectation and no pressure, just occasionally checking in with each other. The problem i find is getting the ball rolling in the first place.

been here a few years, used to be open to chatting to anyone but now yeah i don't wanna chat to anyone and struggle with who i actually reply to coz i found chat tends to go this way on here:

message politely (message could be anything so long as it's not shit or selfish), i'm interested so chat, chat can go on a while or not long but the chat is good, meet for sex, never hear from again until they want more sex.

so i'm loathe to reply to anyone, and the compliments mean nothing to someone like me coz it's someone elses opinion of me who just wants to stick their dick in me. i don't value that kind of opinion.

Maybe its me but I like to chat before and after sex...

Even been known to speak during sex....

As a man there is obviously something not quiet right here...

i just find the inconsistency annoying and somewhat creepy as well.

i know it's a type of manipulation where guys pretend to be what women want and once they got what they want they think they don't have to bother any more so only ever breadcrumb a few days before they want to meet again. i just ignore these men and wonder why they think they can hold my interest by changing tactics from what got me interested in the first place?

and, to add, it does ruin it for other men coz i don't wanna chat now, don't think most people are worth my time or slight bit of effort either.

i just wanna get off this site now, which i'm staying for a very few friends and used to be slightly hopefully i'd find real fuck buddies and not shit users, but i'm well aware there aren't any on sex friends on here, so now all i want is dating, which won't suit me either but at least i'll know where i stand with people before i fuck them...and i ain't fucking any guy until i've met his parents.

"

Well, i hope i don't come across as a creepy user, i believe my intentions are always honourable but i can't control the opinions of others, nor would i want to. Only a johari window will reveal the truth.

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By *orum TrollWoman  over a year ago

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"most of my opening messages are just compliments, i just ignore them.

What kind of message would you rather receive?

most of these people have no pics so i can't even decide if they're mutually attractive anyway. i just wonder why they think i'm even compatible?

not really arsed about messages any more. if i get on with someone then i will and no effort needs to made to chat coz we're both enjoying chatting and can continue chats at any time with intervals in between.

I get that. There's a few women on here i keep in touch with, usually a flurry of messages once in a while. It's good as there's no expectation and no pressure, just occasionally checking in with each other. The problem i find is getting the ball rolling in the first place.

been here a few years, used to be open to chatting to anyone but now yeah i don't wanna chat to anyone and struggle with who i actually reply to coz i found chat tends to go this way on here:

message politely (message could be anything so long as it's not shit or selfish), i'm interested so chat, chat can go on a while or not long but the chat is good, meet for sex, never hear from again until they want more sex.

so i'm loathe to reply to anyone, and the compliments mean nothing to someone like me coz it's someone elses opinion of me who just wants to stick their dick in me. i don't value that kind of opinion.

Maybe its me but I like to chat before and after sex...

Even been known to speak during sex....

As a man there is obviously something not quiet right here...

i just find the inconsistency annoying and somewhat creepy as well.

i know it's a type of manipulation where guys pretend to be what women want and once they got what they want they think they don't have to bother any more so only ever breadcrumb a few days before they want to meet again. i just ignore these men and wonder why they think they can hold my interest by changing tactics from what got me interested in the first place?

and, to add, it does ruin it for other men coz i don't wanna chat now, don't think most people are worth my time or slight bit of effort either.

i just wanna get off this site now, which i'm staying for a very few friends and used to be slightly hopefully i'd find real fuck buddies and not shit users, but i'm well aware there aren't any on sex friends on here, so now all i want is dating, which won't suit me either but at least i'll know where i stand with people before i fuck them...and i ain't fucking any guy until i've met his parents.

Well, i hope i don't come across as a creepy user, i believe my intentions are always honourable but i can't control the opinions of others, nor would i want to. Only a johari window will reveal the truth."

not really interacted with you so wouldn't know.

inconsistency and charm are my two definite no nos-on here. as far as i'm concerned they are gonna be the people most likely to piss me off and not be compatable with me at all.

coming across as thick and socially inept is another one, which most of my inbox does unfortunately. stupid, creepy, or sex pests. most of meets inconsistent, neglectful, or controlling.

i'll do alright dating, if i ever bother getting my arse into gear and find guys who aren't like all the guys i've mentioned i have no interest in.

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By *ild_oatsMan  over a year ago

the land of saints & sinners


"most of my opening messages are just compliments, i just ignore them.

What kind of message would you rather receive?

most of these people have no pics so i can't even decide if they're mutually attractive anyway. i just wonder why they think i'm even compatible?

not really arsed about messages any more. if i get on with someone then i will and no effort needs to made to chat coz we're both enjoying chatting and can continue chats at any time with intervals in between.

I get that. There's a few women on here i keep in touch with, usually a flurry of messages once in a while. It's good as there's no expectation and no pressure, just occasionally checking in with each other. The problem i find is getting the ball rolling in the first place.

been here a few years, used to be open to chatting to anyone but now yeah i don't wanna chat to anyone and struggle with who i actually reply to coz i found chat tends to go this way on here:

message politely (message could be anything so long as it's not shit or selfish), i'm interested so chat, chat can go on a while or not long but the chat is good, meet for sex, never hear from again until they want more sex.

so i'm loathe to reply to anyone, and the compliments mean nothing to someone like me coz it's someone elses opinion of me who just wants to stick their dick in me. i don't value that kind of opinion.

Maybe its me but I like to chat before and after sex...

Even been known to speak during sex....

As a man there is obviously something not quiet right here...

i just find the inconsistency annoying and somewhat creepy as well.

i know it's a type of manipulation where guys pretend to be what women want and once they got what they want they think they don't have to bother any more so only ever breadcrumb a few days before they want to meet again. i just ignore these men and wonder why they think they can hold my interest by changing tactics from what got me interested in the first place?

and, to add, it does ruin it for other men coz i don't wanna chat now, don't think most people are worth my time or slight bit of effort either.

i just wanna get off this site now, which i'm staying for a very few friends and used to be slightly hopefully i'd find real fuck buddies and not shit users, but i'm well aware there aren't any on sex friends on here, so now all i want is dating, which won't suit me either but at least i'll know where i stand with people before i fuck them...and i ain't fucking any guy until i've met his parents.

Well, i hope i don't come across as a creepy user, i believe my intentions are always honourable but i can't control the opinions of others, nor would i want to. Only a johari window will reveal the truth.

not really interacted with you so wouldn't know.

inconsistency and charm are my two definite no nos-on here. as far as i'm concerned they are gonna be the people most likely to piss me off and not be compatable with me at all.

coming across as thick and socially inept is another one, which most of my inbox does unfortunately. stupid, creepy, or sex pests. most of meets inconsistent, neglectful, or controlling.

i'll do alright dating, if i ever bother getting my arse into gear and find guys who aren't like all the guys i've mentioned i have no interest in."

Charm is not and never has been one of my strong points... But talking crap is..

I never pretend to be something I'm not... Maybe I overuse my sense of humour...

But WYSIWYG.... Take it or leave it...

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"most of my opening messages are just compliments, i just ignore them.

What kind of message would you rather receive?

most of these people have no pics so i can't even decide if they're mutually attractive anyway. i just wonder why they think i'm even compatible?

not really arsed about messages any more. if i get on with someone then i will and no effort needs to made to chat coz we're both enjoying chatting and can continue chats at any time with intervals in between.

I get that. There's a few women on here i keep in touch with, usually a flurry of messages once in a while. It's good as there's no expectation and no pressure, just occasionally checking in with each other. The problem i find is getting the ball rolling in the first place.

been here a few years, used to be open to chatting to anyone but now yeah i don't wanna chat to anyone and struggle with who i actually reply to coz i found chat tends to go this way on here:

message politely (message could be anything so long as it's not shit or selfish), i'm interested so chat, chat can go on a while or not long but the chat is good, meet for sex, never hear from again until they want more sex.

so i'm loathe to reply to anyone, and the compliments mean nothing to someone like me coz it's someone elses opinion of me who just wants to stick their dick in me. i don't value that kind of opinion.

Maybe its me but I like to chat before and after sex...

Even been known to speak during sex....

As a man there is obviously something not quiet right here...

i just find the inconsistency annoying and somewhat creepy as well.

i know it's a type of manipulation where guys pretend to be what women want and once they got what they want they think they don't have to bother any more so only ever breadcrumb a few days before they want to meet again. i just ignore these men and wonder why they think they can hold my interest by changing tactics from what got me interested in the first place?

and, to add, it does ruin it for other men coz i don't wanna chat now, don't think most people are worth my time or slight bit of effort either.

i just wanna get off this site now, which i'm staying for a very few friends and used to be slightly hopefully i'd find real fuck buddies and not shit users, but i'm well aware there aren't any on sex friends on here, so now all i want is dating, which won't suit me either but at least i'll know where i stand with people before i fuck them...and i ain't fucking any guy until i've met his parents.

Well, i hope i don't come across as a creepy user, i believe my intentions are always honourable but i can't control the opinions of others, nor would i want to. Only a johari window will reveal the truth.

not really interacted with you so wouldn't know.

inconsistency and charm are my two definite no nos-on here. as far as i'm concerned they are gonna be the people most likely to piss me off and not be compatable with me at all.

coming across as thick and socially inept is another one, which most of my inbox does unfortunately. stupid, creepy, or sex pests. most of meets inconsistent, neglectful, or controlling.

i'll do alright dating, if i ever bother getting my arse into gear and find guys who aren't like all the guys i've mentioned i have no interest in."

We haven't interacted at all so i don't expect you to come to any kind of conclusion about me. I was referring to female members in general, not you personally. It seems that separating the wheat from the chaff is something women are faced with on a daily basis here so i guess it's easy to become disillusioned but i sincerely wish you the best of luck and that you find what it is you're looking for.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

One message that really gets on my tits is hi what you up too .Are they bothered ? No ! Do they care? NO .SO why ask ? rant over

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"FaF? "

I prefer TU.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"The worse one is 'how you finding fab'. It's not rude or crude but damn right annoying "

But how do you find Fab? Phone? Tablet? PC? Laptop?

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By *ild_oatsMan  over a year ago

the land of saints & sinners


"The worse one is 'how you finding fab'. It's not rude or crude but damn right annoying

But how do you find Fab? Phone? Tablet? PC? Laptop?"

Google normally does the trick...

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By *andsonjohnMan  over a year ago

in the eye of the storm


"One message that really gets on my tits is hi what you up too .Are they bothered ? No ! Do they care? NO .SO why ask ? rant over "

How are you ...?

What you up to ...? Apart from getting your knickers in a twist over a few none sexual message a

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