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By *yldstyle OP Woman
over a year ago
A world of my own |
I read the "I love you" thread and I realised how much I miss those words.
Although now I realise they were often empty, I miss them in my ear or popping up on my phone daily.
What things do you lot miss hearing? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I actually miss getting compliments from girl about my behaviour, I know my ego is huge but they made me feel so good inside  "
Your a very good boy well done  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"My mum's voice.. Doesn't matter what she was saying  "
Definitely this for me as well. I would love to hear my mum's voice again. It's in my head but that isn't quite the same and her voice was full of warmth and affection
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"There aren't things I miss hearing, there *are* things I yearn to hear for the first time. 
That's sad... but you will hear it when it's time x"
Oh gosh, I'm not sad...I'm excited and hopeful.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I'm miss being held probably more than the words
It can be lonely at times being in my bed
on my own ...
Would be nice to have a pair of arms around me as I fall asleep
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"There aren't things I miss hearing, there *are* things I yearn to hear for the first time.
That's sad... but you will hear it when it's time x
Oh gosh, I'm not sad...I'm excited and hopeful. "
No didn't mean it quite that way, from what I've seen of you and your lovely spirit any guy would be lucky |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Having someone who's compliments I actually believed they meant. I just think people are lying 99% of the time, but whenever she said them I knew she was being honest |
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By *uxom redCouple
over a year ago
Shrewsbury |
"I'm miss being held probably more than the words
It can be lonely at times being in my bed
on my own ...
Would be nice to have a pair of arms around me as I fall asleep
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Boobie hugs and warm arms from us both |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"There aren't things I miss hearing, there *are* things I yearn to hear for the first time.
That's sad... but you will hear it when it's time x
Oh gosh, I'm not sad...I'm excited and hopeful.
No didn't mean it quite that way, from what I've seen of you and your lovely spirit any guy would be lucky "
Ohhhh!! Well that's a wonderful thing to hear (read) right there!! Thank you kindly x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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There are lots of things I miss hearing....
Crickets and lightning bugs filling an otherwise silent summer night.
My father arguing politics with me.
The national anthem at the start of a baseball game.
I could go on.... |
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"There are lots of things I miss hearing....
Crickets and lightning bugs filling an otherwise silent summer night.
My father arguing politics with me.
The national anthem at the start of a baseball game.
I could go on...."
Oh god I miss crickets, love hearing them in movies |
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By *yldstyle OP Woman
over a year ago
A world of my own |
"I'm miss being held probably more than the words
It can be lonely at times being in my bed
on my own ...
Would be nice to have a pair of arms around me as I fall asleep
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This for me too.. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I'm miss being held probably more than the words
It can be lonely at times being in my bed
on my own ...
Would be nice to have a pair of arms around me as I fall asleep
Boobie hugs and warm arms from us both "
Thank you xxx |
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By *yldstyle OP Woman
over a year ago
A world of my own |
I miss my gran and my dad. The phone calls and the laughs, the feeling of calm and safety they both gave me.
I'm sorry I started this thread its possibly thoroughly depressed everyone! Xx |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I miss my gran and my dad. The phone calls and the laughs, the feeling of calm and safety they both gave me.
I'm sorry I started this thread its possibly thoroughly depressed everyone! Xx"
I'm not depressed. It's nice to stop and remember. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I miss my gran and my dad. The phone calls and the laughs, the feeling of calm and safety they both gave me.
I'm sorry I started this thread its possibly thoroughly depressed everyone! Xx"
Never apologise never explain 
I miss a voice I never heard |
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"I miss my gran and my dad. The phone calls and the laughs, the feeling of calm and safety they both gave me.
I'm sorry I started this thread its possibly thoroughly depressed everyone! Xx"
Don't say such things, if something is missed it is bound to trigger some emotions.
I miss being told "you are always on my mind"
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I miss my gran and my dad. The phone calls and the laughs, the feeling of calm and safety they both gave me.
I'm sorry I started this thread its possibly thoroughly depressed everyone! Xx"
I got a lovely compliment on the thread, so thank you for facilitating that!  |
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By *eerobCouple
over a year ago
solihull |
"I'm miss being held probably more than the words
It can be lonely at times being in my bed
on my own ...
Would be nice to have a pair of arms around me as I fall asleep
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Well if it helps you look very cuddlyable |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I miss my gran and my dad. The phone calls and the laughs, the feeling of calm and safety they both gave me.
I'm sorry I started this thread its possibly thoroughly depressed everyone! Xx"
No apology needed, it's made me think of things I'd tried to forget but for the wrong reason. Things I wouldn't at moment feel comfortable writing about on here now, but seeing others are missing a range of things gives a different perspective for the better.
Thank you, great post. |
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"I miss my gran and my dad. The phone calls and the laughs, the feeling of calm and safety they both gave me.
I'm sorry I started this thread its possibly thoroughly depressed everyone! Xx"
Don't worry the sadness of the missing is soon replaced by the happiness of the memories |
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By *s_macWoman
over a year ago
Traffic land |
I miss my Dad's snigger when he found something really funny, I can see his face screwed up but worry I'll forget the sound. And I miss his whistling too, he did it all of the time, such a comforting sound as I knew he was happy. |
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Miss two people no longer hear: the laugh of my 'soulmate' George - he was gay but we so close that his partner thought we were having an affair!!!
He was always always positive no matter how poorly he felt! And always greeted me with hi gorgeous! Lost to AIDS in 2009
And my sis in law - would love to pick up the phone and hear either of them again, at least with her I can go on her Facebook and watch a couple of vids of her  and with them both last thing I said was ' I love you' if you do then tell people! |
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"Miss two people no longer hear: the laugh of my 'soulmate' George - he was gay but we so close that his partner thought we were having an affair!!!
He was always always positive no matter how poorly he felt! And always greeted me with hi gorgeous! Lost to AIDS in 2009
And my sis in law - would love to pick up the phone and hear either of them again, at least with her I can go on her Facebook and watch a couple of vids of her and with them both last thing I said was ' I love you' if you do then tell people! "
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Oh my, this thread is so sad. I think something flew into my eye whilst reading it..honest!
I miss so many things, things that I took for granted when they were first spoken and now can never be heard again.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I'm miss being held probably more than the words
It can be lonely at times being in my bed
on my own ...
Would be nice to have a pair of arms around me as I fall asleep
Well if it helps you look very cuddlyable"
I love cuddles !!
My kids are teenagers now and you would think I was giving them the plague if I give a cuddle lol |
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"I'm miss being held probably more than the words
It can be lonely at times being in my bed
on my own ...
Would be nice to have a pair of arms around me as I fall asleep
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Can definitely agree with this!! Sometimes being single and nsa stuff isn't all its cracked up to be |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I'm miss being held probably more than the words
It can be lonely at times being in my bed
on my own ...
Would be nice to have a pair of arms around me as I fall asleep
Can definitely agree with this!! Sometimes being single and nsa stuff isn't all its cracked up to be "
It's a real downside. I always enjoyed having someone fall asleep on me |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I miss hearing my phone make a particular ping
V x
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Ha yeah I know them feels. Individual WhatsApp alerts. I've fucking exhausted almost all of them and won't hear any of them again. The harp the fucking boing, they've all disappeared! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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My kids went away with their dad for 2 weeks on holiday last month ( we are divorced 10yrs) but it was the first I haven't had the kids away from me in that 10yrs and honest to god I have never felt lonely up until then ...
I've always been busy being single mum and working full time...
So busy busy busy !
It was horrendous coming home to an empty house, no mess, no cleaning up or loud music or bickering !!
I felt properly lonely for the first time
I even had a Bridget Jones evening were I got d*unk singing nobody loves me songs and cried
And it got me thinking I've been on my own for 10yrs and no relationship as such, yes I've had flings but not the sort I would of brought that person into my kids lives, sort of secret flings ...
Now I'm thinking wow is this for me, I'm 40 and am I just going to be on my own from now on...... |
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"My kids went away with their dad for 2 weeks on holiday last month ( we are divorced 10yrs) but it was the first I haven't had the kids away from me in that 10yrs and honest to god I have never felt lonely up until then ...
I've always been busy being single mum and working full time...
So busy busy busy !
It was horrendous coming home to an empty house, no mess, no cleaning up or loud music or bickering !!
I felt properly lonely for the first time
I even had a Bridget Jones evening were I got d*unk singing nobody loves me songs and cried
And it got me thinking I've been on my own for 10yrs and no relationship as such, yes I've had flings but not the sort I would of brought that person into my kids lives, sort of secret flings ...
Now I'm thinking wow is this for me, I'm 40 and am I just going to be on my own from now on...... "
Now that feeling x |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"My kids went away with their dad for 2 weeks on holiday last month ( we are divorced 10yrs) but it was the first I haven't had the kids away from me in that 10yrs and honest to god I have never felt lonely up until then ...
I've always been busy being single mum and working full time...
So busy busy busy !
It was horrendous coming home to an empty house, no mess, no cleaning up or loud music or bickering !!
I felt properly lonely for the first time
I even had a Bridget Jones evening were I got d*unk singing nobody loves me songs and cried
And it got me thinking I've been on my own for 10yrs and no relationship as such, yes I've had flings but not the sort I would of brought that person into my kids lives, sort of secret flings ...
Now I'm thinking wow is this for me, I'm 40 and am I just going to be on my own from now on...... "
That's how I feel. 8 years single now and I'm just getting worse and worse and feel things harder and harder. Feel like I never even want to speak to a guy cos I can't even deal with it. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"My kids went away with their dad for 2 weeks on holiday last month ( we are divorced 10yrs) but it was the first I haven't had the kids away from me in that 10yrs and honest to god I have never felt lonely up until then ...
I've always been busy being single mum and working full time...
So busy busy busy !
It was horrendous coming home to an empty house, no mess, no cleaning up or loud music or bickering !!
I felt properly lonely for the first time
I even had a Bridget Jones evening were I got d*unk singing nobody loves me songs and cried
And it got me thinking I've been on my own for 10yrs and no relationship as such, yes I've had flings but not the sort I would of brought that person into my kids lives, sort of secret flings ...
Now I'm thinking wow is this for me, I'm 40 and am I just going to be on my own from now on......
That's how I feel. 8 years single now and I'm just getting worse and worse and feel things harder and harder. Feel like I never even want to speak to a guy cos I can't even deal with it. "
I just spent so many years thinking I don't want people thinking
" oh she is a single mum on benefits and boyfriend after boyfriend "
I pushed away any man that was interested and have worked my ass off just so I can say I pay my own bills all by myself and I look after my kids
I sort of have " I'm an island attitude "
And the two weeks the kids were away I realised without the kids who are teenagers 14 and 19, I actually haven't anyone for me |
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"My kids went away with their dad for 2 weeks on holiday last month ( we are divorced 10yrs) but it was the first I haven't had the kids away from me in that 10yrs and honest to god I have never felt lonely up until then ...
I've always been busy being single mum and working full time...
So busy busy busy !
It was horrendous coming home to an empty house, no mess, no cleaning up or loud music or bickering !!
I felt properly lonely for the first time
I even had a Bridget Jones evening were I got d*unk singing nobody loves me songs and cried
And it got me thinking I've been on my own for 10yrs and no relationship as such, yes I've had flings but not the sort I would of brought that person into my kids lives, sort of secret flings ...
Now I'm thinking wow is this for me, I'm 40 and am I just going to be on my own from now on......
That's how I feel. 8 years single now and I'm just getting worse and worse and feel things harder and harder. Feel like I never even want to speak to a guy cos I can't even deal with it.
I just spent so many years thinking I don't want people thinking
" oh she is a single mum on benefits and boyfriend after boyfriend "
I pushed away any man that was interested and have worked my ass off just so I can say I pay my own bills all by myself and I look after my kids
I sort of have " I'm an island attitude "
And the two weeks the kids were away I realised without the kids who are teenagers 14 and 19, I actually haven't anyone for me "
I've spent my life pretty much the same way. Working to much proving to myself as well as others just what I can do all the while in the back of my mind thinking it's fine you've plenty of time to enjoy your life when your comfortable. What a cock yes I'm comfortable and my life from the outside has been a success but some how it's all slipped away and that time I always thought I'd have has vanished.... |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"My kids went away with their dad for 2 weeks on holiday last month ( we are divorced 10yrs) but it was the first I haven't had the kids away from me in that 10yrs and honest to god I have never felt lonely up until then ...
I've always been busy being single mum and working full time...
So busy busy busy !
It was horrendous coming home to an empty house, no mess, no cleaning up or loud music or bickering !!
I felt properly lonely for the first time
I even had a Bridget Jones evening were I got d*unk singing nobody loves me songs and cried
And it got me thinking I've been on my own for 10yrs and no relationship as such, yes I've had flings but not the sort I would of brought that person into my kids lives, sort of secret flings ...
Now I'm thinking wow is this for me, I'm 40 and am I just going to be on my own from now on...... "
It doesn't always work out that way. Life is for living for taking chances for following your dream. And daring to step outside your comfort zone. If we don't we all all destined to what may feel like grounding day...if we do we may fail. But trying and failing is part of being alive rather than just existing. Whatever your dream is follow it ...who knows where it may lead or how it will change your life.
I do know if we always do the same thing we always get the same result...so tomorrow do something different take a chance on anything ...it doesn't matter what it is. Your life may not change overnight but taking a first step to changing things is the only way our lives ever change.
I wish you the bravery to do something different...the vision to see the future you desire..the luck to find your dream whatever it may be... |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Miss the kiss goodbye when he left for work and the morning text I'd wake up too, think it's more the text, just knowing someone was thinking of me *sigh* |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Sorry guys for bumming you out
I don't say how I feel in that way with everyone in my normal life ...
I'm Miss Happy with everyone else ...
It just sort of came out in this thread :-/ |
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"Sorry guys for bumming you out
I don't say how I feel in that way with everyone in my normal life ...
I'm Miss Happy with everyone else ...
It just sort of came out in this thread :-/"
Gets us all at some point sweet it just happened to be the same point in time for me to  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Sorry guys for bumming you out
I don't say how I feel in that way with everyone in my normal life ...
I'm Miss Happy with everyone else ...
It just sort of came out in this thread :-/"
Don't apologise, in a misery loves company kind of way it's nice (wrong word) comforting (better word) to know that other people are in the same boat and not everyone is insanely happy!
When my daughter goes to her dads every other weekend fri to sun, it's like right do all the uniforms and bedding Friday night, tidy up and iron Saturday day and now what!? |
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By (user no longer on site)
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I've got 3 grandchildren now, and for some reason it's stirring up memories of my lot been little, and how I didn't treasure it, as much as I should of. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Sorry guys for bumming you out
I don't say how I feel in that way with everyone in my normal life ...
I'm Miss Happy with everyone else ...
It just sort of came out in this thread :-/"
Hope your feeling happy today. If not it's your right to feel sad at times to be reflective to wonder about the future and whatever it may bring...
There are times every one feels the need to connect with others to seek reassurance to feel more than the everyday...and sometimes to even feel the comfort of the familiar and everyday too.
We can listen empathise even give advice...but this is your life...it is precious and should be nurtured. There are times when we all need to do things for ourselves rather than others....the real secret is probably to find your dream nurture it make it real...only that way do we ever find the peace we seek.
I wish you well in that search wherever it leads you.
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