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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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So, I joined that 'Twinder site last week, thought I may as well give it ago.
Nothing ventured nothing gained right?
Matched with a seemingly decent guy on Saturday, met for coffee Sunday & met for dinner Monday!
All going rather well....
Except, it's bloomin hard in the vanilla world!
I just want to get in his pants & have a good romp 
He's a perfect gent, already said he's not into just jumping in bed and that we'll respect each other more if we waited etc
We get in great, have so much in common & the chat and banter just flows really easy.
I've told him I'm a bit non-vanilla & he hasn't run off screaming!
We're also both of the mindset that we won't multi date.
So is this it? Am I officially dating a decent guy? |
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I'm not sure how not having sex with you makes him more decent or more respectful. If you both want it what's the point in waiting.
If you were reluctant to have sex early in relationship then fine but you're not...he is so really you're the decent one for respecting his wishes. |
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"I'm not sure how not having sex with you makes him more decent or more respectful. If you both want it what's the point in waiting.
If you were reluctant to have sex early in relationship then fine but you're not...he is so really you're the decent one for respecting his wishes."
I see what you're saying, but it's kinda nice to meet someone with what I class as old fashion values.
Not saying it will be months mind you, I couldn't hold out that long |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"So, I joined that 'Twinder site last week, thought I may as well give it ago.
Nothing ventured nothing gained right?
Matched with a seemingly decent guy on Saturday, met for coffee Sunday & met for dinner Monday!
All going rather well....
Except, it's bloomin hard in the vanilla world!
I just want to get in his pants & have a good romp
Just done the same and dump him a few weeks on. I'll stick to what I know all else is too much like too hard work.
He's a perfect gent, already said he's not into just jumping in bed and that we'll respect each other more if we waited etc
We get in great, have so much in common & the chat and banter just flows really easy.
I've told him I'm a bit non-vanilla & he hasn't run off screaming!
We're also both of the mindset that we won't multi date.
So is this it? Am I officially dating a decent guy?"
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"I'm not sure how not having sex with you makes him more decent or more respectful. If you both want it what's the point in waiting.
If you were reluctant to have sex early in relationship then fine but you're not...he is so really you're the decent one for respecting his wishes.
I see what you're saying, but it's kinda nice to meet someone with what I class as old fashion values.
Not saying it will be months mind you, I couldn't hold out that long "
I wish you well. |
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"I think i might give real dating a go again.
Getting a bit fed up of the lip service you get on here."
I joined a real proper dating site a few days ago ... 140 views so far but not one single message!! Disenchanted dot com already. |
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